揭开人生因果：十八条定律揭示命运的不竭动力

Unveiling the Causes and Effects of Life: Eighteen Laws Reveal the Endless Motivation of Destiny

1. 46相逢又告别，归帆又离岸，是往日欢乐的终结，未来幸福的开端。

1. Meeting and parting again, setting sail and leaving the shore, it signifies the end of past joys and the beginning of future happiness.

2. 2爱是心脏上的一根神经，当它不在，也能活。只是麻木些，也或许在某个时刻，会痛不可当。

2.2 Love is a nerve on the heart, and even without it, life can go on. It might just be numb, and perhaps at some moment, it can be excruciatingly painful.

3. 70则昕是我的求不得，而你，与我二人一命的你，却是我的舍不得。求不得，不过痛彻心扉，焦虑难安。舍不得， 若硬舍去，便是失魂落魄，不惜性命。——《艳鬼》

3. 70 is my unattainable longing, while you, who share a life with the two of us, are the one I can't bear to let go of. Unattainable, it is nothing but a piercing pain and a restless anxiety. Not being able to let go, if one were to force it, it would be to lose one's soul and not care for one's life... —— "The Ghostly Beauty"

4. 12人不应该是插在花瓶里的供人欣赏的静物，而是蔓延在草原上随风起舞的韵律。生命不是安排，而是追求。人生的意义也许永远没有答案，但也要尽情感受这种没有答案的人生。

4. The 12 people should not be still lifes placed in vases for admiration, but rather a rhythm spreading across the grasslands, dancing with the wind. Life is not about arrangement, but about pursuit. The meaning of life may never have an answer, but one should still fully experience this life without an answer.

5. 44他放弃的不是我，也不是感情，他放弃的是他自己，人这一辈子，可能会放弃很多东西，很多人。但最可怕的，就是放弃自己。——《撒野》

5. He didn't give up me, nor did he give up emotions; he gave up himself. In a lifetime, one might give up many things and many people. But the scariest thing is to give up on oneself.—From "Saiye"

6. 21待到霜雪退，拜谢个中是非。诸君且听，吾谁与归。—— 墨香铜臭 《魔道祖师》

6. Until the frost and snow recede, I will thank for the truth and lies within. Gentlemen, please listen, with whom shall I return? — Mo Xiangxiu, "The Untamed"

7. 16愿你成为这样的一个人：不炫耀，不争吵，做一个博学的人；不空洞，不浮躁，做一个丰盈的人；即便生命枯竭，亦在优雅中变老。

7.16 May you be a person who does not boast, does not quarrel, and is learned; who is not hollow, does not flutter, and is abundant; and even as life withers, to age with elegance.

8. 除了那些天生的好命好运的人之外，走好运的人都有一个突出的特点，那就是：他们都知道如何吸引好运，如何激发别人帮助自己的热情。这些往往来源于其人的信念和心态，一个阳光积极快乐的人，身边总会有着一群人，愿意接近他，愿意帮助他，好事也愿意与之分享，而一个阴暗抱怨忧郁的人，身边的人会越来越少，没有人愿意整天听他的抱怨和牢骚，更不可能去忍受他的讽刺和刻薄，这样的人，往往路越走越窄。那么应该抱有怎样的心态坚持怎样的信念，就不言而喻了。

8. Apart from those who are naturally blessed with good fortune, people who enjoy good luck all share an outstanding characteristic: they all know how to attract good luck and how to inspire others to help them. This often stems from their beliefs and mindset. A sunny, positive, and joyful person always has a group of people around them who are willing to get close to them, help them, and share good things with them. In contrast, a gloomy, complaining, and melancholic person will find fewer and fewer people around them. No one wants to listen to their complaints and grievances all day, let alone endure their sarcasm and sharp-tongued remarks. Such people often find their paths narrowing as they go along. Therefore, it is self-evident as to what kind of mindset and beliefs one should hold.

9. 15如果我喜欢什么，我就不能容忍其他东西，永远记住。一千遍，一万遍，几年不变。这首诗就是这样。

9. 15 If I like something, I cannot tolerate anything else, and I will always remember it. A thousand times, a ten thousand times, it doesn't change for years. That's how the poem is.

