迎春2025，拥抱生活新意与温暖：15句喜悦箴言，开启美好篇章。

Welcoming the Year 2025, Embrace the Newness and Warmth of Life: 15 Joyous Maxims, to Open a Beautiful Chapter.

1. 现实却有如冷水般泼向她，她踉跄着悔恨的脚步，这就是爱情的代价。为什么要相信那个人？为什么要天真地以为那个甚至没有能力养活自己的男孩会带给自己幸福和梦想呢？

1. But reality struck her like a bucket of cold water, and she stumbled with regretful steps, this is the price of love. Why did she believe in that person? Why did she naively think that the boy who even couldn't support himself would bring her happiness and dreams?

2. 我是一个中国人，也不会刻意去打扮，去脱衣，这要看我是否喜欢并且适合的角色。我觉得自己其实是很中国化的，民族的才是世界的，我没有必要去迎合什么，只是做我自己就好。而这也是我认为的优势与空间。

2. I am a Chinese person and I do not deliberately dress up or strip off; it depends on whether the role suits me and whether I like it. I believe I am actually very Chinese in nature; what is national is also global, and I don't feel the need to迎合 anything; I just need to be myself. And this is also what I consider to be my advantage and space.

3. 她受不了，写了一封长信质问他。她骄傲地表示，要是这样的话，她会祝他幸福，她会永永远远忘掉他。她这么说，其实心里只是想扑上去用双手和双脚抓住那无根的爱情，谁知她心中苦涩。

3. She couldn't bear it any longer and wrote a long letter to confront him. Proudly, she declared that if that were the case, she would wish him happiness and would forever forget about him. However, in reality, all she wanted was to throw herself at him and grasp that loveless love with both her hands and feet, little knowing that it was filled with bitterness in her heart.

4. 原谅我，不曾为爱燃烧。愿飞越世界尽头的残酷泥沼，即使世情如路难书不能一起悲欢终老，也要将你紧紧拥抱。

4. Forgive me for not having burned with love. I wish to fly over the cruel mudflats at the end of the world, even if the world's circumstances are as difficult to write as a road and we cannot grow old together in joy and sorrow, I still want to紧紧抱住你 tightly.

5. 我讨厌自己的患得患失，讨厌自己的需要人陪，讨厌自己的惶恐不安，讨厌自己喜欢的人。

5. I hate my own worry and anxiety, my need for someone to accompany me, my restlessness, and the people I like.

6. 不要忘记你的初心，不要人云亦云，看到美好的他们你还有什么理由不开心呐大家一起走下去，记得空气是不可或缺又美好的存在！

6. Don't forget your original intention, don't follow the crowd. Seeing them in their beauty, do you still have any reason to be unhappy? Let's continue on this journey together, remember, the air is indispensable and beautiful!

7. 拚得累了，学会智慧引航；走得累了，学会休憩纳凉；哭得累了，学会微笑淡忘；爱得累了，学会心灵守望，喊得累了，学会静悟思想；活得累了，学会惬意地面对死亡。

7. Tired of struggling, learn to navigate with wisdom; tired of walking, learn to rest and cool off; tired of crying, learn to smile and forget; tired of loving, learn to watch over the heart; tired of shouting, learn to meditate on thoughts; tired of living, learn to face death comfortably.

8. 说实话，我并不觉得美貌有什么，也不觉得自己有多漂亮，一个人的个性气质和才学才是最重要的。哪怕我长得不够美，但是有足够的个性，足够的特点，足够的才学，我觉得也是很有魅力的。况且，对于演员来讲，容貌不是唯一的，如果有好的容貌，再加上出色的演技，那样才够完美。

8. To be honest, I don't think beauty is anything special, and I don't feel particularly beautiful either. An individual's personality, temperament, and talent are the most important. Even if I'm not particularly beautiful, if I have enough personality, enough characteristics, and enough talent, I believe I am still very attractive. Moreover, for actors, appearance is not everything. If they have a good-looking face, combined with outstanding acting skills, that is when they are truly perfect.

9. 我们的一生总在不断地获得与不断地放弃，正如春蚕的蜕变必须放弃温暖的丝茧，正如果子的成熟必须放弃支撑的树枝，正如鸟儿的成长必须放弃母亲的庇护，于是，我们便有真正懂得放弃的人，才能有真正的收获。

9. Throughout our lives, we are constantly gaining and constantly giving up, just as the silkworm must abandon its warm cocoon during its transformation, just as the fruit must abandon the branches that support it as it ripens, just as the bird must give up the mother's protection as it grows up. It is then that those who truly understand how to let go can truly reap.

