致自己签名：坚定信念，书写未来篇章。

To Myself, Signature: Firm in belief, writing the chapters of the future.

1. 如果你是狮子，别人骂你是狗，你不会真的变成狗，那就不用为此而生嗔；如果你是狗，别人赞叹你是狮子，你也不会真的变成狮子，那也不必为此而生喜。别人的赞叹，不会让我们变好；别人的指责，也不会让自己变坏，对于这些没什么可执着的。我们试着以这样的心态来对待他人对自己的评价罢！

1. If you are a lion and someone curses you as a dog, you won't really become a dog, so there's no need to be angry about it; if you are a dog and someone praises you as a lion, you won't really become a lion either, so there's no need to be overjoyed about it. Praise from others won't make us better; criticism won't make us worse, and there's nothing to be obsessed about these things. Let's try to treat others' evaluations of ourselves with such an attitude!

2. 不要责怪美女容易老老公容易跑那是因为你花钱太少，放弃了美丽。

2. Don't blame the beautiful woman for aging easily and the husband for running away, because it's because you spend too little, and have given up on beauty.

3. 希望你余生能培养五样东西:脸上的自信，心里的善良，血液里的骨气，微风中的温柔，生活中的坚强。

3. I hope you can cultivate five things in your remaining life: confidence on your face, kindness in your heart, backbone in your blood, gentleness in the breeze, and strength in life.

4. 我是一个别人说什么就信什么的好人,,所以,,不要骗我

4. I am a good person who believes whatever others say, so, please don't deceive me.

5. 我早就想到了这个结果 只是来的比较快而已

5. I had thought of this result long ago; it just came quicker than expected.

6. 别人怎么对你，你就以同样的态度回应。任何人出生都是第一次。

6. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Everyone is born for the first time.

7. 晚安，我身边的人 ，不要太累了

7. Good night, my loved ones, don't be too tired.

8. 你只有努力的优秀着，才能高傲的活着，这世界上的确有人，过着你想要的生活，但也请明白，他们大都曾隐忍过你尚未经历过的挫折。

8. You can only live proudly by striving to be excellent. Indeed, there are people in this world living the life you wish to have, but please also understand that most of them have endured setbacks that you have not yet experienced.

9. 不做作的祝大家幸福。祝你一生如意，真诚善良！

9. Wishing everyone a genuine happiness without pretense. May you have everything going well in your life, sincere and kind!

10. 生活还是有意思的。毕竟每天都因为不同的原因不想工作。

10. Life still has meaning. After all, there are different reasons every day that make one not want to work.

11. 做人就像一朵花，不管有没有人欣赏，但你必须绽放。你不是为了别人，是为了你自己。

11. Being a person is like a flower; whether or not someone appreciates it, you must bloom. It's not for others, but for yourself.

12. 涐恨你 恨自己 太爱你

12. I hate you, I hate myself, I love you too much.

13. 纵然她有太多的不好，也依然是我最爱的女人，轮不到你们评论。

13. Even though she has too many flaws, she is still the woman I love the most, and it's not up to you to comment.

14. 我从不自以为有多了不起 只是你离不开我罢了。

14. I never think of myself as being incredibly great; it's just that you can't live without me.

15. 你永远都是这样，说一套，做一套，深爱你的我，却总是相信你那谎言。

15. You've always been like this, saying one thing and doing another. The deeply loving me, however, always believed in your lies.

16. 万人追，不如伤一人。一个人懂，胜过万人宠。愿你不要为过去烦恼，而要笑对余生。

16. It's better to hurt one person than to chase a thousand. One person who understands is worth more than a thousand who pamper. May you not worry about the past but instead smile towards the rest of your life.

17. 知道的太多，看的太透彻，就会成为世界的孤儿。你知道:世界上有两样东西你不能直视，一个是太阳，一个是人心。

17. Knowing too much and seeing too deeply will make you an orphan of the world. You know: there are two things in the world that you cannot look directly at, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.

