在这个充满无限可能的自我实现旅程中，让我们以“释放执行意念，自我关爱”为航标，用23个智慧语句点亮生活的每一个角落。

In this journey of self-actualization filled with infinite possibilities, let us set the beacon of "release the executive will, self-love" and illuminate every corner of life with 23 wise sayings.

1. 人性一个最特别的弱点就是：过于在意别人如何看待自己。这一程，愿你活得烈马青葱，不为他人的目光所累。

1. One of the most peculiar weaknesses of human nature is that we are overly concerned about what others think of us. On this journey, may you live a vibrant and youthful life, not burdened by the gaze of others.

2. 渐渐发现，我的身边已经走了那么多人，原来有些人，不知不觉，就淡了关系。

2. Gradually, I've realized that so many people have left my side. It turns out that some people have become distant without me even realizing it.

3. 9众人指的路无疑是正确的，至少是康庄大道，于是，我们许多人就被拧成一股绳，去挤，这条路便成了主流。生活也就少了那些特立独行的可爱的人，偶尔一两人站出来不去挤那条独木桥，他们便成了鲜明的标志。

3.9 The path pointed out by the crowd is undoubtedly correct, at least it is a broad avenue, so many of us have been united as one, squeezing our way through, and this path has become the mainstream. Life has lost those lovely individuals who stand out, and occasionally, one or two people step forward to avoid the crowded bridge, and they become striking symbols.

4. 不要到处宣扬自己的内心，这世上不止你一个人有故事。

4. Do not boast about your innermost thoughts everywhere, there are not just your stories in this world.

5. 想要得到的一定要努力;累了把心靠岸;选择了就不要后悔;苦了才懂得满足;痛了才享受生活;伤了才明白坚强;总有起风的清晨;总有绚烂的黄昏;总有流星的夜晚。人生就像一张有去无回的单程车票，没有彩排，每一场都是现场直播

5. You must strive for what you want; when you're tired, let your heart rest; once you've made a choice, don't regret it; you only understand satisfaction when you're in pain; you only enjoy life when you're hurt; you only understand strength when you're injured; there will always be windy mornings; there will always be splendid sunsets; there will always be starry nights. Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, without any rehearsal, every moment is live.

6. 没有人可以带走你的痛，所以也别让任何人带走你的幸福。

6. No one can take away your pain, so don't let anyone take away your happiness either.

7. 生活本不苦，苦的是我们欲望过多，人心本无累，累的是放不下的太多。

7. Life itself is not bitter; what makes it bitter is our excessive desires. The human heart is not inherently burdened; what burdens it is the too many things we can't let go of.

8. 生命犹如一片绿叶，随着时间的流逝，慢慢变的枯黄。它的叶脉还是那么清晰可见。

8. Life is like a green leaf, which gradually turns yellow with the passage of time. Its leaf veins are still as clearly visible.

9. 可以相信别人，但不可以指望别人；可以拒绝他人，但不要停止微笑；错误可以犯，但不可以重复犯；批评一定要接受，但绝对不盲目。该说的要说，该哑的要哑，是一种聪明；该干的要干，该退的要退，是一种睿智；该显的要显，该藏的要藏，是一种境界。

9. You can believe in others, but don't expect too much from them; you can refuse others, but don't stop smiling; you can make mistakes, but don't repeat them; criticism must be accepted, but never blindly. To speak what needs to be said and be silent when necessary is wisdom; to do what needs to be done and to step back when required is insight; to reveal what needs to be revealed and to conceal what needs to be concealed is a level of accomplishment.

10. 做人需简单，不沉迷幻想，不茫然未来，走今天的路，过当下的生活。

10. Be simple in life, not obsessed with illusions, not confused about the future, walk the path of today, and live the life of the present.

11. 年轻的好处，是可以在没有看清楚这个世界之前，做率性的事。荒唐也好，可笑也好，那都是无悔的青春。

11. The benefit of being young is that one can do impulsive things before fully understanding this world. Whether it's foolish or可笑, it all constitutes a regretless youth.

12. 不要以自己的眼光和认知去评论一个人，判断一件事的对错。不要苛求别人的观点与你相同，不要期望别人能完全理解你，每个人都有自己的性格和观点。

12. Do not judge a person or assess the right or wrong of a matter based on your own perspective and cognition. Do not demand that others' opinions align with yours, and do not expect others to fully understand you. Everyone has their own personality and viewpoints.

