在这个瞬息万变的时代，掌握人生大智慧，如同掌握一把开启幸福之门的钥匙。看清、看透、看淡，余生活出通透圆融。

In this era of rapid change, mastering the great wisdom of life is like holding the key to opening the door to happiness. See clearly, see through, and see lightly; live out the rest of your life with clarity and harmony.

1. 有的人与人之间的相遇就像是流星，瞬间迸发出令人羡慕的火花，却注定只是匆匆而过。

1. Some encounters between people are like shooting stars, bursting forth with a dazzling spark that is enviable in an instant, yet destined to pass by in a hurry.

2. 淋过雨的空气，疲倦了的伤心，我记忆里的童话已经慢慢的融化。

2. The air that has been rained on, the tired heartache, the fairy tales in my memory have slowly melted away.

3. 人生很长，得与失，输与赢，荣与辱都要看淡一些，别给自己的烦恼找借口，要知道，快乐不是上天恩赐的，也不是金钱买来的，快乐是自己创造和争取来的。为了追求快乐，让我们忘掉名利，忘记年龄，放弃虚荣，多和快乐的人在一起，多给烦恼的人一些微笑吧，那就会让大家都变得快乐起来。

3. Life is long, and we should take gains and losses, wins and losses, honor and disgrace with a lighter heart. Don't make excuses for your troubles. You should know that happiness is not a gift from heaven, nor is it bought with money; happiness is created and pursued by oneself. In order to pursue happiness, let's forget about fame and fortune, forget about age, abandon vanity, spend more time with people who are happy, and give more smiles to those who are troubled. This will make everyone happy.

4. 夜夜笙歌，天天狂欢，可惜谁的身体也没那么好，爽心之事也得把握度，否则，物极必反，乐极生悲！

4. Every night is a party, every day is a celebration, but unfortunately, no one's body is that strong. Even enjoyable things need to be enjoyed in moderation; otherwise, excess leads to the opposite, and too much joy can turn into sorrow!

5. 32和你在一起，世界从哪个角度看，都那么美好。

5. Being with you, the world looks beautiful from every angle.

6. 你是我编造的童话故事中的王子，而我只是你生命里一个匆匆过客。

6. You are the prince in the fairy tale I made up, and I am just a fleeting passerby in your life.

7. 人生最痛苦的事，莫过于那不断的努力而梦想永远是无法实现。令人欣慰的是，我听见时间长廊另一端有个声音说：也许今天无法实现，明天也不能。重要的是，它在你心里。重要的是，你一直在努力。

7. The most painful thing in life is the endless effort that leads to dreams that can never be realized. It is reassuring to hear a voice from the other end of the time corridor say: Perhaps it cannot be realized today, and maybe not tomorrow either. What matters is that it is in your heart. What matters is that you have been striving.

8. 不知从何时期，青春绚烂的世界，被自己垫付的一塌糊涂，工作，爱情，社会名利，地位，利益，这些所谓追求，一点点的侵蚀着，那颗善良的童心。咆哮，恼怒，成为了破坏我们的距离，而且催使自己越走越远。

8. From an unknown period, the splendid world of youth has been utterly destroyed by self-sacrifice. Work, love, social fame and fortune, status, interests, these so-called pursuits have been eroding little by little, that kind-hearted childlike heart. Roaring and being angry have become the factors that break down our distance and push us further and further apart.

9. 改变命运的八个关键词：忍耐：不是胆怯懦弱。放弃：除了生命，没有什么不能割舍。压力：想开了就是天堂。豁达：生命本身就是幸福。执着：在枯叶凋零的时候等待春天。放纵：驾驭自己是一生的功课。感恩：懂得回报是可贵的品格。释怀：将心事交给清风。

9. The eight keywords to change destiny: Patience: Not timid and weak. Surrender: There is nothing that cannot be let go except for life. Pressure: When you think it through, it's heaven. Generosity: Life itself is happiness. Perseverance: Waiting for spring when the withered leaves fall. Indulgence: Riding yourself is a lifelong task. Gratitude: Knowing how to give back is a valuable character. Letting go: Entrust your worries to the breeze.

