在这个瞬息万变的时代，掌握高效互动技巧，瞬间赢得关注！让我们一起揭开互动艺术的神秘面纱，探索如何用智慧点亮沟通的火花。

In this age of rapid change, mastering efficient interactive skills can win attention instantly! Let's unveil the mysterious veil of interactive art and explore how to ignite the spark of communication with wisdom.

1. 疫情期间步数少却得到点赞，那可能是赞赏你不出门的行为;

1. During the pandemic, receiving likes for having fewer steps, that might be praise for your decision to stay indoors.

2. 一般情况下，如果妹子还是继续回避，则说明妹子对你没有意思，这时候你可以终止话题；但是如果妹子默认了，或者不好意思，发害羞的表情给你，那说明可以继续话题。

2. Generally speaking, if the girl continues to avoid you, it indicates that she has no interest in you, and at this point, you can end the conversation. However, if she tacitly agrees, or feels embarrassed and sends you a shy emoji, it means the conversation can continue.

3. 技巧和思维很重要，以前我也情商不高，嘴笨不会聊天，总以为对女生好就能追到她，总以为做正经男人就能赢得好感。

3. Skills and thinking are very important. I also had a low emotional intelligence before, I was awkward at talking, and always thought that being nice to girls would win them over, or that being a serious man would earn me their favor.

4. 如果是某位异性，那也有可能是喜欢你，想引起你的关注。

4. If it's someone of the opposite sex, it's also possible that they like you and want to draw your attention.

5. 我也尝试过每天死缠烂打，用真心去打动，频繁找女生聊天，早上好在干嘛……经常点赞女生的朋友圈，然而对方爱理不理，最后一无所获，浪费了很多时间和精力。

5. I also tried to pester her every day, trying to touch her heart with sincerity, frequently initiating chats with her, asking what she was doing in the morning... Often liking her WeChat Moments, but she didn't pay much attention to me, and in the end, I got nothing. It wasted a lot of time and energy.

6. 妹子如果接着问你这个梦：后来怎么样了？你就可以自由发挥了：后来，我们情不自禁的接吻了。

6. If the girl keeps asking you about this dream: "What happened later?" You can freely express yourself: Later, we kissed without being able to help it.

7. 比如女生突然问你“在吗”，你马上回复“在啊在啊，有什么事吗？？？”

7. For example, if a girl suddenly asks you "Are you there?", you should immediately reply with "I'm here, I'm here, what's up????".

8. 不是泛泛之交， 而是饭饭之交，共品美食的乐趣。

8. Not just casual acquaintances, but food companions, sharing the joy of tasting delicious cuisine.

9. 微信运动是微信软件里自带的一个小功能，通过该功能我们可以看到我们自己和好友每天的微信步数，并且还会按步数多少进行好友排名，我们还可以互相给微信好友的微信步数点赞。 排名中间的人往往点赞较少，但是也会有，当然点赞最多的往往是那些步数排行榜中遥遥领先的好友，或者是那些一天没走几步排名倒数的微信好友。 那么如果你发现有个人不管你走了多少步，每天都在给你的微信步数点赞，你觉得对方是什么意思呢？

9. WeChat Steps is a small built-in feature in the WeChat app, through which we can see our own and our friends' daily WeChat step counts. It also ranks our friends based on the number of steps taken, and we can like the WeChat step counts of our friends. Those in the middle of the ranking often receive fewer likes, but some do receive likes. Of course, the ones with the most likes are usually friends who are far ahead in the step count leaderboard, or those WeChat friends who are at the bottom of the list because they haven't taken many steps that day. So, if you find that someone likes your WeChat step count every day regardless of how many steps you've taken, what do you think that person's intention is?

10. 适当了解一下热点，现在大家通过手机都能找到不少的新闻热点，所以，我们也可以通过各种热点找话题。然后跟女孩子去沟通，生活热点这么多，总有女孩子喜欢的一类，当然，这前提是，大家首先需要去分析对方的兴趣点了。（网恋撩妹套路）

10. Get a basic understanding of current hot topics. Now, everyone can find a lot of news hotspots through their phones, so we can also find topics through various hotspots. Then, communicate with girls. With so many life hotspots, there must be a type that some girls like. Of course, this的前提 is that everyone first needs to analyze the other person's interests. (Online dating romance tricks)

11. 处于这种情况，基本都是一个群里的同事或亲朋，都认识互相点赞，是一种勉励和赞赏，没有其他目的，至少我是这么做的。

11. In such a situation, it is usually colleagues or relatives from the same group, who are all familiar with each other and like each other's posts. It is a form of encouragement and appreciation, with no other purpose, at least that's how I do it.

