面对生活中的难题，17句智慧箴言助你人生不再迷茫。

Faced with life's challenges, 17 wise proverbs help you navigate through life without confusion.

1. 发生一件事，喜欢它那就享受它，不喜欢它那就避开它，避不开那就改变它，改变不了那就接受它。

1. When something happens, if you like it, enjoy it; if you don't like it, avoid it; if you can't avoid it, change it; if you can't change it, accept it.

2. 有多少人信任你，你就拥有多少次成功的机会，信是什么东西？信是一种人格的力量，是超越金钱的友情，是了解、是欣赏、是覆水，具有不可逆转性。所以，言必行，行必果，能帮的忙则帮，但不可轻易许诺！

2. The number of people who trust you determines the number of opportunities for success you have. What is trust? Trust is the power of personality, the friendship that transcends money, understanding, appreciation, and once it's given, it cannot be taken back. Therefore, speak with action, act with consequence, offer help when you can, but do not make promises lightly!

3. 对付自私的人，不是恨她，不是不理她，而是渐渐远离她，从心底远离她，然后装作什么都不知道。如果她去找别人，那么你会发现，很多人都远离了她。

3. When dealing with a selfish person, it's not about hating them or ignoring them, but rather gradually distancing yourself from them, from the bottom of your heart, and then acting as if you know nothing. If she seeks others, you will find that many people have distanced themselves from her.

4. 态度决定高度，思路决定出路，细节关乎命运。

4. Attitude determines altitude, mindset determines the way out, and details concern fate.

5. 承认自己需要改变需要很大的勇气，做出改变需要更大的勇气。

5. Admitting that one needs to change requires great courage, and making the change requires even greater courage.

6. 所有的人都是平凡的，有些人因知道这一点而真正成了平凡的人。

6. All people are ordinary, and some truly become ordinary because they know this.

7. 灵魂需要原谅，但绝不意味可无原则的畏缩;心灵需要宽容，但不意味着可以任意放弃。做人首先得承担责任!小善如涓流，点滴汇聚终成大海;小恶如磨石，不见其减日总有损。做人勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之!名望一闪即逝，钱财振翅而飞，走红是个意外，久长唯有人品。做事要先做人，做人要先先立德!

人 7. The soul needs forgiveness, but it does not mean that one can retreat without principles; the heart needs tolerance, but it does not mean that one can give up arbitrarily. First and foremost, one must take responsibility for oneself! Small kindness is like a stream, gathering drop by drop, it eventually becomes the sea; small evil is like a grindstone, its reduction is not visible, but it is always damaging. In life, do not neglect small kindness and do not act on small evil! Fame is fleeting, money takes flight, popularity is an accident, and only character can last a long time. To do things, one must first be a person; to be a person, one must first cultivate one's character!

8. 真正建立共产主义社会的任务正是要由青年担负。 --列宁

8. The task of truly establishing a communist society is precisely one that must be undertaken by the youth. -- Lenin

9. 白发无凭吾老矣！青春不再汝知乎？年将弱冠非童子，学不成名岂丈夫？ --俞良弼

9. White hair is a sign of my old age! Can you not know that youth is no more? At the age of nearly twenty, I am no longer a child. If I do not achieve success in my studies, how can I be a man? -- Yu Liangbi

10. 人生不是百米冲刺，而是越野长跑。如果我们总是向前冲，我们不仅不能赢，而且因为力量耗尽而无法到达终点。

10. Life is not a 100-meter dash, but a cross-country marathon. If we always rush forward, we not only cannot win, but also cannot reach the finish line due to exhaustion of our strength.

11. 山盟海誓是一种经常让高山和海洋领受尴尬的重量级承诺。

11. Vows made under the mountain and the sea are often heavy commitments that can put an embarrassing burden on the high mountains and the vast oceans.

12. 尽管有各种各样的计算机，人类仍然是最非凡的。

12. Despite the existence of all kinds of computers, humans are still the most extraordinary.

13. 找借口是错误的外部原因，对个人成长没有帮助。相反，找出自己的原因和解决方案更有利于进步。

13. Making excuses is a wrong external reason and does not help with personal growth. On the contrary, finding one's own reasons and solutions is more conducive to progress.

14. 谁要是想着将来，就有生活的意义和目的。 --赫塞

14. He who thinks of the future has the meaning and purpose of life. --Hesse

15. 水在杯子里像杯子，水在花瓶里像花瓶。水是世界上最软的物质也是最硬的东西。所以说，上善若水，做人应学习水的品质！

15. Water looks like a cup when it is in a cup, and like a vase when it is in a vase. Water is the softest substance in the world and also the hardest thing. Therefore, the highest good is like water; one should learn from the qualities of water in being a person!

