在这场视觉的盛宴中，一张张聊天背景图悄然更换，如同翻动的画卷，迎接着一个个崭新的形象。

In this visual feast, one chat background after another quietly changes, like flipping through a scroll, welcoming one new image after another.

1. 要对一个聊天对话框单独设置聊天背景，首先将手机界面切换至联系人界面，选中想要单独设置聊天背景的联系人。

1. To set a separate chat background for a chat dialog, first switch the phone interface to the contact interface, and select the contact for which you want to set a separate chat background.

2. 利用好隐身，和隐身对其可见的设置。每次上线之只能同时展开3个以下聊。不然你会手忙脚乱的。\x0d\\x0d\

2. Make good use of stealth and the settings that make you visible to stealth users. You can only open up to 3 chats at a time upon logging in. Otherwise, you might find yourself in a whirlwind of confusion.

3. 约会节点。\x0d\\x0d\走下网络，走向现实，就能实施第一次约会了。而这节点，就是女人的主动互动，约你上线。主动和你打招呼。主动寻找话题。你的吸引和舒适感需要在网络上完成。这个时间应当不会超过1个月。其实按照节奏有半个多月，就能约出来推倒了。机会出现就得把握，不然时间一长机会就丧失了。见的早不好，约不出效果。晚了，也就丧失走向现实的机会了。毕竟在身边还是能让她忘记其他男人。\x0d\\x0d\

3. The约会 milestone. \x0d\x0d\Stepping out of the online world and into reality allows for the implementation of the first date. And this milestone is when the woman takes the initiative to interact with you, inviting you to go online. She takes the initiative to greet you. She takes the initiative to find topics of conversation. The attraction and comfort you feel need to be established online. This period should not exceed one month. In fact, if the pace is maintained, it could take half a month or more to arrange the date and get it over with. When opportunities arise, they should be seized, otherwise, the longer you wait, the more opportunities are lost. It's not good to see each other too early, as it may not lead to a successful date. If it's too late, the opportunity to move into reality is also lost. After all, being with someone in person can help her forget about other men. \x0d\x0d\

4. 针对企业环境，企业QQ重新架构了会话窗口，提升了工作效率。

4. For the corporate environment, the enterprise QQ has restructured the session window, enhancing work efficiency.

5. 警惕聊天过程中出现的马甲。\x0d\\x0d\聊天时间长了，你就会有这种经验。很多被你迷上的女孩子，心里会觉得你这么一个很有趣的人怎么会爱上我，自卑且对自己怀疑于是采用马甲号对你测试。你通过测试，对她不动心，那么你就会赢得她的心。否则，就出局。这是防不胜防的测试。\x0d\\x0d\马甲号有这么几个识别的特点\x0d\\x0d\

5. Be vigilant of alter egos appearing in chat sessions. \x0d\x0d\As you chat for a longer time, you will gain such experience. Many girls who you are fascinated with may wonder in their hearts why someone as interesting as you would fall for me, feeling inferior and suspicious of yourself, and thus use an alter ego to test you. If you pass the test and show no interest in her, then you will win her heart. Otherwise, you are out. This is a test that is hard to guard against. \x0d\x0d\There are several identifying characteristics of alter egos: \x0d\x0d\

6. QQ用户可从QQ客户端的“查找企业”找到您，为您增加潜在客户。

6. QQ users can find you through the "Find Company" feature in the QQ client, which helps you increase potential customers.