12. 关系慢慢近了，是不是就有了成交的可能性？所以，点赞有时候也有点套路的！目前，很多为了拓展或者维系客户关系的人，为了减轻点赞的工作量，会使用无脑式一键点赞工具，天天好友列表点个遍，而你可能只是其中的一个！

12. As the relationship slowly becomes closer, doesn't that increase the possibility of a deal? So, liking can sometimes be a bit of a trick! Currently, many people who want to expand or maintain customer relationships use brainless one-click liking tools to go through their friend lists every day, and you might just be one of them!

13. 如果那个人跟你关系很不错，是真挚正义的亲友，那他可能是真正对你运动量表示赞扬，并且推崇你的这种运动精神(前提是微信步数确实多)；

13. If that person has a very good relationship with you and is a sincere and just friend or relative, they may be genuinely praising your level of physical activity and admiring your spirit of exercise (assuming the WeChat steps count is indeed high).

14. 也有一种可能就是暗恋你，时时刻刻关注你所有的动态，在微信步数中可以看到一个人是在户外还是在办公室工作，我也会从微信步数去关注一个人。有一次，这个人的微信步数一步走没有走，我发微信打电话都不回复，一天我特别着急，各种渠道打探他的消息，到了下午他回复了信息，一天忘记带手机了，我才踏实了下来。从此以后，我就关闭了微信步数，不在关注他的微信步数。

14. There is also a possibility that they have a secret crush on you, constantly keeping an eye on all your activities. You can see from WeChat's step count whether someone is working outdoors or in an office, and I also pay attention to someone's step count this way. There was a time when this person's WeChat step count didn't move at all, and I sent WeChat messages and made phone calls, but they didn't reply. I was very anxious that day, trying to get information about them through various channels. It wasn't until the afternoon that they replied, saying they had forgotten their phone that day. That's when I felt at ease. From then on, I turned off the WeChat step count and stopped paying attention to his step count.

15. 如果妹子说：你好讨厌，做这样子的梦。这说明妹子对你是有兴趣指标的，你可以说：其实我本人坏多了，我还想把梦变成现实，哈哈哈。

15. If the girl says: "You're so annoying, having such dreams." This indicates that the girl is interested in you. You can say: "Actually, I'm much worse in person, and I want to make the dream come true, hahaha."

16. 认同并欣赏你的人。我的微信朋友圈上有近2000位朋友或伙伴。我较爱踩车和散步。曾一次在微信步数朋友圈上站到过首位。记得那次是人为的仅有一次。我喜欢摄影，有一次应某大学某院长之邀，和学生们去外地写生。在写生的过程中，我便到处寻找能充分反映当地风俗的景来进行作品创作，走了很多的路，一不小心便在微信步数上名列前茅，当时已快到晚上11点了，为争取第一的位置，便邀清了几个学生一起又走出房间，继续在山间夜游，一直走到并估计在这个点不会再有人“夜游”了，一看表都快24点了。所以首次名例了榜首。因此，你朋友圈喜欢散步的人，也就知道你也在其中。认同并欣赏你的人就会时常关注你，无论你走多走少他都会给你个赞。就向人与人见面时互相打个招呼一样的习惯，当习惯了久了，对方经常给你点赞也就表示关注你，也就自然了。

16. People who recognize and appreciate you. There are nearly 2,000 friends or partners in my WeChat Moments. I love cycling and taking walks. Once, I topped the WeChat steps Moments list. I remember that was a man-made event and only happened once. I enjoy photography, and there was a time when I was invited by the dean of a university to go on a sketching trip with students. During the sketching process, I scoured for landscapes that could fully reflect the local customs to create my works. I walked a lot, and accidentally topped the WeChat steps list. It was almost 11 p.m. at the time. To secure the number one position, I invited a few students to leave the room again and continued our night hike in the mountains. We walked until we estimated that no one else would go "night hiking" at that point. When I checked the time, it was almost 12 a.m. So that was the first time I topped the list. Therefore, if people in your Moments like taking walks, they also know you do. People who recognize and appreciate you will often pay attention to you, and they will give you a like regardless of how many steps you take. It's like a habit when people greet each other when they meet. After getting used to it, if someone frequently likes your posts, it also means they are paying attention to you, which becomes natural.

