从模糊中寻求定论，余生活波不惊：19句智慧箴言助你遇事不慌，处事不惊。

Seeking a conclusion from ambiguity, the remainder of my life remains peaceful: 19 wise sayings to help you stay calm in the face of events and composed in handling matters.

1. 学着做自己，放弃那些不属于自己的东西。你的爱情，如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧，有些失去那是注定的，有些缘分是永远不会有结果的。爱一个人不一定会拥有，若是拥有一个人，就好好爱她。

1. Learn to be yourself and let go of things that don't belong to you. If your love is not happy, if it's not joyful, then let it go. Some losses are predetermined, and some relationships will never have a happy ending. Liking someone doesn't necessarily mean you'll have them, but if you do, cherish them well.

2. 一杯咖啡苦不苦，不在于你放没放糖，而在于你用没用心去搅。一段爱情美不美，不在于你是否开始，而在于你是否忘记过去。不要轻易说爱，也许诺言就会成为伤害，但也不要轻易说不爱，也许幸福就被你关在门外。

2. Whether a cup of coffee is bitter or not does not depend on whether you add sugar or not, but on whether you put your heart into stirring it. Whether a love story is beautiful or not does not depend on whether you start it or not, but on whether you can forget the past. Don't easily say "I love you," as promises may turn into injuries, but also don't easily say "I don't love you," as happiness might be kept out of your door.

3. 别那么无耻的怪别人怎么变了，谁他妈的有义务非要等你不可。

3. Don't be so shameless and blame others for changing. Who the hell has the obligation to wait for you?

4. 如果你的心灵足够丰富，即使身处最单调的环境，你仍能自得其乐。如果你的心灵足够高贵，即使遭遇最悲惨的灾难，你仍能自强不息。这是一笔任何外力都夺不走的财富，你可以借之安身立命。人世间的事，残忍却又可笑，精力无穷的时候不知道要做什么，等真正想到的时候又垂垂老矣。

4. If your soul is sufficiently rich, you can still find joy even in the most monotonous environment. If your soul is sufficiently noble, you can still strive to improve yourself even in the face of the most tragic disasters. This is a wealth that no external force can take away, which you can rely on to secure your life and existence. The affairs of the world are both cruel and可笑, when you have endless energy, you don't know what to do, and when you finally think about it, you are already old.

5. 人生在岁月里磨砺，命运没有给谁画什么界限，也没有给谁预设了什么苦难，生活的艺术就是不管经历哪一条街道，相逢什么人，别忘了几分宽恕，几分看淡。

5. Life is tempered by the passage of time, fate has not drawn any boundaries for anyone, nor has it predetermined any suffering for anyone. The art of life is to not forget a little forgiveness and a little indifference, no matter which street you experience or whom you meet.

6. 我们都那么骄傲，等待只能有海枯石烂的存在。

6. We are all so proud that waiting can only exist until the sea dries up and the stones crumble.

7. [最初她皱一下眉你都心疼到后来她掉眼泪你也不大紧张了]

7. [At first, you felt pain when she merely皱了皱眉, but later, when she shed tears, you weren't quite as worried.]

8. 在我们周围，能够真正关注你的，就那么寥寥几个。所以，我们无需在意别人的评说，只要把自己的事情做好；无须看别人的眼神，只需走自己的路；无须有过多的抱怨，那样会使自己活得更累。不必一味讨好别人，不管走在何处，都不要迷失自己。如果你讨厌我，我一点也不介意，我活着不是为了取悦你。

8. Around us, there are only a few people who can truly pay attention to you. So, we don't need to care about others' opinions, just focus on doing our own things; we don't need to look at others' eyes, just follow our own path; we don't need to have too many complaints, as it will only make our lives more burdensome. We don't need to constantly please others, no matter where we go, we must not lose ourselves. If you dislike me, I'm not at all bothered, I live not to please you.