18. 有时候突然就不想工作了，有时候会突然想要喝几杯，有时候会想要独自旅行，有时候就想结婚了我们的脑子里有那么多的念头，可是仅仅只是想想而已。或许我们真的需要一些勇气，为一些突然蹦出的念头而尝试一下。也许，它会带给你惊喜。

18. Sometimes, suddenly, we don't feel like working anymore, sometimes we suddenly want to have a few drinks, sometimes we want to travel alone, and sometimes we just want to get married. Our minds are full of such thoughts, but it's all just daydreaming. Perhaps we really need some courage to try out some of those sudden impulses. Maybe, it will bring you a surprise.

19. 至于以后会怎样，你要努力的走下去才知道，你会先成为最喜欢的自己。路还很长，永远都是光明的。

19. As for what will happen in the future, you'll have to keep moving forward to find out; first, you will become the best version of yourself that you love. The road is still long, and it is always bright.

20. 我才发现，原来感性的人会多想很多很多。就如我给你发信息，你会偶尔回我，然后干脆不回，渐行渐远。我们都明白，彼此都不会是最后谁的谁。我以为我在你身边多待几秒，你会多想我一点。我以为我拼命地和你说话，你会感觉到我多爱你。我以为我做的，你会明白。但是，我错了……

20. It was only then that I realized how much more a sensitive person tends to overthink. Just like how I send you messages, you occasionally reply, and then just stop replying, growing increasingly distant. We both understand that neither of us will be the ultimate 'who' for the other. I thought that by staying with you for a few more seconds, you would think of me a bit more. I thought that by talking to you as hard as I could, you would feel how much I love you. I thought that what I did, you would understand. But, I was wrong...

21. 能力不大，不要太生气，否则会很麻烦；如果能力不大，就不要有太多的欲望，否则会很痛苦。

21. Do not be too angry as you have limited abilities, otherwise it will cause trouble; if your abilities are limited, do not have too many desires, otherwise it will be very painful.

22. 爱可以包容怨，可以接纳恨，爱情不需要说抱歉。同行一生，是难得的缘分；共度一旅，也是一份可贵的纪念日。爱情没有因果，爱情没有规则，爱情不分对错，爱情永不褪色。

22. Love can embrace resentment, it can accept hate, and love does not need to apologize. Walking through life together is a rare缘分; sharing a journey is also a precious anniversary. Love has no cause and effect, love has no rules, love does not distinguish right from wrong, and love never fades.

23. 你说你懂涐的无奈 可最终你还是选择了放开涐的手

23. You said you understood my helplessness, but in the end, you still chose to let go of my hand.

24. 有些路必须要走，就赶紧走完，抱怨也没有用。有些路必须一个人走，就壮着胆跑着走，一步三回头只会吓到自己。还有些路是别人的路，能走，但到不了你想去的地方。——刘同

24. Some roads must be taken, so just hurry up and finish them, complaining won't help. Some roads must be walked alone, so pluck up your courage and run, looking back three times per step will only scare yourself. And there are also roads that belong to others, which you can walk, but they won't take you to the place you want to go to. —— Liu Tong

25. 我会开开心心过好每一天。。下次遇到你我一定会告诉你，就算你离开姐了，姐还是活的好好的。

25. I will happily enjoy every single day. Next time I meet you, I will definitely tell you that even if you left me, sister is still living well.

26. 你要保存你的可爱，呵护你的善良，变得勇敢。在这个世界越来越糟糕的时候，我只希望你越来越好。

26. You should cherish your loveliness, nurture your kindness, and become brave. In a world that's growing increasingly worse, I only wish for you to become better and better.

27. 如果你想说什么，你必须说出来。如果你想做一件事，你必须快点做。想要珍惜的人，一定要把它捧在手中。

27. If there's something you want to say, you must say it. If there's something you want to do, you must do it quickly. If there's someone you want to cherish, you must hold them in your hands.

28. 我很好 那么你呢 〃

28. I'm fine, and how about you? 〃

29. 宿命论的经典语录-你若不坚强，懦弱给谁看

29. A classic quote from fatalism - If you are not strong, who will see your weakness?

30. 一个人，一颗心，一生等待。一个人，一座城，一生心疼。一个人，一条路，一生孤单。哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强；怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢；烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受；累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立。一个人、如果不坚强，软弱给谁看。

30. A person, a heart, a lifetime of waiting. A person, a city, a lifetime of ache. A person, a path, a lifetime of loneliness. When I cry, no one comforts me, so I've learned to be strong; when I'm afraid, no one is there to accompany me, so I've learned to be brave; when I'm upset, no one asks about me, so I've learned to bear it; when I'm tired, no one to rely on, so I've learned to be self-reliant. If a person is not strong, to whom will they show their weakness?