7. 不说自己的手机号，不通电话，不开视频\x0d\\x0d\

7. Do not disclose your phone number, do not make phone calls, do not have video calls.

8. 背景暗示\x0d\\x0d\所谓背景暗示，其实就是无言的僚机。你的空间就是你无言的僚机，你的文章，你的日志，展示你全方位的自我，你的生活。女人看过你的文章，就会被吸引。记得《把妹达人》好莱坞计划，就是让来的女人看他们剪辑的家庭影片，看完影片，很多女人就自动SC了，这就是背景暗示无言僚机的好处。打造好你的空间，这就是你的网络僚机。\x0d\\x0d\

8. Background Subtlety \\x0d\\x0d So-called background subtlety is actually an unwritten wingman. Your space is your unwritten wingman. Your articles, your diary, display your all-around self and your life. Women who read your articles will be attracted. Remember the "Pick-up Artist" Hollywood Plan, which is to show the women who come the edited family videos. After watching the film, many women will automatically SC (which refers to 'sleep with' in a casual dating context), and this is the benefit of the silent wingman in background subtlety. Build a good space, and that is your online wingman.\\x0d\\x0d

9. 不要做女人的情感垃圾桶。女人向你抱怨的时候。找个DHV的借口迅速离开，在女人的负面情绪下，只会产生妇女之友，而不是把妹达人。\x0d\\x0d\

9. Don't be a woman's emotional trash can. When a woman complains to you, find a DHV excuse to quickly leave. Being under a woman's negative emotions will only produce a woman's friend, not a dating master.

10. 在吸引建立前不要开视频。女人对男人的外形很看重。你自我感觉很帅，但是可能不是她要的类型，再一个能让你看视频，她很自信，会让她觉得你太看重她的外貌。\x0d\\x0d\女人通常开我的视屏，我一般不开，我告诉她我们是心灵的朋友。建立吸引之后，你的神秘会让她更加的好奇。\x0d\\x0d\

10. Don't start a video before you attract her. Women place a high value on a man's appearance. You may feel you look handsome, but that might not be the type she's interested in. Plus, if she lets you watch a video, she's confident, and it might make her feel that you're too focused on her looks. Women usually initiate the video with me, and I usually don't, I tell her that we are spiritual friends. After building attraction, your mystery will make her even more curious.

11. 诱惑是现场玩的\x0d\\x0d\很多人喜欢在QQ讲成人笑话，性暗示，其实我一直很反对这种表达方式，不是我道德约束，而是我觉得这不是正确的游戏。你可以诱惑单身的，想出轨的，但是你遇见有男朋友的，自己对你还不是很感冒的，道德感比较传统的女孩子，你的诱惑其实会被女人的第六感感知你的企图心。先拿下，而不是碰运气，正巧女人也想。那么就得正确游戏。看看，迷男的书，在带女人回家，都说，你不能待太久，我明天还要上班。到进房之前都不会触及女人的防护罩和ASD。\x0d\\x0d\

11. Temptation is a game played in the field \x0d\\x0d\Many people like to share adult jokes and sexual innuendos on QQ, but I have always been against this form of expression. It's not because of moral constraints, but I think it's not the correct way to play. You can tempt those who are single or want to cheat, but if you meet a girl who has a boyfriend and is not very interested in you, or has a more traditional sense of morality, your temptation will actually be sensed by a woman's sixth sense of your intention. It's better to win her over rather than rely on luck, and if the woman also wants it, then you need to play the game correctly. Look, in the book "The Art of Charm," when taking a woman home, it says, "You can't stay too long, I have to go to work tomorrow." You won't touch the woman's protective shield and ASD until you enter the room. \x0d\\x0d\

12. QQ留言\x0d\\x0d\就是你看见她在线，也不能说话。等她不再了留言。这个第一次留言，就让她了解你。你把你是什么样的人告诉她，展示你多层次的爱好，这是一个高价值展示，为了就是吸引她产生和你交谈的欲望。不要谈你们搭讪的回忆。不对她的外表作出评价，这第一次留言为了就是让她了解你的高价值，产生吸引，展示自我，不是互动。留言几次她就给你回了，产生吸引后，就能开展正常的聊天了。\x0d\\x0d\