13. 陪你到最后的那个人永远只有你自己，但是，曾经陪伴过你的那些人存在的痕迹却永远不会消失。

13. The only person who will accompany you to the end is yourself, but the traces left by those who once accompanied you will never disappear.

14. 沉淀自己的心，静观事态变迁。有些事，需忍，勿怒;有些人，需让，勿究。

14. Settle your own heart, calmly observe the changes in events. There are things that require patience, not anger; and there are people who require tolerance, not pursuit.

15. 学会感恩。感恩大自然的福佑，感恩父母的养育，感恩社会的安定，感恩食之香甜，感恩衣之温暖，感恩花草鱼虫，感恩苦难逆境。生活的可悲之处在于：当你真正生活时，生活却快要结束了;当你懂得怎样生活时，生活往往反倒没趣了。生活是一面镜子，强者创新生活，弱者适应生活

15. Learn to be grateful. Be grateful for the blessings of nature, for the nurturing of your parents, for the stability of society, for the sweetness of the food, for the warmth of the clothing, for the beauty of flowers, grass, fish, and insects, and for the hardships and adversities. The tragedy of life is: when you are truly living, life is almost over; and when you understand how to live, life often becomes boring. Life is a mirror: the strong innovate in life, and the weak adapt to life.

16. 被人暖一下就发热，被人冷一下就成冰，原谅我这一生爱憎太分明。

16. Warmed by others and I feel hot, cooled by others and I turn to ice, forgive me for my clear-cut love and hate throughout my life.

17. 能吃亏的人，人缘必然好，人缘好的人机会自然多，人的一生能抓住一两次机会，足矣! 吃亏是福;爱占便宜的人，终究占不了便宜，捡到一棵草，失去一片森林，你看那些一到买单就上厕所或钱包半天掏不出来的聪明人，基本上都没啥成就。金钱如粪土，仁义值千金。早安~

17. People who can endure loss will have good relationships, and those with good relationships will naturally have more opportunities. In a person's life, being able to grasp one or two opportunities is enough! Enduring loss brings fortune; those who love to take advantage will never really gain. They might pick up a blade of grass and lose a whole forest. Look at those smart people who run to the bathroom or can't find their wallet when it's time to pay, they basically haven't achieved much. Money is like manure, while benevolence and righteousness are worth ten thousand. Good morning!

18. 22心本身不大，千万不要背负太多。昨天的纠结，只会囚禁你的今天和明天。人生，一定要学会释放!

18. The heart itself is not big, please don't carry too much burden. Yesterday's纠结 will only confine your today and tomorrow. Life, you must learn to let go!

19. 19命运掌握在自己手中，若生活是一张白纸，我们用年华做笔，在上面描绘出属于我们自己的人生，你若用心画，便是一幅完美的画，努力是一种人生态度，拼搏是一种人生动力，命运总是会偏袒那些有梦想的人。

19. 19. Destiny is in one's own hands. If life is a blank canvas, we use our years as a pen to paint our own life story on it. If you paint with heart, it becomes a perfect masterpiece. Effort is a life philosophy, struggle is a life motivation, and destiny always favors those who have dreams.

20. 人生一世，草木一春，弹指一挥间，转瞬即逝，都是浮云，千万不要计较太多，顾虑太多。一个人计较的东西多了，难免会累，对别人宽容就是对自己宽容；顾虑的东西多了，同样会累，凡事尽心就好，其实，一个人的快乐不是他拥有得多，而是他计较得少。

20. In a lifetime, the seasons of trees and grass come and go, fleeting as a moment's flicker, all like fleeting clouds. Never count too much, nor worry too much. If one counts too much, one is bound to feel tired; being宽容 to others is being宽容 to oneself. If one worries too much, one will also feel tired. It is enough to do one's best in everything. In fact, a person's happiness does not lie in how much they possess, but in how little they count.

21. 人这一生难免会遇到你不乐意的事，你可以冷眼看世，但是心里一定要明白，孰是孰非，学会释怀坦然，再用一颗明亮的心去善待世界，不求尽善尽美，但求无愧于心，足矣！

21. In this life, it is inevitable that you will encounter things you don't like. You can observe the world with a cold eye, but you must always be clear in your heart about what is right and what is wrong. Learn to let go and be at ease, and then approach the world with a bright heart, not seeking perfection, but only hoping to be guilt-free, that is enough!

