在浩瀚的人海中，我们每个人都在寻找着生活的良方。正如那句古训：“良善适度，不容忍无理。”今天，就让我们跟随16句警示，开启一场优雅反击的旅程。

In the vast sea of people, each of us is seeking the right formula for life. As the ancient maxim goes: "Be good and moderate, and do not tolerate unreasonable behavior." Today, let us follow 16 cautionary sayings to embark on a journey of elegant counterattack.

1. -（宋）欧阳修 33盛年不再来，一日难再晨，及时宜自勉，岁月不待人。-（晋）陶渊明 34品德，应该是高尚些；处世，应该坦率些；举止，应该礼貌些。

1. - (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu: 33 The prime of life does not return, and a single morning cannot be repeated. It is advisable to encourage oneself in time, as years do not wait for anyone. - (Jin Dynasty) Tao Yuanming: 34 Virtue should be higher; dealing with the world should be more honest; demeanor should be more polite.

2. 活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。

2. Living each day is a blessing, and it should be cherished. When I cry because I don't have shoes to wear, I realize that there are some people who don't even have feet.

3. -（法）孟德斯鸠 35静以修身，俭以养德，非澹泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。 -诸葛亮 （

3. - (French) Montesquieu 35: "Silence is the way to cultivate oneself, frugality to nurture virtue. Without simplicity, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant." - Zhuge Liang

4. ●为了能同所有的男男女女和睦相处，我们必须允许每一个人保 持其个性（叔本华）

4. ● In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow each person to maintain their individuality (Schopenhauer).

5. 20极的人像太阳，照到哪里哪里亮;消极的人像月亮，初一十五不一样。态度决定一切。有什么态度，就有什么样的未来;性格决定命运。有怎样的性格，就有怎样的人生。远离消极的的人吧!否则，他们会在不知不觉中偷走你的梦想，使你渐渐颓废，变得平庸。

5. A person with a 20-character personality is like the sun, shining wherever it goes and lighting up everything; a negative person is like the moon, changing from the first to the fifteenth day. Attitude determines everything. What attitude you have, that is what kind of future you will have; character determines destiny. What kind of character you have, that is what kind of life you will have. Keep away from negative people! Otherwise, they will stealthily steal your dreams, making you gradually decline and become ordinary.

6. 选对伴侣幸福一生，选对老师智慧一生，选对环境快乐一生，选对行业成就一生。

6. Choosing the right partner leads to a happy life, choosing the right teacher leads to a wise life, choosing the right environment leads to a joyful life, and choosing the right field leads to a fulfilling life.

7. 希望是坚韧的拐杖，忍耐是旅行袋，携带它们，人可以登上永恒之旅。 才气就是长期的坚持不懈。

7. Hope is a sturdy crutch, patience a travel bag; carrying them, one can embark on the journey of eternity. Talent is the long-term perseverance.

8. 人往往拿着书籍的东西来判断无知的事物；人往往拿着错误的推论当正确的结论。

8. People often judge the unknown by the things they hold in their hands; people often take erroneous inferences as correct conclusions.

9. 只要认为是对的就去做，坚持去做，不要在乎别人的看法，哪怕是错，至少你有去做过证明曾经你努力过。

9. Just do what you believe is right, and keep doing it. Don't care about others' opinions, even if it's wrong, at least you have taken action to prove that you have tried.

10. 也许上帝让遇见那个适合你的人之前，会遇见很多错误的人，所以当一切发生的时候，你应该心存感激。

10. Perhaps God allows you to meet many unsuitable people before you find the right one, so when everything happens, you should be grateful.

11. 希望是坚固的手杖，忍耐是旅衣。人凭着这两样东西，走过现世和坟墓，迈向永恒。 ——罗高

11. Hope is a sturdy staff, and patience is a traveling cloak. Man, by these two things, walks through the world and the grave, towards eternity. ——Rogers

12. 〖唐〗韩愈 74人见生男生女好，不知男女催人老。〖唐〗王建 75天下无不是的父母；世间最难得者兄弟。

12. "Tang Dynasty" Han Yu: "74 people see the birth of a son or daughter and think it's good, but they don't realize that the passage of time accelerates aging." "Tang Dynasty" Wang Jian: "75 There are no parents who are not good in the world; the most difficult thing in the world is brothers."