9. 智慧是命运的一部分，不是逻辑，更不是聪明，任何烦恼和智慧遭遇，结局不是伤害，而是一场幽默中的快乐。

9. Wisdom is a part of destiny, not logic, let alone cleverness. Any encounter with烦恼 (trouble or worry) and wisdom does not end in harm but in the joy of humor.

10. 上帝给了你很多诱惑，却不让你轻易得到。但是，总不能流血就喊痛，怕黑就开灯，想念就联系，疲惫就放空，孤立就讨好，脆弱就想家……

10. God has given you many temptations, but He does not let you easily obtain them. However, one cannot always scream in pain when bleeding, turn on the lights when afraid of the dark, contact someone when missing them, empty oneself when tired, flatter others when isolated, or long for home when vulnerable...

11. 当时间过去 就算是不好的回忆 也会变成幸福的头绪

11. As time passes, even unpleasant memories will turn into the threads of happiness.

12. 坚强的另一个名字叫硬撑 奇迹的另一个名字叫努力 奋斗吧少年

12. Another name for strength is perseverance. Another name for miracles is effort. Strive on, young man!

13. 时差就是，夏天已经到了，可身材还停在冬天。/suanming/

13. Jet lag is like, summer has arrived, but the body is still stuck in winter. /suanming/

14. 生命的路上，耐心，使人获得了力量；耐心，使人认清了方向；耐心，使人坦途疾进；耐心，使人少遭波浪。寻着古往今来的路，在耐心的帮助下品生活。手握耐心，给人忍受寂寞的意志和品质；脚踩耐心，给人带来超凡的壮志和动力。承载着耐心，拥抱着永不服输的信心，向着美好的生活前行。

14. On the journey of life, patience grants strength; patience helps to discern the direction; patience enables smooth progress; patience reduces the waves. Following the path of the past and present, appreciate life with the help of patience. Holding patience in hand, it imparts the will and quality to endure solitude; stepping on patience, it brings extraordinary ambition and drive. Carrying patience, embracing the confidence that never surrenders, let's move forward towards a better life.

15. 人的意念决定着他将吸引来什么样的宇宙能量，这种意念不仅可以改变一个人财富、精神面貌，也可以改变一个人的命运。

15. A person's thoughts determine the kind of cosmic energy they will attract, and these thoughts can not only change a person's wealth and spiritual appearance but also alter their destiny.

16. 做人做事最好的状态就是：不刻意。不刻意自我表现，也不刻意淡泊名利；不刻意迎合，也不刻意狂狷；不刻意追逐流行，也不刻意卓尔不群。如是，则不心累，不纠结，不失望。

16. The best state of being a person and doing things is: not deliberate. Not deliberate in showing off, nor deliberate in disregarding fame and fortune; not deliberate in catering to others, nor deliberate in being impetuous; not deliberate in chasing trends, nor deliberate in being outstanding. In this way, one is not burdened by the heart, is not entangled, and is not disappointed.

17. 垂下的头颅只是为了让思想扬起，你若有一个不屈的灵魂，脚下就会有一片坚实的土地。

17. The lowered head is only to allow thoughts to soar. If you have an unyielding soul, there will be a solid ground beneath your feet.

18. 问的问题越多，就会发现你的恐惧越少。恐惧来源于未知，而很多时候未知只是因为我们太过惊慌而忘记去思考。当理性开始发挥作用的时候，你就会发现，很多可怕的意象根本不足为惧。

18. The more questions you ask, the less fear you will have. Fear comes from the unknown, and often the unknown is just a result of our panic and forgetfulness to think. When reason starts to take effect, you will find that many terrifying images are actually not something to fear.

19. 眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。但同时记住，永远不要因为新鲜感，扔掉一直陪伴你的人。那些平淡与安静，亦是心灵的另一种力量。

19. If someone doesn't have you in their eyes, why should you keep them in your heart? If you don't have a share in their feelings, why must you be deeply in love? But at the same time, remember never to discard the person who has always been by your side because of the novelty. The simplicity and tranquility are also another form of power for the soul.