22. 一个人最好的模样大概是平静一点，坦然接受自己所有的弱点，不再因为别人过得好而焦虑，在没有人看得到你的时候依旧能保持节奏。这样或许会走得很慢，但会走的比谁都坚实，不用害怕一脚踩空，也不用害怕走到别人的轨道上去。

22. The best appearance of a person is probably to be a bit more peaceful, to calmly accept all of one's weaknesses, and no longer to worry about others' well-being, but to maintain a rhythm even when no one is watching. This may be slower, but it will be more solid than anyone else's, without the fear of stepping into a void, nor the fear of veering onto someone else's path.

23. 17记忆这样的东西，放他走，给他自由，要比禁锢他，每天提醒着你痛苦的过往，要来得明智。

23. Remembering such things and letting him go, giving him freedom, is wiser than confining him and reminding yourself daily of the painful past.

24. 7人的一生也正如太阳的一天。早晨为人们带来曙光，傍晚为人们带来黑暗。一天也就如此。有深，有浅，有起，有落，生活亦是这般变化的，晴天雨天都是必经。你能懂得，你便从容。我不羡慕别人的收入因为我知道他日日夜夜的艰辛

24. The life of a person is like a day of the sun. In the morning, it brings the dawn to people, and in the evening, it brings darkness. A day is just like that. There are depths and shallows, rises and falls, and life also changes in this way, with both sunny and rainy days being inevitable. If you understand this, you will be at ease. I don't envy others' income because I know how hard they work day and night.

25. 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

25. Regardless of the circumstances, one's deliberate descent into degradation is always unworthy of forgiveness. The less loved one is, the more one should love oneself.

26. 人的心像一面镜子，照着神圣、美好的东西，它就反射出神圣与美好如果照着污泥，反射出来的一定也是污泥。

26. The human heart is like a mirror; if it reflects sacred and beautiful things, it will reflect the sacred and beautiful. If it reflects mud, what it reflects back will definitely be mud.

27. 发怒，是用别人的错误惩罚自己；烦恼，是用自己的过失折磨自己；后悔，是用无奈的往事摧残自己；忧虑，是用虚拟的风险惊吓自己；孤独，是用自制的牢房禁锢自己；自卑，是用别人的长处抵毁自己自己把握自己，善待自己。

27. Anger is using others' mistakes to punish oneself; worry is using one's own faults to torment oneself; regret is using helplessness to torment oneself with past events; anxiety is using hypothetical risks to scare oneself; loneliness is using self-made prisons to confine oneself; inferiority is using others' strengths to undermine oneself. To be in control of oneself and treat oneself kindly.

28. 3人生中各种事情的发生是因为有了让它发生的条件，让该发生的发生，该结束的也就必须结束。人的聚散离合也是一样，而且必然有自己的一份责任。所以，既然决定分手，便要真的放下。

28. The occurrence of various things in life is due to the conditions that allow them to happen. What needs to happen should happen, and what needs to end should also come to an end. This is also true for the coming together and parting of people, and there is inevitably a portion of responsibility on each person's part. Therefore, since the decision to separate has been made, one should truly let go.

29. 12爱的特质是我们与生俱来的，还是需要第一朵火花来点燃。对孩子来说，那朵火花就是知道自己被爱。孩子一旦感到真的被扶持着，也就是父母给予温暖的接触和温柔的空间，让孩子做他们自己，他们就会觉得被爱。

29. 12 The question is whether the qualities of love are innate in us or if they require the first spark to ignite. For children, that spark is knowing that they are loved. Once a child feels truly supported, that is, when parents provide warm physical contact and a gentle space that allows the child to be themselves, they will feel loved.

30. 每个人都有一首属于自己的歌，不是因为歌的旋律有多动听或歌词写的多美，而是因为这首歌在唱着你的故事。

30. Everyone has a song of their own, not because the melody is particularly enchanting or the lyrics are beautifully written, but because this song is singing your story.

31. 怎么可能会好起来？如果你爱过你就不要问这样的问题。其实世上没有什么好的爱情和坏的爱情，只有实现了的爱情和夭折了的爱情。我们是受过了伤痛，余生都在流血的人。

31. How could it possibly get better? If you have ever loved someone, don't ask such questions. In fact, there is no such thing as good love or bad love in the world; there is only love that has been realized and love that has been aborted. We are those who have endured pain, and the rest of our lives are spent bleeding.

