在那个阳光明媚的午后，一个爱笑的女孩，她的笑容如同春日的暖阳，温暖了每一个遇见她的人。她，是故事的主角。

On that bright sunny afternoon, a girl with a penchant for laughter, her smile akin to the warm sunshine of spring, warmed every person she encountered. She was the protagonist of the story.

1. 你那么爱笑，却还是抵挡不住内心的苍凉。

1. You are so fond of laughing, yet you still can't resist the desolation within you.

2. 永远不要无休止的围着您喜欢的那个男人转，尽管您喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，您要小心缠得太紧会勒死他的。

2. Never endlessly circle around the man you like. Even if you like him to the point of almost giving your heart away, you still need to learn to give him some space. Otherwise, be careful not to cling too tightly, as it might strangle him.

3. 伟大的女人从来不是能让男人迷恋的女人，只因为她不够自私，因而也不够可爱。

3. Great women are never the ones who can captivate men, simply because they are not sufficiently selfish, and therefore not sufficiently lovable.

4. 承诺是一件美好的事情，但美好的东西往往不会变为现实。

4. Making promises is a wonderful thing, but wonderful things often do not come to pass.

5. 四方吃，不过一碗烟火。

5. Each of the four sides eats, but it's just one bowl of smoke and fire.

6. 自信女人也是性情中人，也有自己豪爽的一面。用一份坦诚与爽朗使您心悦诚服，而不是因为别人的怜悯可怜。

6. Confident women are also emotional beings and have their own generous side. They win your admiration with their sincerity and openness, not because of others' sympathy or pity.

7. 和对自己有恶意的人绝交。人有绝交，才有至交。

7. Sever ties with those who harbor ill will towards you. Only by severing friendships can one truly have the closest of friends.

8. 年龄不是成熟的保证，只是一个数字符号。

8. Age is not a guarantee of maturity; it is just a numerical symbol.

9. 一个人的朋友的多少是与他的缺点多少成正比的，缺点越多，朋友也有可能越多，不必让自己变成完美女神，那会令您丧失更多的快乐！

9. The number of a person's friends is proportional to the number of their flaws; the more flaws, the more friends they might have. There is no need to become a perfect goddess, as that would likely lead to the loss of more happiness!

10. 购买物件可以讨价还价，但如果对方不小心多找了您钱，要退回去。不要因贪小失去了做人的意义。

10. Items for purchase can be negotiated, but if the other party inadvertently gives you too much change, it should be returned. Don't lose the meaning of being a person because of greed.

11. 人这一辈子，会遇到无数次爱的心动，从这无数次中挑选出最适合自己的那一次才是正途。

11. Throughout one's life, one will experience countless heartwarming moments of love. The true path is to select the one that suits oneself the most among these countless instances.

12. 我们努力，顶部见。

12. We'll try our best, see you at the top.

13. 最好的状态就是未来可期。

13. The best state is one with a promising future.

14. 白茶不是别的，我在等风，等你。

14. The white tea is nothing else, I am waiting for the wind, waiting for you.

15. 瘦身和美容要两手抓。少吃垃圾食品，多喝水。

15. Both slimming and beauty require a dual approach. Eat less junk food and drink more water.

16. 只希望未来可期。我也很可爱。

16. Just hoping for a bright future. I am also very cute.

17. 少年的肩膀要承受长草和明月清风。

17. The youth's shoulders bear the weight of long grass and the brightness of the moon and the cool breeze.

18. 任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女人更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，您更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。

18. At any time, do not grieve for a man who does not care about you. Women should especially understand that in the end, the one who gets hurt is your own heart. If that man is heartless, you will not be able to hurt his heart, so gather up your sadness and live well.

19. 将要去的地方，是我未曾谋面的故乡。

19. The place I am about to go to is my hometown, which I have never met.

20. 做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如您所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。

20. Be a wise woman. Learn to face life with composure. Approach life with positivity, and it will surely turn out as you wish, just like tomorrow morning, the sun will rise as scheduled.

21. 自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，因为您的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。

21. To those you don't like, you can respond with a silent smile; as for those you do like, it doesn't matter how you act, because your affection will overflow and be irresistible.

22. 穷是一种心态，您若一辈子坚持自己是穷人，拥有大量金钱也救不了您。

22. Poverty is a state of mind; if you persist in seeing yourself as poor for your entire life, having a lot of money will not save you.

23. 当一个男人对您说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，您应该笑着对他说：等您说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。

23. When a man tells you: "Let's break up." Do not cry and shed tears. Instead, you should smile and say to him: "I've been waiting for you to say that for a long time." Then turn around and walk away.

24. 什么叫好男人？好男人就是您死心塌地跟着的那个人。每个女人都会有，没有必要羡慕别人家的。

24. What is a good man? A good man is the person you would wholeheartedly follow until the end. Every woman will have one, and there is no need to envy others.