20. 我会好好过 、 等你在爱我 。

20. I will live well, waiting for you to love me.

21. 人的一生需要面临许多选择，还有懂得选择。友不在多，投缘为好；人不在众，志同为佳。跟有正能量的人交往，即便放低姿态；跟品格优秀的人交往，抱一颗真诚的心。

21. In one's life, many choices need to be faced and understood. Friends don't have to be many, just those who resonate; people don't have to be numerous, just those who share the same aspirations. Associate with people who have positive energy, even if you have to lower your position; associate with people of excellent character, with a sincere heart.

22. 对待一切善良的人，不管是家属，还是朋友，都应该有一个两字箴言：一曰真，二曰忍。

22. For all the kind-hearted people, whether they are family members or friends, there should be a two-character maxim: one is 'true', and the other is 'endurance'.

23. 懂我的人，何必解释。我向往这样的心境，不记得失!在遇见时，请一定要感激;相爱时，请一定要珍惜;转身时，请一定要优雅;挥别时，请一定要微笑;因为一转身，可能一辈子也不会再相见了。

23. To those who understand me, why should I explain? I yearn for such a state of mind, forgetting about gains and losses! When you meet, please be sure to be grateful; when you love, please be sure to cherish; when you turn away, please be sure to be graceful; when you bid farewell, please be sure to smile; because with one turn, there might be no more meetings in a lifetime.

24. 我们每个人都像小丑，玩着五个球，五个球是你的工作、健康、家庭、朋友、爱情。这五个球只有一个是用橡胶做的，掉下去会弹起来，那就是工作。另外四个都是用玻璃做的，掉了，就碎了。

24. We are all like clowns playing with five balls, with the five balls representing your work, health, family, friends, and love. Among these five balls, only one is made of rubber, and it will bounce back when it falls - that's work. The other four are made of glass, and they will shatter when they fall.

25. 最好的姿态就是最真的心态;最好的生活就是活好自己。趋炎附势不如坦荡而行;思虑过多不如不卑不亢。又何须负赘太多，做自己想做的事，爱自己要爱的人，行动不一定有结果，不行动却有可能会后悔终生。

25. The best posture is the most sincere attitude; the best life is to live yourself well. It is better to act straightforwardly than to flatter; it is better not to be too humble or overbearing. Why burden oneself with too much? Do what you want to do, love who you want to love. Action may not always lead to results, but inaction might bring lifelong regrets.

26. 起风的子学会依风起舞，落雨的时候学会为自己撑起一把伞。

26. When the wind starts to blow, the son of the wind learns to dance with the wind; when it rains, he learns to hold an umbrella over himself.

27. 能处理好自己的情绪的人，大多是有安全感的人。因为太患得患失，所以一惊一乍;因为起伏不定，所以失去原本拥有的。不夸夸其谈，修炼自身;不指手画脚，不轻易判定别人的生活，也不轻易被影响。和自己相处的好的人，也能给别人一种安定感。

27. People who can handle their own emotions are usually those who feel secure. Because of their overcautiousness, they are easily startled; because of their fluctuating nature, they lose what they originally had. They do not talk big, but cultivate themselves; they do not point fingers and do not readily judge others' lives, nor are they easily influenced. Those who are good at being with themselves can also give others a sense of stability.

28. 道可道，非常道！人生比的就是谁更接近实相，谁更能使用宇宙能量

28. The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao! The real competition in life is about who is closer to the truth and who is more adept at utilizing the cosmic energy.

29. 亲爱的自己，该醒醒了。你已经做了太多无谓的挣扎，太多荒唐的事情，太多盲目的决定，而错过了太多本来的幸福，太多安静的生活，太多理性的选择。现在开始，请认真把你做过的都忘记，再用心把你错过的都弥补回来。你要更精彩的活，精彩的让别人注视和羡慕，而不只是关注别人的幸福。

29. Dear self, it's time to wake up. You have already struggled unnecessarily too much, done too many foolish things, made too many blind decisions, and missed out on too much happiness, too much peaceful life, and too many rational choices. From now on, please take the time to seriously forget all that you have done, and then with all your heart, make up for all that you have missed. You deserve to live a more spectacular life, one that catches others' attention and admiration, not just focusing on others' happiness.