31. 如今，当人们需要你时，他们有话要说。当你不再被使用时，立即转身；当我喜欢你的时候，你是最亮的星星；当我恨你的时候，你是最坏的。

31. Now, when people need you, they have something to say. When you are no longer needed, turn around immediately; when I like you, you are the brightest star; when I hate you, you are the worst.

32. 爱情这个世界有那么多的悖论小心翼翼不见得就获得满分

32. In this world of love, there are so many paradoxes that being cautious doesn't necessarily guarantee a full score.

33. 朋友 你要什么我给你什么 为什么还对我那样

33. Friend, whatever you want, I will give to you. Why do you still treat me like that?

34. 一切都会过去，烦躁的心情，孤独的生活，努力也没用的事情。

34. Everything will pass, the restless mood, the lonely life, and things that no effort will help.

35. 人生中最是时间留不住，容颜辞镜花别树，不声不响，无味无痕，托举着我们从懵懂中一路走来，倥偬中白发渐生，老之将至。叹惜惆怅是没有用的，无言的孤独，莫名的遗忘，都会伴着时间的流逝随风飘去。我们是需要振作的，需要在与时间的奋争中，为人生增添一些温暖，为生命点燃一盏航灯。

35. Time is the most elusive in our lives, leaving us with no trace of our youthful appearance as we age, silently and tastelessly, carrying us from ignorance to the path we are on today, with our white hair growing amidst the hustle and bustle, the approach of old age. Regret and melancholy are useless; the silent solitude, the mysterious forgetfulness, will all be carried away by the passage of time. We need to be energetic, to add some warmth to life in our struggle against time, and to light a beacon for our lives.

36. 每当你觉得生活糟得不能再糟的时候，它就会突然给你点颜色看看。

36. Whenever you feel that life can't get any worse, it will suddenly show you its colors.

37. 找一个会在钱包里放你照片的男人，敢让你咬在身上留印记的男人，敢在微博博客写你的男人，敢让你知道他一切的男人，就算在你任性说分手的时候也不会抛下你会紧紧拥抱你不让你走的男人，敢对你一生负责任并且好好对你的男人。有这样的男人吗？你找到了吗？

37. Find a man who would keep your photo in his wallet, the man who dares to leave a mark on you, the man who writes about you on Weibo and blogs, the man who dares to let you know everything about him, and even when you are capricious and say you want to break up, he won't leave you but will紧紧 hug you to stop you from leaving. Is there such a man? Have you found him?

38. 我该怎么做，才能够不再 想起你、不再爱你。

38. How should I act so that I no longer think of you or love you?

39. 这是我的脾气。只要别人不理我，我就不会再厚着脸皮来烦。你的态度决定了我的态度。如果你对我沉默，我只好对你冷漠。

39. This is my temperament. As long as others ignore me, I will not dare to face the shame and bother them again. Your attitude determines my attitude. If you are silent towards me, I can only be indifferent towards you.

40. 看一个男人的品味，要看他的袜子； 看一个女人是否养尊处优，要看她的手； 看一个人的气血，要看他的头发； 看一个人的心术，要看他的眼神； 看一个人的身价，要看他的对手；看一个人的底牌，要看他身边的好友；看一个人的性格要看他写的字如何；看两个人的关系要看一方发生意外时另一方的紧张程度！

40. To judge a man's taste, look at his socks; to see if a woman is pampered, look at her hands; to assess a person's vitality, look at their hair; to understand a person's intentions, look at their eyes; to gauge a person's worth, look at their opponents; to see a person's true cards, look at their close friends; to understand a person's character, look at how they write; to judge the relationship between two people, observe the other's reaction when one encounters an accident!

41. 请记住：开始一段恋情的时候、一定不要瞻前顾后。摸着自己的心，珍惜当前的这个人！

41. Remember: when starting a relationship, do not look back and forth. Feel your heart and cherish this person at present!