10. 36永远不要和不同层次的人论长短，那是一种内耗。

10. Never argue with people of different levels, as that is a form of internal consumption.

11. 如果你觉得我是不会喜欢破洞牛仔裤的人，那只能说明你还不了解我。

11. If you think I'm not someone who would like torn jeans, that only means you still don't understand me.

12. 想找个人，不需要太多深爱，我看你顺眼，你看我顺眼。也不必太多陪伴，你需要人陪的时候我陪你，我需要人陪的时候你陪我。然后一起过日子，过着过着就有了家，过着过着就成了家人。过着过着就一起手拉手进到了坟墓里。这就是一生了。

12. I'm looking for someone, not requiring too much deep love, as long as I find you pleasing to the eye and you find me pleasing to the eye. We don't need too much companionship either; when you need someone to accompany you, I'll be there for you, and when I need someone to accompany me, you'll be there for me. Then we live our lives together, and as we go along, we build a home, and as we go along, we become family. As we go along, we will eventually hold hands and step into the grave together. That's a lifetime.

13. 遇见爱情的一刻，是否也预见了未来，预见了苦和乐？

13. At the moment when love is encountered, did one also foresee the future, foreseeing both sorrow and joy?

14. 58人生目标确定容易实现难，但如果不去行动，那么连实现的可能也不会有。

14. It is easy to set life goals but difficult to achieve them, but if you do not take action, there will not even be a possibility of achieving them.

15. 高考专业选择，首先是自己喜欢！不要人云亦云！而且以后好就业！

15. When choosing a major for the college entrance examination, first and foremost, choose what you like! Don't just follow others! Moreover, it will be easier to find a job in the future!

16. 一百个人就会有一百种看法，但两位老师的确演的好，是用心去演绎的，不要人云亦云

16. One hundred people will have a hundred opinions, but the two teachers indeed performed well. They put their hearts into the performance and did not just follow the crowd.

17. 我会把每一天的时间都安排的很满，每一分钟都要充分利用起来，虽然会很累，但是我会很开心。其实想想自己这么努力的架势，真是有点自虐的心态，但是没办法，我就是这样，不学习就会觉得亏。有时候偶尔让自己轻松一些，玩一会，就会觉得，哎呀，怎么浪费了这么多时间，可以学到多少东西啊！呵呵，所以不玩了，努力学习，我喜欢学习的状态。

17. I will arrange every single day of my time to be full, making every minute count. Although it will be tiring, I will be very happy. Thinking about how hard I work, it's a bit of an auto-torturous mindset, but what can I do? I am like this, feeling I am at a loss if I don't learn. Sometimes, if I allow myself to relax a bit, play for a while, I'll think, "Oh no, I've wasted so much time, how much more could I have learned!" Haha, so I stop playing and study hard, because I like being in a learning state.

18. 想学知足的这门功课很不容易，因为人的欲望很多，很高。所以很难知足，若想知足就必须放弃那一切，将自己放在零的地位，像约伯所说的：我们原是赤身而来，也必赤身归回，在世上随神的安排，得失，有无，都不强求，无所贪，无所惧。像保罗所说：无论什么景况都可以知足，因为我们没有先给神什么，叫他偿还，我们原是他手所造的，他愿意怎样待我们都可以。

18. It is not easy to learn the lesson of contentment, because human desires are numerous and great. Therefore, it is difficult to be content. If one wants to be content, one must give up everything, put oneself in a zero position, as Job said: "We came forth from the dust, and to dust we shall return. We live according to God's arrangement in this world, not seeking gain or loss, not greedy, not afraid." As Paul said: "In any and every situation, we can be content, for we have not given God anything that He owes us a return. We are His creation, and He can treat us as He wishes."

19. 50有一天你将破茧而出，成长得比人们期待的还要美丽，但这个过程会很痛，很辛苦，有时候还会觉得灰心，面对汹涌而来的现实觉得自己渺小无力，但这也是生活里的一部分，做好你现在能做的，然后相信一切都会好的。

19. 50 One day, you will emerge from your cocoon, growing more beautiful than people anticipated, but this process will be very painful and arduous. Sometimes, you might even feel discouraged, feeling small and powerless in the face of the overwhelming reality. But this is also a part of life. Do what you can now, and then believe that everything will be fine.

20. 15人可以在金钱上贫穷，但绝不能在精神上贫乏。你可以一无所有，但是绝不可以一无是处。

20. Fifteen people can be poor in money, but they must never be poor in spirit. You can have nothing, but you must never be nothing.

21. 11你是你人生的作者，何必把剧本写得苦不堪言。

21. 11 You are the author of your own life, why write a script that is full of suffering and hardship.

22. 轮到粑粑唱需要人陪，打开窗户让孤单透气走起！

22. It's time for the rice cake to sing, and someone needs to accompany him. Open the window to let loneliness breathe and move on!

