学会和解，笑对人生起伏，十七句箴言助你从容不迫。

Learn to reconcile, laugh at the ups and downs of life, and these seventeen proverbs will help you remain composed.

1. 39如果一个男人真的爱你，他只会怕没本事照顾好你而努力。如果他事事与你计较，随便对你发脾气，哪只能说明他爱自己，没有爱你的本事和能力。

1. If a man truly loves you, he will only be afraid of not being able to take good care of you and work hard. If he always argues with you and loses his temper at will, it only shows that he loves himself and lacks the ability and courage to love you.

2. 成功是件困难的事儿，这谁都懂，但也别太绷着，你得有自己的生活，有喜欢的人就去追，哪怕到头来是一场错过。有想要的梦就去做，哪怕最后一场空。失败没什么，谁都有被嫌弃的时候，可命运就是这样一个积累的过程。有一天你突然美梦成真，你以为是撞了大运，其实不是，那是一份迟到的礼物。

2. Success is a difficult thing, everyone understands that, but don't be too uptight either. You need to have your own life. If there's someone you like, go after them, even if it turns out to be a missed opportunity. If you have a dream you want to pursue, do it, even if in the end it's all for nothing. Failure is nothing, everyone has their moments of being disliked. But destiny is just such a process of accumulation. One day, when your beautiful dream comes true, you may think it's sheer luck, but actually, it's not. It's a delayed gift.

3. 人生路上几人来，几人走，几多欢喜，几多忧愁，为何会如此不堪。相遇不易，相守很难，珍惜且珍惜。

3. How many people come and go on the journey of life, how much joy and how much sorrow, why is it so unbearable. It's not easy to meet, and it's even harder to stay together. Cherish and cherish.

4. 痛苦是磨砺意志的磨刀石，它能把你的意志之剑磨得更加锋利;痛苦是人生智慧的催熟剂，它能让你的智慧之果更早地成熟。有烦恼才知道什么是快乐，有痛苦才懂得什么是幸福，有失才能有所得，该珍惜的好好去珍惜，该放弃的毅然放弃掉，既然痛苦无法避免，就让我们笑对人生吧!

4. Suffering is the whetstone that sharpens one's will, making your will-sword even sharper; suffering is the ripening agent of life's wisdom, allowing your wisdom fruit to mature earlier. It is through烦恼 that one knows what happiness is, through suffering that one understands what happiness means, and through loss that one can gain. Cherish what should be cherished, and resolutely give up what should be abandoned. Since suffering cannot be avoided, let us face life with a smile!

5. 股市门槛很低，但是，股市又是一所没有围墙的大学，很多人不做功课，只想走捷径。还有人像买萝卜、白菜一样买股票，盲目跟风，一哄而上，击鼓传花，鼓点一停，不砸你手里才怪？

5. The stock market has a low threshold, but it is also a university without walls. Many people do not do their homework and just want to take shortcuts. Some people buy stocks as if they were buying radishes or cabbages, blindly following the crowd and rushing in, like playing "pass the parcel." Once the beat stops, it's a wonder if the stock doesn't end up in their hands!

6. 你是什么样的人，就会产生如何的思维，拥有怎样的梦想。你相信它，自然它也会相信你，但如果你开始犹豫时，那么你内心所想就会离你越来越远。我们不是应该突然明白生活不是眼前光景，而是从一开始就笃定，如果要遇到光明，一定要首先经历黑暗。

6. The kind of person you are will determine the thoughts you have and the dreams you hold. If you believe in it, it will naturally believe in you, but if you start to hesitate, then the thoughts in your heart will drift away from you increasingly. Shouldn't we suddenly realize that life is not just the present scene, but rather, from the very beginning, we should firmly believe that if we want to encounter light, we must first go through darkness.

7. 没有人能回到过去重新开始，但你可以从今天开始创造一个新的结局。

7. No one can go back and start over, but you can start from today to create a new ending.

8. 百万富翁每天平均只花六分钟在个人理财上。他们有更好的事情要做。

8. Millionaires spend an average of only six minutes a day on personal finance. They have better things to do.

9. 12受了天大的委屈都不会吭声，但听到安慰的话却泣不成声。

9.12 He wouldn't make a sound even when he was wronged greatly, but he would burst into tears when he heard comforting words.