12. QQ Messages \\ \\ Even if you see her online, you can't talk to her. Leave a message when she's no longer there. This first message is to let her know about you. Tell her what kind of person you are, show her your multifaceted interests; this is a high-value display, with the purpose of attracting her to want to talk to you. Don't talk about your interactions in the past. Don't make any comments on her appearance. The purpose of this first message is to let her understand your high value, generate attraction, showcase yourself, not for interaction. She will reply to your messages after a few times, and once attraction is established, you can start a normal conversation. \\ \\

13. 服从测试\x0d\\x0d\在虚拟空间怎么让她服从，约她下次上线的时间，让她在聊天过程中等你。让她给你找资料。然她给你修改文章。逐渐的在虚拟中让她服从。让她投资这段关系。我一般都是说，你一会下机给我个短信啊。或是说，下机大打886必须打这个。这就是服从。\x0d\\x0d\

13. Compliance Test How to make her compliant in the virtual space, schedule the time for her next login, and have her wait for you during the chat process. Get her to find information for you. Then, have her edit articles for you. Gradually make her compliant in the virtual space. Get her to invest in this relationship. I usually say, send me a text message after you log off. Or say, when you log off, you must call 886. This is compliance.

14. 进入聊天框后，点击右上角的那个人图标进入聊天设置，进入聊天设置后，点击聊天背景进入聊天背景设置，在聊天背景设置中可以选择下方的进行下载，也可以选择上面的选择手机相册中的来设置。

14. After entering the chat box, click on the person icon at the upper right corner to enter the chat settings. After entering the chat settings, click on "Chat Background" to enter the chat background settings. In the chat background settings, you can choose to download from the options below, or select "Choose from Phone Album" at the top to set the background.

15. 接触节奏\x0d\\x0d\不要天天上线都和她聊天，有些时候要故意冷一冷。或是看见也不搭理，或是干脆不让她看见。你有自己的生活，不是整天挂在线上的陪聊，即使你不忙，也要显示你很忙。你不是整天挂在线上的宅男。\x0d\\x0d\我一般都是三天或是2天的间隔。慢慢的间隔要常。因为你很忙，要让她适应你的节奏，时间安排。你还要排出时间和其它妹妹聊。\x0d\\x0d\

15. Keep in touch with the rhythm Don't chat with her every day. Sometimes, you should intentionally cool it off. Either ignore her when you see her, or simply don't let her see you. You have your own life, and you're not an online companion all day long. Even if you're not busy, you should show that you are. You're not a guy who spends all day online. I usually have a three or two-day interval. Gradually, the intervals should be more frequent. Because you're busy, she needs to adapt to your rhythm and time arrangement. You also need to allocate time to chat with other girls.

16. 设立计划\x0d\\x0d\约会是一个可以标准化的计划，而聊天何尝不是一个计划。很多人随心所欲的聊天，在聊天之前，脑子里没有一个路线图，今天将讲那个故事，要获得哪些IOI。要么不是你没有展示你要展示的高价值，要么就是你遗漏了要展示的内容，或是错过了机会。所以，你的DHV通过几次展示完是需要规划的，你需要自己的聊天计划。\x0d\\x0d\

16. Establishing a Plan \\x0d\\x0d A date is a standardized plan, and chatting is no different; it is also a plan. Many people chat随意ly without a roadmap in mind before they start chatting. They may have a story to tell and certain IOIs (Informational Objectives) they want to achieve. It could be that you haven't demonstrated the high-value content you intended to show, or you may have missed out on what you needed to present, or you may have missed an opportunity. Therefore, planning your DHV (Display of High Value) through several displays is necessary. You need your own chat plan.\\x0d\\x0d

17. 你对目标不隐身，对她隐身，她知道你在。\x0d\\x0d\

17. You are not invisible to the target, you are invisible to her, and she knows you are there.

18. 虚拟进挪\x0d\\x0d\因为是纯文字交流，缺乏肢体语啊，但是QQ的抖动窗口带给了那一丝的晃动，却是一种无言的动感，我称为虚拟进挪。增加语言信号之外的动觉感应。\x0d\\x0d\

18. Virtual Advancement and Shifting Since it's a pure text-based communication, there's a lack of body language. However, the QQ vibration window brings that hint of movement, which is a silent sense of motion, and I call it virtual advancement and shifting. It adds a kinesthetic sensation beyond verbal signals.