10. 有时，爱也是种伤害。残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。

10. Sometimes, love can also be a form of hurt. The cruel ones choose to hurt others, and the kind-hearted ones choose to hurt themselves.

11. 如果，要我做一个选择，对不起，我还是会选择守候，因为我相信，只要有你的地方就会有我所想要的东西，但我不希望那只是一个躯壳，而没有灵魂。不过，你的灵魂也应该就是这世界上最单纯的，对我影响最深的灵魂吧！

11. If I had to make a choice, I apologize, but I would still choose to wait, because I believe that wherever you are, there will be what I want. But I don't want it to be just a shell without a soul. However, your soul should also be the purest in the world, the soul that has the deepest impact on me!

12. 当我们不再去寻求答案的时候，所有的问题都消失了。当所有的问题都消失，真正的答案就出现了。

12. When we stop seeking for answers, all the questions disappear. When all the questions vanish, the true answers emerge.

13. 深深知道，不是所有的相遇都能守成一段传奇，不是所有的坦诚都能换回等同的默契。有的人魂牵梦萦，却只适合放在心底;有的人波澜不惊，却适合相伴一生。浅相守，薄相知，淡相忘，只问浅笑安然，不问花开几许。抚一曲花事凝烟，捻一弯今生浅笑，、我们唯一能做的，是站在岁月之端放牧心灵。

13. Deeply aware that not every encounter can turn into a legend, and not every openness can be reciprocated with equal understanding. Some people may be constantly on one's mind but are only meant to be cherished in the heart; some may not cause a stir but are suited for a lifetime of companionship. A shallow commitment, a faint acquaintance, and a forgetful heart; we only ask for a serene smile, not for how many flowers bloom. Tend to the flowers that gather smoke, twist a lifetime of faint smiles, the only thing we can do is to pasture our souls at the edge of time.

14. 如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子;怯懦，却可能使你后悔一辈子。

14. If you fall in love, don't easily let go of the opportunity. Foolhardiness may make you regret for a while; but timidity might make you regret for a lifetime.

15. 借人之智，完善自己。学最好的别人，做最好的自己。也会每天有一个好心情，在生活中发现更多美好，用微笑对待生活，对待人生。感恩可以消解内心所有的积怨，感恩可以涤荡世间一切尘埃，感恩是一种生活的大智慧。

15. Borrow wisdom from others to perfect yourself. Learn from the best, be the best version of yourself. You will also have a good mood every day, find more beauty in life, and face life and life with a smile. Gratitude can dissolve all accumulated grievances within the heart, gratitude can purify all the dust in the world. Gratitude is a great wisdom in life.

16. 做事没必要奢求人人都理解，做人没必要指望人人都喜欢。做什么都想要所有人鼓掌赞成，那就必然束手束脚，胆战心惊，永远满足不了旁观者五花八门的要求和愿望。其实，只要你做事严谨，做人坦荡。结果能让你觉得重要的人满意，这事就值回票钱了。

16. There's no need to expect that everyone will understand what you're doing, and there's no need to rely on everyone to like you as a person. If you want everyone to cheer and approve of what you're doing, you will inevitably be restricted, trembling with fear, and will never be able to satisfy the diverse demands and wishes of onlookers. In fact, as long as you are meticulous in your work and straightforward in your character, the results will satisfy the people who matter to you, making it worthwhile.

17. 人生如歌，词曲旋律舒缓激越。岁月似河，无限精彩昼夜奔流。云卷云舒，花开花落，我们享受生活，无需计较太多。生活，是一部无字的书，每个人有每个人的读法；生活，是一道多解的题，每个人有每个人的答案。

17. Life is like a song, with lyrics, melody, and rhythms that are both soothing and passionate. Time flows like a river, endlessly filled with wonders, flowing through day and night. Clouds roll in and out, flowers bloom and wither, we enjoy life without needing to worry too much. Life is a book without words, each person has their own way of reading it; life is a puzzle with multiple solutions, each person has their own answer.