23. 刘亦菲：你什么都没做错，我不想等到人老珠黄的时候才后悔，你可以一直画画，画到八十岁。但是我不想一直到死，都住在那个只有一张床，和一堆卖不出去的画的房间里，你懂吗？

23. Liu Yifei: You haven't done anything wrong, I don't want to regret it when I'm old and faded. You can keep painting, all the way until you're eighty. But I don't want to spend my entire life living in a room with just one bed and a pile of unsold paintings, do you understand?

24. 52睡眼惺忪迎接黎明，刷牙洗脸手要轻。阳光给我好心情，享受清新好空气。一杯热饮好甜蜜，家有人伴好温馨。新的一天，新期待，美好生活常伴您！

24. With heavy eyelids, I greet the dawn, brushing my teeth and washing my face with gentle hands. The sunshine gives me a good mood, enjoying the fresh air. A cup of hot drink is sweet, and having someone at home makes it cozy. A new day, new expectations, a beautiful life always accompanies you!

25. 16阳光下灿烂，黑暗下耀眼；心若向阳，无畏悲伤。

25. Shining in the sun and dazzling in the dark; if the heart faces the sun, it dares not fear sadness.

26. 好好睡觉，冷静想办法才是硬道理。不要破罐子破摔，人云亦云显得自己没主见。嗯！睡！

26. Get a good night's sleep and think calmly; that's the hard truth. Don't throw in the towel and just go along with what others say, as it shows you have no sense of judgment. Hmm! Sleep!

27. 不知足是许多苦恼，罪恶的根源，也是有贪心，有情欲，有骄傲，有强烈的要求，有自己的意思。不知足是不会有平安喜乐的，不知足的人心中似乎永远有火在烧着，感到非常的干渴，烦燥，不能忍耐，俗语说，「知足者常乐，能忍者自安」是不错的。真正有快乐的，不是有钱财的人，有权势的人，有学问的人，有才干的人，乃是知足的人。虽然他可能贫穷，卑微，愚拙，无知，但能知足就平安快乐了。

27. Ungratefulness is the source of many troubles and sins, as well as greed, desire, pride, strong demands, and a personal will. Ungratefulness cannot lead to peace and happiness; it seems as if there is always a fire burning in the hearts of the ungrateful, feeling extreme thirst, restlessness, and an inability to endure. As the saying goes, "He who is content is always happy, and he who can endure finds peace." This is indeed true. The truly happy are not those who have wealth, power, knowledge, or talent, but those who are content. Even if they may be poor, humble, foolish, or ignorant, as long as they can be content, they will find peace and happiness.

28. 机遇只是给了你一个很好的起点，接下来怎么做就要看你自己。

28. Opportunity has only given you a good starting point; what you do next is up to you.

29. 五穷六绝七翻身？不要人云亦云捕风捉影，说话之前要看看逻辑口径基础是什么？谁告诉你七就要翻身，原理是什么？七月GDp能增加1%还是企业能够成长10%？纯粹都是算命先生的扯淡。

29. The "Five Poor, Six Dead, and Seven Revival"? Don't just follow the crowd and chase shadows without thinking. Before speaking, you should look at what the logic and basis are. Who told you that July will see a revival, and what is the principle behind it? Will the July GDP increase by 1% or can enterprises grow by 10%? All of this is just the idle chatter of fortune tellers.

30. 千万不要人云亦云，与其盲目随大流，我宁愿做个不合群的孤独者。

30. Never follow the crowd blindly; I would rather be an uncooperative loner than go along with the majority.

31. 31在生活的万般刁难下，留住半分可爱和温柔，你就是胜利者。

31. Under the many hardships of life, if you can retain a bit of cuteness and gentleness, you are a winner.

32. 在这个以物易物，以物易钱，以钱易物的时代，好像任何物品都能交换唯有爱情，付出不是为了交换回等价的商品，但是得不到应有的回应，你还会坚持吗？

32. In this era where bartering goods for goods, goods for money, and money for goods is the norm, it seems as though anything can be exchanged except for love. The act of giving is not for the sake of receiving something of equal value in return. But if you don't get the appropriate response, will you still persist?

33. 27苦都吃了还没长记性，你带脑子爱人了吗？

33. You've endured all the hardships without learning a thing; have you ever brought your brain into loving someone?

34. 也许不是你最需要我的时候我不在，而是你最需要人陪的时候，我不在。

34. Perhaps it's not when you most need me that I'm absent, but rather when you most need someone to be with you, I'm not there.

35. 45我用手记忆了你的样貌，用耳记忆了你的声音，用唇记忆了你的味道，用眼睛记住了你的点点滴滴，用心记忆了你的一切，宝贝！我爱你，晚安！

35. 45 I memorized your appearance with my hands, your voice with my ears, your taste with my lips, your every detail with my eyes, and everything about you with my heart, darling! I love you, goodnight!