16. 自尊、自知、自制是做人最高境界。尊重自己、尊重别人、保持尊严，对自己的行为负责是做人的基本素养！

16. Self-esteem, self-knowledge, and self-control are the highest境界 of being human. Respecting oneself, respecting others, maintaining dignity, and taking responsibility for one's actions are the basic qualities of being a person!

17. 要想整个人生改变，那么思想的基础必须改变;因为只有当你拥有了全新的想法，你的生命才能发生改变。

17. If you want to change your entire life, the foundation of your thoughts must change; because only when you have brand new ideas can your life undergo a change.

18. 1在人之上,要看得起别人;在人之下,要看得起自己。

18.1 Be respectful to others when you are above them, and to yourself when you are below them.

19. 有时候，生活不免走向低谷，才能迎接你的下一个高点。

19. Sometimes, life has to dip into the valley before you can welcome your next peak.

20. 家庭的幸福需夫妻共同努力，而破坏它，一人就够了。

20. The happiness of a family requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, but it takes only one person to destroy it.

21. 人，作为一个理性的生物，应该开怀畅饮，人生最美的时刻就是陶醉。

21. As a rational being, humans should indulge in joyous drinking, for the most beautiful moments in life are those spent in intoxication.

22. 做一个低调的人，做一个受欢迎的人，从而，保持生命里的的一份恬淡。

22. Be a modest person, be a popular person, and thus, maintain a peacefulness in life.

23. 天下熙熙攘攘，都是为了利来；天下熙熙攘攘，都是为了利往。

23. The world is bustling and busy, all for the sake of profit; the world is bustling and busy, all heading towards profit.

24. 方圆做人，八面玲珑；圆满做事，事事顺心。人心叵测，凡事最好留一手，有闲时，可研究一下模糊哲学，人生这套马车，如若安上方方正正的轮子，你没听说过，我也没听说过，寸步难行嘛！

24. Be round in character, versatile in all aspects; do things perfectly, and everything will go smoothly. People's hearts are unpredictable, so it's best to keep a trick up your sleeve. When you have free time, you can study some fuzzy philosophy. In this carriage of life, if you put square wheels on it, neither you nor I have heard of it, and it would be difficult to move an inch!

25. 世界不止一扇门，当上帝为你关上所有的门时，它还会为你留下一扇窗。我不知道每个人的内心世界有多大，但我知道：海阔凭鱼跃，天高任鸟飞，我知道：贵珠出于贱蚌，我知道：无压抑，生命便无飞跃。我们成长的历史，便是心灵跋涉的历史，顺境时，宠辱不惊;逆境时，坦然面对，这何尝不是一种领悟!

25. The world has not just one door; when God closes all the doors for you, He still leaves a window open. I don't know how vast the inner world of each person is, but I know: The sea is vast for the fish to leap, and the sky is high for the birds to fly; I know: Precious pearls come from humble oysters; I know: Without oppression, there can be no leap of life. Our history of growth is the history of the journey of the soul. In prosperity, we remain undisturbed by praise or blame; in adversity, we face it calmly. Isn't this also a kind of enlightenment?

26. 不管怎样，仍要坚持，没有梦想，永远到不了远方。

26. No matter what, one must persevere; without dreams, one will never reach the distant lands.

27. 人生最大的悲剧不是死亡，而是他们不再有爱。

27. The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but the loss of love.

28. 别人和你说的话，不管出于什么初衷，能信但不能全信。但是，别人说的时候，尽量认真听，仔细回应，这是对人的尊重。

28. No matter what good intentions the other person has when they say something to you, you can believe them but not fully trust them. However, when the other person is speaking, try to listen carefully and respond thoughtfully, as this is a sign of respect for the person.

29. 要摆脱人与事的困境，就难免要求人，求人就难免要低三下四，但着眼于未来的成功，即使像蟑螂一样的生活也应在所不惜，风水毕竟轮流转。放下架子，该屈就屈，能屈能伸，以屈为伸方为英雄！

29. To get out of the predicament of people and things, one inevitably has to ask for help, and asking for help inevitably involves being humble. However, with an eye on future success, even a life like that of a cockroach should not be grudged, for the cycle of fortune and misfortune eventually turns. Let go of your pride, be humble when necessary, and be able to bend and stretch. To bend and yet stretch is the truest form of heroism!