19. 空间留言\x0d\\x0d\在彼此还很陌生的情况下不要上去就谈话，两个没有交集的人，谈话的话题选择，很难，第一谈话印象破坏了，以后可能就没有机会了。所以谈话前要知己知彼。看她空间的文章，给与点评，第一次点评最好全览她的所有文章，或是看她转载文献的选择方向。点评，是你第一次DHV，一定要长，展示你的理解，你的和她的相似点，求同是这次留言的关键。经验是不能少于200字。显眼，高质量。\x0d\\x0d\

19. Space Messages Do not start talking immediately when you are still unfamiliar with each other. It's difficult to choose a topic for conversation between two people who have no connection. If the first impression of the conversation is ruined, there may not be another chance. Therefore, it's important to know each other before you start talking. Read the articles in her space, give comments, and for the first comment, it's best to read all her articles or observe the direction of the literature she has reposted. Comments are your first display of DHV (Display of Hypergamy Value), so they should be long, showing your understanding and the similarities between you and her. Seeking common ground is the key to this message. The experience should not be less than 200 words. Make it noticeable and of high quality.

20. 新注册的号码居多，资料空泛\x0d\\x0d\识别马甲后，就得破解，告诉她你不是个随便的人。你不能显得不耐烦，她要考察你对其他女人的态度来看侧面的你。还要确认你对她的感情。坚持和善的态度，和不暧昧的聊天，才是破解马甲的王道。\x0d\\x0d\

20. Most of the newly registered numbers are generic, lacking in details. After identifying a pseudonym, you need to crack it and let her know that you are not someone who takes things lightly. You cannot show impatience, as she will be assessing your attitude towards other women to get a glimpse of your true self. You also need to confirm your feelings for her. Persistence in a friendly attitude and non-ambiguous conversation is the key to breaking through the pseudonym.

21. 埋下心锚\x0d\\x0d\当你引导她讲开心故事的时候看，用抖动代替微笑符号，这样几次结合的建立，其实就是让她愉快的心情和这个抖动建立了联系。以后你聊天时，不用文字，只要不时的抖动，她都会很愉快。\x0d\\x0d\

21. Planting a Heart Anchor When you guide her to tell happy stories, use shaking instead of a smiley symbol. After a few combinations like this, it is actually to establish a connection between her pleasant mood and the shaking. In the future, when you chat with her, just by occasionally shaking, she will be very happy.

22. 对你的感情生活很有兴趣，不喜欢谈自己\x0d\\x0d\

22. Very interested in your love life, don't like to talk about myself...

23. 控制欲望\x0d\\x0d\很多人觉得在网上看见美女在线不容易，就扯着人家聊，好像时间越长越好。无聊的很了没有话题了还不放手。直到人家枯燥乏味。其实自己没有话题了就果断下线，或是隐身，这样还能留下下次聊天的机会，这里弄得气氛无聊了，下次人家直接就屏蔽了你了。拉着话题不放的无聊举动是DLV\x0d\\x0d\

23. Controlling Desire \0d\0d Many people find it hard to see beautiful women online and start chatting with them, as if the longer the conversation, the better. They become so boring that they don't know what to talk about and still won't let go. They keep going until the other person gets tired of it. In fact, if you run out of topics, it's best to log off or go incognito, which can still leave room for future conversations. If you keep dragging the conversation on, it will make the atmosphere boring, and the other person might just block you next time. The act of not letting go of the topic is called DLV.

24. 在QQ聊天界面自定义企业文字信息，随心所欲展示企业形象，免费为您的企业做广告。

24. Customize corporate text information in the QQ chat interface, freely display your corporate image, and advertise your company for free.