30. 幽默是智慧对意欲的善意调侃，滑稽是意欲本身的荒唐可笑。

30. Humor is a kindly teasing of desire by wisdom, while the ridiculous is the absurd and可笑 nature of desire itself.

31. 爱你的人，不管你接不接受，你都应该感谢对方，这是对他们的尊重。

31. The person who loves you, regardless of whether you accept or not, you should be grateful to them, which is a sign of respect for them.

32. 世界上既无所谓快乐或也无所谓痛苦；只有一种状况与另一种状况的比较，如此而已。

32. There is neither happiness nor suffering in the world; it's just a comparison between one state and another, that's all.

33. 人生往来，心量宜宽。咱是一张方脸，虽然很多人不待见，但是，咱面对的世界和大家一样宽，心存柔软，世间安好。25日上午在安徽巢湖鼓山寺的禅学讲座，有时间的网友朋友，欢迎来坐坐。

33. In the to and fro of life, the heart should be open. We have a square face, though many people do not take a liking to us, but the world we face is as broad as everyone else's, and our hearts are gentle, and the world is peaceful. On the morning of the 25th, there will be a Zen lecture at the Gushan Temple in Chaohu Lake, Anhui. Netizens with time, you are welcome to drop by.

34. 你已经走的那么远但相爱镜头却还在重演以为是昨天

34. You've come so far, but the scenes of your love are still replaying, as if it were yesterday.

35. 假如你内心没有勇气面对现实，选择哪一条路对你都是一场折磨。因为现实会告诉你答案：真正的问题不是你去选择哪条路，而是你选择哪条路，别人会选择你。

35. If you lack the courage within to face reality, whichever path you choose will be a form of torture. Because reality will reveal the answer to you: The real issue is not which path you choose, but which path you choose that others will choose you.

36. 想做一个幸福的人，需要一点点清醒的态度，有些烦恼不是不能化解，也许只是需要一点点时间和忍耐。

36. To be a happy person, one needs a bit of clarity in attitude. Some troubles are not impossible to resolve; perhaps they just require a bit of time and patience.

37. 不要因为暂时的得到而失去未来的拥有，靠牺牲别人得到的更不会长久。没办法，这是天道。

37. Do not lose the future possession because of the temporary gain, and what is gained at the expense of others will not last long. There's no way around it; this is the way of nature.

38. 过高的期望，带来孩子的无望;过度的保护，带来孩子的无能;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，带来孩子的无奈;过多的指责，带来孩子的无措。

38. Excessive expectations bring children's hopelessness; overprotection brings children's helplessness; overindulgence brings children's insensitivity; excessive interference brings children's helplessness; and excessive criticism brings children's confusion.

39. 我们都知道，人，活得再漂亮，也会有凄凉;路，走得再潇洒，也会有迷茫;歌，唱得再响亮，也会有冷场。人，各有各的位置，各有各坎坷不平的风景。

39. We all know that no matter how beautifully a person lives, there will always be loneliness; no matter how carefree a path is walked, there will always be confusion; no matter how loudly a song is sung, there will always be moments of silence. People have their own positions and their own bumpy landscapes.

40. 生活的艺术就在于一身轻松，心怀光明，就算岁月如流沙，也不要放弃自己的积极，自己的坚定，自己的尊严，智慧的人生，应该是创造一个向上、阳光的环境，而不是和命运讨价还价。

40. The art of living lies in maintaining ease in one's body, brightness in one's heart, and not giving up on one's positivity, steadfastness, and dignity even as time flows like sand. A wise life should be about creating an upward and sunny environment, rather than bargaining with fate.