32. 安身和立命：进不丧己，退不危身，达不失忠，颓不失行。

32. To settle and establish oneself: advance without losing oneself, retreat without endangering one's body, succeed without losing one's loyalty, and decline without losing one's integrity.

33. 人的一生其实就是八个字：学会做事，学会做人。人的优雅关键在于控制自己的情绪。你不能左右天气，但能转变自己的心情。学会控制情绪是成功的前题。

33. The essence of a person's life is summed up in eight characters: learn to do things, learn to be a person. A person's elegance lies in their ability to control their own emotions. You cannot control the weather, but you can change your own mood. Learning to control emotions is a prerequisite for success.

34. 我不是碰不到更好的人，而是因为已经喜欢你，我不想在碰到更好的。我不是不会对别人动心，而是因为已经喜欢你，我就觉得没必要对其他人动心。我不是不会爱上别的人，而是我更加懂得珍惜你，能在一起不容易，已经选定的人就不要随便放手。世界上好的人数不清，但遇到你就已经足够。

34. It's not that I can't meet someone better, but because I already like you, I don't want to meet anyone better. It's not that I can't fall for someone else, but because I already like you, I feel it's unnecessary to fall for others. It's not that I can't fall in love with someone else, but I have a deeper understanding of cherishing you. It's not easy to be together, so don't let go of the person you've already chosen. There are countless good people in the world, but meeting you is enough.

35. 20不要为了迎合所有人，把自己过得这么累，费尽心思让所有人都开心，你会忘了自己该怎么笑。

35. Don't overexert yourself trying to please everyone, making your life so tiring. Striving to make everyone happy, you might forget how to smile.

36. 沉默，是一种坚强。稻熟低穗，人熟低声。历经一些艰难岁月的人，姿势不再张扬，语气渐趋平和，态度明显和善。不是没了锐气，而是少了张狂和轻浮。有故事的人，通常不喜欢讲故事。沉默，是他的基调。沉默，是一种负重的坚强，是一种韬光养晦的低调。少说多做，才是最有力的践行。早安~

36. Silence is a form of strength. Like rice is ripe with low ears, and people are mature with low voices. Those who have endured some tough years no longer adopt an exaggerated posture, their tone becomes increasingly平和, and their attitude is notably kind. It's not that they have lost their sharpness, but rather they have shed flamboyance and triviality. People with stories usually don't like to tell them. Silence is the essence of their character. Silence is a strong silence that carries burdens, a modesty that hides its light under a bushel. Less talk, more action, is the most powerful form of practice. Good morning~

37. 应该趁着年轻和喜欢的人一起制造些比春天还要温暖的事。

37. One should create some warm moments with the person they like while they are young.

38. 2一个人快乐与否，也常常与是否清楚自己想要什么有关。可能你工作了十年，或者已经结婚十年，却依旧觉得不快乐。这也许是因为你一直都按照他人的要求来生活，你努力想把自己变成一个“平凡人”，继而也丢掉了做"自己"的可能性。

38.2 Whether a person is happy or not is often related to whether they are clear about what they want. Maybe you have worked for ten years or been married for ten years, yet you still feel unhappy. This might be because you have been living according to others' requirements all along, trying hard to become an "ordinary person," and in the process, also losing the possibility of being "yourself."

39. 21我们理直气壮：“我要证明给你看，你最好别惹我，对我最好小心一点。”于是我们当下就有了立足之地。更有甚者，抓住怨气不仅可以使别人显得不好或错误，而且可以使自己显得更好。这是错误的人生之路。

39. 21 We were confident and bold: "I will show you, you had better not惹 me, be more careful with me." And we immediately found our ground. Moreover, holding onto resentment not only makes others seem bad or wrong, but also makes oneself seem better. This is the wrong path in life.

40. 8万事都有两个极端，还有一个平衡点。这么说，可能一般人不太懂，我们看看天平就知道这个道理了。中国人都习惯于走极端，很少有在平衡点的时候。前面说了根源之一是“缺乏关爱”，这里说是“关爱过了头”，这就是我们的家长习惯于走的极端。

40. 8 Everything has two extremes and a balance point. To put it that way, it may not be easily understood by most people, but we can see this principle by looking at a scale. Chinese people are accustomed to taking extremes, and there are rarely any instances where they are at the balance point. As mentioned earlier, one of the roots is "a lack of care," but here it is said to be "over-caring," which is the extreme that our parents are prone to.