30. 心里的感觉总会是这样，你越期待的会越行越远，你越在乎的对你的伤害越大。

30. It's always like this in the heart: the more you look forward to, the farther it seems to go; the more you care about, the greater the harm it inflicts on you.

31. 再长的路一步一步得走也能走到终点，再近的距离不迈开第一步永远也不会到达。

31. No matter how long the road is, it can be reached step by step. And no matter how close the distance, it will never be reached if the first step is not taken.

32. 16永远不要埋怨你已经发生的事情,要么就改变它,要么就安静的接受它。

32. Never complain about what has already happened; either change it, or quietly accept it.

33. 多闻不如多见，多言不如多行，多疑不如多问，多虑不如多防。做人要清醒，勿为是非所蔽；处事要冷静，切忌冒然所为！

33. It is better to see much than to hear much, better to do much than to speak much, better to ask much than to suspect much, and better to prevent much than to worry much. One should be clear-minded in life, not to be obscured by right and wrong; and in dealing with affairs, one should be calm, never to act impulsively!

34. 人生最有趣的事，就是送旧迎新，因为人类最高的欲望，就是时刻创造新的生活。

34. The most interesting thing in life is to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, because the highest desire of humans is to constantly create new lives.

35. 生活的理想，就是为了理想的生活。--张闻天

35. The ideal of life is to live according to one's ideals. -- Zhang Wen Tian

36. 天行健君子以自强不息;地势坤君子以厚德载物。

36. The firmament is vigorous; a gentleman seeks to strengthen himself ceaselessly. The earth is accommodating; a gentleman carries things with a profound virtue.

37. 任何新生事物在开始时都不过是一株幼苗，一切新生事物之可贵，就因为在这新生的幼苗中，有无限的活力在成长，成长为巨人成长为力量。 --周恩来

37. Any new thing is just a seedling at the beginning. The value of all new things lies in the fact that, within this newly sprouted seedling, there is infinite vitality growing, developing into a giant, into strength. -- Zhou Enlai

38. 君子泰然自若，不会骄傲;小人骄傲自满，不能泰然。良好素质使人宠辱不惊;不良习性使人难盖劣径。做人要学君子，不学小人!思想要先进化，生活要规律化，语言要文明化，学习要终身化。做人要常想自己的错，忘掉别人的过，敢于做一个真正的自我!

38. A gentleman maintains composure and does not become proud; a small person becomes proud and complacent and cannot maintain composure. Good character allows one to remain undisturbed by honor and disgrace; bad habits make it difficult to conceal one's faults. Be like a gentleman and not like a small person! Think progressively, live regularly, speak civilly, and study throughout life. When dealing with others, always think of your own mistakes, forget others' faults, and dare to be a genuine self!

39. 老骥伏枥，志在千里；烈士暮年，壮心不已。--曹操

39. An old horse lying at the stall, its ambition lies in traveling a thousand miles; a hero in his twilight years, his brave heart does not cease. -- Cao Cao

40. 人类总是疯狂的，而那些认为自己能治愈别人疯狂的人是最疯狂的。

40. Humans are always mad, and those who believe they can cure others' madness are the most mad of all.

41. 个性是一个人成长中至为重要的一环-渴望人生成功者，必须认真分析自己的个性，取优去虐，让自己趋近完善。请注意，没有人能够深刻地解析你的个性，要承担一个任务，只有你自己是最好的医生。

41. Personality is an extremely important aspect of one's growth - for those who desire success in life, it is necessary to seriously analyze their own personality, discard the negative and embrace the positive, and strive towards perfection. Please note that no one can deeply understand your personality as well as you can; when it comes to undertaking a task, you are the best doctor for yourself.

42. 牺牲是怎么回事？会有不牺牲的生活吗？只要你是一个人，生活在这个世界上，你就必须永远做出牺牲。爱一个女人牺牲了爱其他女人的自由。在十年内完成一项伟大的事业相当于在短短的一生中牺牲十年。如果你有妻子，你必须为你的妻子做出牺牲；如果你有孩子，你必须为你的孩子做出牺牲。每个人都追求幸福，所以我们必须为幸福做出牺牲。只有付出大量牺牲的人才能得到他的要求。

42. What is sacrifice? Is there a life without sacrifice? As long as you are a human being and live in this world, you must always make sacrifices. Loving a woman means sacrificing the freedom to love other women. Accomplishing a great undertaking in ten years is equivalent to sacrificing ten years of a short life. If you have a wife, you must make sacrifices for her; if you have children, you must make sacrifices for them. Everyone seeks happiness, so we must make sacrifices for happiness. Only those who make a great deal of sacrifice can obtain what they desire.