18. 16很多事，唯有当距离渐远时，才能回首看清它。

18. 16 Many things can only be seen clearly when they are gradually far away.

19. 别太容易为别人掏心掏肺，因为弄到最后你只能够落下一个没心没肺。

19. Don't be too easy to pour your heart out to others, because in the end, you might end up with a heartless and insensitive person.

20. 等待是一种过程，就像冬天里的万物期盼春暖花开。等待是一种幸福，它让生命里充满最真实的未来。学会等待，你回发现生命中每一刻都很精彩。

20. Waiting is a process, just like all things in winter looking forward to the warmth and blooming of spring. Waiting is a form of happiness, filling life with the most authentic future. Learn to wait, and you will find that every moment in life is fascinating.

21. 人的眼睛是由黑、白两部分所组成的，可是神为什么要让人只能通过黑的部分去看东西？因为人生必须透过黑暗，才能看到光明。

21. The human eye is composed of two parts: black and white. But why does God make humans only able to see things through the black part? Because in life, one must pass through darkness to see the light.

22. 生活不是不轻松，而是看不淡； 幸福不是寻不到，而是不知足； 痛苦不是离不开，而是舍不得； 包容不是做不好，而是不博爱； 心里不是不清净，而是看不惯； 欲望不是想不开，而是放不下； 轮回不是逃不出，而是太牵挂； 解脱不是做不到，而是怕苦难。

22. Life is not without ease, but it is hard to let go; happiness is not impossible to find, but it is hard to be satisfied; suffering is not unavoidable, but it is hard to part with; tolerance is not about doing poorly, but it is about a lack of love; the heart is not unclean, but it is hard to tolerate; desires are not impossible to overcome, but it is hard to let them go; the cycle of rebirth is not unbreakable, but it is too attached to; enlightenment is not unattainable, but it is afraid of suffering.

23. 虽然努力了不一定有收获，但是不努力却舒服。

23. Although effort doesn't always guarantee a harvest, not exerting effort feels comfortable.

24. 很多东西舍不得丢，很多东西舍不得忘，就是因为这些舍不得，才让我们变的如此脆弱。

24. We can't bear to part with many things, and we can't bear to forget many things. It is because of these things we can't let go of that we become so fragile.

25. 在看得见的地方，我的眼睛和你在一起;在看不见的地方，我的心和你在一起。 仓央嘉措。

25. Wherever I can see, my eyes are with you; wherever I cannot see, my heart is with you. - Changkya Tsokyi.

26. 29你永远都不会知道自己到底有多坚强，直到有一天你除了坚强别无选择。

26. 29 You'll never know how strong you are until the day comes when you have no choice but to be strong.

27. 33做一个没心没肺的人，把那些回不去的事情，藏在岁月深处。

27. Be a person without a heart or conscience, and hide those things that can't be returned deep within the years.

28. 起风的日子，学会依风起舞，落雨的时候，学会为自己，撑起一把伞。生活有望穿秋水的期待，也会有的意想不到的欣喜。

28. On windy days, learn to dance with the wind; when it rains, learn to shelter yourself with an umbrella. Life holds the anticipation that can pierce through the autumn waters, and also unexpected joys.

29. 彼岸的花儿已灿烂盛放，我却依旧执首原地看着时光渐渐苍老。

29. The flowers on the other shore have bloomed brilliantly, yet I still stand rooted here, watching time gradually age.

30. 14有些失望是不可避免的，但大部分的失望，都因为你高估了自己。

30. 14 Some disappointment is inevitable, but most of the disappointment is due to your overestimation of yourself.

31. 你突然点醒我，我们相识的时间能够以年计算了，你找到了你爱的，而我，还在原地徘徊着。

31. You suddenly woke me up, realizing that the time we have known each other can be counted in years. You have found the one you love, while I am still wandering in place.

