岁月静好，心境如水。面对人间烟火，我选择静观自在，余生的每一刻，都愿悠然自得。

Years pass quietly, and the mind is as calm as water. In the face of the bustling world, I choose to observe calmly and freely. I wish for every moment of the remainder of my life to be spent at ease.

1. 不需要有谁能够看穿我的笑容，因为我知道，那里面藏着一个真实的自己

1. No one needs to see through my smile, because I know that it hides a true self within.

2. 不管是哪一种收入比例的家庭都有失败的例子，可见失败的原因不在于谁的钱多，谁的钱少，而在于爱情的质量。

2. There are examples of failure in families with any income ratio, indicating that the cause of failure does not lie in who has more money or who has less, but in the quality of love.

3. 天空下起了雨，我的心情开始瞬间窒息，为什么这次你还是选择逃离？

3. Under the sky, it started to rain, and my heart began to feel suffocated instantly. Why did you still choose to run away this time?

4. 如果爱上你也算是一种错，我深信这会是生命中最美丽的错，我情愿错一辈子

4. If loving you is considered a mistake, I firmly believe it will be the most beautiful mistake in life, and I would rather be wrong for a lifetime.

5. 生活并不完全是你看到的样子，很多大事情你经历了却并不知道。如果你知道了这些，你大概就不会对现在的得与失太在意了。没错，每个人都不是步步摔跟头的倒霉蛋，更没有人是一帆风顺的命运的宠儿。看淡那些事情，平静而踏实地经历生活的起落，相信你会生活得更好。

5. Life is not always as it appears to you, and there are many big things that you experience but are unaware of. If you knew these things, you might not be so concerned about the gains and losses of the present. That's right, no one is a倒霉蛋 who stumbles at every step, nor is anyone a favored child of destiny who always has it easy. Take things lightly, calmly and solidly experience the ups and downs of life, and you will believe that you will live better.

6. 恨他,怨他,不恨也不怨了还给了自己自由丽丽的那片海会五彩斑斓。

6. Hating him, blaming him, and then not hating or blaming him anymore gave her the freedom. Lili's sea would be resplendent with vibrant colors.

7. 人生有各种各样的活法，有的人本来很幸福，看起来却很烦恼；有的人本来该烦恼，看起来却很幸福。这是因为，活得清醒的人，看得太真切，一较真儿，生活中便烦恼遍地；而活得糊涂的人，计较得少，虽然活得简单粗糙，却因此觅得了人生的大境界。

7. There are various ways to live in life. Some people are originally very happy but look very troubled; others should be troubled but look very happy. This is because those who live with clarity see things too clearly, and once they take things seriously,烦恼 are scattered all over life; while those who live in a foggy manner, caring less, although their life is simple and rough, have thus found the great realm of life.

8. 不是逆来顺受，而是心甘情愿，淡然的心态，是人生的成熟。我们要记住：面对，不一定最难过；孤独，不一定不快乐；得到，不一定能长久。珍惜拥有，用心生活，坦然无悔，超越自己，和生命一起精彩。

8. It is not about accepting adversity passively, but rather about a willing, indifferent attitude, which is the maturity of life. We should remember: facing something doesn't necessarily mean the hardest part; solitude doesn't necessarily mean it's not joyful; and obtaining something doesn't necessarily mean it will last forever. Cherish what you have, live with dedication, be at ease without regret, transcend yourself, and live a wonderful life with the passage of time.

9. 被爱与爱人何者幸福只有付出真爱的人，才能拥有真正的幸福。

9. The happiness of being loved or loving whom is determined only by those who give genuine love, who can truly possess happiness.

10. 如果有一天，你不会出现，华丽页面不会再留恋

10. If one day you're not around, the splendid pages will no longer linger.

11. 我会等你回到我身边，不管多久我都愿意等，等到我生命的最后。

11. I will wait for you to come back to me, no matter how long it takes, I am willing to wait until the last moment of my life.

