在探寻人生意义的征途上，22条生活智慧引领你走出自我，避免迷失方向。

On the journey to explore the meaning of life, 22 life wisdoms guide you to step out of yourself and avoid getting lost.

1. 人生其实是排着队往前走，你们跟在后头，千万别加塞，千万别抢道，千万不要急着去往前跑，我很害怕耽误大伙工夫。

1. Life is actually about walking in line, following behind, please don't cut in line, don't rush to the front, and never be in a hurry to run ahead. I am very afraid of wasting everyone's time.

2. 见识过世面的人，他们较少的被框架所束缚，这种框架就是我们生活的主流想法。高晓松曾经在《不买房，买梦想》文章中强调诗和远方比房子更重要。他讲述自己的母亲一直是这样鼓励自己和妹妹的，他从来没有买过房子，却周游全球，这样广泛的视野让他对生活方式有一种更为深邃的理解，也更容易活出自我与真我的本色。

2. People who have seen the world are less constrained by the framework, which is the mainstream thinking in our lives. Gao Xiaosong once emphasized in his article "Don't Buy a House, Buy a Dream" that poetry and distance are more important than houses. He recounts that his mother has always encouraged him and his sister in this way. He has never bought a house, but has traveled around the world, which has given him a broader perspective and a deeper understanding of the way of life, making it easier for him to live out his true self.

3. 人生也不过是陌路一场，彼此匆忙转瞬消失在滚动的人潮里，不要害怕错过，就算计算万千也注定只是路人甲和路人乙。喧嚣的红尘里，希望做一个平和淡然的人，无时无刻，在嘴角的那个地方留着一抹浅笑，怀着一颗坦然自若的心，走过这纷扰的红尘。

3. Life is merely a fleeting encounter on a path of strangers, where we rush about and disappear into the flowing crowd in a blink. Do not fear missing out, for even if you calculate a thousand times, it is destined to be just another passerby A and passerby B. Amidst the noisy world, I hope to be a peaceful and indifferent person, carrying a faint smile on the corner of my mouth at all times, with a calm and composed heart, walking through this turbulent world.

4. 上帝给我们安排每一次挣扎，都是有目的的。跟死神亲密接触的机会都没有过，那才叫白活了，人生只有一次，所以要珍惜抓紧，在有限的时间躁起来。哪怕是冲动，也就是后悔一阵子；但是活得太怂了呢，就会后悔一辈子。――《滚蛋吧！肿瘤君》

4. God arranges every struggle we face for a purpose. If you've never had a close encounter with death, that's what it means to have lived in vain. Life is only once, so we should cherish and seize it, raging in the limited time we have. Even if it's impulsive, it's just regret for a while; but if you live too timidly, you'll regret it for a lifetime. ― "Kicking Cancer's Ass"

5. 借我一回奋不顾身的勇气，让我去拥抱你，哪怕一瞬间也好。

5. Lend me a moment of fearless courage, let me embrace you, even if just for a fleeting instant.

6. 周围的前辈如果不是你想成为的人，远离他们；越远越好。

6. If the elders around you are not the kind of people you want to be, keep your distance from them; the farther, the better.

7. 有些事情，你一直纠结在那个地方的话，就会看不开。但是如果换个心态的话，很多事情都会海阔天空。既然我躲不过，那不如大大方方让你看让你拍。

7. There are some things that you keep pondering over, and you end up unable to see them clearly. However, if you change your mindset, many things will seem vast and open. Since I can't avoid it, I might as well face it openly and let you see and take pictures of it.

8. 请不要爱上有吃软饭迹象的男人。这样的男人欲壑难填，你不是富婆，养不起，最好还是让别人去养。

8. Please do not fall in love with men who show signs of being gold diggers. Such men have an unquenchable desire, and you are not a wealthy woman who can afford to support them. It's best to let someone else take care of them.

9. 世界没有悲剧和喜剧之分，如果你能从悲剧中走出来，那就是喜剧，如果你沉缅于喜剧之中，那它就是悲剧。如果你只是等待，发生的事情只会是你变老了。人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

9. There is no distinction between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can rise above tragedy, it becomes comedy; if you immerse yourself in comedy, it becomes tragedy. If you merely wait, the only thing that will happen is that you will grow old. The meaning of life does not lie in being dealt a good hand of cards, but in playing a bad hand well.

10. 保持纯真十分重要。自始至终不要失去开放的胸怀和童稚的热情，自然就会拥有无限可能。真相永远暧昧不明，而谎言却能让人很快就懂。最好的办法是依赖经验的同时，又不失去童真。凡事皆有神迹，只需用心观察。

10. It is very important to maintain innocence. Do not lose an open heart and youthful enthusiasm from beginning to end, and you will naturally have endless possibilities. The truth is always ambiguous, while lies can be quickly understood. The best way is to rely on experience without losing innocence. Miracles exist in everything, just waiting to be observed with a heart.