10. 痛快地上厕所，洗完澡满身香香，饭吃了八分饱还吃得下点心和水果，从冰天雪地跑进屋子 衣服胡乱一脱钻进被窝，阳光刚好打在整张床上，一觉睡到自然醒不担心有什么未完成，这些都是我能想到，最幸福的事情。

10. Enjoyably using the bathroom, feeling fragrant after a bath, eating to about 80% of my capacity and still able to have desserts and fruits, running from the snow and ice into the house, shedding my clothes carelessly and diving into the blankets, with sunlight shining on the entire bed, sleeping until I naturally wake up without worrying about anything left undone – these are all the most blissful things I can think of.

11. 命运中最核心的东西，是学习，人生如花草，若无学习之浇灌，再艳丽亦将枯萎。能够促使你学习的，是勤奋，早起的鸟儿有虫吃，只有在勤奋中方可触及梦境;永保勤奋之姿的，是坚持，成败原本咫尺之遥，看谁可以最后咬牙三分钟。坚持的长短，源自有无好胜之心，那些打败你的，说到底，还是你自己。

11. The core essence of fate is learning, just as life is like flowers and grass. Without the watering of learning, even the most brilliant will wither. What can motivate you to learn is diligence. The early birds catch the worms, and it is only through diligence that one can reach the dreams; it is perseverance that keeps the posture of diligence, and success or failure is just a stone's throw away; it's about who can bite the bullet for three minutes in the end. The duration of perseverance comes from whether there is a strong sense of competitiveness, and those who defeat you, in the end, are still yourself.

12. 27对于世界，你是一个人，对于我，你是全世界。

12. To the world, you are but a person, but to me, you are the whole world.

13. 态度往往不能决定行动，反而是行动有时候决定了态度。人们总是为自己的懒惰寻找各种理由和借口，但从来不曾因此受到鼓舞而立即投身行动。要改变自己的心态，就不能期望用心态去改变心态，而必须是用行动去改变心态！当你沉浸在正在做的事情中时，你会发现，你能完全掌控自己。

13. Attitudes often do not determine actions; instead, sometimes actions determine attitudes. People always find various reasons and excuses for their laziness, but they never feel inspired to take immediate action because of them. To change one's mindset, one cannot expect to change the mindset with a mindset, but must use actions to change the mindset! When you immerse yourself in what you are doing, you will find that you can fully control yourself.

14. 5当你进退两难的时候如何做出决定抛硬币，当你第一次抛了以后想再抛一次的时候，你就已经知道答案了。

14.5 How to make a decision when you are in a dilemma by flipping a coin, when you want to flip it again after the first throw, you already know the answer.

15. 永远不要以为我们可以逃避，我们的每一步都决定着最后的结局，我们的脚步正在走向我们自己选定的终点。

15. Never think that we can escape; every step we take determines the final outcome, and our feet are walking towards the destination we have chosen ourselves.

16. 4所谓成长，就是逼着你一个人，踉踉跄跄的受伤，跌跌撞撞的坚强。

16. 4 What is growth? It's forcing you to hurt yourself alone, limping and injured, and to become strong through falling and stumbling.

17. 14那些刺目的伤疤，在后来被新的皮肤替换，看不出痕迹却疼入心坎。

17. 14 The blinding scars, later replaced by new skin, left no trace to be seen, but the pain went deep into the heart.

18. 所有的失败那都是为成功做准备。抱怨和泄气，只能阻碍成功向自己走来的步伐。放下抱怨，心平气和地接受失败，无疑是智者的姿态。抱怨无法改变现状，拼搏才能带来希望。

18. All failures are preparations for success. Complaining and being discouraged can only hinder the progress of success towards oneself. To put down complaints and calmly accept failure is undoubtedly the demeanor of a wise person. Complaining cannot change the current situation, only struggle can bring hope.

