人生如梦，随心所欲，余生平生坦荡自然——感悟人生哲理，从这二十句经典开始。

Life is like a dream, follow one's heart and do as one wishes, throughout my life I have been straightforward and natural — to perceive the philosophy of life, start with these twenty classic sayings.

1. 我们最大的善良莫过于对陌生人礼貌，对家人耐心，对爱人体贴，对旧人不打扰。

1. Our greatest kindness is to be polite to strangers, patient with family, considerate to loved ones, and not disturb the old.

2. 11你劝别人的时候各种激情澎湃，当别人失落不开心的时候你的正能量说来就来。什么所有的烦恼、不愉快都是因为没能让自己睡一个高质量的好觉，什么看淡一切放空自己，什么成熟不计较的鬼话都能信口捻来，怎么轮到了自己就各种哑巴没话说，怎么睡了一觉还是这个样子的自己

2.11 When you劝 others, you are full of passion, and when others are disappointed and unhappy, your positive energy comes forth spontaneously. You say things like all the troubles and unpleasantness are because you haven't managed to have a good night's sleep, or you advocate for letting go of everything and emptying yourself, or you spout the nonsensical ideas of maturity and not being计较. How come when it's your turn, you become silent and have nothing to say, and how come after a night's sleep, you're still the same person?

3. 有些事，我只是假装不知道，其实心里很明了。

3. There are some things, I just pretend not to know, but in fact, I am very clear about them.

4. 16在我难过或者心情特别糟糕的时候我习惯关掉手机关掉网络就自己一个人静静的呆着。

4. When I'm feeling sad or particularly upset, I'm used to turning off my phone and the internet, and then staying alone quietly by myself.

5. 11期望太多，才会失望。少些期望与希望就不会失望。越在乎的人才越容易受伤。看淡一切，自然会潇洒更多。

5. It is expecting too much that leads to disappointment. With less expectation and hope, there will be no disappointment. The more one cares, the more likely they are to get hurt. Take everything lightly, and you will naturally be more carefree.

6. 最好的感情，找一个能够聊得来的伴。各种话题，永远说不完；重复的语言，也不觉得厌倦

6. The best feeling is to find a companion with whom you can have endless conversations; no matter the topic, there's always more to talk about, and the repetition of language never becomes tiresome.

7. 不抱怨，靠自己！因为久了你就会发现，抱怨除了扰乱你和别人的心情，屁用都没有。

7. Don't complain and rely on yourself! Because after a while, you'll realize that complaining does nothing but disrupt your own and others' moods.

8. 11喜欢傍晚的路灯把我拉的又细又长喜欢一个人静静的看人来人往。

8.11 I like the evening streetlights stretching me out thin and long; I enjoy watching the comings and goings of people in solitude.

9. 17只有拥有一颗不老的童心，才能在这喧嚣的红尘觅得一方净土，用来安放灵魂。

9. Only with a childlike heart that never ages can one find a piece of pure land amidst the bustling world, to place one's soul in.

10. 7生命的意义，就在于经得起沧桑，担得起辛苦。每一步前进都谨慎小心，检查内心的意志，鼓励自我的信心，开口谅人，动念恕事，那些给自己的狭隘找的每一个理由，都会让生命透支，人生就是把自己的心量活开，活成宽阔的能量，如果心窄，去哪里存放生命的意义。

10. The meaning of life lies in enduring vicissitudes and bearing hardship. Every step forward is taken with caution and care, checking one's inner will, encouraging self-confidence, speaking forgivingly, and having forgiving thoughts about events. Every excuse one finds for their own narrowness will exhaust life. Life is about opening one's heart, living it as a broad and expansive energy. If the heart is narrow, where can one store the meaning of life?

11. 1不要为明天忧虑，因为明天自有明天的忧虑；一天的难处，一天担当就够了。

11. 1 Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will have its own worries. One day's trouble is enough for a day's burden.

12. 你淡定是因为你不怕死，我比你淡定是因为我不怕你死。

12. You are calm because you are not afraid of death, and I am calmer than you because I am not afraid of you dying.

13. 生活并不复杂，复杂的是我们人自己。生活是单纯的，单纯的才是正确的。

13. Life itself is not complicated; it is us, humans, who are. Life is simple, and simplicity is what is correct.

14. 14几十载的风雨人生，看惯了春花秋月，日出日落;看透了世态人心，冷暖人生;看淡了滚滚红尘，名利纷争。

14. Over several decades of life through storms and trials, I have become accustomed to the beauty of spring flowers and autumn moons, the rising and setting of the sun; I have seen through the ways of the world and the hearts of men, the cold and warmth of life; I have grown indifferent to the bustling dust of the world and the struggles for fame and fortune.