10. 41“时间并没有在他们的聊笑中插入沉默、茫然和停顿，就好像那些年他们从来都是并肩走过的。” —— 《某某》

10. 41 "Time did not insert silence, confusion, and pauses into their laughter, as if they had always walked side by side through those years." —— "Somebody"

11. 13决定放弃了的事，就请放弃得干干净净。那些决定再也不见面的人，就真的不要见面了。请不要让我再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人，就请先好好爱自己。

11.13 Matters that have been decided to be abandoned should be abandoned cleanly. Those who have decided never to meet again should truly not meet. Please don't let me do anything that betrays myself anymore. If you want to love others, please love yourself well first.

12. 41后视镜里是一轮落日，他是能拖住太阳的少年。——《白日事故》

12. In the rearview mirror was a setting sun; he was the boy who could hold back the sun. — "Daytime Accident"

13. 37飞扬的少年最动人心，奔跑的时候像是穿过了光阴。——木苏里《某某》

13. The soaring youth is the most heartwarming, as they run, it seems as if they have crossed through time. — Musu Li, "Somebody"

14. 33拿自己的热脸贴对方的冷屁股，还总认为自己还做得不够好……在自己眼里，这是爱；在对方眼里，这是烦；在别人眼里，这是贱。

14. To offer one's warm face to the cold ass of another, yet always thinking that one has not done enough... In one's own eyes, this is love; in the eyes of the other, it is irritation; in the eyes of others, it is humility.

15. 26想孤身前往去看一场花事。如果午后微雨突袭，你恰好渡船而过，不妨让我们在春柳拂面的桥头相见。

15. I wish to go alone to see a flower event. If a light rain suddenly hits in the afternoon and you happen to cross by boat, why not meet us at the bridge where the spring willows sway?

16. 55哥这次特地来看我了吗？无论你是否来看我，我都很高兴。

16. Did Ge 55 come to visit me specially this time? No matter whether you come to visit me or not, I am very happy.

17. 10东风吹落桃花，沾你衣襟，即是我来看你。——《仙道第一小白脸》

17. The east wind blows off peach blossoms,沾你衣襟, and that is me coming to see you. —— "The First White Face in the Path of Immortality"

18. 70拿自己的热脸贴对方的冷屁股，还总认为自己还做得不够好……在自己眼里，这是爱；在对方眼里，这是烦；在别人眼里，这是贱。

18. 70 takes their warm face and presses it against the cold buttocks of the other person, yet always thinks they haven't done enough... In their own eyes, this is love; in the eyes of the other person, it is烦扰; in the eyes of others, it is cheapness.

19. 31天下疆域，风雨水土，终将都归我所有，你便是成了灰，化了骨，那也是我的灰，我的骨——凰权

19. In 31 days, the borders of the land, the rain, wind, soil, will all belong to me. Even if you turn to ashes and bones, those ashes and bones are still mine, my bones — the power of the phoenix.

20. 40你从风尘萧瑟中走来，我在秋意正深处等你。满身风雨，思念成城。——《穿堂惊掠琵琶声》

20. 40 You come from the desolate dust, and I wait for you deeply in the autumn. Covered in风雨， my thoughts have become a fortress. —— "The Violin's Melody Surges Through the Hall"

21. 53记住，自己的路，自己走，别人只能影响你，但绝对不能决定你！

21. 53 Remember, walk your own path, on your own. Others can only influence you, but they absolutely cannot decide for you!

22. 26“人就是这样，想来想去，犹豫来犹豫去，觉得自己没有准备好，勇气没攒够，其实只要迈出那一步，就会发现，其实所有的一切早就准备好了” —— 《撒野》

22. 26 "People are like this, thinking and hesitating, feeling unprepared and lacking courage, but in fact, as long as you take that first step, you will find that everything is already prepared." —— "Savage"

23. 56是非在己，毁誉由人，得失不论。——墨香铜臭《魔道祖师》

23. Whether it is right or wrong is in oneself, and whether one is praised or criticized depends on others; neither gain nor loss is to be considered. — Mo Xiangxiu, "The Magic of the Ancestor"

24. 17朝暮与年岁并往，然后与你一同行至天光——《天光》

24. Day and night, along with the years, pass by, and then I walk with you until the light of day——《Daylight》

25. 55你是我今生最美的相遇，是我最赏心悦目的风景！

25. 55 You are the most beautiful encounter in my life, the most delightful sight I have ever seen!