19. 都推销员不在推销产品而是在为客户解决问题，都说推销员推销是不是产品而是自己。这里我想分享一个《割草的男孩》的故事，一个替人割草打工的男孩打电话给一位陈太太说：您需不需要割草陈太太回答说：不需要了，我已有了割草工。男孩又说：我会帮您拔掉花丛中的杂草。陈太太回答：我的割草工也做了。男孩又说：我会帮您把草与走道的四周割齐。陈太太说：我请的那人也已做了，谢谢你，我不需要新的割草工人。男孩便挂了电话，此时男孩的室友问他说：你不是就在陈太太那割草打工吗为什么还要打这电话男孩说：我只是想知道我做得有多好!这个故事告诉我们，顾客为关注焦点，不断地探询顾客的评价，我们才有可能知道自己的长处与不足，然后扬长避短，改进自己的工作质量，牢牢的抓住顾客。其实很多时候，你与人打交道的时候，很难得到对方的客观评价，无论是好的评价还是坏的评价很多都带有感情色彩的，尤其是好的评价，有的时候，你是做得很好，只是总有些不足的地方，于是我们需要改进，然而对方在面对你的时候，无论是碍于什么，都很少会给你一个客观的公正的评价。这也是沟通的问题，一个人想得到公正，客观的评价真的好难。这个故事是否为我们提供了一个好的方法呢应该算是一种创新吧。(我们可以借鉴，可以适当的绕过某些人性的部分，看看是否有些地方可以改进)。

19. Instead of selling products, all salespeople are solving problems for customers, and it's said that salespeople sell not the product but themselves. Here, I want to share a story from "The Boy Who Cuts Grass," about a boy who works cutting grass for others, who calls a Mrs. Chen and asks, "Do you need grass cutting, Mrs. Chen?" To which Mrs. Chen replies, "No, I already have a gardener." The boy then says, "I can help you remove the weeds in the flowerbeds." Mrs. Chen answers, "My gardener has already done that." The boy continues, "I can help you trim the grass around the walkways." Mrs. Chen says, "The person I hired has already done that. Thank you, I don't need a new gardener." The boy hangs up the phone, and at this point, his roommate asks him, "Aren't you already working cutting grass for Mrs. Chen? Why did you call?" The boy says, "I just wanted to know how well I was doing!" This story teaches us that customer focus is key, and by continually inquiring about customer feedback, we can identify our strengths and weaknesses, then capitalize on our strengths and improve our work quality, thereby firmly grasping the customer. In reality, it's often difficult to get an objective assessment from others when interacting with them, whether it's good or bad feedback, much of it is colored by emotions, especially the good feedback. Sometimes, you may be doing a good job, but there are always areas for improvement, and we need to make changes. However, when others are dealing with you, for whatever reason, they rarely give you an objective and fair evaluation. This is also a communication issue, and it's really hard for someone to receive a fair and objective assessment. Does this story provide us with a good method? It might be considered an innovation. (We can learn from it and make appropriate adjustments to certain aspects of human nature to see if there are areas that can be improved).

20. 梦想决不是梦，两者之间的差别通常有一段非常值得人们深思和期待的距离，心存梦想，一旦付诸行动就会变得神圣，当然这期间辛勤和汗水是必不可少的，一个有事业追求的人，不妨把梦再作的更高一些，虽然开始的时候是梦想，但只要不停探索，不轻言放弃，梦想就能成真。

20. Dreams are not just dreams; there is usually a significant distance that is worth pondering and anticipating between them. Holding onto dreams, once they are put into action, become sacred. Of course, hard work and sweat are indispensable during this process. For someone with a career aspiration, it is not advisable to set the dream too low. Although it starts as a dream, as long as one continues to explore and never gives up轻易ly, the dream can come true.