25. 心情跟踪\x0d\\x0d\要时刻关注她的签名和心情，这是你选择聊天时间的指南针，你不要选择她不开心的时候，这样你的努力事倍功半。女人是情绪动物，选择在她心情好的时候很关键。不要评价女人的心情。记住，这很关键。女人的心情变化迅速不容易把握，你的跟随性评价有时候适得其反。\x0d\\x0d\

25. Mood Tracking \\x0d\\x0d Always pay attention to her signature and mood; this is your compass for choosing the right time to chat. Avoid selecting times when she is not happy, as this would make your efforts twice as hard. Women are emotional creatures, and choosing to chat when she is in a good mood is crucial. Do not evaluate a woman's mood. Remember, this is very important. Women's moods change rapidly and are not easy to grasp; sometimes, your follow-up evaluations can have the opposite effect. \\x0d\\x0d

26. 减少发问\x0d\\x0d\过多的问题展示你出的欲望。其实想吸引一个女人不是你了解女人多少，你了解女人多，不代表你能TD她。所以你要做的就是展示你自己，做好你的吸引，女人就会倾心。我有个推到的案例，我都干她几次了，我都不知道她具体叫什么名字，做什么工作。了解女人不重要，重要的是让她想了解你。\x0d\\x0d\

26. Asking too many questions shows your desire. In fact, attracting a woman is not about how much you understand about them. Knowing a lot about women doesn't mean you can TD (translate to "tangentially date" or "have a fling" in a casual context) them. What you need to do is to show yourself, do a good job of attracting her, and the woman will be smitten. I have a case where I've been with her several times, and I still don't know her real name or what she does for a living. Understanding women is not important; what matters is making her want to understand you.

27. 故事推进节奏\x0d\\x0d\你打造自己的故事，不要一下子讲完，一天讲点，或是你的DHV的故事，需要缓慢释放。让女人陷入情结。而不是像AFC那样马上告诉人家自己的所有一切，想让人家一下子了解自己的所有一切。缓慢的讲故事，做好展示节奏，是一种吸引。\x0d\\x0d\

27. Pace of Story Progression \\x0d\\x0d Create your own story, don't reveal everything at once. Take it one day at a time, or release the stories of your DHV (Display of High Value) slowly. Let women become emotionally invested. Don't be like an AFC (Average Joe) who tells everyone everything about themselves right away, wanting others to understand everything about them instantly. Telling stories slowly and managing the pacing of your revelation is a form of attraction.

28. 语言故事\x0d\\x0d\泡妞要学会讲故事，故事讲得好，泡妞很关键是，阿Q、黑子、老王等泡妞高手的经验只谈。其实讲故事是一种情绪输出，不仅仅是幽默的故事，还有展示你个性的故事，展示你爱心的故事，展示你脆弱的故事。你要打造的是你是个有故事，有趣，真实的人。\x0d\\x0d\

28. Language Story \0d\0d To charm a girl, one must learn to tell stories. Good storytelling is crucial in charming a girl. The experiences of Qiqiu, Heizi, Lao Wang, and other master charmers are only discussed. In fact, storytelling is an emotional output, not just humorous stories, but also stories that showcase your personality, your love, and your vulnerability. What you should build is an image of yourself as a person with stories, fun, and authenticity. \0d\0d

29. 建立个性\x0d\\x0d\很少有人，使用抖动，而我却经常运用，有时候我几乎不用打字，一个抖动，都能让女人感到我的招呼。抖动是网络的肢体语言。你使用好抖动，侧面建了你于众不同的形象。时间长了，就算是别人使用抖动窗口，她也会想起我。\x0d\\x0d\

29. Very few people use winks, but I often do, sometimes I barely type at all; a wink is enough to make a woman feel my greeting. Winks are the body language of the internet. If you use winks well, it helps build a unique image for you. Over time, even if others use the winking feature, she will still remember me.