36. 我一直相信，每个人都有自己的生命节奏，恰如毛姆的箴言：满地六便士，他却抬头看见了月亮。

36. I always believe that everyone has their own rhythm of life, just as Somerset Maugham's maxim goes: Amidst the coins scattered on the ground, he lifted his gaze to see the moon.

37. 真心的希望我认识的每一个人现在看到这条说说的每一个人遇见任何社会时事能不盲从凡事要客观理智的看待不要道听途说人云亦云为自己的言行负责不要自以为正义地杀人

37. I sincerely hope that everyone I know and everyone who sees this post can approach any social issue without blind obedience, maintain objectivity and reason, not believe everything they hear and repeat others' words, take responsibility for their own actions and words, and not kill in the name of righteousness.

38. 那位不爱江山爱美人的温莎公爵的夫人说过，永远不会太瘦和太有钱，依我看，还要再加一项--永远不会有太甜的人！

38. The Duchess of Windsor, who loved beauty more than her kingdom, once said, "One can never be too thin and too rich," and in my opinion, we should add one more item -- one can never have too sweet a person!

39. 一个我需要梦想需要方向需要眼泪更需要一个人来点亮天的黑我已经无能无力无法抗拒无路可退这无声的夜现在的我需要人陪。。。

39. I need dreams, I need direction, I need tears, and I even more need someone to light up the darkness of the sky. I am powerless, unable to resist, with no way to retreat, in this silent night. Now, I need someone to accompany me...

40. 37世上只有一种英雄主义，就是在认清生活真相之后依然热爱生活。

40. 37 There is only one form of heroism in the world, and that is to love life even after recognizing its true nature.

41. 23低头是一种能力，它不是自卑，也不是怯弱，它是清醒中的嬗变。有时，稍微低一下头，或者我们的人生路会更精彩。

41. Bowing one's head is a form of ability, not a sign of inferiority or timidity, but a transformation in wakefulness. Sometimes, by merely lowering one's head slightly, our path through life may become more fascinating.

42. 没关系，我会一个人实现我所有的梦想，不需要人陪。自己的梦，自己负责。

42. No worries, I will achieve all my dreams on my own, without needing anyone else. My dreams, my responsibility.

43. 生命是一种偶然，而死亡才是真正的归途。欣赏死亡不是蔑视生命，只有放下死亡羁绊，才能更好地去赴生命之约。

43. Life is an accident, and death is the true destination. Appreciating death is not a disregard for life; only by letting go of the bondage of death can one better fulfill the appointment with life.

44. 最想对自己说的就是做自己不要人云亦云不要因为别人怎么样就自己也该怎么样重点是自己觉得应该怎么样多思考多反省少冲动

44. What I most want to say to myself is to be myself, don't follow others blindly. Don't think that just because others are doing something, you should do the same. The key is to do what you think is right. Think more, reflect more, and be less impulsive.

45. 55我们现在比赛，谁先梦见周公！如果我赢了，你让我亲一下！如果你赢了，我让你亲一下！加油快睡吧！明天早上短信公布比赛结果，明晚见面“颁奖”。

45. 55 Let's have a competition now, who can dream of Duke Zhou first! If I win, I'll let you kiss me! If you win, you can kiss me! Good luck and go to sleep quickly! The results of the competition will be announced by SMS tomorrow morning, and we'll meet tonight for the "award ceremony."

46. 只有不爱你的男人才会认为你真的不需要人陪不需要人宠只有不爱你的男人才会认为你偏爱独自一人去承担所有只有不爱你的男人才会认为你根本不爱他因为他没有心思去揭示你对他的情意。

46. Only a man who doesn't love you would think you truly don't need anyone by your side or pampering, only a man who doesn't love you would believe you prefer to bear everything alone, only a man who doesn't love you would think you don't love him at all because he's not interested in revealing your affection for him.

47. 能够笑着接纳生命，就该学会笑对死亡。拒绝死亡是一种生命的缺憾。生是一个开始，也是一个过程，而死也是一个开始，一个过程，从诞生的那一刻，就注定要渐入死亡，它无可抵拒。所以，生的过程就是走向死亡的过程。因此，疾病会越来越多，肌体会越来越衰老，有时甚至抵御不住各种外在打击而摧残了人的意志，从健康的入世愿望，到体能的衰竭，到纷纷杂杂的困惑，人的一生充满了矛盾和坎坷，甚至无以承受生命的重量。生命是一次艰难的旅行，因为有人不能继续坚持，就错入死亡门槛，于是，就有了中途生命的夭折。

47. To embrace life with a smile, one should also learn to face death with a smile. Refusing death is a flaw in life. Birth is a beginning and a process, and so is death, a beginning and a process. From the moment of birth, it is destined to gradually approach death, which is irresistible. Therefore, the process of life is the process of approaching death. Hence, diseases will accumulate more and more, the body will age increasingly, and sometimes even the will can be broken by various external blows, from the healthy desire for worldly involvement to the exhaustion of physical strength, to all sorts of confusion. A person's life is full of contradictions and difficulties, even to the point of being unable to bear the weight of life. Life is a difficult journey, as some cannot continue to persevere and mistakenly step over the threshold of death, leading to the premature end of life in the middle of this journey.