21. 陈安之说，成功者永不放弃、放弃者永不成功!没有失败，只有放弃!没有失败，只是暂时停止成功!其实这些话无非是要告诉你一个逻辑关系，就是放弃等于失败，不放弃不等于失败。你自己留意的话，你会发现每当我们做什么事，或者做一个决定的时候，或多或少都会有一个信仰支持着我们做下去，即使是放弃也无非是一个信仰反驳了我们原来的信仰，然后我们选择了放弃。你如果仔细的分析，其实我们做的任何事情，以有意识为前提，每件事的思考都会有逻辑性的，而就以信仰而言，其实每一个信仰，都是一个逻辑关系。很多人都说，我不是学的这个，如果我来做这个的话，应该就不会像学这个的人一样受到专业本身的一些条条框框所束缚，貌似是一个正确的逻辑，只是我们都忽视了，他们的另外一面，就是他们会受到其他一些条框的束缚。说到底，这些告诉你的激励的话，无非是想你传达一个看似正确的逻辑关系，一般我们无法反驳，我们就信以为真了。于是每当我信以为真之后，我们就会义无反顾的执行这个逻辑。其实，任何超逻辑的伟大创造都会受到逻辑本身的质疑，除非你有足够的理由说明你创造了另一个逻辑。

21. Chen An said, "Successful people never give up, and those who give up never succeed! There is no failure, only giving up! There is no failure, just a temporary halt to success! In fact, these words are merely meant to convey a logical relationship, that is, giving up equals failure, not giving up does not equal failure. If you pay attention, you will find that whenever we do something or make a decision, we are supported by a certain belief to some extent. Even if it is giving up, it is merely a belief that contradicts our original belief, and then we choose to give up. If you analyze it carefully, in fact, any action we take, assuming it is done with consciousness, each action involves logical thinking, and in terms of belief, every belief is a logical relationship. Many people say, 'I didn't study this, so if I were to do this, I wouldn't be constrained by the professional norms like those who did study it.' This seems like a correct logic, but we all ignore the other side of the coin, that is, they are also constrained by other norms. In the end, these motivational words that you are told are merely intended to convey a seemingly correct logical relationship, which we generally cannot refute, and then we believe it to be true. So, whenever we believe it to be true, we will unhesitatingly execute this logic. In fact, any great creation beyond logic will be questioned by logic itself, unless you have enough reasons to explain that you have created another logic.

22. 微信经典说说心情：做个勇敢的人，学着去承受命运给你的每一个耳

22. Classic WeChat status update about mood: Be a brave person, learn to bear every blow that fate gives you.

23. 记得自己经常这么激励别人和自己，每天一小步，每天都是一个新的高度!每个时代都或多或少有着一些做着百万富翁梦的人，他们其中有的成功了，有的还在做梦!一个人到了年老的时候，又穷又苦，那并不是那个人以前做错了什么，而是他什么都没有做。相信自己能成功，不一定能成功，因为成功仅靠信念是不行的，路是靠自己走出来的。如果你留意自己上学时候的同学，你会发现，基本上成绩好的，一般会有两种人，一种是每天踏踏实实学习的人，虽然平时看上去很暗淡，但是他知道坚持，知道学习是一个积累的过程，或许他的成绩不是一下子能考得很好的人，但是一旦他考得很好之后，你会发下你很难再超过他。还有一种人就是，突击性的，平时不一定很努力，然而脑子很活，每次考试前能好好的突击一下，想通过抓住重点，理顺要点来达到对知识的吃透，这种人你会发现，有得时候成绩考得也很不错，只是经常排名会忽上忽下，因为他有一个致命的弱点，就是一点要抓住重点，那什么是重点呢重点就是当你知道所有的知识点之后，发现哪些是相对重要的知识点，而不是凭感觉。不积跬步，无以至千里;不积小流，无以成江海。