42. 亲爱的，你要记住，在这个世界上，你只能靠自己。你必须变得更强。这是你的生活。不要抱怨，只能接受。哭是你自己的事。不要让别人看到你的弱点。在别人面前你要做的就是微笑。

42. My dear, remember that in this world, you can only rely on yourself. You must become stronger. This is your life. Don't complain, just accept it. Crying is your own business. Don't let others see your weaknesses. What you should do in front of others is to smile.

43. 星光不问路人，时间有回报。大概没去过的地方叫远方，没去过的人难忘。

43. Stars do not inquire about passersby, and time has its reward. Places that have never been visited are called the distant, and people who have never been there are unforgettable.

44. Agoni法语中是痛苦的意思 中文发音却是 爱 过你

44. "Agoni" in French means "pain," but its Chinese pronunciation sounds like "爱过你," which means "loved you."

45. 不要总是拿自己和别人比较。你羡慕别人瘦，别人羡慕你有个好胃，你羡慕别人有钱，别人羡慕没人向你借钱。

45. Don't always compare yourself to others. You envy others for being slim, while others envy you for having a good stomach. You envy others for their wealth, while others envy the fact that no one asks you for a loan.

46. 能看到人心很久很久，直到最后，真好。我会变得热情和有意识，我会变得更好。

46. It's great to be able to see into people's hearts for a very long time, until the very end. I will become more passionate and conscious, and I will become better.

47. 现在的恐惧和悲伤，都是因为能力小，阅历少；十年后，一切都只是我们应该有的一种零食。

47. The current fear and sadness are all due to our limited abilities and lack of experiences; ten years from now, everything will just be a kind of snack that we should have had.

48. 以前吵架都是迩先哄莪的，这一次迩离开了，换莪去挽留迩好么。

48. In the past, it was always you who comforted me when we fought. This time, you left. Would it be okay if I try to persuade you to stay?

49. 你若不坚强，懦弱给谁看！日子过得再不好，也不要逢人就说，而是要积极向上，努力改变现状。

49. If you are not strong, who will see your weakness? No matter how bad your days are, don't complain to everyone. Instead, stay positive and strive to change the current situation.

50. 我若不坚强，没人会懂我到底有多痛。我若不坚强，没人会懂我到底要怎么继续生活下去。我若不坚强，没人知道我经历了怎么样的生活。我若不坚强，没人知道我微笑背后所隐藏的伤痛要怎么激励。我若不坚强，没人知道我在想哭的时候却发现原来没有了眼泪。倘若不坚强，懦弱给谁看。

50. If I am not strong, no one will understand just how much pain I am in. If I am not strong, no one will know how to go on living. If I am not strong, no one knows what kind of life I have experienced. If I am not strong, no one knows how to motivate the hidden pain behind my smile. If I am not strong, no one knows that when I want to cry, I find that there are no tears left. If I am not strong, who am I showing my weakness to?

51. 当我对你的思念泛滥开时，我会把它变成文字，一行一行的记录下，浅浅的忧伤浮动着，心，一下子安静了，每次想起我们的回忆，就觉得，好像每次，都是你在主动，我被动的享受着你的宠爱，认为这种幸福会一直这样下去。

51. When my thoughts of you overflow, I turn them into words, writing them down line by line. A faint sadness floats, and my heart suddenly becomes calm. Every time I recall our memories, I feel as if each time, it was you who took the initiative, and I was passively enjoying your favor. I believed that this happiness would continue like this forever.

52. 永远不要把坏脾气留给最爱你的人。你是一个成年人。解决问题和发泄的方法有很多。你不发脾气的样子很美。请保留它。

52. Never leave your bad temper for the person who loves you the most. You are an adult. There are many ways to solve problems and vent. You look beautiful without losing your temper. Please keep it that way.

53. 相遇是错、认识是错、在一起更是错、对你动心是错，和你恋爱还是错、爱上你更是一个错、全部都是错。

53. It's wrong to meet you, wrong to know you, wronger still to be together, wrong to have feelings for you, wrong to fall in love with you, and even more wrong to be in love with you. Everything is wrong.