17. 对被点赞的人啥感觉？是不是有种亲近的感觉？

17. How do you feel about the person who received the likes? Do you feel a sense of closeness to them?

18. 另外：微信的点赞功能是微信功能中最基本的互动功能！也是微信好友之间最便捷、最快速的相互支持的功能！凡是持有微信的人，基本每天都会浏览微信，而微信步数也是许多人每天必看的一项！一个赞，就代表了全部支持的心意！所以，我觉得每天都为自己微信步数点赞的人，应该就是一种正常的互动，或者说是一种顺势支持的表现吧！

18. Additionally: The like function on WeChat is one of the most basic interactive features among all WeChat functions! It is also the most convenient and fastest way for WeChat friends to show mutual support! Virtually everyone who holds a WeChat account basically checks WeChat every day, and WeChat step count is also a daily must-see for many people! A like represents the full support from the heart! Therefore, I think that liking one's WeChat step count every day should be a form of normal interaction, or perhaps an expression of顺势 support!

19. 注重互动：先说部分话题，如果女生感兴趣，再继续聊

19. Focus on interaction: Start with some topics first, and continue the conversation if the girl is interested.

20. 无论是微信、朋友圈动态还是电话，只要女生一有消息你就马上回复，马上点赞。然而，你用十秒钟回她，却要用一天的时间等她的回复。

20. Whether it's WeChat, moments in the朋友圈, or a phone call, as long as there's a message from her, you should reply immediately and like it right away. However, it takes you ten seconds to respond to her, but a whole day to wait for her reply.

21. 你可以接着问妹子：那你会希望这一天的到来吗？

21. You can continue to ask the girl: "Would you look forward to the arrival of that day?"

22. 这会使女生完全没有了自己的私生活，因为她得抽出时间来回应你的各种问候，她也会认为你是个无所事事的人，好像没有上进心的样子。（网恋撩妹套路）

22. This would make the girl have no private life at all, as she has to spend time responding to your various greetings. She might also think of you as a lazy person, as if you have no ambition. (Online romance seduction tactics)

23. 如果她认为你太好到手了，她就不会对你有兴趣了。在聊天的过程中，你可以适当的谈论一些话题，对于突出的要点，你可以对女人保持神秘，相信她会一直想要你的答案，便会一直跟随于你，当然这种方法要适当。

23. If she thinks you're too easy to get, she won't be interested in you. During the conversation, you can appropriately bring up some topics. For the key points, you can keep the woman mysterious. Believe that she will always want your answers and will always follow you. Of course, this method should be used appropriately.

24. 对方很喜欢你。

25. 这是对方关注你的一个可能原因。 如果是 一个异性每天在给你的微信步数点赞，况且你俩的关系也还不错，那么对方点赞你微信步数的原因多半是喜欢你。 但是又没好意思直接开口，只能通过给你微信步数点赞的方式来找一些存在感，期待能引起你的注意。

24. The other person really likes you. 25. This might be a possible reason why the other person is paying attention to you. If it's a person of the opposite sex who is liking your WeChat steps every day, and your relationship with them is also quite good, then the reason the other person is liking your WeChat steps is mostly because they like you. But they are too shy to say it directly, so they can only find some sense of existence by liking your WeChat steps, hoping to catch your attention.

26. 总是在自己闲下来，没有事情做的时候就频繁的找女生聊天，这样也就无形中把女生所有的空闲时间都给霸占了。

26. Always look for girls to chat when you're idle and have nothing to do, thereby inadvertently occupying all of the girls' free time.

27. 女生较被动，喜欢被带领，她们期待聊天轻松愉快，自然而然在一起的感觉。如果女生回复差，说明当下你提供的话题太无聊或她不感兴趣，只要继续带领，聊些有趣话题，女生会继续跟你互动。

27. Girls are more passive, preferring to be led. They look forward to conversations that are light and enjoyable, feeling a natural connection. If a girl responds poorly, it indicates that the topic you're providing is too boring or she's not interested. As long as you continue to lead and talk about interesting topics, the girl will keep interacting with you.

28. 当然，点赞这个行为暗含着很多信息，咱们也不能以偏概全，上述情况仅是其中一二。对于被点赞的我们来说，就沉浸在被赞，被关注的愉悦中吧

28. Of course, liking something implies a lot of information, and we can't generalize from a single case. The situations mentioned above are just a few examples. For those who receive likes, just immerse yourself in the joy of being praised and paid attention to.

29. 2赞美：我们每个人都希望得到别人的真诚的赞美与喜欢。我们都喜欢与情商高的以及喜欢我们的人相处，交流。所以你可以在聊天中多些赞美和表达喜欢。

29. 2 Praise: We all hope to receive sincere praise and like from others. We enjoy interacting and spending time with people who have high emotional intelligence and those who like us. Therefore, you can add more praise and expressions of affection in your conversations.