13. 忍耐-----肉体的小心和道德的勇气的混合。 ——哈代

13. Patience - a blend of physical delicacy and moral courage. —— Hardy

14. 一个人假如没有为事业而繁忙的充实，光是安适享受，那么他领会不出人生的全体涵义。

14. If a person does not experience the fulfillment of being busy for their career, but only enjoys comfort, then they will not understand the full meaning of life.

15. 坚强的意志\坚定的决心 27我成功是因为我有决心，从不踌躇。拿破仑一世 28人格成熟的重要标志：宽容、忍让、和善。

15. Strong will; firm determination 27. I have succeeded because I have determination and never hesitate. - Napoleon I 28. An important sign of mature character: tolerance, patience, and kindness.

16. 爱情就像银行里存一笔钱，能欣赏对方的优点，就像补充收入；容忍对方缺点，这是节制支出。所谓永。[详细]——培根

16. Love is like saving money in a bank, appreciating the other's merits is like supplementing income; tolerating their shortcomings is like exercising frugality. This is what is meant by eternity. [Details] — Bacon

17. ●尽量宽恕别人，而决不要原谅自己（西拉斯）

17. ● Try to forgive others as much as possible, but never forgive yourself (Cyrus)

18. 每个人不可能永远都充满激情和斗志，所以，我们需要不断激励自己来保持激情和斗志。不要企图活在别人的激励中，自励才是最有效的激励方式。没有人能真正改变你，只有你自己才能改变自己。

18. It is impossible for everyone to always be full of passion and determination, so we need to constantly motivate ourselves to maintain passion and determination. Do not try to live in the motivation of others; self-motivation is the most effective form of motivation. No one can truly change you; only you can change yourself.

19. 19，人有不及者，不可以己能病之。—— 薛宣

19. 19, When people are not as capable as others, one should not criticize them based on one's own abilities. —— Xue Xuan

20. 没有人不渴望被重视，也没有人不喜欢真诚的赞美，正确的评价会使对方芳心大悦。

20. No one does not desire to be valued, and no one dislikes sincere praise. The correct evaluation can delight the other person greatly.

21. 那些尝试去做某事却失败的人，比那些什么也不尝试做却成功的人不知要好上多少。

21. Those who attempt to do something but fail are far better than those who do not attempt anything but succeed.

22. 人生就是一场旅行，不在乎目的地，在乎的应该是沿途的风景以及看风景的心情。

22. Life is a journey, not about the destination, but about the scenery along the way and the mood of appreciating the scenery.

23. 学习如春起之苗，不见其增，日有所长，辍学似磨刀之石，不见其减，时有所亏。

23. Learning is like the growth of a seedling in spring; you don't see it grow, but it grows every day. Dropping out of school is like grinding a knife; you don't see it decrease, but it loses some of its sharpness occasionally.

24. 在人生的道路上，不管是潇洒走一回，或者是千山独行，皆须是自己想走的路，虽然，有的人并不是很快就能找到自己的方向和道路，不过，只要坚持到底，我相信，就一定可以找到自己的路，只要找到路，就不必怕路途遥远了。

24. On the path of life, whether it is to take a carefree walk or to travel alone through the mountains, it must be the road you want to take. Although some people may not find their direction and path quickly, as long as they persevere to the end, I believe that they will definitely find their own road. Once the path is found, there is no need to fear the long journey anymore.

25. ●只有勇敢的人才懂得如何宽容；懦夫决不会宽容，这不是他的本性（斯特恩）

25. ● Only the brave know how to be tolerant; cowards will never tolerate, for it is not in their nature (Sterne)

26. 临行密密缝，意恐迟迟归。谁言寸草心，报得三春晖。

26. Before departure, I sew it closely, fearing a late return. Who says the tender heart of a blade of grass can repay the spring sunshine?

27. 不经一翻彻骨寒，怎得梅花扑鼻香。 斧头虽小，但经多次劈砍，终能将一棵最坚硬的橡树砍倒。

27. If one does not endure the piercing cold, how can one appreciate the fragrance of the plum blossoms? The axe may be small, but after numerous chopping, it can eventually fell the hardest oak tree.