48. 确定喜欢一个人或者被人喜欢，还是希望得到准确地答案而不是模糊的暧昧下的猜测，或许他只是需要人陪，而我正好出现。

48. Determining whether one likes someone or is liked, or hoping to get an accurate answer rather than guesses under the ambiguous ambiguity, maybe he just needs someone to accompany him, and I happened to be there.

49. 欣赏死亡，是一种至深的感悟。生如夏花之灿烂，死如秋叶之静美，这该是人至达的境界。我们习惯欣赏生的盎然，而把死亡远远排斥在审美视野之外。很多理论家、哲学家用深邃的眼神关注死亡，而死亡似乎永远是一道难解的题，在它面前，我们永远都是小学生，而当我们步入暮年，依然找不到真正的答案。所以，死亡给人一生留下的都是无奈的回避和万分的恐惧。

49. Appreciating death is a profound realization. Life is as brilliant as the summer flowers, and death is as serene as the autumn leaves, which should be the highest realm of human achievement. We are accustomed to appreciating the vitality of life, yet we keep death far away from our aesthetic vision. Many theorists and philosophers gaze at death with profound eyes, yet death seems to be an unsolvable puzzle. In its presence, we are always like beginners, and as we enter our twilight years, we still can't find the true answer. Therefore, death leaves behind in our lives only无奈的回避 and endless fear.

50. 我并不觉得美貌有什么，也不觉得自己有多漂亮，一个人的个性气质和才学才是最重要的。哪怕我长得不够美，但是有足够的个性，足够的特点，足够的才学，我觉得也是很有魅力的。况且，对于演员来讲，容貌不是唯一的，如果有好的容貌，再加上出色的演技，那样才够完美。

50. I don't think beauty is anything special, nor do I feel particularly beautiful. A person's personality, temperament, and talent are the most important. Even if I'm not particularly beautiful, as long as I have enough personality, enough distinctive features, and enough talent, I believe I am very charming. Moreover, for actors, appearance is not everything. If one has a good-looking face, coupled with outstanding acting skills, that is when one is truly perfect.

51. 只要有梦想、有愿望，努力去做，就行了。向前看，都有不同的困难，在我的经历中，只要努力过的梦想都是可以成真的。

51. As long as there are dreams and wishes, just work hard to pursue them. Look forward, there are different difficulties in everyone's experiences, and in my own, any dream that I have strived for can come true.

52. 同学们当然要对时代敏感，要对新的事物有探索的热情，但在今天，更重要的是，保有求真的热情，坚守独立的思考，内在完善超越时间的心智，不要被虚华的新事物、新名词、新概念冲昏头脑，不要人云亦云，被某种单一价值观、甚至时代和潮流裹协。只有如此，才能平衡未来生活与新事物、新科技、新技术的关系，才能赋予造物真正的长久的珍贵价值，这既是作为创造者的道德所在，也是现代设计和教育深处的灵魂。

52. Of course, students should be sensitive to the times and have a passion for exploring new things, but today, it is more important to maintain a passion for truth-seeking, to adhere to independent thinking, to cultivate a mind that is internally perfect and transcends time, and not to be confused by the triviality of new things, new terms, and new concepts. Do not follow others blindly, nor be influenced by a single value system, or even by the times and trends. Only in this way can one balance the relationship between future life and new things, new technologies, and new techniques, and bestow on creations genuine and enduring value. This is not only where the morality of creators lies but also the soul deep within modern design and education.

53. 培养独立思考能力，不人云亦云，学会价值观判断，比什么都重要。还有多交朋友，培养同理心。

53. Cultivating the ability to think independently, not to follow the crowd, and learning to make value judgments are more important than anything else. Also, make more friends and cultivate empathy.

54. 是不是我太爱你所以你总是把我对你的好对你的关心当成理所当然以至于当我需要人陪需要人爱我的时候你却是无动于衷因为打从一开始你就觉得是我自作多情你不曾知道过我每天都在等你主动找我你也不曾知道过为你做了那么多却得不到任何报偿反而是厌倦的感觉是有多心痛或许你慢慢会知道我要放下你了。

54. Is it because I love you too much that you always take my good deeds and concern for you for granted, so that when I need someone to accompany me or to love me, you remain indifferent because from the very beginning, you thought it was all in my imagination. You never knew that every day I was waiting for you to reach out to me, and you never knew that all the efforts I made for you went unrewarded, instead bringing a sense of fatigue and pain. Maybe you will slowly come to understand that I need to let go of you.