12. 享受每一次挑战，你会因此变得更优秀。最幸福的事，莫过于和相爱的人，制造一些比春天还温暖的记忆。不喜欢勾心斗角，不喜欢被算计，不喜欢假假的友情。我喜欢简单的人，简单的事。回忆是一种很奇妙的东西，它生活在过去，存在于现在，却能影响未来。

12. Enjoy every challenge, as it will make you better. The happiest thing is to create memories that are warmer than spring with the person you love. I don't like scheming, being deceived, or fake friendships. I prefer simple people and simple things. Memories are a very fascinating thing; they live in the past, exist in the present, and can influence the future.

13. 把日子过成诗，简单而精致。学会宽容，让你的生活没有烦恼；人生就是一场无止境的漂泊。面对生活中那些触不及防的意外、突如其来的伤痛、从天而降的灾难，相信，只要有爱，就有足够的勇气去承受人生中所有的风雨，一切会变得轻松而释然。

13. Live each day as a poem, simple yet exquisite. Learn to be宽容, let your life be free from烦恼; life is an endless journey. In the face of unexpected surprises in life, sudden pains, and sudden disasters that fall from the sky, believe that as long as there is love, there is enough courage to bear all the storms in life, and everything will become light and carefree.

14. 有欲而不执著于欲，有求而不拘泥于求。一个人，活得越平和，就会放下得越多。人平和之后，在生命外在状态上的具体体现是，笃定，泰然，从容，六根清净，万事不扰。平和的人，放得下，看得开，想得明白，过得洒脱。一个人，若思想通透了，行事就会通达，内心就会通泰。

14. Having desires but not being obsessed with them, seeking but not being confined to seeking. The more peaceful a person lives, the more they let go. After achieving inner peace, the specific manifestation in the external state of life is certainty, composure, ease, purity of the six senses, and undisturbed by all things. Peaceful people are capable of letting go, seeing things clearly, understanding clearly, and living freely. If a person has a clear mind, their actions will be smooth, and their inner state will be peaceful and serene.

15. 没有做完的梦最痛，没有说出口的表白最有遗憾

15. The most painful are the dreams left unfinished, and the most regretful are the declarations never spoken.

16. 谁把谁的明媚尽收眼底，谁把谁的难过感同身受

16. Who captures whose brilliant brightness with their eyes, who feels whose sadness as if it were their own.

17. 回忆是我最大的敌人，因为它藏着你对我的温柔

17. Memory is my greatest enemy, for it hides your tenderness towards me.

18. 孤独的伤口，好想有你来抚摩。。但我去不敢开口。

18. The lonely wound, so much do I wish for you to caress... But I dare not open my mouth.

19. 凡事不必太较真，糊涂做人最快活。人生的历程，就是欲壑渐少，追逐递减；命运的深层次意义，就是要学会放弃和等待，放弃一切喧嚣浮华，等待灵魂慢慢地安静。

19. It's not necessary to be too serious about everything; living in a state of confusion is the fastest way to happiness. The journey of life is about gradually reducing desires and chasing; the profound meaning of fate is to learn to let go and wait, to abandon all the hustle and bustle, and to wait for the soul to slowly calm down.

20. 爱情很慢很慢，时间很快很快。寂寞很长很长，人生很短很短。你在很深很深的孤独里，等待着很笨很笨的我。

20. Love is slow and slow, time is fast and fast. Loneliness is long and long, life is short and short. In the deepest and deepest loneliness, you are waiting for the very clumsy me.

21. 昨日渐多，明日愈少，今日还在，不要为成功而努力，要为做一个有价值的人而努力。人生道路上充满了坎坷，谁也不可能一帆风顺。只有在最困难的时刻，才能体会到无助的含义。坚持走自己的路，不要在乎别人怎么说。无论什么时候，我始终怀有一颗感恩的心面对一切。

21. Yesterday was more, tomorrow will be less, today is still here; don't strive for success, but strive to be a valuable person. Life's journey is filled with hardships, and no one can sail smoothly without a single challenge. It is only in the most difficult moments that one can truly understand the meaning of helplessness. Persist in walking your own path, and don't care what others say. At any time, I always carry a grateful heart towards everything.

