——探寻智慧之光，感悟生活智慧

1. 人生有时候，面对巨大的转折，我们会不知所措。站在人生的岔路口，我们茫然四顾。没有指示灯，也没有下一步的提示。我们做什么呢

1. Sometimes in life, when faced with huge turning points, we may feel at a loss. Standing at the crossroads of life, we look around in confusion. There are no traffic lights, no hints for the next step. What should we do?

2. 米琪、普通兄弟姐妹肯定没问题，但这好兄弟姐妹吧，好到务必程度上肯定有问题。(超拽网名)

2. Miqi, the ordinary siblings are definitely fine, but these good siblings, so good to a certain extent, there must be problems. (Ultra-cool Internet nickname)

3. 你什么意思？按你的说法，男女不能做朋友？

3. What do you mean? According to what you said, can men and women not be friends?

4. 钟爱一个人并不务必需要什么原因，也不好什么结果。他不钟爱我，因此我要让他看到我很愉悦。

4. There is no need for a reason to be fond of someone, nor is there any particular outcome to it. If he doesn't love me back, I want to show him that I am very happy.

5. 有些东西，如果是我要了才能得到，那便失去了意义。对于没有意义的，我宁愿放手离去。

5. There are some things that lose their meaning if I have to obtain them. For things without meaning, I would rather let them go.

6. 人就是这样，得到了一见东西，就会想要另外一件。然后欲望越来越膨胀，最后就会连开始仅有的东西也失去。

6. Humans are like that; once they get one thing, they want another. Then their desires keep swelling, and eventually, they even lose the things they initially had.

7. 你在想什么你在想什么我在想你在想什么我在想你在想我在想什么。

7. What are you thinking? What are you thinking? I'm thinking what you're thinking. I'm thinking what you're thinking what I'm thinking.

8. 得不到的总想要得到，得到的就忘了要珍惜，失去了再去挽回，挽回不来便苦苦纠缠，所有的男人都是这副面孔，她已经看腻了，不想再看了。

8. People always want what they can't have, and once they have it, they forget to cherish it. After losing it, they try to win it back, but when they can't, they stubbornly cling to it. All men are like this, and she has grown tired of it, and doesn't want to see it anymore.

9. 没有那个人是可以随随便便成功的，就像爱迪生的每一项发明都经过数百次失败与努力一样。

9. No one can succeed easily, just like each of Edison's inventions went through hundreds of failures and efforts.

10. 爱情其实只是一种交友的手段。在爱情中，女人往往把爱情看得太重，看得太重。男人会把爱情当成游戏，而女人有时候会把游戏当成爱情。

10. Love is actually just a means of making friends. In love, women often take love too seriously, too seriously. Men tend to treat love as a game, while sometimes women might treat games as love.

11. 越想得到的，就越是装作无所谓;越怕失去的，就越是装作不在乎。

11. The more one wants to obtain, the more one pretends to be indifferent; the more one fears to lose, the more one pretends to be indifferent.

12. 喜欢一个人不一定需要什么原因或者结果。他不喜欢我，所以我想让他看到我是幸福的。

12. There is no need for a reason or result to like someone. He doesn't like me, so I want to show him that I am happy.

13. 寂寞的夜因你失眠，我失去了做梦的心情，但并非从此就没有梦，而是梦里依然有你！遇见你纯属天意，爱上你一心一意，苦恋你从无悔意，得到你才会满意。

13. The lonely night because of you, I can't sleep, I lost the mood to dream, but it's not that I have no dreams from then on, rather, you are still in my dreams! Meeting you was purely by fate, loving you with all my heart, being in a passionate love with you without any regrets, and only by getting you will I be satisfied.

14. 男人和女人在茫茫人海中认识，我们急切想了解对方，认识对方，我们剥去对方一层层伪装，只因为对我来说，那个人和别人不一样，我们一层层的剥，直到看见对方最真实的地方，我们激动，我们颤抖，我们看见天上射下的一道光，然后我们发现，最最真实的那个对方，和别人没有什么不同，和每一个我们认识的人都一样，这个游戏我们乐此不疲的玩着，不断地希望，不断的失望，我们从来没有在分水岭的地方，停下来好好地想想。

14. Men and women meet in the vast sea of humanity, and we are eager to understand and get to know each other. We strip away layer upon layer of each other's masks, because to me, that person is different from others. We peel away layer by layer until we see the most genuine part of each other, and we get excited, we tremble; we see a ray of light shining from the heavens. Then we realize that the most truly genuine other person is not much different from others, and is the same as every person we know. This game, we play with great enthusiasm, continuously hoping, continuously disappointed; we have never stopped at the dividing line to think things over properly.