11. 谁有历经千辛万苦的意志，谁就能达到任何目的。

11. Whosoever has the will to endure hardships can achieve any goal.

12. 女孩子不要相信这个世界上有老实本分的男人，只有暂时没有机会做坏的男人。

12. Don't believe that there are honest and upright men in this world; there are only men who haven't had the chance to do bad yet.

13. 请记住这个世界上除了死，所有的离开都是背叛。

13. Remember that in this world, apart from death, all departures are betrayal.

14. 人生有时总是很讥讽，转身可能就是一世；说好的永远，不知怎么就散了；最后本身想来想去竟然也搞不清当初是什么原因离开彼此的。

14. Life can sometimes be very sarcastic; a turn around could be a lifetime apart; the promised forever somehow ended; in the end, even after much thought, it's unclear what the original reason was for parting ways with each other.

15. 人生的尽头，也可以再有春天，再有希望，再有信心。我想，这是他们对生命执着的热爱，对生活真切的有智慧的安排，才创造出了奇迹般灿烂的晚年。

15. At the end of life, there can still be spring, hope, and confidence. I believe it is their steadfast love for life and their sincere, wise arrangement of living that has created a miracle-like brilliance in their later years.

16. 用"吃亏就是占便宜"的心态做人做事，那样你就可以迅速成长。

16. Adopt an attitude of "taking a loss as a gain" in your dealings and actions, and in this way, you can quickly grow.

17. 把所有的人当作好人无疑会吃亏，将所有的人看作坏人肯定更吃亏。

17. It is undoubtedly disadvantageous to treat everyone as good, and it is even more disadvantageous to view everyone as bad.

18. 不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看，我绝不打乱自己的节奏。

18. No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe that my own feelings are correct. No matter how others see it, I will never disrupt my own rhythm.

19. 谁能以深刻的资料充实每个瞬间，谁就是在无限地延长自我的生命。――库尔茨

19. He who can enrich each moment with profound material is one who is infinitely extending his own life. - Curtz

20. 如果不是生在帝王富贵家，那么找女朋友，不要只看重她的长相，而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣，不是在找情人，而应该是在找妻子。

20. If you were not born into a royal or wealthy family, when looking for a girlfriend, do not only focus on her appearance, but also learn to appreciate her inner qualities. You are seeking a partner, not a lover, but rather a wife.

21. 任何一种工作做久了都会令人心生厌倦、感到没有出路。其实，问题也许并非出在工作本身上，而只是人的心理作用。在工作中，永远都不要忘记随时调整心态，因为工作的突破取决于人自身的突破。

21. Doing any kind of work for a long time can lead to boredom and a sense of having no way out. In fact, the problem may not lie with the work itself but rather with the psychological effects of the individual. In work, never forget to adjust your mindset at any time, because the breakthrough in work depends on the individual's own breakthrough.

22. 当对方说，我们不合适，分手吧！也许你们真的不合适，可以微笑的跟对方握手告别，很绅士地离开，不要哀求，对方心意已决的事情，果断放弃，不必死缠乱打！

22. When the other party says, "We are not a good match, let's break up!" Maybe you really are not a good match, and you can smile and shake hands with the other person, leaving in a very gentlemanly manner. Do not beg, and when the other party has made up their mind, make a decisive break and do not纠缠不休!

23. 一个人要走出生活的阴影，只有让心中充满阳光。

23. To step out of the shadows of life, one must fill their heart with sunshine.

24. 这笑有多危险，是穿肠毒药，这泪有多么美，只有你知道。

24. How dangerous this laugh is, a poison that pierces the intestines; how beautiful this tear is, only you know.

25. 勇敢的女人，永远比懦弱的女人美丽。如果，你的爱人不爱你，我劝你勇敢点分离，好过懦弱的纠缠。

25. Brave women are always more beautiful than cowards. If your beloved does not love you, I advise you to be brave and separate, which is better than the weakness of entanglement.

26. 生活告诉我，童话只不过是小孩子幻想的游戏。我不是公主，也不会有等待救赎我的王子。但生命中被你刻上痕迹的那些岁月无法抹去。我知道回不去，但还是会想念会回忆会心疼到无法自拔。没办法，因为我爱你。

26. Life has taught me that fairy tales are just children's games of imagination. I am not a princess, nor will I have a prince waiting to save me. But the years that you have etched into my life cannot be erased. I know I can't go back, but I still miss, remember, and ache to the point of being unable to pull myself away. There's no way around it, because I love you.