55. 世间所有的事，都要我们去做选择。正如一份感情，注定要消失的时候。你唯一可以做的，就是忘记她。或者，让她忘记你。

55. All things in the world require us to make choices. Just as with a feeling, when it is destined to fade away, the only thing you can do is to forget about her. Or, let her forget about you.

56. 她如愿以偿，回到她最想念的地方。她很富有，也终于摆脱父母亲的束缚，却收到死亡的通知单。她终究没能逃过命运的戏弄！曾经她期待的，努力的，想要拼命抓牢的，都与她一刀两断。

56. As she had wished, she returned to the place she missed the most. She was wealthy and had finally freed herself from her parents'束缚, but she received a death notice. In the end, she couldn't escape the mockery of fate! Everything she had once looked forward to, strived for, and desperately tried to hold onto, was now completely severed from her.

57. 不管怎么样，要不断学习反思，一个人在很困难的局面里也能有一点心思用在学习上，就不会堕落的，要有耐心，苦功夫要用时间积累

57. In any case, one should keep learning and reflecting continuously. Even in a very difficult situation, if a person can spare some thoughts for learning, they will not fall into decadence. Patience is required, and the hard work needs to be accumulated over time.

58. 正视死亡，是一种坦然的面对。人固有一死，早晚而已。我们可以蔑视死亡，但绝不可蔑视生命。为什么有的死/重于泰山，那是因为有人追求的是人生品位，讲究的是生命质量。不轻率地打发时间，活一天就要24小时的精彩，活一年，就要12个月的壮观。而厄运来临，也能欣然面对每一个困难。所以，生的有质量，死的也就有分量。

58. To face death with composure is to embrace it with tranquility. People are bound to die, it's just a matter of time. We may disdain death, but we must never disdain life. Why is some death more significant than Mount Tai? It is because some people pursue the taste of life and value the quality of life. We should not casually waste time; to live a day is to live it with 24 hours of excitement, and to live a year is to experience 12 months of grandeur. When misfortune strikes, we can also face every difficulty with joy. Therefore, if life is of quality, death will also be substantial.

59. 借用夏季炎热，作物严重缺水干旱，比喻社会形式严峻，风气恶俗很烦人，人心不足蛇吞象。但是当前的季节和社会人心都是燥热难当，全是金钱浮世绘和各种套路。做人做事凭良心，不要一叶障目人云亦云。不合适的人就别再添乱啦作者很受伤，对否？暗指某些人让她不爽。

59. Borrowing the summer's intense heat and the severe drought due to insufficient water in crops, it metaphorically describes the seriousness of the social situation and the unpleasantness of the bad customs, with people's desires unfulfilled and their greed resembling a snake swallowing an elephant. However, the current season and social mood are both overheated and unbearable, filled with all sorts of money-oriented illusions and tricks. In dealing with life and work, rely on your conscience and don't be like a person who is blind to the big picture and follows the crowd. If someone is not suitable, don't add more chaos. The author is very hurt, isn't that right? This implies that certain people make her unhappy.

60. 每天可以就一个点，稍微深入点，谈谈自己的看法，不要人云亦云。

60. Each day, you can choose a point to delve a little deeper and express your own views, rather than just echoing others.

61. 4睡去昨天的疲惫，忘却昨天的烦恼，睁开今天的双眼，打开今天的美好。

61. Sleep away the fatigue of yesterday, forget the troubles of yesterday, open your eyes to today, and embrace the beauty of today.

62. 49世界上最亮的光芒，一个是太阳，一个是你努力时的模样。

62. The brightest light in the world is the sun, and the other is the look in your eyes when you are striving.

63. 难过的时候就去旅行吧，一个人，不需要人陪，装几件衣服，背个包，足够了。去到你想去的地方，看不同的风景，体验不同的生活。也许最后你会发现，啊，原来还有这样的事啊，原来，我一直都过的很好啊。晚上不要胡思乱想，不要发一些矫揉造作的话语，不然第二天你会想打死自己。不早了，洗洗睡吧。

63. When you're feeling down, go on a trip, by yourself, no need for company. Pack a few clothes, a backpack, that's enough. Go to the places you want to go, see different scenery, experience different lifestyles. Maybe you'll find out in the end, "Oh, there are such things," "原来，我一直都过得很好啊." Don't overthink at night, don't post overly sentimental words, or else you'll want to kill yourself the next day. It's late, have a bath and go to bed.