54. 最懂你的人，总是会一直在身边守护你，不让你有一丝的委屈；真正爱你的人，也许不会说许多爱你的话，却会做许多爱你的事。如果发现身边有这样的人，请你好好珍惜……幸福不会时时等着你，爱你的人和你爱的人不是随时可以出现，好好把握，不要让自己和幸福擦肩而过。

54. The person who understands you the most will always be by your side, protecting you from any hint of injustice; the person who truly loves you may not say many words of love, but will do many things that show their love. If you find such a person around you, please cherish them well... Happiness does not always wait for you, the person who loves you and the person you love may not appear at any moment. Take good care, and don't let yourself pass by happiness without a chance.

55. 不如意的时候不要尽往悲伤里钻，想想有笑声的日子吧。用时间和心看人，而不是用眼睛。生命的道路上永远没有捷径可言，只能脚踏实地走下去。

55. Don't dwell solely in sadness during times of dissatisfaction; think about the days when there was laughter. Judge people with time and heart, not just with eyes. There is no shortcut on the path of life; one can only walk it step by step.

56. 微笑和沉默是两个有效的武器:微笑可以解决很多问题，沉默可以避免很多问题。

56. A smile and silence are two effective weapons: a smile can resolve many issues, while silence can avoid many problems.

57. 虽然你用熟悉的微笑 说着不知道 其实我的心里都明了

57. Though you speak with a familiar smile, saying you don't know, actually, I am well aware in my heart.

58. 我对你的信任 你用脚去践踏。

58. The trust I have in you, you trample with your feet.

59. 我，不会问，不会提，难过了就一个人不停地走。我，不会吵，不会闹，心痛了用沉默代替一切。我，不会哭，不会笑，累了我就会消失一下。我知道，每条路都难走，我知道，那条路就注定了要坎坷。我知道，我不可以去强求任何人。说好不再流泪就不会流，即使心再痛泪就在眼眶。这条路，我一个人走

59. I won't ask, I won't bring it up, when I'm sad, I'll just keep walking alone. I won't make a fuss, I won't cause a scene, when my heart aches, I'll use silence to replace everything. I won't cry, I won't laugh, when I'm tired, I'll just disappear for a moment. I know, every path is hard to walk, I know, that path is destined to be bumpy. I know, I can't force anyone. We agreed not to cry, so I won't, even if my heart is in pain, the tears are in my eye sockets. This path, I walk alone.

60. 男生一直以为放个安静乖巧的女生在身边很安心，其实，他们永远不知道，那些和男生称兄道弟的女生会有多专一，她们接触过足够的男生，而她却选择了你。

60. Boys always think it's reassuring to have a quiet, compliant girl by their side, but they never realize that the girls who treat boys as brothers can be incredibly loyal. They have been in contact with enough boys, yet she chose you.

61. 一件事无论太晚或太早，都不会阻拦你成为你想成为的那个人。这个过程没有时间的期限，只要你想，随时都可以开始。要改变或者保留原状都无所谓，做事本不应该有所束缚。

61. No matter how late or early it is, nothing will prevent you from becoming the person you want to be. This process has no time limit, and you can start whenever you want. Whether you want to change or maintain the status quo is irrelevant; doing things should not be constrained in the first place.

62. 我们害怕岁月，却不知道活着是多么的可喜。我们认为生存已经没意思，许多人却正在生死之间挣扎。甚么时候，我们才肯为自己拥有的一切满怀感激？忘掉岁月，忘掉痛苦，忘掉你的坏。我们永不永不说再见。

62. We fear the passage of time, yet we don't realize how delightful it is to be alive. We think survival has lost its meaning, while many are struggling between life and death. When will we be willing to be grateful for everything we possess? Forget about the years, forget about the pain, forget about your flaws. We will never say goodbye, never.

63. 越早接受现实，等待你的机会就越大。越早接受这个事实，就能越早步入新的生活。

63. The sooner you accept reality, the greater the opportunities that await you. The sooner you accept this fact, the sooner you can step into a new life.

64. 每一个清晨，给自己一个微笑，告诉自己：人不仅活得要像钻石一样闪亮，还要像钻石一样坚强！

64. Every morning, give yourself a smile and tell yourself: one should not only live as brightly as a diamond, but also as strong as a diamond!

65. 做一个平淡无奇的人，不迷茫，不受困于爱情。要正直，要自由漫步。不谈债务，不见面。

65. Be an ordinary person, not lost, not trapped in love. Be upright, stroll freely. Do not talk about debts, do not meet.