15. 不要以为你放不下的人同样会放不下你，鱼没有水会死，水没有鱼却会更清澈，谁不虚伪，谁不善变，到最后谁都不是谁的谁，又何必高估了自己，把一些人，一些事看得那那么重要。

15. Don't assume that the person you can't let go of will feel the same way about you. Fish can't live without water, but water becomes clearer without fish. Who isn't a little bit false, who isn't a bit changeable? In the end, no one is anyone's anything. So why overestimate yourself and consider some people and things as so important?

16. 与好朋友相处也要有个度，不要什么样的事情都大包大揽。

16. Even with good friends, there should be a limit; don't take on everything and anything.

17. 15有一颗超脱心，你会更淡然；有一颗质朴心，你会更纯粹；有一颗自知心，你会更清醒。

17. With a transcendental heart, you will be more serene; with a simple heart, you will be more pure; with a self-aware heart, you will be more清醒.

18. 不要在第三者面前批评他人，更不要在背后说他人坏话。聪明的人是不会放松自我的，他们通过勤奋学习，使自己充满智慧。

18. Do not criticize others in the presence of a third party, let alone speak ill of them behind their backs. Wise people never relax their standards of themselves; they enrich themselves with wisdom through diligent study.

19. 3遇到心情烦躁的时候，学会让自己安静，把思维沉浸下来，渐渐减少对事物的欲望；学会让自我常常归零，把每一天都当作是新的起点。喝一杯清茶，放一曲舒缓柔和的音乐。停一停追逐的脚步，缓一缓紧绷的心弦。每天给自己一点时间沉淀，让心宁静，让伤口复原，让灵魂升华。心静，是一种休息，也是一种修行。

19. When you are in a state of irritability, learn to calm yourself down, immerse your thoughts, and gradually reduce your desires for things. Learn to often reset yourself, treating each day as a new starting point. Drink a cup of pure tea, play some soothing and gentle music. Stop and slow down the pace of chasing, and relax the tense strings of your heart. Give yourself some time each day to沉淀, let your heart be peaceful, let your wounds heal, and let your soul elevate. A tranquil heart is both a form of rest and a form of cultivation.

20. 世人多半寂寞，这世界上愿意倾听，愿意分担的人难得几个。

20. Most people in the world are lonely, and it is rare to find a few who are willing to listen and share the burden.

21. 15人生最大的修养是包容。它既不是懦弱也不是忍让，而是察人之难，补人之短，扬人之长，谅人之过，而不会嫉人之才，鄙人之能，讽人之缺，责人之误。包容是肯定自己也承认他人，是一种善待生活，善待别人的境界。在包容的背后，蕴含的是爱心和坚强，是挺直的脊梁，是博大的胸怀。

21. The greatest cultivation in life is tolerance. It is neither weakness nor yielding, but rather recognizing the difficulties of others, filling in their shortcomings, highlighting their strengths, forgiving their mistakes, and not envying others' talents, belittling their abilities, mocking their deficiencies, or blaming their mistakes. Tolerance is about affirming oneself and acknowledging others, it is a state of treating life and others kindly. Behind tolerance lies love and strength, an upright spine, and a vast bosom.

22. 5也许许多人认为，岁月已经带给命运太多的风霜，却没有留出风干记忆的空隙。故事向前，只是一幕幕转换，看到的也只有人比黄花瘦，零落唤不回，悲哀只在于，伊人不能看穿。有时候，累与不累，只隔了一扇门，推开淡忘的门，繁星满天，新月一弯。

22. 5 Perhaps many people believe that the years have brought too much hardship to fate, leaving no room for memories to dry. The story moves forward, just a series of transitions, and all that can be seen is that people grow thinner than withered chrysanthemums, scattered and irretrievable. The sadness lies in the fact that the beloved cannot be seen through. Sometimes, the difference between being tired and not tired is just a door away; by opening the door to forgetfulness, the stars are countless, and the crescent moon is bright.

23. 常以为别人在注意你，或希望别人注意你的人，会生活的比较烦恼。

23. Those who often think others are paying attention to them, or those who wish others to pay attention to them, tend to live with more烦恼 (troubles).

24. 宠辱不惊，看庭前花开花落；去留无意，望天上云卷云舒。

24. Unperturbed by fame and shame, I watch the flowers bloom and wither before my courtyard; Unmindful of coming and going, I gaze at the clouds rolling in and out in the sky.