26. 54我喜欢你，所以希望你被簇拥包围，所以你走的路要繁花盛开，要人声鼎沸。——《某某》

26. 54 I like you, so I hope you are surrounded and embraced, so the path you walk is filled with blooming flowers and bustling with people's voices. —— "Somebody"

27. 69永远不要因为觉得投入的成本太高，就不敢去下止损当下的决心。

27. Never be afraid to make the decision to place a stop-loss just because you feel the cost of investment is too high.

28. 12一个男人跟人上床，那可能是为性。但如果他愿意陪他睡觉，那绝对是因为爱。

28. 12. When a man sleeps with someone, it might be for sex. But if he is willing to stay and sleep with them, it is definitely because of love.

29. 60英语不该是这样的结局，不该被辜负，不该这样离开。

29. English should not end like this, should not be betrayed, and should not leave in this way.

30. 2荼靡，彼岸，今生最后一朵，来生第一朵。迩纯说，当他们死了，荼靡一定是白色的，尽头的花朵会为他们洗去尘埃，那时彼岸之花将怒放着等待他们到来。迩纯还说，他猜不到彼岸花的颜色IK笑了，他说他知道，那一定是红色，血一样的红色，引领他们来世的要走的路。——《活着就是恶心》

30. 2Begonia, the other shore, the last bloom in this life, the first bloom in the next life. Er Chun said, when they die, the begonia will surely be white, the flowers at the end will wash away their dust, and then the flowers of the other shore will bloom fiercely, waiting for their arrival. Er Chun also said, he couldn't guess the color of the flower of the other shore, and he smiled, saying he knew, it must be red, the red like blood, leading them on the path they will take in the next life. — "To Be Alive Is Ugly"

31. 46“亲爱的，看见外面灰色的瞭望塔了吗？看到它的那瞬间，我突然觉得不爱你了”——灰塔笔记

31. 46 "Dear, have you seen the grey observation tower outside? The moment I saw it, I suddenly felt that I don't love you anymore"—Notes from the Grey Tower

32. 31太阳的光芒远远胜过月亮，但太阳永远只能独自天马行空，而月亮却有星星相伴。世间万物中，其实太阳最寂寞。

32. The light of the sun far surpasses that of the moon, but the sun can only soar through the sky alone, while the moon is accompanied by stars. Among all things in the world, the sun is actually the most lonely.

33. 3绕过江山错落，万里江河，我已经习惯寂寞，直到遇见你，才看见人间烟火。

33. 3 Circumventing the staggered landscapes, the ten thousand miles of rivers and lakes, I had become accustomed to solitude, until I met you, and then I saw the human world in all its hustle and bustle.

34. 5“我的大考官这么好，我居然忘记了。”——《全球高考》

34. 5 "My big examiner is so good, I even forgot." — "Global College Entrance Examination"

35. 39所有的苦难与背负尽头，都是行云流水般的此世光阴。—priest《大哥》

35. After all the suffering and burdens, the end is just a flowing stream of this world's fleeting moments. —priest, "Big Brother"

36. 44“周遭满身欢喜，我只顾着心疼。”——《山河表里》

36. 44 "Surrounded by joy all around, I can only feel pain in my heart." — From "The Inner and Outer Rivers and Mountains"

37. 24很久很久以后、你是否彼岸花，美丽而忧伤。

37. 24 Long, long time after, are you the spider lily, beautiful yet sorrowful?

38. 12只要有一个歌迷还在听，我就会继续唱下去。我的时代不会过去。

38. 12 As long as there is one fan still listening, I will keep on singing. My era will not pass.

39. 22人间骄阳正好，风雨林梢，彼时他们正当年少。

39. At 22, under the scorching sun, with the wind and rain at the tips of the trees, they were in their prime youth.

40. 25如果遇上比自己强大的多的敌人，向前比退避胜算大——《杀破狼》

40. 25 If encountering an enemy much stronger than oneself, advancing is better than retreating——《Kill the Wolf》

41. 10待君归来时，共饮长生酒。 ——《犹记斐然》

41. Wait for your return, and then we will drink the elixir of immortality. —— "Remembering Feiran"

42. 15善恶因果，一念之间，一念缘起，一念缘灭。在善的世界里，恶是一只迷途的羔羊，但在恶的囚笼中，善却是任人宰割的羔羊，善需要基础，恶却永无边界。

42. The cause and effect of good and evil, all arise and vanish in a single thought. In the world of goodness, evil is a lost lamb, but in the cage of evil, goodness is a lamb to be slaughtered at will. Goodness requires a foundation, while evil has no bounds.