66. 完完整整的一颗心 只装有我的一颗心 要不要给我

66. A whole heart, only containing my heart. Shall I give it to you?

67. 善良的人总觉得拒绝别人就像做错事一样。有些人，你帮她七分，她却觉得你欠她三分。所以，你的善良一定是有锋芒的。

67. Kind-hearted people always feel that rejecting others is like doing something wrong. There are some people who, if you help them with 70%, they still think you owe them 30%. Therefore, your kindness must have a sharp edge.

68. 不要害怕孤独。孤独勇敢怎么办？可以一路哭，但不能尴尬。你要熬过无人问津的日子，才能迎来掌声和鲜花。

68. Do not be afraid of loneliness. What to do if lonely and brave? You can cry all the way, but don't feel embarrassed. You have to endure the days when no one cares, in order to welcome applause and flowers.

69. 时间是最无情的，会改变每个人；时间也是最公平的，会让你看透人心。

69. Time is the most merciless, changing everyone; time is also the most fair, allowing you to see through people's hearts.

70. 你在海边呼喊着, 你要我回头 我却宁愿闭上眼睛, 让自己沉没于大海, 后而复生 你不懂, 我也挣扎过, 当我努力的回到岸边时, 你却给我一个又一个的巨浪 把我一遍又一边的淹没 再见了 搜救队伍找不到我了 我已沉入大海 这是我的选择

70. You're calling out by the sea, asking me to turn back, but I'd rather close my eyes and let myself sink into the ocean, to be reborn. You don't understand, I've struggled too. When I tried to make my way back to the shore, you gave me one wave after another, submerging me over and over again. Farewell, the rescue team can't find me anymore. I've submerged into the ocean, and this is my choice.

71. 我就这样这样看着你的名字、看着看着就哭了。哈

71. I just kept looking at your name, looking and looking, and then I started to cry. Haha

72. 我可以离开你 但是我不能不爱你。

72. I can leave you, but I cannot not love you.

73. 人性最大的弱点不是贪婪或懦弱，而是认为一切都是完美的。

73. The greatest weakness of human nature is not greed or cowardice, but the belief that everything is perfect.

74. 想象自己是竹蜻蜓， 只要张开双翅勇敢地迎着风去 便可以飞起来，自由地飞起来。

74. Imagine yourself as a bamboo dragonfly, just spread your wings bravely and face the wind, and you can take flight, freely soaring in the sky.

75. 岁月，是任何阶段的记忆，静下来聆听，时间便会回去，停留在某个角落，某个时空里再上演一次心中的故事。曾经相遇，曾经相惜，曾经在彼此的生命时光，就记取那份美好，那么甜蜜。虽然无缘，也是无悔。

75. Years are memories of any stage. When you calm down to listen, time will go back, stay in a corner, in a certain time and space, and replay the story in your heart once more. We have met, we have cherished each other, and in the time of each other's lives, we remember that beautiful moment, so sweet. Although we have no destiny, it is not regrettable.

76. 对于爱情，我还是渴望的。我只是没有勇气去恋爱了，一段全心全意付出，甚至断了自己后路的感情，换来的却是你的放弃。有个朋友对我说，跟自己深爱的人结婚会给自己很大的压力，总是要顾及对方放弃自己。对于你我还是愿意放弃自己，至于别人我已经学会保护自己。

76. As for love, I still yearn for it. I just don't have the courage to fall in love anymore. A relationship where I give my all, even cutting off my own path, only to be met with your abandonment. A friend once told me that getting married to the one you deeply love can put a great deal of pressure on you, always having to consider the possibility of the other person giving up on you. As for you, I am still willing to sacrifice myself. As for others, I have learned to protect myself.

77. 自离别后，不管相向还是反向，结果只会越来越远。

77. Since our parting, no matter whether we are moving towards or away from each other, the result will only be increasingly distant.

78. 努力戒掉一切不必要的依赖和blx。

78. Strive to overcome all unnecessary dependencies and self-pity.

79. 到了今年，没有什么是一定要的。如果说有什么一定要的，那就是对自己好。

79. By this year, nothing is a must. If there is anything that is a must, it is to be kind to oneself.