25. 无话可说的时候就别说话，在你不知如何回答别人的话的时候就保持沉默，这是生活中一个很好的策略。

25. When there's nothing to say, don't speak; when you don't know how to respond to someone's words, maintain silence. This is a very good strategy in life.

26. 3如果有来生，要做一棵树，站成永恒，没有悲欢的姿势。一半在土里安详，一半在风里飞扬，一半洒落阴凉，一半沐浴阳光，非常沉默、非常骄傲，从不依靠、从不寻找。

26.3 If there is a next life, I want to be a tree, standing eternally, without the posture of joy and sorrow. Half in the earth in tranquility, half in the wind soaring, half shedding shade, half basking in sunlight, very silent, very proud, never depending, never seeking.

27. 5人生路上，有些事，尽力不成，无奈，只好走开;有些人，苦等不来，无缘，只好离开;有些情，苦恋不明，无果，只好割舍。盼不来的，只能放弃;留不住的，只能终止。有些人与事，是你必须要路过的驿站，好坏、成败、聚散、爱恨，都无所谓，它只是帮你尝遍人生百味，看淡世事冷暖。

27. On the journey of life, there are some things that you cannot achieve with all your efforts, so you have no choice but to move on; there are some people who you cannot wait for, with no connection, so you have to leave; there are some feelings that you cannot understand through your sufferings, with no result, so you have to let go. The things you cannot wait for can only be abandoned; the things you cannot keep can only be terminated. Some people and things are stations that you have to pass through in life, whether they are good or bad, success or failure, gathering or separation, love or hate, it doesn't matter. They are just there to help you taste all the flavors of life and to become indifferent to the changes of the world.

28. 言我朝往而暮来兮，饮食乐而忘人。心慊移而不省故兮，交得意而相亲。司马相如《长门赋》

28. "As I travel in the morning and return in the evening, I enjoy food and drink and forget all about others. My heart is satisfied and I forget the past, and I make friends and become close." — From Sima Xiangru's "Changmen Fu"

29. 10我一路向北，离开有你的季节，你说你好累，已无法再爱上谁。

29. 10 I've been traveling north, leaving behind the season with you. You said you were too tired to fall in love with anyone anymore.

30. 人要懂得感恩，心态好，就什么都好，知足而又努力，常乐。

30. People should be grateful, maintain a good attitude, and then everything will be fine. Be content yet strive hard, and always be happy.

31. 别对于某件事情抱有太大的希望，当失望降临的时候你会跌得很惨，而让自己无法接受，所以，一切顺其自然。

31. Don't hold too much hope for something, because when disappointment comes, you will fall very hard and may not be able to accept it. So, let everything be as it may.

32. 18幸福是人生存在的根本真谛，那么善意和宽恕，才是缔造幸福的真正基础，生命的进程就是一次又一次地突破我执和束缚、焦虑和怀疑，让那些对生命的信念在心情灰暗的时候能够真正的起到作用。心平气和，智慧笃定，回归天真，活在当下。

32. 18 Happiness is the fundamental truth of human existence. Therefore, kindness and forgiveness are the true foundations for creating happiness. The journey of life is a continuous process of breaking through ego and constraints, anxiety and doubt, so that the beliefs in life can truly take effect when the mood is dark. Keep calm and composed, be wise and steadfast, return to innocence, and live in the present.

33. 2忘不掉的是回忆，继续的是生活，错过的，就当是路过。

33.2 What can't be forgotten are the memories, what continues is life, and what is missed can be considered as a passing by.

34. 1人生的道路是漫长的，如果你只会一味的感伤失去，那么你将一无所有，只有有能力去享受失去的“乐趣”的人，才能真正品尝到人生的幸福。让自己承受失去的东西，也许你会感到很痛苦，那也要自己去承受，别人是代替不了你的。伤和痛是有的，这就证明你已经长大了，成熟了。失去的时候，你可以哭，可以发泄，可以找朋友倾诉……过后，你的世界就会充满了阳光。

34.1 Life's journey is long, and if you can only lament the loss, then you will have nothing. Only those who have the ability to enjoy the "pleasure" of loss can truly taste the happiness of life. Allow yourself to bear the loss, and though it may be painful, you must bear it yourself; no one can replace you. There will be injuries and pain, which proves that you have grown up and matured. When you lose something, you can cry, vent, and confide in friends... Afterward, your world will be filled with sunlight.

35. 3淡静若水，静默如花，浅浅绽放，独自妖娆。

35. 3 Gentle as water, silent as flowers, softly blooming, charmingly alone.