15. 对于我们来说得不到的永远是最好的而轻易得到的往往不会珍惜更不会在意只有当你失去它的时候才会幡然醒悟等到你想珍惜它的时候已经失去了……

15. For us, what we cannot obtain is always the best, and what we easily get is often not cherished, nor is it cared for. Only when you lose it will you suddenly realize it... By the time you want to cherish it, it's already gone...

16. 我们会一生一世在一起，你想要得到什么，就会失去什么，你想要守护什么，就要舍弃什么。

16. We will be together forever, whatever you want to gain, you will lose, and whatever you want to protect, you must give up.

17. 你只有五年时刻来选今后的一辈子了，五年，刷地就没了，你还在把这么宝贵的时刻浪费在这么一个一看就不靠谱的男生身上。几年一过，他才三十多，还是一枝花呢。你呢，残花败柳了。

17. You only have five years to choose the rest of your life, and five years slip away in a blink. You're still wasting such precious moments on a boy who doesn't seem reliable at all. A few years later, he'll still be in his thirties, looking as fresh as a flower. As for you, you'll be a withered flower.

18. 你是选取一个爱你但没钱的穷光蛋，还是选取一个不爱你但有钱的王八蛋。咱们总是在不断选取，衡量不一样的指标，选取有钱的，选取身高一米八，选取胸围，选取学历，选取进攻的方向，选取逃跑的路线，正因这个世间没有尽善尽美，咱们只能选取对自我最有利的选取成为咱们不被淘汰的理由成了咱们活下去的法宝，咱们无法选取正因咱们早已经忘了当咱们内心有真正想要的时候咱们其实是不用选取的。

18. Are you choosing a poor schmuck who loves you but has no money, or a rich asshole who doesn't love you? We are always making choices, weighing different criteria: choosing the rich, choosing height of 1.8 meters, choosing bust size, choosing educational background, choosing the direction of attack, choosing the escape route. It's because this world is not perfect that we can only choose what is most beneficial to ourselves. The reason we are not eliminated becomes the reason for us to survive, and the tool for us to live on. We cannot choose because we have already forgotten that when our hearts truly desire something, we actually don't need to choose.

19. 你这话什么意思啊，照你这说法，男生和女生就没办法成兄弟姐妹了？

19. What do you mean by that? According to what you're saying, can boys and girls not be siblings anymore?

20. 嘲讽是一种力量，消极的力量。赞扬也是一种力量，但却是积极的力量。

20. Satire is a force, a negative force. Praise is also a force, but it is a positive force.

21. 女生万分悲哀的时候，做为她的男生，你能做的就是默默地抱着她，然后……哭的比她还惨！

21. When a girl is extremely sad, the only thing you can do as her boyfriend is to silently hold her, and then... cry even more bitterly than she does!

22. 对着手机，我一直在努力，希望她下一分钟就会打来。左:然后呢？白:那就继续努力吧

22. Facing the phone, I have been trying hard, hoping she will call in the next minute. Left: Then what? Bai: So keep trying then.

23. 有些痛，有些疲惫，只有自己懂。喜欢在如此孤独的夜里翻起过去，那些被自己深埋心底的往事，得到的，拥有的，失去的，有种恍然如梦的感觉。

23. There's some pain, some fatigue, only I understand. I like to delve into the past in such lonely nights, those deep-seated memories buried in my heart, the ones I've gained, possessed, and lost, giving me a feeling of being like in a dream.

24. 每个人都有一颗玻璃心，小时候我还因为别人发礼物不给我而难过呢，换现在才谁在乎啊。所以治愈玻璃心的是成长，是见识，是学识，是磨难

24. Everyone has a fragile heart of glass. When I was little, I used to feel sad because someone didn't give me a gift. Who cares about that now? So, the cure for a fragile heart is growth, experience, knowledge, and adversity.

25. 曾经拥有的不要忘记，难以得到的更要珍惜，属于自己的不要放弃，不属于自己的不要强求，已经失去的留作回忆。

25. Do not forget what you once had, cherish even more what is difficult to obtain, never give up what belongs to you, do not strive for what does not belong to you, and leave what has been lost as a memory.