25. 世界上没有丑女人而只有懒女人，如果女孩嫁进夫家以后让婆婆知道您不善于家务，而且还不愿意去尝试着学习，那么，这种懒女人到老也是得不到别人尊重的。

25. There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy ones. If a girl marries into her husband's family and her mother-in-law finds out that she is not good at housework and is unwilling to try to learn, then this lazy woman will not receive respect from others even in her old age.

26. 在爱情面前，女人的架子不要摆得太低，死缠着一个拒绝过您的男人，只会增加他心底对您的轻视。

26. In the face of love, women should not humble themselves too much; pestering a man who has rejected you will only increase his disdain for you in his heart.

27. 希望我所有的收获都在意料之中，所有的损失都不受阻碍。

27. I hope all my gains are as expected, and all my losses are not hindered.

28. 有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让那个地方的服务生认识您，这样，您会在孤单时有个温暖的'去处。

28. Have a fixed place for leisure, such as a regular café or bookstore. Get to know the staff there, so that you will have a warm 'place to go' when you feel lonely.

29. 有女强人倾向的女人更应该学会做家务，绝大多数男人不喜欢职场上聪慧过人，事业蒸蒸日上，而回到家以后邓是严重缺乏生活自理能力的那种女人。

29. Women who tend to be ambitious should learn to do housework more, as the vast majority of men do not like a woman who is exceptionally intelligent in the workplace, whose career is flourishing, and who, upon returning home, is severely lacking in the ability to manage daily life on her own.

30. 人生要永远清醒，永远温柔，永远懂得进退。

30. In life, one should always be清醒 (awake), always gentle, and always know when to advance or retreat.

31. 已去之事不可留，已逝之情不可恋，能留能恋，就没有今天。

31. Things that have passed should not be held onto, and emotions that have faded should not be cherished. If one can hold onto or cherish them, there will be no today.

32. 不迷茫，不陷在感情里，不害怕未来，不去想过去，是很好的。

32. Not to be confused, not to get lost in emotions, not to fear the future, and not to dwell on the past is very good.

33. 情人节或者生日没有人可送花也无所谓。您可以将买花的钱买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。

33. It doesn't matter if there's no one to send flowers on Valentine's Day or your birthday. You can use the money to buy a nice gift for your mom and dad instead.

34. 如果一个男人对您说他喜欢您，相信他。如果他说不再爱您，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱您的人离开，是幸运。

34. If a man tells you he likes you, believe him. If he says he no longer loves you, believe him too. At any time, remind yourself that the departure of someone who does not love you is fortunate.

35. 公共场所，给人行方便，特别是老人家。您也会老去，所以尊重老人就是尊重您以后的岁月。

35. In public places, be considerate to others, especially the elderly. You will also grow old, so respecting the elderly is respecting your own future years.

36. 谁说事业是男人的专利，女人也可以拥有自己的事业天地。

36. Who says that a career is a man's exclusive domain? Women can also have their own career天地.

37. 我爱这艰难困苦的一天。

37. I love this day of hardships and difficulties.

38. 最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。

38. The best revenge is not hatred, but a coldness that comes from the heart. Why waste energy hating someone who has nothing to do with you?

39. 无论做什么，记得为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。

39. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, and you will have no complaints.

40. 聪明女人不为利益出卖肉体，“年轻时不做花瓶，中年时不做醋瓶，老年时切忌药瓶”为自己人生追求的终极目标，让生命活得更有质量一点。

40. A smart woman does not sell her body for profit, "Don't be a vase in youth, a vinegar jar in middle age, and definitely not a medicine jar in old age" is the ultimate goal of her life pursuit, making her life have a higher quality.

41. 我们都在改变，所以没有必要为过去感到遗憾。

41. We are all changing, so there is no need to feel regret for the past.

42. 能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。

42. It is best to avoid arguments with others as much as possible. An angry person is terrifying, as they may lose control over their emotions and turn into a疯子 (crazy person).

43. 一个人去看**。买爆米花和可乐，笑翻天。或者，泪流满面。如果您喜欢体育，去看足球，哭死也没人管您，但是很轻松和畅快。

43. A person goes to see... Buy popcorn and cola, laugh until you can't breathe. Or, cry your eyes out. If you like sports, go see football. Even if you cry yourself to death, no one will care, but it's very relaxing and enjoyable.

44. 爱情可以长久。

44. Love can last long.

45. 无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻，两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。

45. No matter how luxurious the wedding is, it does not represent a happy marriage. Whether two people can live harmoniously together throughout their lives has nothing to do with the number of banquets or the amount of jewelry.