36. 得不到的事物别惦记，负能量的事物要远离，人生本就不差风雨，就别再为己徒增伤悲。

36. Don't hold onto things you can't get, and keep away from negative things. Life itself is not lacking in storms and rain, so don't add more sorrow to yourself.

37. 可能生活，有太多无能为力和无可奈何，可总归还是要努力一点，开心一点，想得开一点。

37. Life may be filled with too many things beyond our control and against which we can do nothing, but in the end, we should still try a little harder, be a bit happier, and have a more open mind.

38. 1人生的起起落落，都是成长的经验;生命的意义是为了服务，生活的价值是为了奉献;人品等于财富，奉献等于积蓄。有些人与事，是你必须要路过的驿站，好坏、成败聚散、爱恨，都无所谓，它只帮你尝遍人生百味，阅尽世间百态，看淡世事冷暖。

38.1 The ups and downs in life are all experiences of growth; the meaning of life is to serve, and the value of life is to contribute. Character is equal to wealth, and contribution is equal to accumulation. Some people and things are stations you must pass through; good or bad, success or failure, coming and going, love or hate, it doesn't matter. It only helps you taste the myriad flavors of life and see the myriad aspects of the world, and become indifferent to the cold and warmth of worldly matters.

39. 人不断地追求，无常做常想，终竟如幻如化的岁月催人释然，放下一切欲望。

39. People constantly pursue, thinking of the impermanent as permanent, and eventually, like a dreamlike and transforming era, it prompts people to let go of all desires.

40. 2人生一场，输了什么，不能输了心情。心情不是人生的全部，却能左右人生的质量。心情好，什么都好，心情不好，一切都会杂乱无章。我们常常不是输给了别人，而是让坏心情贬低了我们的形象，降低了我们的能力，扰乱了我们的思绪，暗淡了人生的方向！

40.2 In this life, no matter what you lose, you must not lose your mood. While mood is not everything in life, it can greatly influence the quality of life. A good mood makes everything seem right, but a bad mood can turn everything into chaos. Often, we are not defeated by others, but by our bad mood, which degrades our image, reduces our abilities, disrupts our thoughts, and dims the direction of our life!

41. 洒脱的人不是没有泪,他只是在没有人的地方哭

41. A carefree person is not without tears; he just cries in places where there is no one.

42. 世上并没有用来鼓励工作发奋的赏赐，所有的赏赐都只是被用来奖励工作成果的。

42. There is no reward in the world meant to encourage diligence and effort; all rewards are merely used to acknowledge the achievements of work.

43. 有些事，不是不在意，而是在意了又能怎样。人生没有如果，只有后果和结果。成熟，就是用微笑来面对一切小事。

43. There are some things, not that we don't care, but what can we do even if we do care. Life has no 'what if's', only consequences and outcomes. Maturity is about facing all little things with a smile.

44. 人活着，其实就是一种心态，你若觉得快乐，幸福无处不在；你为自己悲鸣，世界必将灰暗。

44. To be alive is essentially a state of mind. If you feel happy, happiness is everywhere; but if you lament for yourself, the world will become dark.

45. 14命运总是给热爱生活的人更多的考验，而坚强是无论多少次挫折磨砺，总能于每一次历练后迎风而立，给自己时间，不急于事功，一点一点来，一点一滴积累，请相信生命从来就越经受挫折越具有韧性，请相信这世界功不唐捐，相信自己还能不断向前，人生的幸福总是在风风雨雨中才更懂得珍惜。

45. 14 Fate always brings more trials to those who love life, and strength lies in the fact that no matter how many times one is frustrated, one can stand firm in the wind after each experience. Give yourself time, do not rush for success, take it step by step, accumulate bit by bit. Believe that life becomes more resilient with every挫折 it endures. Believe that in this world, effort is never wasted. Believe in your ability to continue moving forward, and understand that the happiness in life is truly cherished only in the midst of storms and trials.

46. 17人生的沉重，也就在于自己把持那些不能理解的复杂而抓紧不放，也就和幸福形成了遥远的距离，生活需要放下，需要给自己一个人格化的宽恕，理解、包容、善待、平静。生活里许多事情，不是担心，而是放心。

46. The weight of life also lies in one's own firm grasp of those complex things that cannot be understood, which also distances happiness. Life requires letting go, and requires giving oneself a personified forgiveness, understanding, tolerance, kindness, and peace. Many things in life are not to worry about, but to trust and be at ease.

47. 人一辈子，你得信这一条：留得住的不需用力，留不住的不需费力。来去随缘，强求不得。

47. Throughout your life, you must believe in this one principle: What you can keep does not require effort, and what you cannot keep does not require struggle. Come and go with the flow, do not force it.