41. 你学过的每一样东西，你遭受的每一次苦难，都会在你一生中的某个时候派上用场。

41. Everything you have learned, every hardship you have endured, will come in handy at some point in your life.

42. 人们的心灵，就像一块土地，假如你不种上美好的种子，结出美好果实，那土地便会杂草丛生，即便你种上美好的种子，不懂得除草耕耘一样会杂草丛生，杂草就是你的私心贪欲和邪念，他在不经意间就会滋生！所以人们不光要心灵美好，还要时刻坚持反省检讨自己的错误。

42. The soul of a person is like a piece of land. If you do not plant good seeds and harvest good fruits, the land will be overgrown with weeds. Even if you plant good seeds but do not know how to remove the weeds and cultivate the land, the weeds will still grow. The weeds are your selfish desires and evil thoughts, which can sprout up inadvertently! Therefore, people not only need to have a good soul but also need to constantly reflect and examine their own mistakes.

43. 人天生就懂得忠于自己，拒绝自己是一件痛苦的事情。如果你经常性地违背自己的意愿行事，也就是不得不抛弃本真而对自己虚伪，就只有一种情况，那就是你还未强大到能不依赖于任何人。

43. People are born with the understanding of loyalty to oneself, and rejecting oneself is a painful thing. If you frequently act against your own will, which means you have to abandon your true self and be insincere towards yourself, there is only one case, and that is that you have not yet become strong enough to not depend on anyone.

44. 其实没人能告诉你，放弃一个人到底应该怎么做，你只能自己熬过无数黑漆漆的夜晚，然后第二天照常起床，假装什么事也没发生，其实也没什么大不了，感情是两个人的事，他不爱你，你又何苦呢。

44. In fact, no one can tell you exactly how to give up on someone, you can only get through countless dark nights on your own, and then wake up as usual the next day, pretending as if nothing happened. It's not a big deal, really; love is a matter between two people. If he doesn't love you, why should you suffer?

45. 多数的错失，是因为不坚持，不努力，不挽留，然后催眠自己说一切都是命运。

45. Most missed opportunities are due to not persisting, not striving, not trying to hold on, and then hypnotizing oneself into believing that everything is fate.

46. 人总是这样，伤心的情，记得很深；痛苦的爱，记得很牢。情，莫不伤人，爱，莫不伤心。夜风寻着曾经的路径 ，徘徊已久，流云望着过去的路口，留恋好久， 那灯，暗了又明，印出曾经的旧影，那扇大门，你，是否记得曾经，牵手经过的情景，今夜，不眠，谁会记起谁的曾经。

46. People are always like this: the sad emotions are remembered deeply; the painful love is remembered firmly. Love always wounds, and affection always causes sadness. The night wind follows the path of the past, wandering for a long time; the flowing clouds gaze at the crossroads of the past, lingering for a long time. That lamp, dimming and lighting again, casts the old shadows of the past; that front door, do you remember the scene of holding hands passing by? Tonight, without sleep, who will remember whose past?

47. 从前我想你，我会奔向你拥抱你，说很多情话。后来我想你，思念都藏在草稿箱里，生怕你知道又担心你不知道。现在我想你，我会带上耳机听一首歌，关了手机倒头就睡。

47. In the past, when I thought of you, I would run to you and embrace you, talking a lot of sweet nothings. Later on, when I thought of you, my longing was hidden in the drafts folder, afraid that you would find out but also worried that you wouldn't. Now, when I think of you, I'll put on headphones, listen to a song, turn off my phone, and then go to sleep.

48. 有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难，聪明是一种天赋，而善良是一种选择。

48. One day you will understand that kindness is harder than intelligence; intelligence is a gift, but kindness is a choice.

49. 行随心所动。心不静则行不止。养心清心以持衡。哀莫大于心死。

49. Act according to your heart's desires. If the mind is not calm, actions will not cease. Cultivate and clarify the mind to maintain balance. The greatest sorrow is the death of the heart.