22. 修得平常心，笑看世间事。人生不过山一程水一程的际遇，行走在阡陌红尘中，遇见，错过，悲欢，离合，而后堆砌出纷繁复杂的世界。我们不过是沉浮其间的沧海一粟，跌跌撞撞地重复着一场又一场的阴差阳错。

22. Cultivate a calm mind and laugh at the world's affairs. Life is just a series of encounters with mountains and rivers, wandering through the dusty paths of the world, encountering, missing, experiencing joy and sorrow, and separation, which then builds a world full of complexity. We are just a tiny grain of sand in the vast ocean, bumping and colliding, repeating one mishap after another.

23. 着实灯红酒绿也只不过是和忘记开的一个玩笑，当你以为自己已忘记一个人的时间，你才会发现这比记得她的时间更加痛楚

23. The glitz and glamour are merely a joke that's been forgotten, and it's only when you think you've forgotten someone that you realize it's more painful than remembering her.

24. 我喜欢简简单单的格调，就如同我的人一样，简简单单

24. I like a simple style, just like me, simple and straightforward.

25. 容忍你的一切 。只因我喜欢你

25. Tolerate everything about you. Just because I like you.

26. 谁卑微了承诺，谁没收了谁的以后，还没学会看透

26. Who belittled the promise, who snatched away whose future, and hasn't yet learned to see through the truth?

27. 不要用温柔的呼唤使我着迷，不要用婷婷的倩影使我心动，不要用含情的目光使我受尽苦刑。

27. Do not enchant me with gentle calls, do not make my heart ache with your graceful silhouette, and do not subject me to tortures with your affectionate gaze.

28. 原以为可以随便说说忘记一切， 原来一切都是那么重要

28. I thought I could just talk and forget everything, but it turns out that everything is so important.

29. 人生，看透不如看淡。不要刻意的模仿别人，做为这个世界上的匆匆行者，每一段人生，都赋予我们对生命的不同理解，也许我们走的并不完美，但也在努力绽放，也许会有迷失，但不要抱怨，没有路可以重走，没有人可以重来。

29. Life, it's better to take it lightly than to see through it. Don't deliberately imitate others. As transient travelers in this world, each stage of life bestows a different understanding of life upon us. Perhaps our path is not perfect, but we are striving to bloom. Perhaps there will be moments of confusion, but do not complain. There is no way to walk the same path again, and no one can relive it.

30. 人生在世，行路匆匆，善待生活，曾经拥有的不要忘记；已经得到的更加珍惜。每个人都在探索命运的意义，幸福的生活，是把幸福当做一种行为，能把所有的烦恼都看成无所谓，是人生的权利，也是义务。

30. In the fleeting journey of life, be kind to life, never forget what you once had; cherish what you have even more. Everyone is exploring the meaning of destiny. Happy living is treating happiness as an action, being able to view all烦恼 as trivial, which is both a right and an obligation in life.

31. 守住的，是仓皇而班驳的灾难，是用整个生命也敌不过的假象

31. What is held on to is a hasty and patchy disaster, an illusion that one cannot overcome with all one's life.

32. 我们所说过的永远、最终成为他们口中的笑话。

32. What we once said of forever has ultimately become the joke in their mouths.

33. 人生不过几十年，似水一样流淌。与其羡慕别人，不如做好自己。智者时刻都在劝诫，不要让心灵荒芜。心灵荒芜了，或是流沙蔓延，或是荒草丛生。眼睛也跟着心一块儿衰老了。

33. Life spans only a few decades, flowing like water. It's better to do oneself rather than envy others. The wise are constantly advising, not to let the soul become barren. If the soul becomes barren, it might be filled with flowing sand or overgrown with wild grass. The eyes also age along with the heart.

34. 人生不能靠心情活着，而要靠心态去生活。心态不好，说穿了，就是心太小了。 心态的“态”字，拆解开来，就是心大一点。任何事情，总有答案，与其烦恼，不如学会接受。人生本来一场空，有无之间的更替便是人生，得失之后的心态决定苦乐。缘来不拒，境去不留，看淡了得失，才有闲心品尝幸福。

34. Life cannot be lived solely by one's mood, but by one's mindset. A poor mindset, at its core, is simply a narrow heart. The character "态" in mindset, when broken down, signifies a bigger heart. There are always answers to any matter; it's better to learn to accept than to be troubled. Life itself is but an emptiness; the alternation between having and not having is what life is about. The mindset after gaining or losing determines one's joy or sorrow. Embrace the coming without refusal, let go of the departing without lingering, and only by taking a light-hearted attitude towards gains and losses can one have the leisure to savor happiness.