26. 敌不动我不动，敌动我就乱七八糟的动。

26. If the enemy does not move, I do not move. If the enemy moves, I move in a chaotic manner.

27. 其实，这样的失败根本不足以证明什么，失败只能让我们真正长大，懂得更多，让我们成熟起来。可以说，我们如果不经历失败就难达到成功的彼岸！

27. In fact, such failures are not enough to prove anything; failures can only truly make us grow, learn more, and mature. It can be said that it is difficult for us to reach the shore of success without experiencing failures!

28. 一个人在科学探索的道路上，走过弯路，犯过错误，并不是坏事，更不是什么耻辱，要在实践中勇于承认和改正错误。

28. It is not a bad thing, nor is it a shame, for a person to take detours and make mistakes on the path of scientific exploration. One should be brave in practice to admit and correct their mistakes.

29. 在生命里每个人都难免有失败，失败其实并不可怕，可怕的是自己不能坦言失败和善待失败。坦言失败的前提是光明磊落的胸襟和正视自我的勇气。

29. In life, everyone is bound to encounter failure, but failure in itself is not可怕. What is可怕的 is not being able to admit failure and treat it kindly. The premise of admitting failure is an open and honest mind and the courage to face oneself.

30. 有信心不一定会赢，没有信心一定会输；有行动不一定会成功，没有行动一定会失败。

30. Having confidence does not guarantee winning, but not having confidence is sure to result in defeat; having action does not guarantee success, but not having action is certain to lead to failure.

31. 这个世界上并不存在，毫无理由，毫无原因的感情，除了财富与地位，美丽与才气，或许还有别的，想要一种相似的慰藉，想要满足虚荣心，想要逃避过去，想要宣泄一些感情，这些都挂着感情的名义，有的慢慢淡去，有的真的爱上了你。有原因并不可怕，可怕的是不承认这些原因，却把它归结为缘分的神秘。

31. There is no such thing in this world as love that exists without reason or cause, except for wealth and status, beauty and talent, and perhaps something else. People desire a similar comfort, want to satisfy their vanity, want to escape the past, and want to vent some emotions, all of which are under the guise of love. Some may fade away gradually, and some may truly fall in love with you. Having a reason is not可怕的, what is terrifying is not to acknowledge these reasons, but to attribute them to the mysteriousness of fate.

32. 自从咱们睁开眼睛看这个世界的第一天起，咱们看到的就只有两种人，男生和女生。他们分属于两大不一样的阵营，为了彻底收服对方大家互相往死里掐。根据一个遥远的传说，说有一种东西叫做感情。能够彻底终结这场战争。于是大家纷纷地赶紧去寻找，赶紧去幻想。找到头破血流才发现，原来这个感情也是另一些人在书房里炮制出来的，于是大家更加绝望，更加痛苦。更加互相的往死里掐。其实男生和女生从来都没有好好互相了解过。

32. Since the day we opened our eyes to see this world, the only two types of people we've seen are boys and girls. They belong to two different camps, and they fight fiercely to completely conquer each other. According to a distant legend, there is something called "emotion" that can completely end this war. So everyone rushed to find it, and everyone rushed to imagine it. Only after hitting their heads against a wall did they discover that this "emotion" was also concocted by some people in their study. Then everyone became even more despondent and even more painful. They fought even harder to the death. In fact, boys and girls have never really understood each other well.

33. 美貌是上帝赐给女生最好的礼物，不，是惩罚男生最厉害的武器。

33. Beauty is the best gift God gives to girls, no, it's the most powerful weapon to punish boys.

34. 最重要的是选取，从咱们出生那一天起，除了咱们的父母不能选取，正因那在咱们生下来之前就已经存在的，除此之外，所有的一切都能够选取。

34. Most importantly, it is about choosing. From the day we are born, except for our parents, who cannot be chosen because they existed before we were born, everything else can be chosen.

35. 我们都需要爱，正如我们都需要友谊一样。我们在这个世界上不断寻找，因为我们是不可或缺的。

35. We all need love, just as we all need friendship. We seek it in this world constantly because we are indispensable.

36. 爱一个人，失去一点点自尊又算什么呢？谁先开口不重要，重要的是彼此相爱，不好正因害怕先开口而错过了真爱。

36. What is the loss of a bit of self-respect in loving someone? It doesn't matter who speaks first, what matters is that both of you love each other. It's not good to miss true love just because of fear of being the first to speak.