43. 26“你知道吗，有些人，会以各种你情愿或者不情愿的方式，留在你的记忆里，比如我。”——《撒野》

43. 26 "Do you know, some people will stay in your memory in various ways, whether you wish it or not, like me."——《Savage》

44. 27“我的大考官这么好，我居然忘记了。”——《全球高考》

44. 27 "My big examiner is so good that I even forgot." — From "Global College Entrance Examination"

45. 26当你凝视深渊时深渊也在凝视着你。——《死亡万花筒》

45. 26 When you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes back at you. —— "The Scissors of Death and Life"

46. 9“第一次送你，也是第一份礼物。我挑了最美的花，四季给你，孟先生请笑纳。”——《穿堂惊惊琵琶声》

46. 9 "This is the first time I'm giving it to you, and it's also the first gift. I've chosen the most beautiful flowers, to give you all four seasons, Mr. Meng, please accept them with a smile." —— From "The Violin Sounds Like a Thunderous Thunderclap"

47. 23有人心易变，三头五年就面目全非，也有人心如止水，十万八千里走过，初心不改。——Priest《杀破狼》

47. Some people's hearts change easily, and they become unrecognizable after three or five years. However, there are also people whose hearts remain as still as water, and their original intentions do not change after traveling tens of thousands of miles. — Priest, "Kill the Wolf"

48. 21用心做人，用爱做事！忘记昨日所有的烦恼，今日依然是初升的太阳！

48. Live with 21 hearts, act with love! Forget all the troubles of yesterday, for today is still the rising sun!

49. 2你才二十几岁，就担心这辈子再也遇不到喜欢的人了。余生很长，何必慌张。

49. 2 You're only in your twenties and you're worrying that you might never meet someone you like in this lifetime. Life is long, why worry so much?

50. 15相逢又告别，归帆又离岸，是往日欢乐的终结，未来幸福的开端。

50. Meeting again and saying goodbye, the sails return and the ship sets sail once more, marking the end of past joys and the beginning of future happiness.

51. 40那个人已经烙在他的骨骼里，在他有生之年都会让他痛，像他胸口的痕迹一样，成了一块疤。

51. The number 40 has been branded into his bones, and it will cause him pain for the rest of his life, like a scar on his chest.

52. 48从卖气球的人那里，每个孩子牵走一个心愿。

52. From the seller of balloons, each child walks away with a wish tied to one.

53. 48他想，他见过一个光明炽热的人，靠着这个，他可以走过所有寒冬。——《全球高考》

53. He thought that he had seen a person of bright and intense light, by relying on which, he could walk through all the cold winters. —— "Global College Entrance Examination"

54. 53待君归来时，共饮长生酒。 ——《犹记斐然》

54. When you return, let's drink the elixir of immortality together. —— From "Yi Ji Feiran" (Remembering Feiran)

55. 一颗感恩的心很重要，这代表我们能否用真心在生活，在困难的时候帮助我们的人，在伤心难过的时候安慰我们的人，拥抱着一颗感恩的心面对生活，好运才会来到我们身边。

55. A grateful heart is very important, as it represents whether we can live with sincerity, help those in need in times of difficulty, comfort those who are heartbroken and sad, and face life with a heart of gratitude. Only then will good fortune come to us.

56. 43世界灿烂盛大，欢迎回家。——《全球高考》

56. The world is brilliant and magnificent, welcome home. — "Global College Entrance Examination"

57. 5生活就是要把你折腾的死去活来，你要做的就是咬牙坚持下去。

57. Life is about pushing you to the brink of death and life, what you need to do is to bite your teeth and hold on.

58. 35他始终到老都没有结婚。熟习他的人都晓得，他所爱的人的头衔，和他车子的副座一样，任何人都不能碰，永远都是空着的。或者是，早就已经被填满了。

58. 35 He never got married all his life. Those who knew him well knew that the title of the person he loved was like the passenger seat of his car — off-limits to anyone, always empty. Or perhaps, it had long been filled.