41. 你梦想成为什么样的人，你就能成为什么样的人。你今时今日所处的位置，都是基于你所信赖和梦想的一切。

41. The person you dream of becoming, you can become. The position you are in at this moment and time is based on everything you trust and dream of.

42. 从前，记忆只能追忆，只能缅怀，却再也不能倒退时光，偶尔想起你的时候，我依旧还能感觉到千丝万缕的难过痛彻心扉，我在心里最深沉的角落留下一方风景，待花散落，待雨飘落，待叶凋落，是否还能感受三月伤感。

42. In the past, memory could only be recollected, could only be cherished, but could no longer rewind time. Occasionally, when I think of you, I still feel a myriad of sorrow that pierces my heart. I have left a piece of scenery in the deepest corner of my heart, waiting for the flowers to scatter, for the rain to fall, for the leaves to fall. Will I still feel the sadness of March?

43. 很多人把心动、迷恋或倾慕误认为爱情，但心动跟真正的爱情根本无法相比。心动的光芒最多只是颗钻石的光芒，让你惊叹它的华丽，恨不得立刻拥有；但真爱的光芒就像阳光，久了也许会让人觉得稀松平常，但这种光芒能温暖你，照耀你，一旦失去你的整个世界都黑暗了。

43. Many people confuse heart palpitations, infatuation, or admiration with true love, but the feeling of heart palpitations is fundamentally uncomparable to real love. The brilliance of heart palpitations is at most the brilliance of a diamond, which astonishes you with its magnificence and makes you want to possess it immediately; but the brilliance of true love is like sunlight, which may seem ordinary after a while, but this light can warm you, illuminate you, and once it is gone, your whole world will be plunged into darkness.

44. 每当疲惫的时候，就请停下脚步，遥想追逐的远方，汲取力量再上路；每当困惑的时候，就请停下脚步，梳理纷乱的思绪，驱走迷茫再上路；每当痛苦的时候，就请停下脚步，抚平心中的伤口，擦干眼泪再上路；每当放弃的时候，就请停下脚步，作出艰难的取舍，打起精神再上路。停下脚步只为走得更远。

44. Whenever you feel tired, please stop and look far ahead, drawing strength before you continue on your journey; whenever you are confused, please stop and sort out your tangled thoughts, dispelling confusion before you move forward again; whenever you are in pain, please stop and heal the wounds in your heart, wipe away your tears before you continue on; whenever you are ready to give up, please stop and make the difficult choices, gather your spirits before you continue on. Stopping to take a break is only to walk further ahead.

45. 生活里不必要想改变别人什么，记住一个真理，真正的天荒地老，就是根本没有天荒地老。如果心头缺一盏智慧的灯，那么请相信，你的人生将全部是，逆风。

45. In life, there's no need to think about changing others. Remember a truth: the true eternity is that there is no such thing as eternity. If there's a lack of a lamp of wisdom in your heart, then believe that your life will be all about, against the wind.

46. 人生唯一有把握不会落空的等待是那必然到来的死亡。但是，人们都似乎忘了这一点而等着别的什么，甚至死到临头仍执迷不悟。我对这种情形感到悲哀又感到满意。

46. The only certain wait in life that will not fail is the inevitable arrival of death. However, it seems that people have forgotten this point and are waiting for something else, even to the very end they remain oblivious. I feel both sorry and content about this situation.

47. 我们只有一个今生，一颗可以搏动的心，把生命维护好，把灵魂安顿好，也就算是圆满了，不要总盯着别人的脚步，迷失了自己的节奏。在一条路上走得久了，总有孤独与寂寞，无论如何，都别放下当初的激情与梦想，别忘记曾经的那份执着，只有伤过了，痛过了，才会慢慢清醒与回归，才会发现，头顶还有那片天。

47. We have only one life, a heart that can beat, and it is enough to maintain life well and settle the soul. That would be considered complete. Don't always focus on others' footsteps and lose your own rhythm. After walking on the same path for a long time, there will always be loneliness and solitude. No matter what, don't let go of the passion and dreams you had at the beginning, don't forget that determination you once had. Only after being hurt and feeling pain can you gradually wake up and return, and then you will find that there is still that sky above your head.