30. 让女生知道，你的'生活不是在围着她一个人转，你也有自己的事情要忙。这样她也不会觉得你有什么企图，再继续排斥跟你聊天了。

30. Let the girl know that your 'life is not revolving around her alone, and you also have your own things to take care of. This way, she won't feel that you have any ulterior motives and continue to reject chatting with you.

31. 后来在“ 高山恋网” 里学到了很多撩妹捷径，快速让我成为情圣，几天时间就可以确定恋爱关系，建议大家去百度搜，你会发现不一样的高效方法。

31. Later, I learned many flirty shortcuts on the "High Mountain Love Website," quickly turning me into a Casanova. It took only a few days to establish a romantic relationship. I recommend searching on Baidu; you'll find different efficient methods.

32. 如果小伙子的步数在6000到7000步， 那有可能男神又被公司叫去加班了；

32. If the young man has taken between 6,000 to 7,000 steps, it's possible that the god of romance has been called back to the company for overtime work again.

33. 妹子要是说：切，你真是做白日梦，我怎么可能跟你亲嘴。

33. If the girl says: Hey, you're just daydreaming, how could I possibly kiss you?

34. 见面时的叽叽喳喳，欢声笑语不断。

34. The chirping and laughter never ceased during the meeting.

35. 答：—、我觉得这应该就是同事，同学、朋友、微信好友之间一种正常互动的表现吧！因为我微信中的同事、同学、好友、都有每天给我微信步数点赞的！我并没有什么特殊的感触，感觉很正常！因为我也会每天给她们回赞！

35. Answer: —, I think this should be a normal interaction among colleagues, classmates, friends, and WeChat friends! Because all the colleagues, classmates, and friends in my WeChat give me likes on my WeChat steps every day! I don't have any special feelings, it feels very normal to me! Because I also give them likes every day!

36. 为什么总听说女生喜欢霸道总裁，就是因为他们情商高，做事果断，会让女生感觉到男生的自信，会让她们不由自主的靠近。

36. Why do we always hear that girls like domineering CEOs? It's because they have high emotional intelligence, act decisively, and make girls feel the confidence of boys, causing them to involuntarily draw closer.

37. 十分敬佩你的人。在朋友圈中，他对你的人品和才能，至少是在某一方面对你的印象很深，也很好。因对方位置比你高或也不便随意的显山露水和闲聊。因此，对方也会十分的关注你的一举一动，正好在这个平台又能遇见到你，给你一个赞，打个招呼。似乎也是在提醒你：喂！小伙子，我的步数比你多呐！

37. A person who admires you greatly. In the circle of friends, he has a deep and good impression of your character and talent, at least in one aspect. Because the other person's position is higher than yours or it is also not convenient to casually show off and chat. Therefore, the other person will also pay great attention to every move you make. It's just that on this platform, you encounter each other again, give you a thumbs-up, and say a greeting. It seems as if they are also reminding you: Hey, young man, I've taken more steps than you have!

38. 1聊她感兴趣的话题：人都喜欢聊自己感兴趣的话题，不能女人想要一个苹果给她一大箱鸭梨，然后问女人为什么不爱你，爱情需要建立了解和好感。

38.1 Talk about topics that she is interested in: People generally enjoy discussing topics that they are interested in. You can't give a woman a whole box of pears when she asks for an apple and then ask her why she doesn't love you. Love requires the establishment of understanding and affection.

39. 第一种情况，就是这个人就是你认识的人，并且关系一般可上，朋友圈还比较干净没有啥广告。那这个人对你坚持不懈的点赞，可能出于对你的感情，而这感情包括友情，爱情，亲情等等。你可以根据自身情况自查一下，看看你们之间有没有发生点什么的可能性！

39. In the first scenario, this person is someone you know, and your relationship is generally good, with a clean social circle without much advertising. If this person consistently likes your posts, it may be due to their feelings for you, which could include friendship, love, family ties, and more. You can take a self-check based on your own situation to see if there's a possibility of something happening between you two!

40. 对方真的很赞赏你的微信步数。

41. 如果 你每天的步数都很多 ，而且 自己的排名也都在微信排行榜前列 ，如果 有一些关系一般或者不太熟的微信好友 每天给你点赞，那多半是 由衷的对你每天的运动步数表示赞赏或者肯定 。

40. The other party really admires your WeChat step count. 41. If you have a high number of steps every day, and your ranking is also in the top of the WeChat ranking, if some WeChat friends who are not very close or not very familiar with you like to give you likes every day, it's mostly a sincere appreciation or affirmation of your daily physical activity steps.