37. 两个人在一起，不仅仅是真心，有时候是一些战术，有时候是一些技巧。其中一个叫，谁先开口谁先死。

37. When two people are together, it's not just about sincerity; sometimes it's about tactics, and sometimes it's about skills. There's a saying, "The one who speaks first dies first."

38. 罗书全是我的死党，每次我想死的时候，我就会去找他，找完他，我就不想死了，正因每次他都比我还惨。

38. Luo Shuquan is my best friend, and every time I want to die, I go to find him. After finding him, I don't want to die anymore, because he is always worse off than I am.

39. 普通的兄妹肯定没问题，但是这个好兄妹肯定有问题。

39. Normal siblings are fine, but this good brother and sister definitely have an issue.

40. 人们总爱用鲜花，掌声迎接成功者，但须知成功的路上坎坷，荆棘，崎岖，有人爱用责怪，嘲笑对待失败者，但须知失败中包藏着希望，孕育着胜利。

40. People always love to welcome successful individuals with flowers and applause, but one should know that the path to success is fraught with obstacles, thorns, and rugged terrain. Some people, however, are fond of treating failures with blame and mockery, but one should be aware that failure contains hope and孕育着胜利 (implies the potential for victory).

41. 选择，最重要的是选择，从我们出生的那天起，除了我们的父母不能选择，因为它在我们出生之前就存在了，除此之外，一切都是可以选择的。

41. Choice, most importantly, choice - from the day we are born, the only thing we cannot choose is our parents, as they existed before our birth. Apart from that, everything else is optional.

42. 我都半个月没睡觉了，法西斯也没这么折磨人的

42. I haven't slept for two weeks, and even fascists don't torment people like this.

43. 世事岂能两全，我们的一生中，得到的同时也总在失去，幸与不幸的区别只在于得失之间孰重孰轻。作者：辛夷坞

43. How can one have everything at once? In our lives, while we gain, we also lose. The difference between happiness and unhappiness lies in the balance of gains and losses. Author: Xin Yimu

44. 昨天，是一道风景，看见了，模糊了;时间是一个过客，记住了，遗忘

44. Yesterday was a landscape, seen, then blurred; time is a passerby, remembered, then forgotten.

45. 我不怕只得到些许东西，那是因为我可以拥有的不多;真正害怕的是失去了那仅有的，且往往是独一无二的悸动。

45. I am not afraid of getting only a little, because there is not much I can possess; what I truly fear is losing that unique, often one-of-a-kind thrill.

46. 每个人和他的伴侣走在人流中，都期望被人注视，在嫉妒的眼光中感到一种团结，在同情的眼光中感到一种分裂，这种眼光是一种无声的力量，它会聚拢你们，也会渐渐拆散你们，这其实是很虚荣的，也很实际。感情在这个时候能够忽略不计

46. Everyone, walking with their partner amidst the crowd, hopes to be noticed, feeling a sense of unity in envious glances and a sense of disunity in sympathetic ones. Such eyes are a silent force that can bring you together as well as gradually pull you apart. This is actually very vain yet very practical. At this moment, emotions can be ignored.

47. 简奥斯汀《傲慢与偏见》：将感情埋藏得太深有时是件坏事。如果一个女人掩饰了对自己所爱的男子的感情，她也许就失去了得到他的机会。

47. Jane Austen, "Pride and Prejudice": Sometimes, hiding one's feelings too deeply can be a bad thing. If a woman conceals her feelings for the man she loves, she may lose her chance to win him over.

48. 不亏本成长，你就输了。等你长大懂事了，你就知道你这样的男人是好的，是能跟上的，是不会放手的。

48. Not to incur losses in growth means you have lost. When you grow up and become sensible, you will know that such a man as you is good, capable of keeping up, and not one to let go.

49. 男人说:为什么要我们男人买单？为什么？为什么？为什么？女人说:因为钞票上都印着男人的头像，每当印上女人的头像，我就买单！

49. The man says: Why should we men pay? Why? Why? Why? The woman says: Because the currency notes all have men's portraits on them. Whenever they put a woman's portrait on them, I pay!

50. 感情就是这样，你捅我一刀，我捅你一刀，你再捅我一刀，我又捅你一刀，然后互相数着对方的伤口。(最红网络游戏家族名)

50. That's how emotions are, you stab me with a knife, and I stab you with one back, then you stab me again, and I stab you again, and then we both count each other's wounds. (The most popular online game family name)