46. 我第一次看到宇宙，就遇见了你的眼睛。

46. My first sight of the universe was when I met your eyes.

47. 要有五种爱好和兴趣。高尚一点的，远足，摄影，垂钓，登山，养只小乌龟也不错。

47. One should have five hobbies and interests. Higher-minded ones include hiking, photography, fishing, mountaineering, and keeping a little turtle would also be nice.

48. 从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想您？爱不爱您？他要想您或者爱您自然会对您说，但是从您的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎您。

48. From now on, be a bit smarter. Don't ask him if he misses you or loves you? If he misses you or loves you, he will naturally tell you. But if you say it from your mouth, he will feel proud and indifferent towards you.

49. 这个世界最脆弱的是生命，身体健康，很重要。

49. The most fragile thing in this world is life, good health is very important.

50. 你应该开始努力工作，慢慢来。还有人等着你长大。

50. You should start working hard, take it step by step. There are still people waiting for you to grow up.

51. 如果一个男人开始怠慢您，请您离开他。不懂得疼惜您的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出您的柔情和爱情。

51. If a man starts to treat you with negligence, please leave him. Do not be sentimental about a man who does not cherish you; neither should you continue to offer your gentleness and love.

52. 每天把自己打扮的很好看再出门，即使只是下楼倒垃圾。

52. Dress yourself up nicely every day before you go out, even if it's just to go down to the garbage bin.

53. 任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，您更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。

53. At any time, do not grieve for a man who does not care, and women should understand even more that in the end, the heart that gets hurt is one's own. If that man is merciless, you will not be able to hurt his heart either, so, gather your sorrow, and live well.

54. 导语：强大一些，要相信您自己。坚定一些，要相信自己的感觉。

54. Introduction: Be stronger, believe in yourself. Be more resolute, believe in your own feelings.

55. 女人要想得到老公的爱，就必须首先要热爱自己的老公，毕竟，漂亮的女人象宝石，光彩照人！而智慧的女人象宝藏，男人更愿意花一辈子的时间去挖掘收藏。

55. A woman wants to receive her husband's love, she must first love her husband, after all, beautiful women are like gems, shining brilliantly! And wise women are like treasures, men are more willing to spend a lifetime exploring and collecting them.

56. 我的归宿就是健康与才干，一个人终究可以信赖的，不过是他自己，能够为他扬眉吐气的也是他自己，我要什么归宿？我已找回我自己，我就是我的归宿。

56. My place is in health and ability, and ultimately, one can only rely on oneself. It is also oneself who can hold one's head high. What kind of place do I seek? I have found myself again, and I am my own place.

57. 生命像流水，这些不快的事总要过去，如果注定一辈子要这么过，再不开心也没有用。

57. Life is like flowing water; these unpleasant things will pass. If it's destined to live like this for a lifetime, then no amount of unhappiness will be of use.

58. 请记得，好朋友的定义是：您混的好，她打心眼里为您开心；您混的不好，她由衷的为您着急。

58. Remember, the definition of a good friend is: when you're doing well, she is truly happy for you from the bottom of her heart; when you're not doing well, she sincerely worries about you.

59. 喜欢看时尚杂志，不是为了浓抹重妆掩盖逝去的青春，而是要在心灵与时尚接轨，走在生命里的另一个青春路上——自信。

59. Enjoy reading fashion magazines, not for heavy makeup to cover up the passing of youth, but to align one's soul with fashion and walk on another youthful path in life — confidence.

60. 有人试图和您无理取闹，安静的看着他，说：祝您好心情。然后离开。

60. Someone tried to pick a fight with you unreasonably. Just calmly watch him, say: "Wishing you a good mood," and then leave.

61. 爱父母，更重要的是您爱他们的方式要让他们感受到您爱他们。大声表达出您的爱吧。对父母的爱是没什么好遮掩的。

61. Love your parents, but more importantly, the way you express your love should make them feel loved. Speak out your love loudly. There's nothing to hide when it comes to loving your parents.

62. 对您不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关您的事。

62. Stand firm and say no or reject the attentions and concern from a suitor you do not like. Even if he says: "This has nothing to do with you."

63. 对自己温柔一点。你只是宇宙的孩子，和植物、星星没什么区别。

63. Be kind to yourself. You are just a child of the universe, no different from plants or stars.

64. 最少拥有五个以上可供不同颜色、款式衣服搭配的包，五双以上的鞋子。

64. Own at least five bags that can be matched with different colors and styles of clothing, and at least five pairs of shoes.

65. 藏起来。你是个宝贝。

65. Hide away. You're a treasure.

66. 山野在一千英里之外。你是我藏在星星里的浪漫。

66. The mountains and wilderness are a thousand miles away. You are the romantic hiding in my stars.

67. 优雅女人，是独立的，自信的。无论有还是没有职业，她永远知道自己的未来是什么样子的。

67. An elegant woman is independent and confident. Whether she has a career or not, she always knows what her future will look like.