27. 我们可以轻易的躲开一头大象，却总是躲不开苍蝇。使我们不快乐的，也往往是一些芝麻绿豆般的小事。生活中的小细节莫轻视，多用点心把幸福掌握！

27. It's easy to avoid an elephant, but we can never escape from flies. Often, it's the trivial matters like sesame seeds and bean sprouts that make us unhappy. Don't overlook the small details in life; put more effort into grasping happiness!

28. 平和淡然地面对一切，活出自我，活出自信，该想的就想，该做的就做，爱你自己，更要爱他人。不论何时何地，要特别珍惜缘分，不论是你生命的过客，还是长久的知己，都是一生精彩的回忆。人海中难得有几个真正的朋友，这份情请你不要不在乎！别等到无能为力的时候，才翻起终生的遗憾和悔恨的记忆。

28. Face everything with calmness and composure, live out your true self, and live with confidence. Think what you should think, do what you should do, love yourself, and more importantly, love others. At all times and in all places, cherish the缘分 especially. Whether they are the passers-by in your life or lifelong companions, they are all wonderful memories in your life. In the vast sea of people, it's rare to have a few genuine friends. Please don't take this friendship lightly! Don't wait until you are helpless to regret and recall the memories of a lifetime.

29. 学会借鉴：借鉴别人的成功经验，那就要加强学习，取众家之长，克已之短。

29. Learn to draw lessons from others: To learn from the successful experiences of others, one must strengthen their studies, absorb the strengths of various schools, and overcome their own shortcomings.

30. 有负面情绪是正常的，但是自己 一定要知道，要明白这只是生活的一小部分，在其余的时间里，要尽量的让情绪平稳起来。

30. It is normal to have negative emotions, but one must always know, understand that this is just a small part of life. In the rest of the time, one should try to keep emotions as stable as possible.

31. 无论发生怎样的变故，不要打破生活原有的规 律，要按时吃饭，按时睡觉。

31. No matter what changes occur, do not disrupt the original rhythm of life. Eat and sleep on time.

32. 站在顶峰，有多少人仰望你；落在谷底，就有多少人贬低你；利益吸引，有多少人追随你；好处断尽，就有多少人抛弃你。

32. At the peak, how many look up to you; at the bottom of the valley, how many belittle you; when benefits attract, how many follow you; when benefits are exhausted, how many abandon you.

33. 做任何决策时，选择做对的事是最棒的，选择做错的事是第二棒的，选择"什么都不做"是最糟的。

33. The best choice when making any decision is to choose the right thing to do, the second-best choice is to choose the wrong thing to do, and the worst choice is to choose to do nothing.

34. 想改变一个缺点，必须承受极大痛苦。人类本身才会改变，那么你应该在更大痛苦来临前，就主动干预！避免和预防灾难发生，分清优柔寡断在什么时候不能出现，就像一个人懂得维持大局一样，学会理性的看待自己，用客观者的角度去看自己犯的错，你就会明白，明白了。痛了，你才会改变！

34. To change a flaw, one must endure great pain. It is only when humans themselves change that change can occur. So, you should take proactive measures before greater pain arrives! Avoid and prevent disasters from happening, distinguish when indecision should not appear, just like one who knows how to maintain the overall situation. Learn to view yourself rationally, observe your mistakes from an objective perspective, and you will understand, you will understand. Pain is what will make you change!

35. 人到了晚上都是感性的动物，会想很多事，而且多半是痛苦的，这种情绪控制不住，轻轻一碰就痛。

35. At night, all people are emotional creatures, prone to thinking about many things, mostly painful, which they cannot control. Even a light touch can cause pain.

36. 人生真正的价值不在人生的舞台上，而在我们今天扮演的角色中。过去的经历再光彩，也是一束凋谢的花朵，今天的生活虽平凡，却是一把充满生命力的种子。心静，才能心安。心浮气躁之人，做人缺乏和善，做事缺乏耐心，势必会让人生陷入僵局。克制浮躁，唯有静心。静心，需要用理智去稀释狂乱的情感，用释放囚禁的过去，用坦然去迎接不可预知的未来。让心静下来，你才能读懂自己、看清未来。

36. The true value of life is not on the stage of life itself, but in the roles we play today. No matter how brilliant the past experiences are, they are just a withered flower. Life today, though ordinary, is a seed filled with vitality. Only when the mind is peaceful can we feel at ease. Those who are restless and impulsive lack gentleness in their character and patience in their actions, and are bound to陷 into a deadlock in life. To conquer restlessness, one must calm the mind. Calming the mind requires using reason to dilute the turbulent emotions, to release the imprisoned past, and to face the unpredictable future with composure. Only when the mind is still can you understand yourself and see the future clearly.