59. 14希望你永久快乐，任何选择过后都洒脱。——《刺青》

59. I wish you eternal happiness, carefree after any choice. — "Tattoo"

60. 6你送我的玫瑰还开着，我能做那个追光的人吗？——《垂耳执事》

60. The roses you gave me are still blooming. Can I be the one chasing the light? —— "The Earsplitting Butler"

61. 3南到南沙群岛，北到漠河，你所站的地方，你在逃亡里走过的每一寸土地，满目疮痍的故乡，变成废墟的城市，就是你的祖国。——《二零一三》

61. From the southernmost part to the Nansha Islands, to the northernmost point at Mohe, every inch of land you have stood on, every step you have taken in your flight, the war-torn hometown, the cities reduced to ruins, all of these are your motherland. — "2013"

62. 31我很好，不吵不闹不炫耀，不要委屈不要嘲笑，也不需要别人知道。

62. 31 I'm fine, without making a fuss or showing off, without feeling wronged or being mocked, and also without needing others to know.

63. 51“江山是我的责任，你才是我的牵挂。”——《帝王攻略》

63. 51 "The realm is my responsibility, while you are my concern." —— "The Emperors Strategy"

64. 56丈夫立世，为国为民。驱逐外侮，复我疆域，以民族立于万世，纵死亦无愧于心。此为毕生之愿。 ——《谨言》

64. A husband stands in the world for the country and the people. Drives away foreign aggression, restores our territory, and establishes our nation for all eternity; even if one dies, there will be no regret in one's heart. This is the wish for one's entire life. —— "Gentle Words"

65. 很多人都把运气好总结成为了上天的礼物，但是怎么可能会有无缘无故的好运气呢？就像机会都是留给有准备的人，运气也是留给有准备的人，而运气好的人身上都有这三个特点。

65. Many people summarize good luck as a gift from heaven, but how can there be good luck without a reason? Just like opportunities are left for those who are prepared, luck is also left for those who are prepared, and good-luck people all have these three characteristics.

66. 43"长留，长留，我为你取名为长留，为什么你却不能长留”——谢长留

66. "Long stay, long stay, I named you 'Long Stay' because of your longevity, why can't you stay long?" — Xie Changliu

67. 28反正我就是个神棍——《不健全关系》滕瑞雨

67. 28 I'm just a charlatan anyway——《Unhealthy Relationship》Teng Ruifeng

68. 34做好自己便好，不要为了不值得的人，把自己改的都不认识自己。

68. Do your best, and that's enough. Don't change yourself to the point of not recognizing yourself for people who don't deserve it.

69. 32有人心易变，三年五载就面目全非；也有人心如止水，十万八千里走过，初心不改。

69. Some people's hearts are easily changeable, and after three or five years, they have completely transformed. On the other hand, there are those whose hearts remain as still as water, and after walking tens of thousands of miles, their original intentions do not change.

70. 14永远不要因为觉得投入的成本太高，就不敢去下止损当下的决心。

70. 14 Never be afraid to make the decision to place a stop-loss just because you feel the cost of the investment is too high.

71. 38你点到即止，我一醉方休。——《一醉经年》

71. Once you point at it, I'll stop at nothing until I'm drunk to my heart's content. —— "Drunk Over the Years"

72. 65师哥，玫瑰到了花期，我很想你——《碎玉投珠》纪慎语

72. Older brother, 65, the roses have reached the blooming season, I miss you very much——《Fragmented Jade Throws Pearl》Ji Shenyu

73. 67藕断丝连这个词听着暧昧缱绻，只不过是背道而驰又非要耗着而已，耗到足够远足够长，就能断的干干净净——《某某》

73. The phrase "藕断丝连" sounds ambiguous and entangled, but it's just a matter of moving in opposite directions while refusing to let go. As long as one continues for long enough and distances oneself sufficiently, the connection can be completely severed——《Somebody》

74. 37我只是觉得一个人如果付出了善意，却没有得到回报，不应该是这样的。——《天官赐福》

74. 37 I just think that if a person has shown kindness and doesn't receive any return for it, it shouldn't be like this.— "Heavenly Official Bestowing Blessings"

75. 58你如果不想沾染庸俗，那么你就必须要学会享受孤独。

75. 58 If you don't want to be contaminated by vulgarity, then you must learn to enjoy solitude.