48. 跟自己说要活的真实，不管别人怎么看，就算全世界都否定自己。还有我自己相信自己。跟自己说要过得快乐，无需去想是否有人在乎我，一个人也可以很精彩。跟自己说悲伤时可以哭的很狼狈很狼狈，但眼泪流干后，要抬起头笑得很漂亮很漂亮。

48. Tell yourself to live authentically, no matter what others think, even if the whole world denies you. I still believe in myself. Tell yourself to live happily, without worrying whether anyone cares about me, for one can be very vibrant on their own. Tell yourself that it's okay to cry very messily and pitifully when sad, but after the tears have dried up, you should lift your head and smile beautifully, just beautifully.

49. 人与人最短的距离叫拥抱，人与人最长的距离叫等待，人与人最看不见的距离叫包容，人与人最可怕的距离叫漠视你的存在。

49. The shortest distance between people is a hug, the longest distance is waiting, the most invisible distance is tolerance, and the most可怕 distance is the one where you are ignored.

50. 有时候写说说不为别的，就为了某天自己回过头。看看当时自己事什么样子的心情。

50. Sometimes, the reason for writing posts is not for any other purpose but to look back at some day and see what kind of mood I was in at that time.

51. 你看不见的，就是我的悲伤，毕竟你不懂我有多爱你。因为明明很在乎，却还要装作无所谓。

51. What you can't see is my sorrow, for you don't understand how much I love you. Because even though I care deeply, I still have to pretend I don't care.

52. 到了一定的年龄，开始学会谁都不想取悦了，没必要去迎合什么，觉得跟谁在一起感觉舒服就在一起，包括朋友，累了就躲远，你喜欢我，我喜欢你，我们就在一起玩耍，我们都不喜欢，千万不要在一起，生活已经如此的艰难，为何不让自己过顺畅些呢。

52. At a certain age, one starts to learn not to please anyone. There's no need to cater to anyone. Feel comfortable being with whom? Be with them, including friends. When tired, retreat to a distance. If you like me, and I like you, let's play together. If neither of us likes it, never be together. Life is already so difficult. Why not make it smoother for oneself?

53. 我想我还是不够成熟，没办法为自己那颗浮躁的心波澜不惊地掌舵。道理我都懂，但是能安慰我的不是道理。是你。

53. I think I'm not mature enough to calmly steer the helm of my restless heart. I understand the principles, but what comforts me is not the logic. It's you.

54. 对人性的弱点有清醒的认识，但要相信真诚的爱情，对爱情永远怀有单纯的向往。

54. Have a clear understanding of the weaknesses of human nature, but believe in sincere love, and forever hold a simple longing for it.

55. 不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的支柱。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。敏感的人大多都不幸福，因为太在乎。

55. Don't easily rely on someone, as it will become a habit of yours. When parting comes, what you lose is not just someone, but the支柱 of your spirit. At all times and places, learn to walk independently, which will make your journey more relaxed. People who are sensitive are often not happy, because they care too much.

56. 如果雨之后还要雨，如果忧伤之后仍是忧伤，请让我从容面对这别离之后的别离，微笑地继续去寻找，一个不可能再出现的你。

56. If it rains after the rain, and if sadness remains after sadness, let me face this parting after the parting with composure, smiling as I continue to seek, a you that can never appear again.

57. 当你真心渴望一件东西的时候，整个宇宙都会联合起来帮你完成它！

57. When you truly desire something with all your heart, the entire universe will unite to help you achieve it!

58. 我们都不是随便的一个人遇到另一个人，我们都是经过跋山涉水，漫漫长路才找到彼此，在我们的人生长河里，这因缘际会的短暂的一瞬，那不是偶然，那是我们的选择。

58. None of us are just anyone who encounters another person arbitrarily; we have all gone through mountains and rivers, long and winding roads to find each other. In the great river of our lives, this brief moment of karmic convergence is not an accident; it is our choice.

59. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容。 我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。

59. We once so eagerly sought the vicissitudes of fate, only to find out in the end that the most charming scenery in life is the tranquility and composure of the heart. We once so eagerly anticipated recognition from others, only to realize in the end that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others.

60. 别试图走近我 我一颗心除了他什么也没有

60. Don't try to get close to me; my heart has nothing but him.

61. 人生，总会有许多无奈。人与人之间的距离有时很远很远，你在天涯，我在海角;心与心之间的距离很近很近，只隔着薄薄的一页纸，你把它尘封，就是一堵墙;你把它打开，就是一扇窗。

61. Life is always filled with many无奈. The distance between people can sometimes be very, very far, you are at the end of the world, and I am at the other end of the sea; the distance between hearts can be very, very close, just a thin page away, if you keep it sealed, it becomes a wall; if you open it, it becomes a window.

62. 耐心是改变命运的最快速度。失去耐心，相信迅速，已经开始损害我们的存在与思维。要知道，知识、财富与地位，都不可能速成的，只能慢慢寻找，慢慢累加。

62. Patience is the fastest way to change one's destiny. Losing patience, believing in speed, has already begun to harm our existence and thinking. Remember, knowledge, wealth, and status cannot be achieved quickly; they can only be sought and accumulated gradually.

63. 一个人要在清醒里前行，无论在什么样的境遇，留有一份希望，这样在岁月里才会感到温暖，才会有一份坚持，不会彷徨。

63. A person must move forward in sobriety, regardless of the circumstances, holding onto a spark of hope, so that in the passage of time, one will feel warmth, have a sense of perseverance, and not wander aimlessly.

64. 当人非常执着地寻找真相时，他往往是在寻找推翻自己直觉和判断的证据，他希望有人用事实说服他，一切都是他想多了。可是当真相最终覆盖了想象，比直觉还糟的时候，虽然早有准备，他还是备受打击。没有什么比秘密更黑暗了，当你无法解决，最终还是只能让事情自然过去。

64. When a person is very obsessed with seeking the truth, they are often looking for evidence to推翻 their own intuition and judgment, hoping that someone will convince them with facts that they were overthinking everything. However, when the truth finally overshadows their imagination, even worse than their intuition, although they are well-prepared, they still suffer a great blow. There is nothing darker than a secret; when you cannot resolve it, you are ultimately left to let things pass naturally.

65. 时光静好，与君语；细水流年，与君同；繁华落尽，与君老。

65. Time is peaceful, talking with you; flowing years, together with you; as the splendor fades, grow old with you.

66. 生活里我们面对许多不快乐的事情，显然计较是最不高明的情绪，生活里免不了烦恼与纷争，咸的咸，淡的淡，岁岁年年，春风远去，春风又到，就让春风化作一场宣告，人活一场，活的不是你的语言，活的是你对命运的那场尊严。

66. In life, we are confronted with many unhappy things. Clearly, being calculative is the most unwise of emotions. In life,烦恼 and disputes are inevitable, some are salty, some are bland. Year after year, as the spring breeze departs and returns, let the spring breeze transform into a declaration. To live a life is not to live your own words, but to live with the dignity of facing destiny.

67. 你有2个选择，①是马上滚；②是立刻滚，当然你还可以 选择立刻马上滚

67. You have two options: ① to roll out immediately; ② to roll out at once. Of course, you can also choose to roll out at once and immediately.

68. 朋友，请不要刺伤我的伤疤，否则你会哭的没节奏。

68. Friend, please do not pierce my scars, otherwise you will cry without rhythm.

69. 年轻的我们，总是痴迷而且张狂，面对未知的挑战，我们总是不可一世和狂傲不羁，总是以为凭着满腔热血就能挑战全世界，能在这充满尔虞我诈的世界占上一席之地。那时的我们，终究由如那井底之蛙一样，不知道天有多高地有多厚。

69. Young as we were, we were always obsessed and rebellious, facing the unknown challenges, we always felt superior and unruly, always believing that with our passion, we could challenge the whole world and secure a place in this world filled with cunning and deceit. Back then, we were just like the frog in a well, unaware of how high the sky was and how deep the earth was.