23. Remember to motivate yourself and others in this way: take one small step every day, and every day is a new height! Every era has people who dream of becoming millionaires to varying degrees, some of whom have succeeded, and some are still dreaming! When a person grows old and is both poor and bitter, it is not because that person did something wrong in the past, but rather because they did nothing at all. Believe in your ability to succeed, but success is not guaranteed, because success can't be achieved solely through belief; the road is one that you walk on your own. If you take a look at your classmates from school days, you will find that those who perform well generally fall into two categories. One type is the person who studies diligently every day, though they may seem dull in everyday life. They know to persevere and understand that learning is a cumulative process. Perhaps their grades may not be excellent right away, but once they achieve good grades, it will be difficult to surpass them. The other type is the person who takes a crash course approach. They may not work very hard on a regular basis, but their minds are active, and they can give a good crash course before each exam. They try to master the knowledge by focusing on key points and making sure they understand the main ideas. Such people sometimes get very good grades, but their rankings often fluctuate, because they have a fatal weakness: they are not good at identifying key points. What are key points? They are the relatively important knowledge points you discover after knowing all the knowledge points, not just by feeling. Not accumulating small steps, you cannot reach a thousand miles; not accumulating small streams, you cannot create a river or sea.

24. 22不懂时，别乱说;懂得时，别多说;心乱时，慢慢说;没话时，就别说。

24. When you don't understand, don't speak in haste; when you do understand, don't speak too much; when your mind is in disarray, speak slowly; and when you have nothing to say, don't say anything.

25. 累了，蹲下来抱抱自己，依旧倔强的说：也不过如此。

25. Tired, I crouched down and hugged myself, still stubbornly saying: It's not that big a deal.

26. 37有些人，一旦遇见，便一眼万年;有些心动，一旦开始，便覆水难收。

26. 37 Some people, once met, are unforgettable in an instant; some heartbeats, once begun, are as unrecapturable as water that has flowed away.

27. 过好每一天，就是过好一生。有哭有笑，生活总带给人一种感动，生活总带给人一种惊喜，生活总让你回味的想念。每一条通往阳光的大道，都充满坎坷。但越过这些坎坷，必将看到希望的曙光。

27. Living each day to the fullest is living an entire life. Life brings us a mix of tears and laughter, always leaving us with a sense of touch, a sense of surprise, and memories that linger. Every path leading to the sunshine is filled with obstacles. But by overcoming these obstacles, you will surely see the first light of hope.

28. 感情只需要两个人：一个能够信任的人，与一个愿意理解的人。

28. Emotions only require two people: one who can be trusted, and one who is willing to understand.

29. 作为一个现代人，每个人都要学会理财。可以跑不过刘翔，但不能跑不过CpI。其实，不管买什么，一定要懂行才行，如果根本不懂，劝你不要买。

29. As a modern person, everyone needs to learn financial management. You may not be able to run as fast as Liu Xiang, but you should be able to keep up with CPI. In fact, no matter what you buy, you must be knowledgeable about it. If you have no idea at all, I advise you not to buy it.

30. 不做“死多头”，不做“死空头”，要做坚定的“滑头”；低吸高抛、抄底逃顶，见好就收，落袋为安乃真英雄。

30. Do not be a "die-hard bull," do not be a "die-hard bear," but be a resolute "sly fox." Buy low and sell high, catch the bottom and escape the peak; if it's good, take it and secure it—this is the true hero.

31. 最聪明的处世术是，既对世俗投以白眼，又与其同流合污。---芥川龙之介

31. The wiliest art of dealing with the world is to cast a disdainful glance at it while also mingling with its filth. ---芥川龍之介

32. 股市里不是看谁笑得最好，而是看谁笑到最后。

32. In the stock market, it's not about who laughs the best, but who laughs last.

33. 人生悲哀的，不是昨天失去的太多，而是沉浸于昨天的悲哀之中，忘记了前行的路。

33. The tragedy of life is not that we have lost so much yesterday, but that we are immersed in the sorrow of yesterday, forgetting the path of progress.

34. 28你的一生会遇见很多人，有人爱你，有人忌妒你，有人把你当做宝，有人不把你当回事，你痛了，你累了，你失落了，你错过了，这些统统与人无关，你的未来，统统要你自己负责。

34. 28 In your life, you will meet many people. Some will love you, some will envy you, some will treat you as a treasure, and some will not take you seriously. When you hurt, when you are tired, when you feel lost, when you miss out, all of these have nothing to do with others. Your future, you have to take responsibility for it all by yourself.