32. 23遇到一件事，如果你喜欢，那么享受它；不喜欢，那么避开它。

32. When encountering something, if you like it, enjoy it; if you don't like it, avoid it.

33. 没有谁的心是一片粗粝荒芜，只要眼里充满阳光，生活就充满希望;心底充满温暖，生命就充满力量。命运里会遇到多少风雨多少苦难并不重要，重要的是我们是否能穿越种种迷雾，走出烦恼，并获得一种生命的升华。

33. No one's heart is completely barren and粗糙. As long as there is sunlight in one's eyes, life is filled with hope; as long as there is warmth in one's heart, life is filled with strength. It doesn't matter how much wind and rain, or how much hardship one will encounter in one's destiny. What matters is whether we can navigate through all kinds of mists, escape from烦恼, and achieve a transcendence in life.

34. 记住的，是不是永远不会消失？我守护如泡沫般脆弱的梦境，欢乐才刚开始，悲伤却早已潜伏而来。

34. Remembered, does it never fade away? I guard the fragile dreams like bubbles, the joy has just begun, but the sadness has already crept in.

35. 20接受现实是克服任何不幸的第一步；唯有面对现实，你才能超越现实。

35. Accepting reality is the first step to overcoming any misfortune; only by facing reality can you transcend it.

36. 人生路上，走过的昨天，脚下的今天，面前的明天，都只有相对的意义。所有的昨天都取得了成功，不等于今天也会收获成功。所有的昨天都遭遇了失败的，不等于今天也会遭遇失败。

36. On the journey of life, yesterday that has passed, today underfoot, and tomorrow before us, all hold only relative significance. Just because all yesterdays were successful doesn't mean today will also bring success. Just because all yesterdays encountered failure doesn't mean today will also face failure.

37. 不管是友情还是爱情，如果你能看出别人有一丝不情愿，就不要逼人家陪你做你想做的事情，陪你吃饭，陪你逛街，陪你看**，陪你喝酒，热情回复你陪你聊天，要懂得衡量一个你在乎的人到底对你有多在乎，如果人家不需要你或恰好心情不好，必要时懂得远离不打扰。

37. Whether it's friendship or love, if you can see that someone is the least bit unwilling, don't force them to do things with you that you want to do, such as eating together, shopping together, watching **, drinking with you, warmly responding and chatting with you. You should understand how much a person you care about really cares about you. If they don't need you or are in a bad mood, know when to distance yourself and not disturb them.

38. 多学到一些，气质就多一些，知识就多一些，淡薄就多一些，人生也就更美丽一些。这与直接接受别人的馈赠不同，参与的过程，意义重大。学到的人生，才是富饶丰胶的人生。

38. The more you learn, the more temperament you will have, the more knowledge you will accumulate, the more indifference you will have, and life will also be more beautiful. This is different from directly accepting others' gifts; the process of participation carries significant meaning. The life you learn is the life that is rich and full.

39. 有多少人，明明分手了，却还爱着。有多少人，明明还爱着，却说放下了，有多少人，明明难过，却还微笑着说我很好。

39. How many people, even though they have broken up, still love. How many people, even though they still love, claim to have let go. How many people, despite being sad, still smile and say they are fine.

40. 平庸的人总是有一种幸灾乐祸的心理，因为成功者总是给他们强有力的刺激。他们总是希望成功者能够功败垂成，沦为和他们一样的平庸。人生如戏，即使今天你是炙手可热的主角，明天你可能就是一个跑龙套的。可谓是："平步青云会有时，误杀落地未尝知。"聪明人总是用平常心应对人生中的起起伏伏，这就是一种大智慧， 台上台下都能自在坚韧、淡然洒脱。

40. Mediocre people always have a feeling of schadenfreude, because successful individuals always provide them with a strong stimulus. They always hope that the successful will fail at the last moment, becoming as ordinary as themselves. Life is like a play; even if you are the hotshot leading actor today, you might be just a supporting player tomorrow. It can be said: "Rise to great heights will come in time, but who knows when the downfall will befall?" Wise people always deal with the ups and downs of life with a calm mind, which is a form of great wisdom. Whether on stage or off, they can be relaxed, steadfast, and unburdened.

