在成长的岁月里，世界如同五彩斑斓的画卷，不藏事，不掩情，只求真实。

In the years of growth, the world is like a colorful and vibrant scroll, not hiding anything, not concealing emotions, only seeking truth.

1. ❶人这一生，不过是在无数个平凡日子里把苦痛熬成甘甜——好好生活，就是对自己最大的慷慨。

1. ❶ Throughout one's life, it is no more than turning countless ordinary days of suffering into sweetness—leading a good life is the greatest generosity to oneself.

2. ❺生活给我一地鸡毛，我就把它扎成鸡毛掸子，继续清扫下一个难关。

2. Life throws me a handful of chicken feathers, and I weave them into a broom to sweep away the next obstacle.

3. ❼比起被人左右情绪的日子，我更喜欢无人问津的独处时光。

3. I prefer the solitude of being ignored over the days when my emotions are controlled by others.

4. ❽成年人的崩溃要挑时辰：天亮前收拾好碎片，太阳升起时继续扮演体面。

4. The collapse of adults should be timed: tidy up the pieces before dawn, and continue to play the role of dignity when the sun rises.

5. ❹世界不会辜负努力，但会过滤矫情，能自己扛的别声张，沉默的成长比眼泪更高级。

5. ❹ The world will not disappoint those who work hard, but it will filter out pretense. If you can bear it yourself, don't make a fuss. Silent growth is more sophisticated than tears.

6. ❷成年人的默契：不追问，不解释，心照不宣的疏离里，藏着最冰冷的体面。

6. ❷ Adult默契: Not asking questions, not explaining, the implicit alienation contains the coldest dignity.

7. ❸经济自立才能让灵魂挺直腰板，否则爱情和自由都得在现实面前低头。

7. ❸ Only economic independence can make the soul stand tall; otherwise, love and freedom must bow down in the face of reality.

8. ❾把‘随便’从字典里删除，清晰的边界感，才是对彼此最大的尊重。

8. Remove '随便' from the dictionary, and having clear boundaries is the greatest respect we can show each other.

9. ❿人生如书，翻过焦虑的章节才读得到从容。别急，好故事都需要铺垫。

9. Life is like a book, only after turning the pages of anxiety can we find tranquility. Don't rush, good stories all require a proper setup.

10. ❻短期交往看脸，长期相处看脾性，一生相伴看人品。时间从不撒谎。

10. ③ In short-term relationships, appearance matters; in long-term relationships, personality counts; in a lifetime of companionship, character is the key. Time never lies.