35. 16电脑屏幕左下角这货竟然叫开始，可我每次点它似乎都是为了结束。

35. At the lower left corner of the 16-inch computer screen, this thing is called "Start," but every time I click on it, it seems as if I'm initiating an end.

36. 6感谢我的不完美，让我看清了真正对我好的人是谁。

36. 6 Grateful for my imperfections, they have shown me who truly cares for me.

37. 没有完全合适的两个人，只有互相迁就的两个人。

37. There are no two people who are perfectly suited for each other; there are only two people who accommodate each other.

38. 每个人都有自己的天赋，也有努力的极限值，这些先天因素都决定了你是否做好一些事情，但是不要忘记，所谓不相信努力的意义，所谓不想走艰难的路，其实都证明了你的心，根本没有做好接受未来的准备。

38. Everyone has their own talents and the limit of their efforts, and these innate factors all determine whether you are well-suited for certain things. However, do not forget that the so-called disbelief in the significance of effort, or the reluctance to take the difficult path, actually proves that your heart has not been prepared to embrace the future.

39. 先求保本，后求盈利是目前投资精神、投资理念健康的一个标准和象征。

39. Prioritizing capital preservation over profit seeking is a standard and symbol of a healthy investment spirit and investment philosophy.

40. 如果你还有看不惯的人，说明你不够慈悲；如果你还有想不通的事，说明你不够智慧。

40. If there are still people you can't stand, it means you are not compassionate enough; if there are still things you can't comprehend, it means you are not wise enough.

41. 以前单纯，一有事就沉不住，有乐事马上拿出来分享，有伤心也拿出来倾诉。然而，回应的往往是“呵呵”，或是冷淡的不痛不痒，于是，慢慢学会了沉默。

41. Previously innocent, unable to keep calm in the face of troubles, eager to share joyous events, and ready to confide in sadness. However, the usual response was a mere "haha" or a cold, indifferent, non-committal reaction, which led to a gradual learning of silence.

42. 人与人，无信不交往，守信方长久;心与心，互敬才生情，互爱才有真。欺人莫欺心，伤人勿伤情。信任一个人很难，再次相信一个人更难。

42. Between people, without trust there is no interaction, and with trust, relationships endure; between hearts, mutual respect fosters affection, and mutual love brings sincerity. Never deceive a person's heart, and never hurt someone's feelings. It is hard to trust someone, and even harder to trust them again.

43. 忍耐是一种等待，忍耐是酝酿盈利的一种高超手段。

43. Patience is a form of waiting, and it is an exquisite method to gestate profit.

44. 爱人其实就是爱人品。别光迷恋爱情，人品比这更重要。爱情是暂时的，人品是永恒的。当爱情慢慢淡去，两个人的关系是靠善良来维系。好好看看他如何对待身边的人，或许那就是你将来的生活状态。

44. The beloved is actually the person's character. Don't just be infatuated with love; character is more important than that. Love is temporary, but character is eternal. When love fades away, the relationship between two people is maintained by kindness. Take a good look at how he treats those around him, as that may be the state of life you will live in the future.

45. 13放假就像谈恋爱：憧憬它的到来令人兴奋不已，拥有它时觉得不过如此，等它结束了又会勾起无限怀念。

45. 13. Taking a vacation is like being in a love affair: anticipating its arrival is thrilling, having it doesn't seem to be that great, and when it ends, it brings up endless nostalgia.

46. 7失而复得的东西根本就回不到最初的样子，即便再好，也忘不了有段时间曾失去过。

46. The things that are lost and then found never return to their original state. Even if they are as good as before, the memory of the time they were lost cannot be forgotten.

47. 35原来世界上真的没有什么是永远。一段友情，离开了就淡了。一段爱情，分离了就散了。珍惜现在所拥有的，也许下一秒，就不再属于你的。

47. 35 Originally, there really is nothing permanent in the world. A friendship, once left, fades away. A love, once separated, dissipates. Cherish what you have now, for perhaps the next second, it may no longer belong to you.