48. 10人生路短暂，却拥有许多的追逐，许多的计算，甚至是许多的抱怨，生活的泪，许多时候无关这纷繁的世界，而在于自己的内心，预设了种种的障碍，让自己的生活疲惫不堪，和幸福的距离就成了一步之遥。

48. Life's journey is short, yet it is filled with many pursuits, many calculations, and even many complaints. The tears of life are often not related to the complexities of the world, but rather lie within one's own heart. We set up various obstacles, making our lives weary, and the distance to happiness becomes just a step away.

49. 神不贪,为何容不得一点对其不敬神不恶,为何要将地上千万生灵的命运,握在手中我终不能改变那个开始,何不忘了那个结局呢。

49. If God is not greedy, why can He not tolerate the slightest disrespect? Why does He hold the fate of millions of beings on Earth in His hands? I can't change that beginning, so why not forget about that ending?

50. 16一切皆看淡，万事要随缘，生死是自然;情来拿得起，缘去放得下。

50. 16 Take everything lightly, embrace all things with serendipity, life and death are natural; when love comes, be able to hold it, and when the opportunity fades, be able to let it go.

51. 琐琐碎碎，更是不必放在心上，生活是活自己内心的春暖花开，牵挂那么多干什么。

51. Trifles and trivialities are even more unnecessary to worry about; life is about nurturing the springtime blooming within one's own heart. Why worry about so many attachments?

52. 13越长大越明白，人生有时真的需要等，该来的让它来，该走得让它走，不强求，也不强留，看不开的总有一天会看开，得不到的总有一天会以另一种方式给你，不着急，也不抱怨，就看时间会给我们什么样的答案，或许答案也并不重要，看淡了就没什么是最重要的了，哪怕人忘齿寒。

52. The older I get, the more I realize that sometimes in life, it's really necessary to wait. Let what should come come, and let what should go go; don't force or cling. Those who can't see clearly now will eventually see, and what you can't get now will eventually be given to you in another way. Don't rush or complain; just wait to see what kind of answers time will give us. Perhaps the answers are not that important either. When you're indifferent, nothing is the most important, even if people forget the cold of winter.

53. 19谁言别后终无悔，寒月清宵绮梦回。深知身在情长在，前尘不共彩云飞。

53. Who says there is no regret after parting, when the cold moon shines in the silent night and the beautiful dreams return. I know that as long as there is love, my body is here, and the past does not fly away with the colorful clouds.

54. 易怒的人都很敏感，敏感的人都很好强，好强的人都很固执，固执的人都很单纯，单纯的人都很天真，天真的人都缺心眼，这才是真相。

54. People who are easily angry are usually sensitive, sensitive people are often ambitious, ambitious people are very stubborn, stubborn people are very simple, simple people are very naive, naive people lack common sense; this is the truth.

55. 一片叶，落在哪里都是归宿。一朵花，开在哪里都是芳香。一个人，走到哪里都是生命。一颗心，想到哪里都是情愫。佛说：随缘放下，心安是家。

55. A leaf, wherever it falls, is a place of rest. A flower, wherever it blooms, is filled with fragrance. A person, wherever they go, is alive. A heart, wherever it thinks, is filled with affection. The Buddha said: Let go with the flow, and peace in the heart is home.

56. 6每个人的人生不可能都是事事如意、一帆风顺，只要怀着一颗感恩、心宽的才能看淡一切，经历过了，也就懂得了，经历过了，也就长大了，经历过了，也就进步了。

56. 6 It is impossible for everyone's life to be smooth sailing and trouble-free. Only by holding a grateful and open-minded heart can one take everything lightly. After experiencing, one learns, grows, and progresses.

57. 7长的是人生，短的是旅游。尝边了人生百味，看淡了世间冷暖。却行却珍重。

57. Life is long, and travel is short. Having tasted the myriad flavors of life, one becomes indifferent to the fluctuations of the world's warmth and cold. Nevertheless, one should always travel with care and trepidation.

58. 若我们拥有了超然物外的至高境界，纵然繁华都落尽，纵然一切成烟云，我们的心中一定仍有花开的声音和美丽的原风景。

58. If we have reached the supreme realm of being above worldly concerns, even as all the hustle and bustle fades away, even as everything turns into mist and clouds, there will always be the sound of blooming flowers in our hearts and the beautiful original scenery.

59. 日子可以每天都过得一样，也可以每天都过得不一样，重要的是我们的心，心决定了我们每天的情况。

59. Days can be the same every day or different every day; what matters is our heart, for it determines our situation every day.