41. 有时候，虽然能想明白，但心里就是接受不了。

41. Sometimes, even though I can understand it, I just can't accept it in my heart.

42. 25因为我们在意的，往往不是人做的事，而只是做事的人。

42. 25 For what we often take note of is not what people do, but rather the people who do things.

43. 幸福，没有捷径，也不会从天而降，靠自己争取，靠真心体会。幸福，其实不遥远，淡淡地行走，平静地生活，细细地聆听，默默地感知。有人爱，有事做，有梦想，有期待，心存美好，微笑向暖。晚安~

43. Happiness has no shortcuts and it won't fall from the sky. It is to be pursued through one's own efforts and sincerely experienced. In fact, happiness is not far away. Just walk gently, live calmly, listen attentively, and sense silently. With someone to love, something to do, dreams to pursue, and expectations to look forward to, hold onto beauty in one's heart and smile towards the warmth. Good night~

44. 你会不会每次都那么高兴的找你喜欢的人聊天，是以失望结尾。

44. Do you always look forward to chatting with the person you like, only to end up feeling disappointed?

45. 用真相对，粗衣素布也秀丽;用懂解读，淡饭清茶也温馨。平淡中相守，简单中拥有，与心对心，情才会长久。日子需要知足，才会幸福;家庭，需要容忍，才有笑声。一个人，最大的幸福，就是有人在乎。

45. With sincerity, coarse clothes and plain fabric also look beautiful; with understanding, plain food and tea can be warm. In simplicity, they stay together; with a heart-to-heart connection, love will last. Life needs contentment to be happy; a family needs tolerance to have laughter. The greatest happiness for a person is to be cared about.

46. 我们常常为错过一些东西而感到惋惜，但其实，人生的玄妙，常常超出你的预料，无论什么时候，你都要相信，一切都是最好的安排，坚持，努力，勇敢追求，风景变幻，人世无常，顺其自然的力量，神秘，莫测，闪着光，就这样突然地把惊喜带到你的世界中来。

46. We often feel regretful for missing out on certain things, but in fact, the mysteries of life often exceed our expectations. At any time, you should believe that everything is the best arrangement. Persist, strive, and courageously pursue. The scenery changes, and the world is ever-changing. The power of going with the flow is mysterious, unpredictable, shining, and suddenly brings surprises into your world in this way.

47. 对小人一定要忍让，退一步海阔天空，实在不行把属于自己的空间也送给他们，让他们如莺歌燕舞般陶醉吧。俗话说大人大度量，不把俗事放在心里，小人鼠肚鸡肠，惹着小人就等与惹了麻烦，天底下顶数小人惹不起。直到现在我也没想出更好的办法战胜小人，不知道敬而远之是否可行。

47. One must always show tolerance towards the mean-spirited. Retreating a step opens up a vast sky, and if it really comes to it, give them the space that is yours as well. Let them be lost in the rapture of their own song and dance as sparrows. As the saying goes, a magnanimous person does not hold trivial matters to heart, while a mean person has a narrow and resentful mind. Angering a mean person is akin to inviting trouble, and in the world, there's no one who is more difficult to deal with than a mean person. Even to this day, I haven't come up with a better way to overcome the mean-spirited, and I'm not sure if it's feasible to respect them and keep a distance.

48. 有些人明明刻薄嘴欠却说自己是幽默，有些人明明口无遮拦却说自己是坦率，有些人没有教养却以为自己是随性，也有些人轻重不分以为自己是耿直。

48. Some people are obviously sarcastic and sarcastic but claim to be humorous, some are openly blunt but say they are honest, some lack manners but think they are casual, and some do not distinguish between the important and unimportant and think they are straightforward.