50. 人要拿得起，也要放得下。拿得起是生存，放得下是生活;拿得起是能力，放得下是智慧。有的人拿不起，也就无所谓放下;有的人拿得起，却放不下。拿不起，就会庸庸碌碌;放不下，就会疲惫不堪。人生有许多东西需要放下。只有放下那些无谓的负担，我们才能一路潇洒前行

50. A person must be able to hold on and let go. Holding on is survival, while letting go is living; holding on is capability, and letting go is wisdom. Some people cannot hold on, so there is no question of letting go; while others can hold on but cannot let go. If one cannot hold on, one will be mediocre; if one cannot let go, one will be exhausted. There are many things in life that need to be let go of. Only by letting go of those unnecessary burdens can we travel through life with ease and elegance.

51. 走过的生活并不完美，太完美的也就不是生活了!有时候，你感觉很累，是因为想得太多。多心的人活得辛苦，因为太容易被别人的情绪所左右。多心的人总是胡思乱想，结果就困在一团乱麻般的情绪中，动弹不得。心简单，那世界就简单，幸福才会生长。

51. The life walked through is not perfect, for too perfect is not life! Sometimes, you feel tired because you think too much. People who are overly thoughtful live a hard life, as they are too easily swayed by others' emotions. People who are overly thoughtful always indulge in daydreams, and as a result, they get stuck in a tangled web of emotions, unable to move. When the heart is simple, the world becomes simple, and happiness will grow.

52. 安守一颗平常心，人生才能笑看风云。有些事，轻轻放下，你未必就不是轻松。有些小事，想多了就变成大事。有些细节，想重了就变成惨剧。说来说去，全是幻想而已。所以说，人重累人，心重累心。做人要放轻松。

52. Keeping a calm and ordinary mindset, one can easily laugh at the changes of life. There are some things that, if let go, may not necessarily be burdensome. Some trivial matters, if over-thought, can turn into big issues. Some details, if over-focused on, can become tragedies. In the end, it's all just幻想. Therefore, being heavy on others and heavy on oneself. One should live life with ease and relaxation.

53. 命运如同一只不停旋转的陀螺，可以扭转它的，只有它自己。

53. Fate is like a spinning top that never stops rotating; only it itself can turn it around.

54. 人生路漫长，如果有一段实在是没人陪你热闹同行，你要对踽踽独行的自己说，走过这段就好，前方有更好的风景和更好的人等着。

54. Life is a long journey. If there's a stretch where no one is with you to share the excitement, you should tell the solitary you, just get through this part, there are better landscapes and better people waiting ahead.

55. 就这样吧，我们互不干扰，各自安好，平平淡淡，安然失笑。

55. Well then, let it be. We disturb each other no more, and may we both be well on our own, living a peaceful, uneventful life, and smiling contentedly.

56. 13或许生命的意义在于历练，若没有经历坎坷，你又怎么能体味到成功的欢乐；若没有经历过严冬，又怎么能够珍惜这春日阳光的明媚，若没有走过崎岖的山路，又怎么能体会平坦马路的宽广，生命中总有一次跌倒，催促我们瞬间成长，总有一段风雨，让我们学会坚强。

56. 13 Perhaps the meaning of life lies in experiences. If you haven't gone through hardships, how can you savor the joy of success? If you haven't experienced the severe winter, how can you cherish the brightness of spring sunshine? If you haven't walked through the rugged mountain paths, how can you appreciate the vastness of the smooth roads? In life, there will always be a fall that prompts us to grow instantly, and there will always be a period of storms and rains that teach us to be strong.

57. 伤心就是你给我的温柔？如果是，我就不会自作多情的再去想你。

57. Is it the sadness you give me with your tenderness? If so, I wouldn't go overboard and think of you anymore.

58. 人生苦短，无谓去担心别人怎么想你怎么说你，做你想做的，快乐点。

58. Life is short, don't worry about what others think of you or say about you, do what you want to do, and be happy.

59. 如果可以回到从前，我会选择不认识你。不是我后悔，是我不能面对现在的结局。

59. If I could go back in time, I would choose not to have met you. It's not that I regret it, it's just that I can't face the current outcome.