42. 以前我也不会撩妹子聊天，情商不高，对女生嘘寒问暖，无数次跪舔和讨好，却被当成好男人，根本换不来女生对我的喜欢。我也尝试过每天频繁聊天，死缠烂打，结果一无所获。后来在“高山恋网”里系统学习了很多攻略，一星期的时间就可以确定关系，快速让我成为情圣，强烈建议大家去网上找。女人不是追来的，而是需要各种聊天套路，让她主动找你。

42. I used to be unable to flirt with girls and had a low emotional quotient. I repeatedly tried to show concern for girls, kowtowing and pleasing them, but I was only seen as a good man, which never earned their affection. I also tried to chat frequently every day, pestering them, but it got me nowhere. Later, I systematically learned many strategies on "Gao Shan Liang Net," and it took only a week to establish a relationship, quickly making me a Casanova. I strongly recommend everyone to look for it online. Women are not chased, but they need various chatting tactics to make them come to you主动.

43. 如果你的这位朋友，朋友圈有广告或者做市场工作的那么就需要另行别论，且看下一种情况！

43. If this friend of yours has advertisements or is involved in marketing work in their social circle, then it's a different case. Let's consider the next situation!

44. 对方想通过你的微信运动了解你的每天的运动轨迹。

45. 这也是对方关注你微信步数，给你点赞的一个可能原因。比如这个点赞的朋友可以是你的下属，或者你的学生等等。 举个例子， 不少学生都通过老师的微信步数来推断今天班主任老师的具体动向： 如果老师的步数在三位数，那说明老师还在家，肯定没有到学校；如果查看老师的微信步数已经超过5000步，那很有可能老师已经出门，说不定快到学校了。 哈哈，这个小技巧你做学生时可曾用过？

44. The other person wants to understand your daily exercise轨迹 through your WeChat steps. 45. This could also be a possible reason why the other person is paying attention to your WeChat steps and liking them. For example, this liking friend could be your subordinate, or your student, etc. For instance, many students use their teacher's WeChat steps to infer the specific whereabouts of the class teacher today: if the teacher's steps are in the three-digit range, it means the teacher is still at home and definitely has not arrived at school; if the teacher's WeChat steps have exceeded 5,000 steps, it is very likely that the teacher has already gone out, and might even be on their way to school. Haha, did you ever use this little trick when you were a student?

46. 对方想引起你的关注。

47. 如果不管你 微信步数多少，排名前后 ，都有一个人每天给你的微信步数点赞，而且 你还不怎么认识 ，那么对方这么做的原因很有可能是 想引起你的关注，说不定对方就是微信上卖东西的，给你点个赞混个脸熟，方便之后你买对方的东西。

46. The other person wants to attract your attention. 47. If, regardless of how many steps you take on WeChat, you are either at the top or bottom of the ranking, and there is someone who likes your WeChat step count every day, and you are not very familiar with this person, the likely reason for them doing so is that they want to attract your attention. Maybe the other person is selling things on WeChat, liking your step count to get to know you a bit, making it easier for you to buy their products later.

48. 一般情况下，微信步数就是相互点赞，看看谁的赞多，谁走的多，没有其他的目的，意义，纯属 娱乐 ，不必当真。

48. Generally speaking, WeChat steps are just about mutual likes, to see whose likes are more, and whose steps are longer. There are no other purposes or meanings; it's purely for entertainment, and there's no need to take it seriously.

49. 你只需要在很放松，没有胡思乱想的的状态下，你的聊天才会显得自然，才会让人觉得幽默，才会让对方将此时此刻内心最真实的情感进行流露，然后与你分享。

49. You need to be in a state of great relaxation, without wandering thoughts, for your conversation to appear natural, to seem humorous, and for the other person to let their true emotions at this very moment flow out and share them with you.

50. 女生对你没感觉，多数不是因为你缺少有趣的经历去分享，而是聊天节奏要调整：

50. The girl isn't interested in you, and most of the time it's not because you lack interesting experiences to share, but rather that you need to adjust the pace of the conversation:

51. 对方只是为了调侃你。

52. 如果你每天的 微信步数都不多 ，依然有个人天天给你点赞，而且你发现这个点赞的人 还和你关系不错 ，那 该好友这么做的目的多半是为了调侃你 。

51. The other person was just teasing you. 52. If you don't walk much every day on WeChat, and yet there's someone who likes your posts every day, and you find that this person also has a good relationship with you, then the purpose of this friend doing so is mostly to tease you.

53. 这时候，你发一个苦笑表情：对啊，我也觉得不可能，所以我就用力打了自己一巴掌，然后我就醒了。

53. At this moment, you send a wry smile emoji: Yeah, I thought it was impossible too, so I gave myself a good slap, and then I woke up.