49. 有时，看起来残酷，反过来想，也是一种慈悲。

49. Sometimes, it may seem cruel, but when you think about it in reverse, it is also a form of compassion.

50. 在一段关系里面，其实最重要的，不是外貌也不是面包，甚至不是忠诚与否，而是分享。

50. In a relationship, what is actually most important is not appearance, nor bread, nor even whether there is loyalty, but sharing.

51. 生活好不好……自己决定，别耿耿于怀，当你看透，过一天算一天，快乐一天是一天，心胸就宽广了，不再自寻烦恼；人心美不美，自己感受，别斤斤计较，当你看透，交个人看颗心，走一程是一程，看懂了人心难测，就不用伤心伤肺；人生苦不苦，自己作主，别好高骛远。

51. Whether life is good or not is up to you... Don't dwell on it. When you see through it, live one day at a time, be happy for a day at a time, and your heart will become broader, no longer seeking烦恼; whether people's hearts are beautiful or not is something you feel, don't be overly concerned. When you see through it, treat a person by looking at their heart, go through a journey at a time, understand that people's hearts are unpredictable, and you won't have to be heartbroken; whether life is bitter or not is in your own hands, don't strive for high and distant goals.

52. 如果有一天，你拨我的电话号码，语音告诉你，我已经停机。答应我不可以难过，不可以失落，不可以想我，更加不要记得有这样一个我。

52. If one day you call my phone number, the voice tells you that I have suspended my service. Promise me not to be sad, not to feel lost, not to miss me, and even more so, don't remember that there is such a person as me.

53. 人生无常，心安便是归处。痛而不言是一种智慧，笑而不语是一种豁达。只有品味了痛苦，才能珍视曾经忽略的快乐;没有痛苦，生活的盛宴就淡了原味;没有平凡，人生的画卷就浅了底色。

53. Life is ever-changing, and peace of mind is the place of return. Suffering in silence is a form of wisdom, and laughing without speaking is a kind of generosity. Only by experiencing pain can one cherish the happiness that was once overlooked; without pain, the feast of life loses its original flavor; without the ordinary, the canvas of life loses its fundamental hue.

54. 善良和善感在人生的答卷上也会涂上几笔，起码是得一个甲加，在物欲洪流的大视野里，泾渭分明，条理清晰。

54. Kindness and empathy will also leave their mark on the answer sheet of life, at least earning an A+. In the vast landscape of the flood of material desires, they stand out distinctly, with clear order.

55. 宁可不做事，也不要做傻事。不做事，不是最好的状况，做傻事，却是最坏的事；宁可不说话，也不要说瞎话。不说话，虽然不好，但如果经常说瞎话，还不如不说话。

55. It is better not to do anything rather than do foolish things. Not doing anything is not the best situation, but doing foolish things is the worst. It is better not to speak rather than to tell lies. Not speaking is not ideal, but it is better than frequently telling lies.

56. 5有时候，那些白天时最坚强的人，正是那些在黑夜里哭着哭着睡着的人。

56. 5 Sometimes, those who are the strongest during the day are the ones who cry themselves to sleep in the dark.

57. 6的抱憾，是我们近在咫尺，却不懂彼此的沉默；的错失，是明知前方无路，却固执得不想转弯。

57. The regret of the number 6 is that we are so close yet unable to understand each other's silence; the loss is that we know there is no way ahead, yet stubbornly refuse to turn around.

58. 脸上的快乐，别人看得到。心里的痛又有谁能感觉到。

58. Happiness on the face is visible to others. Whose heart can feel the pain within?

59. 有些事，我们听过，但选择忘却 有些人，我们遇见，但选择离开 越是不想在回忆中留下太多过往 却偏偏在某年某月某个下雨的夜晚，又重复想起 于是，不如写下那段感伤，桃花纷飞时，将那些人、那些事在心里惦念

59. There are some things we've heard but choose to forget; some people we meet but choose to leave behind. The more we don't want to leave too many past memories in our recollections, the more we seem to repeat them in some rainy night of a certain year and month. So, why not write down that sadness, and when the peach blossoms are flying, keep those people and things in mind.