35. 编后语：有些人永远不会被遗忘，有些人永远只是代替品。人生艰难，但是如果你有笑对人生的能力，你就有享受人生的能力。我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容。我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。

35. Postscript: Some people are never forgotten, while others are mere substitutes. Life is tough, but if you have the ability to laugh at life, you also have the ability to enjoy it. We once so eagerly desired the vicissitudes of fate, only to find out in the end: The most charming scenery in life is actually the calmness and composure of the heart. We once so much longed for recognition from others, only to realize in the end: The world is your own, having nothing to do with others.

36. 我宁愿就这样一直安睡下去，永远都不要醒过来

36. I would rather keep sleeping like this forever and never wake up.

37. 错过的，都是想要的。没有错过的，都是可以安静接受的

37. What is missed is what is desired. What is not missed can be calmly accepted.

38. 嘴上的关心，就不曾实践过，也是你给的空头支票

38. Concerns only said on the lips, never put into practice, these are empty checks you've given.

39. 曾经以为我们会爱很久很久，世界末日也不分离

39. Once thought we would love each other for a long, long time, not parting even at the end of the world.

40. 你一直说自己非常忙碌，就永远不会得到空间；当你一直说自己没有时间，就永远不会得到时间；当你一直说这件事明天再做，你的明天就永远不会来！平衡是一种美好的境界。生态平衡了，就会风调雨顺；营养平衡了，身体健康就能得到保障；而劳逸的平衡，使人精力充沛。

40. You always say you are extremely busy, and you will never find any space; if you keep saying you have no time, you will never get any time; if you keep saying you'll do this tomorrow, your tomorrow will never come! Balance is a beautiful state. When ecological balance is achieved, the weather will be favorable; when nutrition is balanced, your health can be guaranteed; and when work and rest are balanced, people will have abundant energy.

41. 我总是不懂你的表情，就连你在微笑，我都会感到很难过。

41. I always can't understand your expression, even when you are smiling, I will feel very sad.

42. 脉脉之情如一溪春水。快刀难斩断。无论我怎样的努力，始终无法将那个嘴角含笑的倩影从我心中赶出去。

42. The tender feelings are like a spring stream, difficult to cut with a swift knife. No matter how hard I try, I can never drive that graceful figure with a smiling mouth out of my heart.

43. 人生就像饺子，岁月是皮，经历是馅。学会选择和放弃，懂得舍得大智慧。一个人一生不可能不犯错误，不走弯路，但经常反思自己，反思自己所走过的道路，反思人生的得与失，这是很有必要的。

43. Life is like a dumpling, years are the wrapper, and experiences are the filling. Learn to choose and let go, and understand the great wisdom of letting go. One cannot avoid making mistakes or taking detours in life, but it is very necessary to often reflect on oneself, reflect on the path one has walked, and reflect on the gains and losses in life.

44. 不知什么时候、我渐渐喜欢上了、自己一个人。想想、好像是你狠心离开我之后吧。

44. I don't know when, but I gradually started to like being alone. It seems like it was after you left me cruelly.

45. 别等我习惯了没有你、你才回头假惺惺地说对不起。

45. Don't wait until I get used to not having you, then turn back and feign regret by saying sorry.

46. 那些上演着繁华不肯谢幕的年华里开出一朵地老天荒的花

46. In those years full of splendor that refuse to close the curtain, a flower blooms that will last forever.

47. 只有珍惜幸福快乐的感觉，与自己快乐相处的人，才能远离痛苦与烦恼，才能拥有快乐的人生。从从容容，简简单单，实实在在，亦是美好的人生。人生没有往返的车票，该轰轰烈烈就轰轰烈烈，该平平淡淡就平平淡淡；喝茶也好，品出真味就好。

47. Only those who cherish the feeling of happiness and can live in harmony with themselves can distance themselves from pain and distress, and can have a happy life. To live calmly, simply, and sincerely is also a beautiful life. There are no round-trip tickets in life; it should be vibrant when it should be vibrant, and tranquil when it should be tranquil; whether it's drinking tea, the essence is to savor the true taste.