76. 23生活就是要把你折腾的死去活来，你要做的就是咬牙坚持下去。

76. Life is all about torturing you to the brink of death and life, and what you need to do is to bite the bullet and persist.

77. 51我以为逗你笑你就会喜欢上我，但是我居然输给了让你哭的人。

77. 51 I thought that making you laugh would make you like me, but I ended up losing to the person who made you cry.

78. 5为什么我的数学只有148？——《伪装学渣》

Why does my math score only have 148?——《The Pretend Loser》

79. 所谓善有善报，就是这个理，心善的恶人，每一个善举善行都是在给自己积德吗，积福气，也是会带给下一代好福气，对身边的朋友真心相待，从来都没有害人之心，遇见需要有帮助的人，都会尽自己最大的能力帮助他人，所以当着众人遇见困难时，身边的朋友也会鼎力相助，这就是自己善良而带来的好运气。

79. As the saying goes, "Good deeds bring good rewards." This is the principle that a wicked person with a kind heart accumulates virtue and blessings with every good deed and action. It is also beneficial to bring good fortune to the next generation. Treating friends with sincerity, never harboring ill intentions, and helping those in need with all one's might when encountered, are all acts that bring good luck. So when faced with difficulties in the presence of others, friends will also lend a helping hand, which is the good luck brought by one's own kindness.

80. 49“被人拉起来，跟自己站起来，是两码事。” —— 《伪装学渣》

80. 49 "Being pulled up is not the same as standing up on one's own." — From the novel "The Pretend Scholar"

81. 22生活本不苦，苦的是欲望过盛；人心本不累，累的是牵挂太多。

81. Life itself is not bitter, it is the excessive desires that make it bitter; the heart itself is not tired, it is the overabundance of attachments that make it tired.

82. 29也许，喜欢的东西是碰不得的，不碰它它就能一直保持原样，无论怎么看都觉得好。可摆在自己面前，看多了摸多了，反而会侵蚀掉它原来的美。

82. 29 Perhaps, the things we like are things that should not be touched; left untouched, they can always maintain their original beauty, no matter how you look at them. But when they are placed in front of us, the more we look at them and the more we touch them, the more they seem to erode the original beauty they once had.

83. 21“我永远是你最忠诚的信徒。”——《天官赐福》

83. 21 "I shall always be your most loyal devotee." —— "The Deity's Blessing"

84. 44我一生中最幸运的两件事：一件是时间终于将我对你的爱消耗殆尽；一件是很久很久以前有一天，我遇见你。

84. The two luckiest things in my life: one is that time has finally exhausted my love for you; the other is that long, long ago, one day, I met you.

85. 其实，“命”和“运”完全是两码事，“命”是先天的、注定的，无法改变的。而“运”却是可以调整和改变的“运”会因为你的选择和努力而发生改变的。万事万物都有由生至消亡的过程，人也一样活在这一特定的规律之中，但人并没有完全丧失了对“命运”的掌握能力。只要我们选对了属于自己的最佳位置，找到了适合自己发展的那条路，幸福与成功就会接踵而来。

85. In fact, "fate" and "destiny" are two completely different things. "Fate" is innate, predetermined, and unchangeable. However, "destiny" can be adjusted and changed. "Destiny" can change due to your choices and efforts. All things have a process of birth to decay, and humans are no exception, living within this specific law. But humans have not completely lost control over "fate and destiny." As long as we choose the best position for ourselves and find the path that suits our own development, happiness and success will follow in turn.

86. 39圣诞快乐，我意料之外的意外——《撒野》顾飞

86. 39 Merry Christmas, an unexpected surprise——《Wildness》Gu Fei

87. 47顾飞，你有没有想过，交个男朋友——《撒野》蒋丞

87. Gu Fei, have you ever thought about having a boyfriend? — From the novel "Sai Ye" (Wild), character Jiang Cheng.

88. 25凡是过往，皆为序章，但愿日子清净，抬头遇见的都是柔情。

88. 25 All that has passed is but a prelude, may the days be tranquil, and may what you meet when you look up be all gentleness.