48. 从事不适合自己的工作会令人疲劳、紧张，效率低下，表现不佳。你需要找到真实的自己并与之保持一致。找到真实的自我，然后努力去实现自我，永远不要回头。

48. Engaging in work that is unsuitable for oneself can lead to fatigue, tension, low efficiency, and poor performance. You need to find the real you and stay consistent with it. Discover your true self, then strive to fulfill it, and never look back.

49. 做个勇敢的人，学着去承受命运给你的每一个耳光。

49. Be a brave person, and learn to bear every slap in the face that destiny gives you.

50. 一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城池的人更强大。

50. A person who can control their negative emotions is stronger than someone who can conquer a city.

51. 18很多人不需要再见，因为只是路过而已，遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。

51. 18 Many people don't need to meet again, because it was just a passing encounter, and forgetfulness is the best memory we leave for each other.

52. 8忘不掉的，就不要忘记，好的当回忆，坏的当经历。

52. If something is unforgettable, don't forget it. Make the good as memories and the bad as experiences.

53. 散户就像韭菜，今天割了明天还长，所以主力才赚钱。

53. Retail investors are like chive greens, which grow back tomorrow after being cut today, which is why the main force makes a profit.

54. 人海茫茫，一堆堆的过客，生活中的相逢和摩擦总是难免，更多的需要提醒自己，不要用分别心去挑剔那些意义不大的对错，放下自己的成见，想想别人的辛苦，祝福别人来往，认清自己面目，生活的路还很长，鼓励自己去承受，这世界在眼前，也在路上。

54. Amidst the vast sea of people, there are heaps of passersby. Encounters and frictions in life are inevitable. More importantly, one needs to remind oneself not to be picky about trivial right and wrong with a sense of separation, to let go of one's own biases, think about others' hardships, wish them well, recognize one's own appearance, and realize that the road of life is still long. Encourage oneself to bear it, for this world is both in front of us and on the road.

55. 15做个勇敢的人，学着去承受命运给你的每一个耳光。

55. Be a brave person, learning to bear every slap in the face that fate gives you.

56. 有一天，你不再寻找爱情，只是去爱；你不再渴望成功，只是去做；你不再追求成长，只是去修。那么，一切才真正开始！那么，爱得美，做得成，修得好！灵魂走在回家的路上，这种美妙殊胜的感觉远远超越你想要的爱情、成功、成长。

56. One day, you stop seeking love and just start loving; you no longer crave success, but only act; you no longer pursue growth, but only cultivate. Then, everything truly begins! Then, love beautifully, achieve successfully, cultivate well! The soul is on the path back home, and this wondrous, sublime feeling far surpasses the love, success, and growth you desire.

57. 慢慢的才知道，未必做每件事情都有意义，可还是得尽量的美丽，给自己留一份美好的记忆。你想过普通的生活，那么就会遇到普通的挫折。你想过上最好的生活，就一定会遇上最强的伤害。如果你的生活已处于低谷，那就，大胆走，因为你怎样走都是在向上，做一个勇敢的人。

57. Slowly you come to realize that not every task you undertake may be meaningful, but you still need to try to be beautiful, to leave behind a memory of beauty. If you aspire to lead an ordinary life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks. If you strive for the best life, you will inevitably face the strongest adversities. If your life is at its lowest point, then, dare to move forward, for no matter how you go, you are moving upwards, and be a brave person.

58. 说，一流的创意遇到三流的执行一定会失败;但是三流的创业遇到一流的执行却可能会成功。如果团队每个人都很有想法，那整个产品就会变得没有想法。想法很重要，执行更重要。很多人在做事前都会仔细的考虑，反复的规划，而且还有一次次的可行性分析，最后什么结果都出来的时候，你会很无语的发现，这种人会质疑，得出这个结论的条件会不会是有问题，然后，他会开始反复的论证，条件的正确性。等到箭在弦上不得不发的时候，他们还在喋喋不休。这才发现，机会不仅是给有准备的人，更是给那些愿意去实践的人。人们永远不可能通过思考而养成一种新的实践，而只能通过实践来学会一种新的思考方式。任何道路都是靠自己走出来的，而不是靠自己在梦中等来的。其中准确迈出第一脚，是尤为重要的。连邓小平都说了摸着石子过河，发展中的问题发展中解决!