48. 人情世故，总是那么复杂，人的一生一半就在犯贱，还有一半就在娱乐

48. Human relationships and social situations are always so complex. Half of a person's life is spent in self-abasement, and the other half in entertainment.

49. 在社会上呆久了，突然觉得原来在学校里面的日子过着很开心

49. Having been in society for a while, I suddenly realize that I had a really good time when I was in school.

50. 闭上眼，整个世界都是虚幻的，我又想起了我们的曾经。

50. Closing my eyes, the entire world seems like an illusion, and I am reminded of our past.

51. 人生的路上，我们都在奔跑，我们总在赶超一些人，也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义，一是欣赏沿途的风景，二是抵达遥远的终点；人生的秘诀，寻找一种最适合自己的速度，莫因疾进而不堪重荷，莫因迟缓而空耗生命；人生的快乐，走自己的路，看自己的景，超越他人不得意，他人超越不失志。

51. On the journey of life, we are all running, constantly surpassing some people while being surpassed by others. The essence of life lies in two things: appreciating the scenery along the way and reaching the distant destination; the secret of life is to find a pace that suits oneself best, not to bear the burden of haste, nor to waste life by being too slow; the joy of life is to walk one's own path, to see one's own scenery, to surpass others without being envious, and to maintain one's aspirations when others surpass us.

52. 17人生就是一场修行，在成长的路上，懂得了，有一些习惯我们必须戒掉；走得慢一些，要求的少一些，那么你就不会留下太多的幸福没有捡起，你就不会因为没又捡起而遗憾。总有些看不完的风景，走不完的路，碰不到的人，触不到的梦。

52. Life is a journey of self-cultivation. Along the path of growth, you learn that there are some habits we must give up; if you walk a bit slower and have fewer demands, then you won't leave too much happiness uncollected, and you won't regret not picking it up. There are always landscapes that cannot be seen, roads that cannot be traversed, people that cannot be met, and dreams that cannot be touched.

53. 所谓的执着在某个不经意的时光里被磨损得残破不堪

53. So-called attachments were worn down to a state of ruins in an unexpected moment.

54. 回忆过去，那么美好，离别时的伤痛，我不愿承受

54. Looking back, it was so beautiful, the pain of parting, I do not wish to bear.

55. 只想每天睁开眼就看见你，这就是你给的最好的礼物。

55. Just wanting to open my eyes every day and see you, that is the best gift you have given.

56. 爱谁不爱谁你分清楚，不要让一个与幸福无关的人受伤

56. Be clear about who you love and who you don't, don't let someone who has nothing to do with happiness get hurt.

57. 人生总回不到过去，所以也总认为过去是美好的。然而，人也总是这样，回不去的，得不到的，总是美好的。因此，不应该停留在如初那般美好中，而应该珍惜现在还未开始的美好。

57. Life can never return to the past, which is why people always believe that the past was beautiful. However, humans tend to think that what can't be returned to and what can't be obtained is always beautiful. Therefore, one should not linger in the beauty of the beginning, but should cherish the beauty that has not yet begun.

58. 我很爱你，但为了你的幸福，我愿意放弃一切--包括你

58. I love you very much, but for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything -- including you.

59. 当我真正想要保护一个人的时间，我才会发现原来自己不停被阿那个冷静保卫着。

59. It is only when I truly want to protect someone that I realize I have been constantly guarded by that calmness within myself.

60. 当岁月燃烧我的一切时，不能忘记的是你那一眼的风情；当我合上双眼时，我渴望的仍是你那一眼的风情！

60. When time consumes all that I am, what I cannot forget is the charm in your gaze; when I close my eyes, what I yearn for is still the charm in your gaze!