64. 运动果然能产生快乐因子，夜跑后的舒适感是难以言语的。每天下班后小跑几圈看来很有必要的。

64. Exercise indeed produces happiness hormones, and the comfort after a night run is indescribable. It seems very necessary to take a few laps around the block after work every day.

65. 这个世界上固然阴暗的东西不少，但你要学会甄别，不要人云亦云，什么晓说，垃圾。

65. Although there are indeed many dark things in this world, you should learn to discern and not follow others blindly. What nonsense, trash.

66. 不要执着于表象，有疑问就扒开表皮，探究真实，不要人云亦云，要有自己的思考和判断。不要害怕与别人的争论，只要那是有意义的。总之，做自己。做一个能思考，会思考的人。

66. Do not dwell on appearances. When in doubt, peel away the surface and seek the truth. Do not parrot others; have your own thoughts and judgments. Do not fear arguments with others, as long as they are meaningful. In summary, be yourself. Be a person who can think and knows how to think.

67. 有些人在爱情中教会你现实，有些人在现实中教会你爱情。并不是要期待所有的故事都能有一个美好的结局，只是这个结局让人缺乏勇气。

67. Some people teach you realism in love, while others teach you love in reality. It's not that we expect all stories to have a happy ending, but rather that this ending lacks courage.

68. 需要人陪的时候有难过有委屈不开心一个人面对一个人调节，一个人大哭一个人大笑，慢慢就习惯了一个人生活，等回头发现时候我是怎么走过来的已经不记得，只记得心中一直有你。

68. When I need someone to accompany me, there are times of sadness, hurt, and discontent. I face them alone, adjusting by myself, crying and laughing by myself. Slowly, I got used to living alone. When I look back, I don't remember how I got here, but I always remember that there is always you in my heart.

69. 每次需要人陪时，就剩我自己，可我哪有嘴上说的那么坚强，难过的想哭，我讨厌生病。

69. Whenever I need someone to accompany me, I am left alone, but I am not as strong as I say with my words. I feel so sad that I want to cry. I hate being sick.

70. 20虽然很多人说自己是人间清醒，但未必真的清醒，清醒的人都是在努力活着的人！

70. 20: Although many people claim to be awake in the world, it is not necessarily true that they are truly awake. Those who are awake are those who are striving to live!

71. 要学会独立思考，要有自主判别是非的能力，不要人云亦云，要理解每一个人的选择，要尊重每一个梦想，这世界多的是你不知道的事。

71. Learn to think independently, develop the ability to discern right from wrong on your own, don't follow others blindly, understand each person's choices, respect every dream, and remember that there are many things in this world that you don't know about.

72. 怎么办，我怕我动心了，怕我一不小心会依赖别人，怕我会没有那么勇敢和坚强，怕我会需要人陪。

72. What should I do? I'm afraid I've fallen for it, afraid that I might inadvertently become dependent on others, afraid that I might not be as brave and strong, and afraid that I might need someone to accompany me.

73. 我们终其一生，莫过于学会不要人云亦云，修炼独立而自由的灵魂。

73. Throughout our lives, nothing is more important than learning not to follow the crowd and cultivating an independent and free soul.

74. 21别总是沉迷于幻想，毕竟你还生活在现实中。

74. 21 Don't always be lost in daydreams, after all, you still live in the real world.

75. 可以独立，可以不人云亦云，但是不要让自己边缘化。

75. You can be independent and not follow the crowd, but don't let yourself be marginalized.

76. 你应该在以后短暂的岁月里真正活的不负众望。

76. You should truly live up to expectations in the brief years ahead.

77. 不要盲目跟风，不要人云亦云，更不要被忽悠。说说问答

77. Do not blindly follow the crowd, do not parrot others, and especially do not be deceived. Talk about questions and answers.

78. 要明确需求，不要人云亦云，否则非常容易被动和疲惫

78. It is essential to clarify the requirements and not to follow others blindly; otherwise, it is very easy to become passive and tired.

79. 我们不该回避也不该恐惧，应在有限的生命中渴望永远，追求永恒。“生的伟大，死的光荣”，刘胡兰用死的壮烈诠释了生的永恒。刑场上的婚礼那一幕也用最壮美的画面雕刻成一个永世的梦境。新时期英雄赵占英面对阵地烽火，他如火愤怒，枪刺永远对着敌人。面对生的渴求，他们迎面而对死亡，这就是欣赏死亡。

79. We should neither avoid nor fear; instead, we should yearn for eternity within the limited span of life and pursue the eternal. "Greatness in life, glory in death," Liu Hulan interprets the eternity of life with the bravery of her death. The scene of the wedding at the execution ground is also carved into an eternal dream with the most magnificent imagery. In the new era, hero Zhao Zhanying, facing the flames of the battlefield, is angry as fire and always points his bayonet at the enemy. Facing the yearning for life, they confront death head-on, which is the appreciation of death.