58. It is said that top-notch creativity coupled with poor execution will definitely fail; however, poor entrepreneurship with top-notch execution may still succeed. If every member of the team has many ideas, the entire product may become lacking in ideas. Ideas are important, but execution is even more crucial. Many people carefully consider and repeatedly plan their actions before doing anything, and they conduct feasibility analyses time and time again. When all the results are in, you may be utterly baffled to find that such people will question whether the conditions leading to this conclusion are problematic. Then, they start to argue repeatedly about the correctness of the conditions. By the time the arrow is on the string and must be released, they are still talking non-stop. It is only then that one realizes that opportunities are not just for those who are prepared, but also for those who are willing to take action. People can never cultivate a new practice through thinking; they can only learn a new way of thinking through practice. Any path is walked out by oneself, not by waiting for it in dreams. Making the accurate first step is especially important. Even Deng Xiaoping said, "cross the river by feeling the stones," and solve the problems in development as they arise!

59. 爱到浪漫，是刚开始。爱到痛苦，是要分手。爱到平淡，就该结婚。感情发展到不同时期，就要做不同事。没有一辈子的浪漫和甜蜜，真正能长伴你身边的，只是慢慢老去的熟悉。情浓时说的一切都不可信，情淡时的每一天才是真。记住啊，陪在身边才算拥有，爱到习惯才能长久。

59. Love is romantic at the beginning. Love turns painful and it's time to break up. Love becomes mundane, and that's when you should get married. As love develops through different stages, different actions should be taken. There's no eternal romance and sweetness; what truly stays with you is the familiar that grows old with you. Everything said during the peak of passion is not to be trusted; it's the everyday during the decline of passion that is true. Remember, being by someone's side is what counts as possessing them, and love that becomes a habit is what endures.

60. 你装作刀枪不入的样子，就要做好被万箭穿心的准备。

60. You act as though you are invulnerable to weapons, so be prepared for the piercing of thousands of arrows.

61. 恋爱不是和爬楼梯一样，越爬越高就越好，而是像天平，两个人高度相对一致，才能够保持平衡，才可称得上完美。

61. Love is not like climbing stairs, where the higher you go, the better it is. Instead, it is like a balance scale, where the two people have relative heights that are consistent with each other in order to maintain balance, and only then can it be called perfect.

62. 世上有两种人，一种是活在过去，一种是活在未来。一个人的成熟的过程，恰恰是不断的与过去和解的过程，为什么过去耿耿于怀的人，物，事，现在却不以为然了为什么当下的境遇总能从过去的某些经历中找到似曾相识的感觉人，总要仰望一点什么，我们不能没有未来的希望，只是有一种默契是：理想可以远在天边，但是切入点却必须是今天，是现在，在现实中寻找。过去了的已经过去，明天还没有到来，我们唯一能够把握的就是今天，就是现在!

62. There are two kinds of people in the world, one lives in the past, and the other lives in the future. The process of a person's maturity is precisely the process of constantly reconciling with the past. Why do the things, people, and events that we were anxious about in the past no longer seem important to us now? Why do we always seem to find a sense of familiarity in certain past experiences in our current circumstances? People always need to look up to something. We cannot do without hope for the future, but there is a consensus: ideals may be far away, but the starting point must be today, the present, and seeking in reality. The past is gone, and the future has not yet arrived. The only thing we can grasp is today, the present!

63. 40我能想到最浪漫的事，就是你和她生的儿子特别像我。

63. The most romantic thing I can think of is that your son with her looks particularly like me.

64. 爱是一种能力，是时机正确的关心、关系亲密后的尊重、不强加于人的期望、理性成熟的自我把握和一颗永远燃烧的真心。

64. Love is a skill, the right timing of concern, respect after close relationships, expectations that are not imposed on others, rational and mature self-control, and a heart that burns forever.