61. 量有多大，心有多静；心有多静，福有多深。心静不静，和环境无关。最深的宁静，来自最宽广、包容的胸怀。福深福浅，不在于能笑着迎来多少，而在于能看淡多少失去。人生之苦，在得失间。心胸宽广之人，拿得起，放得下，无意于得失，自然坐怀不乱。心静了，才有闲心品味出已有的幸福。

61. The greater the quantity, the greater the tranquility of the heart; the greater the tranquility of the heart, the deeper the blessings. Whether the heart is tranquil or not has nothing to do with the environment. The deepest tranquility comes from the broadest, most inclusive mindset. The depth of blessings is not determined by how much one can welcome with a smile, but by how much one can let go of. The suffering in life lies between gains and losses. A person with a broad mind can take and let go, indifferent to gains and losses, and naturally remain calm in the midst of chaos. When the heart is tranquil, one can then take the leisure to savor the existing happiness.

62. 将生活中点滴往事细细回味，伤心时的泪、开心时的醉，都是因追求而可贵。强大一些，要相信你自己；坚定一些，要相信自己的感觉。生命中有许多东西是可遇不可求。

62. Reflecting on the trivial past moments in life, the tears during sadness and the intoxication during joy are all precious due to the pursuit. Be stronger, believe in yourself; be more resolute, believe in your own feelings. There are many things in life that can be encountered but not necessarily sought after.

63. 人生路简短、无常，过了今天，你是否能保证明天还会像今天一样平安、健康、快乐地过着安定而祥和的生活？过了今年，你是否能确定明年和今年一样工作顺心、合家团圆、事事顺利？如果有人这样问我，我真的无法确切回答，人生有太多变数，而未来能发生的一切都是个未知数。唯有珍惜眼前，才能收获更多。

63. Life's journey is short and unpredictable. Can you guarantee that tomorrow will be as peaceful, healthy, and joyful as today, living a stable and harmonious life? Can you be sure that next year will be as prosperous in work, as family reunions, and as smooth in all matters as this year? If someone asks me like this, I really cannot give a definitive answer. Life is full of uncertainties, and everything that might happen in the future is a mystery. Only by cherishing the present can we reap more.

64. 人生如花，淡者香。花的颜色越浅，香味越浓；颜色越深，香味越淡。做人，侧重于外在美，难免流于俗气；多注重内在美，方显雅致。对人，咄咄逼人必招怨恨，宽宏大量常得人心；对己，心事过重伤人伤己，心态淡然自在优雅。人生，从内到外，保持质朴淡雅的气质，才能悦人悦己。

64. Life is like a flower, the simpler it is, the more fragrant it is. The lighter the color of the flower, the stronger the scent; the darker the color, the weaker the scent. In life, if one focuses too much on external beauty, it is prone to becoming vulgar; only by paying more attention to inner beauty can one truly exude elegance. In dealing with others, being overly aggressive will certainly invite resentment, while being generous and magnanimous often wins people's hearts. In dealing with oneself, overthinking can harm both others and oneself, while a serene and relaxed attitude is elegant. In life, to maintain a simple and elegant demeanor from the inside out is the key to pleasing both others and oneself.

65. 再烦也别忘了微笑，再苦也别忘记坚持，因为知足，所以快乐，因为懂得，所以理解；人生路上的风雨，波折，欢笑，苦涩与眼泪，才真正丰富了生命的蕴意，每个人都有自己生活的方式，每个人都有自己的梦想，愿望，我们每一天都在期盼着，都在寻找着自己的幸福与快乐。

65. No matter how troubled you are, don't forget to smile; no matter how bitter the experience, never forget to persevere, because of contentment, happiness is derived; because of understanding, empathy is fostered. The ups and downs, twists and turns, laughter, bitterness, and tears on the journey of life truly enrich the meaning of life. Everyone has their own way of living, everyone has their own dreams and wishes. Every day, we are looking forward to and seeking our own happiness and joy.

66. 我的单人房还留着双人床，等到你回到我的身旁

66. My single room still has a double bed, waiting for you to come back to my side.

67. 我是应当和星星一起数着你的苦衷，还是应当和你一起数着天上的星星。

67. Should I count your sorrows along with the stars, or should I count the stars in the sky with you?