70. 真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。

70. The true life is about doing your daily duties with seriousness. Do not seek love and prospects that are irrelevant to you at present. Do not entangle yourself in unnecessary emotions and judgments.

71. 不要以为自己能像别人那样活着就是幸福，平常处思考，宽阔处行走，但愿每次回忆，都不是被伤感困扰。幸福一直都在，可能是运用了不同的形式，就像这脚下的路，任何时候都伴随脚步。

71. Don't assume that living like others is happiness. Think normally, walk broadly, and may each memory not be troubled by sadness. Happiness has always been there, perhaps in different forms, just like the path beneath our feet, accompanying our steps at any time.

72. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。

72. Life is but a short span of a few decades, don't leave any regrets for yourself. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. Love when you should, and don't suppress yourself unnecessarily.

73. 人活着，无论穷富，无论美丑，只有一个相同的结局，你知道的。不同的只有过程，重要的是你活着的每一天里，你令自己快乐。所以，要珍惜，要努力让自己成为一个快乐的人。不忙，不急，不懒。

73. No matter whether one is rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, all people have only one same end, as you know. The only difference is the process. What matters is that you make yourself happy every single day you live. Therefore, cherish the moments and strive to become a happy person. Don't be busy, don't be in a hurry, and don't be lazy.

74. 如果说，你是我最心爱的人，那么，这也许不是真正的爱情。爱情就是，我觉得你是把刀子，我用它搅动我的心。

74. If you are the most beloved person in my heart, then perhaps this is not true love. Love is when I feel you are a knife, and I use it to stir the depths of my heart.

75. 奋斗很可贵，但是杜绝了爱情的奋斗生活，算是怎样的人生啊！你的奋斗，什么都考虑到了，就是没有考虑一点：奋斗是为了幸福生活，拿幸福生活做赌注的奋斗，其实是赌博，而不是奋斗。

75. Striving is valuable, but what kind of life is it to eliminate the struggle of love? Your struggle has considered everything, but you haven't considered one thing: struggling is for a happy life. Struggling with a bet on a happy life is actually gambling, not struggling.

76. 人生最大困惑在于你觉得需要确定一个方向，而你却找不到这个方向。

76. The greatest confusion in life lies in feeling the need to determine a direction, yet you cannot find this direction.

77. 人如果没有自知之明的话，难免有轻狂之举，吐无稽之谈，容易走两个极端：要么自高自大，自以为是，盲目自恋;要么自轻自贱，自暴自弃，缺乏自信。不管出现哪种情况，都会导致灯下黑，不能客观的认识自己，不能公正的对待他人。

77. If a person lacks self-awareness, they are prone to behave presumptuously, spout baseless talk, and tend to swing to two extremes: either become overly conceited, self-righteous, and blind in self-admiration; or belittle themselves, abandon themselves, and lack confidence. In either case, it will lead to a situation where one is blind to their own shortcomings, unable to objectively understand oneself, and unable to treat others fairly.

78. 人生苦短，别去赶时间。无论遇到什么事，要学会换个角度去思考，就会感到快乐。幸福的人生一定要有正确的思想观念，在正确的思想观念指导下才会有正确的行为，正确的行为多次重复形成正确的习惯，正确的习惯就会塑成良好的性格，从而造就幸福的人生。

78. Life is short, don't rush time. No matter what happens, learn to think from a different perspective, and you will feel happy. A happy life must have the correct ideas and concepts, and only with the guidance of correct ideas and concepts can there be correct behavior. Repeated correct behavior forms correct habits, and correct habits will shape a good character, thus creating a happy life.