30. 本次谈话的节奏\x0d\\x0d\具体到某一次谈话的节奏，你不必急于回复她的发言，第一时间回复，这儿本身就是DLV。冷她一会儿。延迟回复，一来展示你不是很重视这次聊天，二来给出你思考的时间，思考怎么回复。三就是在单位时间内你不需要准备太多的谈话材料。如果女人问，你是不是很忙啊？你该怎么回答，解释你这个行为，到河南群咨询我。呵呵\x0d\\x0d\

30. The pace of this conversation Specifically regarding the pace of a particular conversation, you don't have to rush to respond to her remarks. The immediate response is itself a DLV (Deliberate Latency). Let her cool down a bit. Delay your response, first to show that you're not that interested in this chat, and secondly to give yourself time to think, to ponder how to respond. Thirdly, you don't need to prepare a lot of conversation material within a given time frame. If a woman asks, "Are you really busy?" how should you answer, explain your behavior? Consult me in the Henan group. Haha

31. 逐渐标准化\x0d\\x0d\熟练后其实就是标准化，就是不断的完善你的这计划，在你不断的测试和检验之后，留下有用的，你标准化了聊天计划，你会达到化境。不再费心，而是一种执行。\x0d\\x0d\

31. Gradually standardizing is actually the same as being proficient; it's about continuously improving your plan. After you keep testing and verifying it, you keep what's useful, and you standardize your chat plan. You will reach a state of perfection. It's no longer a matter of concern, but rather an execution.

32. 走向现实。\x0d\\x0d\网络毕竟只是走向约会的一次段落，这段落就是你积累女性的服从和IOI的数量。觉得可以了走向网络，使用短信，打电话了，你必须走下网络，走到她真实的身边。出现在她的日常生活中。这样就不会给人不真实的感觉。\x0d\\x0d\

32. Move towards reality. The internet is merely a segment of the journey towards a date, and this segment is where you accumulate the number of women's compliance and IOIs (Interest, Openness, and Interest). When you feel it's time to move from the internet to using SMS and making phone calls, you must step off the internet and get close to her in reality. Appear in her daily life. This way, it won't give people a sense of unreality.

33. 在工作时间尽量不要长聊，那样从侧面显示出你是个无所事事的网聊高手。你要有自己的事业，不要在细节上暴漏自己。\x0d\\x0d\

33. Try not to engage in long conversations during working hours, as it may subtly suggest that you are a chat master with nothing to do. You should have your own career and not expose yourself in detail.

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34. Using your unique emoji system can enhance the visual recognition of your chat's dominance (DHV). Bad Boy Academy - Teach you the skills of dating quickly, making the girl you like fall for you!

35. 企业QQ用户可在设置中，自行设置企业展现信息，包括和文字。最终在QQ会话窗口得到展示，客户可以直观地了解到您的企业信息。您可以随心所欲展示企业形象，让企业QQ成为您的免费网络推广平台。

35. Enterprise QQ users can set their own display information in the settings, including text and images. The information will ultimately be displayed in the QQ conversation window, allowing customers to intuitively understand your enterprise information. You can freely showcase your corporate image, making the Enterprise QQ your free online promotional platform.

36. 利用抖动窗口埋下心锚。\x0d\\x0d\

36. Utilize a jiggling window to plant a heart anchor.

37. 秀照片\x0d\\x0d\你的照片展示真实的你的生活，你的社交价值，多和朋友们在一起照，多和女人在一起照，多在大型活动上照，多去旅游时候照，这是你的高社交价值的展示，你的预选，你的气场，你的生活。\x0d\\x0d\

37. Show your photos \\x0d\\x0d Your photos display the true essence of your life, your social value. Spend more time taking photos with friends, with women, at large events, and during travels. This is a demonstration of your high social value, your preselection, your aura, and your life.\\x0d\\x0d