60. 穷真的没什么，它不是一种光荣，也绝不是一种屈辱，它只是一种相比较而言的状态，是需要认识和的一种现状！如果把它看作是丑陋的外衣，那么它就真的遮住了心灵的光芒！

60. Poverty is really nothing much; it is neither a glory nor is it any form of humiliation. It is simply a comparative state, a reality that needs to be recognized! If you view it as an ugly cloak, then it truly hides the light of the soul!

61. 任何一件事情，只要心甘情愿，总是能够变得简单。。等待虽难，但后悔更甚。人生本来就不易，生命本来就不长，何必用无谓的烦恼，作践自己，伤害岁月。 青春就应该有一种快乐勇敢的气质，这不光是青春的一种表现，也可以理解为是青春的秘密，也可以理解为是青春的生活态度，不可轻率，不可马虎。

61. Any matter, as long as one is willing, can always become simple. Waiting is difficult, but regret is even worse. Life itself is not easy, and life is not long. Why waste time on futile worries, degrade oneself, and harm the years? Youth should have a spirit of happiness and bravery, which is not only an expression of youth but can also be understood as the secret of youth, or the attitude of life in youth. It should not be taken lightly or carelessly.

62. 31好运不是祈求得来的，而是用汗水浇灌出来的。

62. 31 Good fortune is not prayed for, but cultivated through sweat and toil.

63. 有多少人开始的时候信誓旦旦地说，往后余生风雪是你，平淡是你，目光所至是你，难过失望都是你的，最后还不是走着走着就散了!晚安~

63. How many people promised at the beginning that the rest of their lives would be filled with you, the cold and snow, the plainness, everything within their gaze, and all the sadness and disappointment, yet in the end, they just walked apart! Good night~

64. 适当克制自己的欲望，才能让自己活得更有尊严。做一件事，不必在意别人说三道四，只要坚信自己是正确的，那就义无反顾地往前走；爱一个人，无须在心中横攀竖比，每个人都是这个世界上的唯一，就看你能否真正的接受。不要畏惧明天，自信、坚强、勇敢是洒在你心田的阳光。

64. Properly curb your desires, and you will live with more dignity. When doing something, do not mind what others say and speculate; as long as you firmly believe in your correctness, go resolutely forward without hesitation; when loving someone, do not compare or measure in your heart; everyone is unique in this world, and it depends on whether you can truly accept it. Do not fear tomorrow; confidence, strength, and courage are the sunshine that shines in your heart.

65. 有些事情，拿不起，就选择放下;有些东西，要不得，就把它放弃;有些感情，理不顺，就忍痛割舍;有些伤痛，挥不去，就学着遗忘;有些过去，忘不了，就藏于心底;有些工作，做不好，就求助别人。

65. There are some things that one cannot carry, so one chooses to let them go; some things that should not be accepted, so they are abandoned; some feelings that are tangled, so they are reluctantly shed; some pains that cannot be erased, so one learns to forget; some past that cannot be forgotten, so it is hidden in the heart; some work that is not done well, so one seeks help from others.

66. 这世界上最难掌握的，就是人心。你以为了解一个人，实际上，只是看懂了他的皮相。有时候，以为别人懂你，其实只不过是一直在误解你。当你觉得自己拥有了一个人的心，而事实上，它随时随地都会改变。大概没有什么可以阻止一颗心的变化。天容易黑，心容易变，这就是道理。

66. The most difficult thing to master in this world is the human heart. You may think you understand a person, but actually, you've only understood their superficial appearance. Sometimes, you may think others understand you, but in fact, they've been misunderstanding you all along. When you feel like you have someone's heart, in reality, it can change at any moment. There's probably nothing that can stop the change of a heart. It's easy for the sky to get dark, and for the heart to change, that's the way it is.