60. 6每个人都有每个人的脾气，每个人也有每个人的眼色。管不住自己脾气的人容易被别人的眼色所伤，藏不住自己眼色的人就容易被别人的脾气砸中。人生就像一张有去无回的单程车票，没有彩排，每一场都是现场直播。学会没脾气，不摆臭脸的过程，其实也是长本事的过程。

60. 6 Everyone has their own temper, and everyone has their own demeanor. Those who can't control their own temper are easily hurt by others' demeanor, while those who can't hide their own demeanor are easily struck by others' temper. Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, without any rehearsal, every event is a live broadcast. Learning to have no temper and not showing a bad face is actually a process of gaining skills.

61. 我尽量不在无助或悲伤的时候想你，以免显得我的怀念不够诚意。

61. I try not to think of you when I'm feeling helpless or sad, so as not to seem untruthfully nostalgic.

62. 人生，永远不可复制，我们不肯探索自己本身的价值，我们过分看重他人在自己生命里的参与。于是，孤独不再美好，失去了他人，我们惶惑不安。管你经历多痛的事情，到最后都会渐渐遗忘。没有什么能敌得过时光。许多事，当我们真正意识到它有多么珍贵和重要时，大多已经不可逆转的失去。

62. Life is forever irreplicable. We are unwilling to explore the value of ourselves and overly value the participation of others in our lives. As a result, solitude no longer seems beautiful, and without others, we become restless and anxious. No matter how painful the experiences you go through, in the end, they will fade away gradually. Nothing can surpass the power of time. Many things, when we truly realize how precious and important they are, have already been irrevocably lost.

63. 不是时间过得很慢，是因为你过得很糟糕;不是时间过得快，是因为时间对你越来越重要

63. It's not that time is passing slowly; it's because you're having a terrible time. It's not that time is passing quickly; it's because time is becoming increasingly important to you.

64. 人往往把自己看得过重才会患得患失，觉得别人必须理解自己。

64. People tend to overestimate themselves and become overly concerned about gaining and losing, feeling that others must understand them.

65. 那些花了好久才想明白的事，总是会被偶尔的情绪失控全部推翻。

65. The things that took a long time to figure out are always swept away by occasional emotional outbursts.

66. 挤不进的圈子就别挤了，何必累了自己还遭人讨厌。

66. If you can't fit into a circle, don't try to squeeze in. Why burden yourself and become disliked by others?

67. 心小了，小事就大了;心大了，大事都小了;看淡世间沧桑，内心安然无恙。大其心，容天下之物;虚其心，爱天下之善;平其心，论天下之事;定其心，应天下之变。大事难事看担当，逆境顺境看胸襟，有舍有得看智慧，是成是败看坚持

67. If your heart is small, trivial matters become big; if your heart is big, great matters become small. Detach yourself from the vicissitudes of the world and your inner peace remains unharmed. Expand your heart to embrace the world; empty your heart to love the good in the world; level your heart to discuss matters of the world; stabilize your heart to respond to the changes of the world. In dealing with great and difficult matters, it is about taking responsibility; in facing adversity or prosperity, it is about one's breadth of mind; in terms of giving and receiving, it is about wisdom; and in terms of success or failure, it is about perseverance.

68. 一生中至少要有两次冲动，一次为奋不顾身的爱情，一次为说走就走的旅行。

68. In a lifetime, one must have at least two impulses: one for a love that defies all, and one for a trip that takes you away on a whim.

69. 如果当初我勇敢， 结局是不是不一样。 如果当时你坚持， 回忆会不会不这样。

69. If I had been brave at the time, wouldn't the outcome have been different? If you had insisted then, wouldn't the memories be different?

70. 你吃醋你心痛 你绝望你不安 你难过你不好受 你烦你哀怨 你迷茫你无助 你矛盾你害怕 你渴望你愤怒 你欢喜你生气 无论你怎样 忍了吧这就是爱情

70. You're jealous, your heart aches; you're desperate, you're restless; you're sad, you're uncomfortable; you're frustrated, you're resentful; you're confused, you're helpless; you're conflicted, you're afraid; you're desirous, you're angry; you're elated, you're upset. No matter how you feel, endure it — this is love.

71. 如果情感和岁月也能轻轻撕碎，扔到海中，那么，我愿意从此就在海底沉默。你的言语，我爱听，却不懂得；我的沉默，你愿见，却不明白。

71. If emotions and years could also be gently torn apart and thrown into the sea, then, I would be willing to be silent at the bottom of the sea from now on. I love to hear your words, yet I don't understand them; I want you to see my silence, yet you don't comprehend it.