43. 人生不在于掌握一手好牌，而在于打好你掌握的牌。

43. The essence of life does not lie in holding a good hand of cards, but in playing the cards you have well.

44. 亚当只是个人这就解释了一切。他不是苹果，他只是想要苹果，因为苹果是禁果。

44. Adam being an individual explains everything. He is not an apple; he simply wants an apple because the apple is the forbidden fruit.

45. 做人，无法要求万能，但至少做到可能，才能堪受人生担当；做事，无法要求完美，但至少要能完成，才算尽到自己责任！

45. As a person, one cannot demand omnipotence, but at least one must strive for the possible to be worthy of the responsibilities of life; in handling matters, one cannot expect perfection, but at least one must be able to complete them to consider oneself having fulfilled one's responsibilities!

46. 为了在生活中努力发挥自己的作用，热爱人生吧。--罗丹

46. "To strive to play your role in life, love life." -- Rodin

47. 做人难，做事难，面对千难万阻，要提升自我。如果事有勉强，应该敢于说不；如果是正当利益，则应当仁不让；甚至有时还得来点霸王硬上弓，要有脸皮厚的时候，也要有头皮硬的时候。

47. It's hard to be a person, it's hard to do things. When facing thousands of difficulties and obstacles, one should improve oneself. If the situation is forced, one should dare to say no; if it is a legitimate interest, one should not shrink back; and sometimes one may even have to force one's way through like a tyrant, showing both thick skin and tough determination.

48. 如果一个人爱你、特别在乎你，有一个表现是他还是有点怕你。

48. If someone loves you and cares deeply about you, one manifestation of this is that they are still a bit afraid of you.

49. 别人认识你是你的面容和躯体，人们定义你是你的头脑和心灵。

49. People recognize you through your face and body, while they define you through your mind and soul.

50. 如果你不能成为大道，那就当一条小路何妨如果你不能成为太阳，那就当一颗星星何妨在平凡中做不平凡的自己，在平凡中造就精彩人生，站得高，看得远，世界在你心中，你的心有多大，世界就有多大，你就会走多远!(励志天下w

50. If you cannot become the Great Path, why not be a small road? If you cannot become the sun, why not be a star? Make an extraordinary yourself in the ordinary, create a wonderful life in the ordinary, stand tall, see far, the world is in your heart, as big as your heart is, and as far as you will go! (Motivational for the world)

51. 伤害你的人不是比你强大就是比你弱小。如果他比你弱小，宽恕他；如果他比你强大，宽恕自己。

51. The person who has hurt you is either stronger or weaker than you. If he is weaker, forgive him; if he is stronger, forgive yourself.

52. 人生像一趟有来无回的列车，开出去了，就要前行，也许路上会有障碍、险情，也许会因为种种原因而无法继续前行，但你毕竟欣赏到了沿途的风景，这风景让你哭，让你笑，让你感悟，也让你一天天变得坚强。

52. Life is like a one-way train with no return. Once it departs, you must continue on your journey. There may be obstacles and dangers along the way, and perhaps you may not be able to proceed due to various reasons. But in the end, you have still appreciated the scenery along the route. This scenery makes you cry, laugh, reflect, and also makes you stronger day by day.

53. 戒轻诺之言：不要轻易向人许愿。轻易许愿，会丧失信用。

53. Avoid making light promises: Do not easily make promises to others. Making light promises can lead to a loss of credibility.

54. 生活里的每一个细节都蕴藏着快乐，只是在于你是否感受到了而已。让自己的快乐扩张，鼓舞和影响周围的人。

54. Every detail in life holds joy, it just depends on whether you feel it or not. Let your joy expand, inspire, and influence the people around you.

55. 性情中人才是真人，性情中人才是仁人，性情中人才是美人。人而无情，不可以为人，性情臻于极致者，只是神人也!心商是维持心理健康，调适心理压力，保持良好心理状态的能力。心商的高低，决定人生苦乐，维系人的健康，主宰人生命运。做人需要修炼心商!

55. It is only the person with temperament who is truly a human being, who is truly benevolent, and who is truly beautiful. A person without temperament cannot be considered a person. The person whose temperament reaches the peak is merely a divine being! Emotional Intelligence is the ability to maintain mental health, adjust psychological stress, and maintain a good mental state. The level of emotional intelligence determines the joys and sorrows of life, maintains a person's health, and governs the fate of a person. Being a person requires the cultivation of emotional intelligence!

