1. 林肯总统对政敌素以宽容著称，后来终于引起一议员的不满，议员说：“你不应该试图和那些人交朋友，而应该消灭他们。”林肯微笑着回答：“当他们变成我的朋友，难道我不正是在消灭我的敌人吗？”

1. President Lincoln was known for his tolerance towards his political enemies. Later, it finally led to the dissatisfaction of a senator who said, "You shouldn't try to make friends with those people; you should eliminate them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, isn't that exactly the same as eliminating my enemies?"

2. ●智慧的艺术就是懂得该宽容什么的艺术（威廉·詹姆斯）

2. The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to forgive (William James)

3. 谅解也是一种勉励、启迪、指引，它能催人弃恶从善，使歧路人走入正轨，发挥他们的潜力。穆尼尔·纳素夫

3. Forgiveness is also an encouragement, an enlightenment, and a guidance. It can spur people to abandon evil and embrace goodness, lead the lost onto the right path, and unleash their potential. — Mu尼尔·纳素夫

4. ●只有勇敢的人才懂得如何宽容；懦夫决不会宽容，这不是他的本性（斯特恩）

4. ● Only the brave know how to be宽容; cowards will never be宽容, this is not in their nature (Stern).

5. 不会宽容别人的人，是不配受到别人宽容的。 ——(俄罗斯)屠格涅夫

5. A person who is not tolerant of others is not worthy of being tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgeniev

6. ●人们应该彼此容忍：每一个人都有弱点，在他最薄弱的方面，每一个人都能被切割捣碎（济慈）

6. ● People should tolerate each other: Everyone has weaknesses, and in their weakest aspects, everyone can be cut and crushed (Keats).

7. ●尽量宽恕别人，而决不要原谅自己（西拉斯）

7. ● Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Cyrus)

8. 人本该是有良心的，就连最残酷的心也会有宽恕他人的短暂美好的记忆。塞弗尔特

8. Humans should have a conscience, even the most cruel hearts have fleeting, beautiful memories of forgiving others. Seifert

9. ●宽容的人最为性急，耐受力强的人最不宽容（贝尔奈）

9.● The tolerant are the most impatient, and the most tolerant are the least patient (Bérénice)

10. 以责人之心责己，以恕已之心恕人。佚名

10. To hold others to the same standards you hold yourself, and to forgive others with the same heart you seek forgiveness with. Anonymus

11. ●正义之神，宽容是我们最完美的所作所为（华兹华斯）

11. ● The God of Justice, tolerance is our most perfect deed (Wordsworth)

12. 现代的戴尔·卡内基不主张以牙还牙，他说：“要真正憎恶别人的简单方法只有一个，即发挥对方的长处。”憎恶对方，狠不得食肉寝皮敲骨吸髓，结果只能使自己焦头烂额，心力尽瘁。卡内基说的“憎恶”是另一种形式的“宽容”，憎恶别人不是咬牙切齿饕餮对手，而是吸取对方的长处化为自己强身壮体的钙质。

12. A modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate for retaliation; he says, "The only simple way to truly hate someone is to exploit their strengths." Hatred towards someone, wanting to eat their flesh, sleep on their skin, and extract their bone marrow, can only result in one's own frustration and exhaustion. Carnegie's "hatred" refers to another form of "tolerance"; hating someone is not about gnashing your teeth and gorging on your opponent, but rather absorbing the strengths of the other person and turning them into the calcium for your own strength and vitality.

13. ●生活中有许多这样的场合：你打算用忿恨去实现的目标，完全可能由宽恕去实现的目标，完全可能由宽恕去实现----（西德尼·史密斯）

13. ● There are many such occasions in life where the goals you intend to achieve through anger could just as easily be achieved through forgiveness——(Sidney Smith)

14. 人之谤我也，与其能辩，不如能容。人之侮我也，与其能防，不如能化。弘一大师

14. When people defame me, it is better to be tolerant than to argue. When people insult me, it is better to transform it than to prevent it. Master Hongyi

15. ●损着别人的牙眼，却反对报复，主张宽容的人，万勿和他接近----（鲁迅）

15. ● A person who harms others' eyes and teeth but opposes revenge and advocates tolerance should not be approached at all —— (Lu Xun)

16. ●宽宥是人性的，而忘却是神性的（詹姆斯·格兰）

16. ● Forgiveness is human, while forgetting is divine (James格兰)