80. 到市场上你听有人吆喝卖苹果，有人卖梨，有人卖西瓜，他们有这些东西，但他们统一缺的就是你的钱!所以不要听忽悠，要有自己的理智。要实事求是。不要人云亦云。

80. When you go to the market, you hear people shouting to sell apples, some selling pears, and others selling watermelons. They have these things, but what they all uniformly lack is your money! So don't be deceived by false promises, and maintain your own reason. Be practical. Don't just follow others without thinking.

81. 44在人生这条路上，只有奋斗才能带给自己安全感。

81. On this journey of life, only struggle can bring oneself a sense of security.

82. 12当你不去旅行，不去冒险，不去谈一场恋爱，不过没试过的生活，每天只是挂着QQ,刷着微博，逛着淘宝，干着80岁都能做的事情，那么你要青春有什么用。

82. 12 When you don't travel, don't take risks, don't have a romance, and don't experience a life you haven't tried, spending your days just chatting on QQ, scrolling through Weibo, shopping on Taobao, doing things that an 80-year-old could do, then what's the point of having your youth?

83. 33你的遇事慌乱、抱怨、一脸苦相、不敢扛事儿、推脱、找借口、逻辑不清、没有反馈、不拘小节、不动脑、不走心的举动都会出卖你，阳光、沉稳、乐观、抗击打、思路清晰、勇于奉献、耐得住寂寞、不怕犯错、有进步、打鸡血的每一天会成就连自己都惊讶的未来。

83. Your actions of panicking in situations, complaining, showing a face of distress, not daring to take responsibility, dodging, making excuses, lack of clear logic, no feedback, not paying attention to details, not using your brain, and not being sincere will betray you. Be sunny, steady, optimistic, resilient, have clear thinking, be willing to make sacrifices, endure solitude, not fear making mistakes, keep improving, and every day filled with enthusiasm will create a future that even surprises yourself.

84. 我觉得，人就像一件艺术作品，每个阶段都有不同的魅力，不同的缺点和优点。比如现阶段我的演技不是很纯熟，但同时我也拥有这个年龄特有的东西。人都有一个成长的过程，我正在一步一步地进步，只要给我时间，我相信我会是很好的演员。

84. I feel that a person is like a piece of art, each stage possesses its own charm, as well as its own shortcomings and strengths. For example, at this stage, my acting skills are not very proficient, but at the same time, I also have the unique qualities that come with this age. Everyone has a growth process, and I am progressing step by step. Given time, I believe I will be a great actor.

85. 米：我好难受好难受最近自己心情差的不行差的不行！我需要人陪！我好累好累！我不想一个人撑，但是没有别人和我一起撑！如果你不再是我的男友多好，我对你就没有要陪我的期待了！可是你是！却没能陪我！我好难过！我厌倦了这种期待！亲人走了你不在，天冷了你不在！我却空空期待着

85. meters: I feel so terrible, so terrible! My mood has been really bad lately, worse and worse! I need someone by my side! I'm so exhausted, so exhausted! I don't want to carry on alone, but there's no one else to carry on with me! If you were not my boyfriend anymore, I wouldn't have any expectations for you to be with me! But you are, and yet you haven't been with me! I'm so sad! I'm tired of this waiting! When my loved ones left, you weren't there; when it got cold, you weren't there either! And yet, I'm left with empty expectations.

86. 53一定要爱着些什么，恰似草木对光阴的钟情。

86. 53 Always cherish something, just as plants are deeply in love with time.

87. 分开之后你不打游戏也没那么忙了我也不需要人陪也不再患得患失所有的事都是注定的马路对面的两棵树注定不能在一起这么大的城市里我们或许永远都不会相遇对于你我选择闭口不谈不诋毁也不祝福也是在分开之后我才知道我是真的喜欢你。

87. After we parted, you don't play games as much and you're not that busy either. I no longer need someone to accompany me, nor do I worry about gain or loss. Everything is predetermined. The two trees across the street are destined not to be together. In such a big city, we may never meet. For you and me, I choose to remain silent, neither slandering nor blessing. It was only after the separation that I realized I truly like you.

88. 除了做手术这样的事情需要人陪以外其他任何事情都一定要人陪同是很让我想不通的事情一定要人陪不然就不去的这种捆绑式情感很难消受希望不要扯上我我一个人周末懒在床上躺尸真的很好很舒服一点也没有寂寞的意思

88. It's quite perplexing to me that anything except for things like surgeries require someone to accompany you. It's a form of emotional bondage that is hard to bear, this kind of "you must have someone to accompany you or you won't go" mindset. I hope it doesn't involve me. I really enjoy just lying in bed on weekends, being a couch potato, and it feels very comfortable. There's absolutely no sense of loneliness.