56. 处在社交圈中是一种烦恼，而超脱出来简直是一场悲剧。

56. Being in the social circle is a nuisance, and stepping out of it is almost a tragedy.

57. 我是江南第一燕，为衔春色上分梢。 --瞿秋白

57. I am the first swallow in the South of the Yangtze, flying to catch the spring color on the tip of the branch. -- Qu Qiubai

58. 别人的嘴我们无法去控制，但我们可以抱一颗淡然的心去看一切纷扰。心静才能听到万物的声音，心清才能看到万物的本质。

58. We cannot control the mouths of others, but we can maintain a calm heart to observe all the turmoil. Only with a tranquil mind can we hear the voices of all things, and only with a clear mind can we see the essence of all things.

59. 有些人必须太注重精神，有些人必须太注重身体；有些人必须太富有同情心，有些人必须太骄傲。我们不想说人们应该做什么，我们只想说人类是多种类型的。所谓的人类完美实际上并不存在。

59. Some people must be overly concerned with the spiritual, while others must be overly concerned with the physical; some must be overly compassionate, and some must be overly proud. We do not want to say what people should do, we just want to say that humans are of various types. The so-called human perfection does not actually exist.

60. 没有必要去嫉妒别人的成绩，人缘，地位，奖学金之类。原因有

60. There is no need to envy others' achievements, popularity, status, scholarships, and so on. The reasons are:

61. 人情冷暖、世态炎凉，平常朋友平常过。交朋接友，不可急功近利，友情投资，宜走长线，拜拜冷庙，烧烧冷灶，平时多烧香，哪怕是只言片语的问候，亦是交友之道。

61. The world is cold and indifferent; treat ordinary friends in an ordinary way. In making friends, one should not seek immediate benefits. Investing in friendship should be long-term. Visit neglected temples and tend to abandoned hearths. Burn incense regularly, even if it's just a few words of greeting; this is also a way to cultivate friendships.

62. 方圆做人，八面玲珑；圆满做事，事事顺心。做事不要太绝，凡事都要给自己留条后路。在已获胜的情况下，放对手一马，对手也许会心怀感激，在你不得志时，拉你一把。

62. Be a versatile person, with all sides rounded and smooth; be thorough in your work, and everything will go well. Don't be too extreme in your actions, and always leave yourself an escape route. In a winning situation, give your opponent a break, and they may be grateful. When you're not doing well, they might give you a helping hand.

63. 面对风险，我们习惯于选择最稳定的方法。在能力允许的范围内，给自己更多的勇气，不要害怕离开舒适区，很多成功都发生在勇敢之后。

63. Faced with risks, we are accustomed to choosing the most stable method. Within the scope of our abilities, give ourselves more courage, do not be afraid to leave the comfort zone, many successes occur after courage.

64. 每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易：被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。

64. Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily: concealed by habits, distracted by time, and worn down by inertia.

65. 人生短暂，不要花太多时间思考如何度过一生。

65. Life is short, don't spend too much time thinking about how to spend a lifetime.

66. 青年人的特点在于他们抱有作理想事业的宏大志愿。 --加里宁

66. The characteristic of young people lies in their grand aspirations for idealistic causes. -- Khrushchev

67. 独自异地求学，要学着多和父母联系沟通，要学着多听长辈的话。要学着忍耐，没有什么是你忍不了的，别人再错，也犯不着拿别人的错误惩罚自己。

67. Studying independently in a different place, one should learn to communicate more with one's parents and listen to the words of the elder generation. One should learn to endure, as there is nothing that you cannot endure. Even if others make mistakes, it is not necessary to punish yourself for their errors.

68. 9才华其实就是把与人相同的聪明用到与众不同的地方。

68. 9 Talent is actually the application of the same intelligence as people have, in different and unique places.

69. 是是非非，纷纷扰扰，不看、不听、不想，就能心生清静。有时，烦恼不是因为别人伤害了你，而是因为你太在意。

69. Amidst the complexities and confusions, if one does not look, listen, or think, tranquility can arise in the heart. Sometimes, the source of烦恼 (annoyance) is not because others have hurt you, but because you are too concerned about it.

70. 从生活中获得最大收获和享受的秘诀是过冒险的生活。

70. The secret to obtaining the greatest gain and enjoyment from life is to live an adventurous life.

71. 青年人，我们要鼓足勇气！不论现在有人要怎样与我们为难，我们的前途一定美好。 --雨果

71. Young people, we must gather courage! No matter how difficult others may try to make it for us now, our future is definitely bright. -- Hugo