17. 有时宽容引起的道德震动比惩罚更强烈。苏霍姆林斯基

17. Sometimes, the moral impact of tolerance is stronger than punishment. Sukhomlinsky.

18. 上帝是宽容的，人类却并不宽容；全能的上帝宽宏大量，虚弱的人类却锱铢必较。西德尼·史密斯

18. God is forgiving, but man is not; the omnipotent God is magnanimous, but the weak man is niggardly. - Sydney Smith

19. 愈是睿智的人，愈有宽广的胸襟。斯达尔夫人

19. The more wise a person is, the broader their bosom. -- Madame de Stael

20. ●为了能同所有的男男女女和睦相处，我们必须允许每一个人保 持其个性（叔本华）

20. ● In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow each person to maintain their individuality (Schopenhauer).

21. 君子浩海之气，不胜其大，小人自满之气，不胜其小。佚名

21. The magnanimous spirit of a gentleman is overwhelming due to its greatness, while the self-satisfied spirit of a small-minded person is overwhelming due to its smallness. [Anonymous]

22. 幽默带来悟力和宽容，冷嘲则带来深刻而不友善的理解。阿格尼斯雷普利尔?>

22. Humor brings insight and tolerance, while sarcasm brings a profound but unfriendly understanding. Agnes Repplier?

23. 不会宽容别人的人，是不配受别人宽容的，但谁能说自己不需要宽容呢？屠格涅夫

23. A person who cannot tolerate others is not worthy of being tolerated by others, but who can claim that they do not need tolerance? — Turgenev

24. 眼界要阔，遍历名山大川；度量要宏，熟读五经诸史。金缨

24. Expand your horizons and visit famous mountains and rivers; broaden your mind and thoroughly study the Five Classics and various historical records. Jin Ying

25. 一个伟大的人有两颗心：一颗心流血，一颗心宽容。——(黎巴嫩)纪伯伦

25. A great person has two hearts: one that bleeds and one that forgives. — (Lebanese) Kahlil Gibran

26. 生活中有许多这样的场合：你打算用忿恨去实现的目标，完全可能由宽恕去实现。西德尼·史密斯

26. There are many such occasions in life: what you intend to achieve through resentment can very well be achieved through forgiveness. - Sidney Smith

27. 一忍可以支百勇，一静可以制百动。苏洵

27. One act of endurance can support a hundred acts of bravery, and one moment of tranquility can control a hundred movements. - Su Xun

28. ●生活过，而不会宽容别人的人，是不配受到别人的宽容的。但是谁能说是不需要宽容的呢？（屠格涅夫）

28. ● A person who has lived but cannot tolerate others is not worthy of others' tolerance. But who can say that one does not need tolerance? (Turgenev)

29. 退一步天高地阔，让三分心和气平。对联

29. Step back, and the sky becomes vast and the earth becomes boundless; give a third of your mind and temper, and peace will follow. Couplets

30. 惟宽可以容人，惟厚可以载物。薛瑄

30. Only generosity can accommodate others, and only profundity can bear heavy burdens. - Xue Xuan

31. 惟宽可以容人，惟厚可以载物。薛日宣

31. Only generosity can accommodate others, and only depth can bear things. - Xue Rixuan

32. 哲学家康德说：“生气，是拿别人的错误惩罚自己。”优雅的康德大概是不会有暴风骤雨的，心情永远是天朗气清。别人犯错了，我们为此雷霆万钧，那犯错的该是我们自己了。

32. The philosopher Kant said, "Getting angry is a way of punishing oneself for others' mistakes." The elegant Kant would likely not have storms and tempests, and his mood is always clear and sunny. If someone makes a mistake and we react with great anger over it, then it should be us who are at fault.

33. 遇方便时行方便，得饶人处且饶人。吴承恩

33. Do good deeds when it is convenient, and give others a break when you can. Wu Cheng'en.

34. 我虽然不同意你说的话，但是我维护你说话的权利。伏尔泰

34. Although I disagree with what you are saying, I uphold your right to speak. Voltaire

35. 宽恕和受宽恕是难以言喻的快乐，是连神明都会为之羡慕的极大乐事。哈伯德

35. Forgiveness and being forgiven are an indescribable joy, a great delight that even the gods would envy. Hubbard

36. 忍耐是痛苦的，但它的结果是甜蜜的。卢梭

36. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. Rousseau