握紧自我，避免牵涉他人生活，是人生旅途中的一道重要分界线。在这篇短文的开篇，让我们一同踏上这趟探索自我与界限的旅程。

Hold fast to oneself and avoid entanglement in others' lives is an important dividing line on the journey of life. At the beginning of this short essay, let us embark on this journey of exploration together into self and boundaries.

1. #x3001;生活无需比较，每个人的道路各异。守好自己的步伐，少操无用的心，多赚有用的钱。

1. Life has no need for comparison, each person's path is different. Do good by following your own steps, reduce unnecessary concerns, and spend more on things that are useful.

2. #x3001;能够改变自己的堪称神，企图改变他人的非神。与其在他人的琐事上浪费精力，不如把精力留给自己。允许他人按自己的方式生活，也允许自己做真实的自己。

2. #x3001; It is possible to change one's own title, and change others' non-divine titles. To waste energy on others' trivial matters is not as good as keeping one's own abilities for oneself. Allow others to live according to their own ways, and also allow oneself to be authentic and true to oneself.

3. #x3001;莫用自身的认知去指责他人的生活，勿以自己的经验去评判他人的对错。立场有别，沉默为佳；认知不同，莫争莫辩。

3. Do not use your own beliefs to judge others' lives; do not use your own experience to evaluate others' mistakes. There are differences in the world, and we should be tolerant; beliefs are different, and we should not quarrel or argue.

4. #x3001;不语，乃是顶级的智慧；止念，乃是顶级的自律。逢人莫谈世间事，如此便是世间自在人。拓宽格局，诸多事情不值得耗费你的精力。

4. Not only that, but wisdom is the highest form of intelligence; patience is the highest form of self-discipline. People should not waste their time discussing world affairs, as if they were the world itself. In a broad perspective, many things are not worth the effort of your expertise.

5. #x3001;成年人的高阶自律在于，苦事不声张，乐事不宣扬，闲事不过问。种自己的花，收获自己的果，穿好自己的鞋，走好自己的路，赏美丽风景，历世间万象。

5. In the mature years of a person, there is no need to boast about one's achievements, nor to advertise one's joys, nor to question one's idleness. Cultivate one's own flowers, gather one's own fruits, wear one's own clothes comfortably, walk one's own path, appreciate the beautiful scenery, and cherish the cultural heritage of the ages.

6. #x3001;人是无法被叫醒的，唯有自己痛了才会觉醒。成年人的世界里只有筛选，不存在教育；只有抉择，不存在改变。要克制自己想去纠正别人的冲动，放下助人的执念，尊重他人的命运。

6. #x3001; People cannot be awakened by others, they will only feel awake when they are themselves hurt. In the world of adults, there is only selection, not education; only selection, not change. To tolerate your own desire to go straight and avoid people's conflict, to put down helping people's actions, to respect others' will.

7. #x3001;最佳的礼貌就是少管闲事。遇到人和事，一半装糊涂，一半装沉默。心里明白，就闭上嘴，智者不去争辩，仁者不去苛责，善者不去评议。

7. The best virtue is to be indifferent. When encountering people and things, one should be half-hearted and half-ignorant. With a clear mind, one closes the eyes, the wise does not argue, the cautious does not take responsibility, and the benevolent does not commend.