28. 悲观的人，先被自己打败，然后才被生活打败;乐观的人，先战胜自己，然后才战胜生活。——汪国真

28. Pessimists are first defeated by themselves, and then by life; optimists first conquer themselves, and then conquer life. — Wang Guozhen

29. 才气就是长期的坚持不懈。 [励志·激励|坚持]

29. Talent is long-term perseverance. [Motivational | Inspirational | Persistence]

30. 世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。

30. The world originally does not belong to you, so there is no need for you to abandon it. What you need to abandon is all attachment. All things are for my use, but not for my ownership.

31. 江山好改，本性难易。改变一个人的习惯----容易，改变一个人的禀性----困难。为了养生，为了保健，改变禀性再难，也要改变。

31. It's easy to change a person's habits, but difficult to alter their nature. Changing a person's habits is easy, but changing their inherent nature is difficult. For the sake of health and well-being, even if it's hard to change one's nature, it must be done.

32. 根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗

32. There's no need to look back at who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, would you also lie down to bite it back?

33. 君子忍人之所不能忍，容人之所不能容，处人之所不能处。

33. A gentleman endures what others cannot bear, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and exists in a state others cannot endure.

34. 宽容别人，其实就是宽容我们自己。多一点对别人的宽容，其实，我们生命中就多了一点空间。有朋友的人生路上，才会有关爱和扶持，才不会有寂寞和孤独；有朋友的生活，才会少一点风雨，多一点温暖和阳光。其实，宽容永远都是一片晴天。

34. To be tolerant of others is actually to be tolerant of ourselves. With a little more tolerance towards others, in fact, we gain a little more space in our lives. On the journey of life with friends, there is love and support, and there is no loneliness or solitude; in life with friends, there is less rain and more warmth and sunshine. In reality, tolerance always brings a clear sky.

35. 看详细 [励志·激励|坚持] 忍耐和坚持是痛苦的，但它逐渐给你带来好处。 看详细 [成功·方法与技巧|意志] 希望是坚韧的拐杖，忍耐是旅行袋，携带它们，人可以登上永恒之旅。

35. View Details [Motivational·Inspiration | Persistence] Patience and persistence are painful, but they gradually bring you benefits. View Details [Success·Methods and Techniques | Willpower] Hope is a sturdy crutch, and patience is a travel bag. Carry them, and one can embark on an eternal journey.

36. 忍耐和坚持是痛苦的，但它逐渐给你带来好处。 看详细 [成功·方法与技巧|意志] 希望是坚韧的拐杖，忍耐是旅行袋，携带它们，人可以登上永恒之旅。

36. Patience and perseverance are painful, but they gradually bring you benefits. See details [Success · Methods and Techniques | Willpower] Hope is a sturdy crutch, and patience is a travel bag. Carry them, and one can embark on the journey of eternity.

37. --席勒 86由于时光转瞬即逝，无法挽回，所以说它是世间最宝贵的财富，滥用时光无疑是人们最没有意义的一种消磨方式。 --毛姆 87消磨时间是一种多么劳累，多么可怕的事情啊，这只肉眼看不见的秒针无时不在地平线下转圈，你一再醉生梦死地消磨时间，到头来你还得明白，它仍在继续转圈，无情地继续转圈…… --伯尔 88没有一种不幸可与失掉时间相比了。

37. --Schiller 86 Since time is fleeting and irretrievable, it is said to be the most precious wealth in the world, and the abuse of time is undoubtedly the most meaningless way for people to waste their time. --Maugham 87 What a laborious and terrifying thing it is to kill time, for that invisible second hand is constantly turning in circles below the horizon, and you keep on living a life of indulgence and waste, only to realize in the end that it is still turning, turning mercilessly... --Böll 88 There is no misfortune that can be compared to losing time.

38. ●宽宥是人性的，而忘却是神性的（詹姆斯·格兰）

38. ● Pardon is human, while forgetfulness is divine (James格兰)

39. 坚忍是成功的一大因素。只要在门上敲得够久，够大声，终必会把人唤醒的。

39. Perseverance is a major factor in success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake someone up.