38. 暧昧导致进挪脱节\x0d\\x0d\很多人在网上过于暧昧，会导致见光死。其根本原因是，网络的虚拟，缺乏肢体进挪，而且，像Tango说的，“和打电子游戏不同，你不能指望一见到目标，就从上次见面结束时的存档接玩下去。你，需要从新预热。”很多人，网上暧昧，见面就装假正经，让女人觉得反差很大，自己觉的也拘禁起来。有的觉得网上就很激情了，见面就搂搂抱抱的，女人的身体还没有预热，容易被打枪。其实根本原因就是暧昧和进挪的脱节导致的升高不顺畅，需要按照正确的游戏，使用肢体语言升高而不是单纯的语言升高，这就避免了见面时很多错误的因素。\x0d\\x0d\

38. Ambiguity leads to disconnection between advances and retreats Many people are too ambiguous online, which can lead to a situation where they "die upon seeing the light." The fundamental reason is that the virtual nature of the internet lacks physical advances, and as Tango said, "Unlike playing video games, you can't expect to pick up where you left off from the last meeting. You need to reheat." Many people become ambiguous online and act solemnly in person, creating a big contrast that women find striking, and they themselves feel拘谨起来. Some think it's passionate enough online, so they hug and kiss in person, but the woman's body has not been sufficiently warmed up, making it easy for her to be "shot." In reality, the root cause is the disconnection between ambiguity and advances, leading to an uncomfortable escalation. It is necessary to use body language to escalate correctly rather than relying solely on verbal escalation, which avoids many errors when meeting in person.

39. 她和你的目标一般不会同时在线。\x0d\\x0d\

39. Her goals will usually not be online at the same time as yours.

40. 陷于虚幻区\x0d\\x0d\我不得不承认，女人喜欢玩暧昧，而且容易陷入暧昧。其实本质上女人是情感动物，只要有暧昧的这种感觉就能让她陷入其中，对性本身却不着急了。其实暧昧区其实也是友谊区的一种，属于情感备胎。暧昧时间长了，缺乏神秘激情的原动力。往下一个阶段推进乏力。\x0d\\x0d\

40. Trapped in the Illusion Zone I have to admit that women tend to enjoy playing around with ambiguity and are prone to getting trapped in it. Essentially, women are emotional creatures; as long as there's a sense of ambiguity, they can be drawn into it, and the urgency of sex itself becomes less pressing. In reality, the ambiguous zone is also a type of friendship zone, serving as an emotional backup plan. However, when ambiguity lasts too long, the original driving force of mystery and passion is lacking, making it difficult to move forward to the next stage.

41. 我对暧昧的一些个看法。\x0d\\x0d\

41. Some of my views on ambiguity.

42. 我一般搭讪之后都是通过QQ后续，通过QQ展示自己的DHV以及进阶到舒适感。QQ是个很好的工具，可以互动，也可以展示。通过多年的经验，现在得到一个较完整的精华总结，分享给大家，希望能够抛砖引玉，有所启发。坏男孩学院 - 助你快速掌握约会的技巧，让你喜欢的女生喜欢上你！\x0d\\x0d\我一般搭讪之后都是通过QQ后续，通过QQ展示自己的DHV以及进阶到舒适感。QQ是个很好的工具，可以互动，也可以展示。通过多年的经验，现在得到一个较完整的精华总结，分享给大家，希望能够抛砖引玉，有所启发。\x0d\\x0d\

42. Generally, after making an approach, I follow up through QQ, using it to showcase my DHV (Display of Higher Value) and advance to a comfort level. QQ is a great tool for interaction and display. Through many years of experience, I have now compiled a more comprehensive精华 summary to share with everyone, hoping to throw a brick to pave the way and offer some inspiration. Bad Boy Academy - Helping you master the art of dating quickly, making the girls you like fall for you! (Note: The original text contains a few special characters like '\x0d\\x0d', which are commonly used to indicate line breaks in some systems. The translation has been adjusted to maintain readability.)