好的爱情，没有博取，没有虚言。

Good love has no seeking, no empty words.

1. 最有温度的距离，不就是我不言，你不语，心安，默契。

1. The most touching distance is not a word from me and a word from you, but a tranquil heart and a silent understanding.

2. 心里很近的朋友，是会想念的，是隔上一个月两个月必定要见一次面的，不说什么，在一起就觉得很温暖。

2. Friends who are very close to your heart are ones you miss, and you feel the need to meet them once a month or two. There's no need to say anything; just being together feels warm.

3. 想见你，在吞云吐月的疾风后，在日复一日的寻常里。

3. I miss you, after the fierce gale that swallows clouds and spits them out, in the ordinary routine of day after day.

4. 忧郁是因为自己无能，烦恼是由于欲望得不到满足，暴躁是一种虚怯的表现。——大仲马

4. Melancholy is due to one's own inability, worry is because desires are not satisfied, and irritability is a manifestation of timidity. - Alexandre Dumas

5. 每个人内心最挣扎的时候都是一个人挺过来的，聚在一起的时候，只不过就是为了笑一笑。

5. Everyone has gone through their innermost struggles alone, and when we gather together, it's just to smile a bit.

6. 我希望你有时候能驻足于这个令你感到惊叹的世界。如果和你想象的生活不一样，我希望你能有勇气，重新启程。

6. I hope you can sometimes pause in this world that amazes you. If it's not as you imagined, I hope you will have the courage to restart your journey.

7. 并非一见钟情就能走的长久，只有不断的经历生活的考验，你才能陪他君临天下。虽然爱情总在不经意间来临，但是有时候表面现象并不可信。比如，一再被你忽视的小草，有一天长成参天大树，陪你经历风雨，最后走向成功。

7. Love at first sight is not enough to sustain a long-term relationship; only by continuously facing the tests of life can you accompany him to rule the world. Although love often comes unexpectedly, sometimes the surface appearance is not to be trusted. For instance, the small grass that has been repeatedly overlooked by you may one day grow into a towering tree, accompany you through storms and rain, and finally lead you to success.

8. 人不能因为害怕失去，就不去拥有。——熊顿《滚蛋吧！肿瘤君》

8. One cannot refrain from having something out of fear of losing it. — Xiong Dun, "Farewell, Tumor!"

9. 爱上某人，不是因为他给了你需要的东西，而是因为他给了你从未有过的感觉。

9. Falling in love with someone is not because they give you what you need, but because they give you a feeling you have never had before.

10. 夫妻两口子，过日子都是一地的鸡毛，但是有过的好的也有过的不好的，最主要的就是互相之间能够彼此理解，这是非常难的，但是也希望相爱的人互相之间多一些付出就能够相爱永恒。

10. A married couple's life together is often filled with trivial matters, like chicken feathers scattered on the ground. While some have good experiences and others have bad ones, the most important thing is mutual understanding, which is very difficult. However, it is also hoped that those who love each other can show more love and care, so that their love can endure forever.

11. 没有人可以左右你的情绪，除非你同意。---罗斯福

11. No one can control your emotions unless you agree. -- Roosevelt

12. 我们要学会珍惜我们生活的每一天。因为，这每一天的开始，都将是我们余下生命之中的第一天。

12. We should learn to cherish every single day of our lives. For every beginning of a day is the first day of the remainder of our lives.

13. 你今天所遭遇的苦难，要么是之前的报应，要么以后都会回报给你！

13. The sufferings you are experiencing today are either the retribution for your past actions or they will all be repaid to you in the future!

14. 在爱情里，什么事情都是需要相互的，所以是需要互相包容的。爱只有实际行动来证明一切。有些人非常渴望爱情，想拥有，想得到，却总是求而不得，但是却始终不肯放弃。一直付出，一直对她好，而对方也许心里知道，但却没有做出改变，只是一味地接受他的好。一个一直在付出，一个不做回报的接受，也许这也是维持一段感情的方式，但如果付出的人累了，那么这段感情也就该结束了。

14. In love, everything requires mutual understanding, so it is necessary to be tolerant of each other. Love is only proven by actual actions. Some people are very eager for love, want to possess it, and desire to receive it, but they always fail to get what they seek, yet they never give up. They keep giving, keep being good to her, and perhaps the other person knows it in their heart but does not make any changes, just passively accepting his kindness. One who keeps giving and another who does not offer anything in return, this may also be a way to maintain a relationship, but if the giver grows tired, then this relationship should come to an end.

15. 如果你想早点下班，请不要叫醒我，这样我可以睡到最后，假装不知道你已经走了。

15. If you want to leave work early, please don't wake me up, so I can sleep until the end and pretend I don't know you've gone.

16. 7如果有一天情真的难续了，你要明白好聚好散。

16. 7 If one day true love becomes difficult to continue, you should understand that it's best to part on good terms.

17. 3往后余生，我懂你早出晚归的劳累，你知我三餐琐碎带娃的疲惫。

17. From now on, I understand the toil of your early departure and late return, and you know the fatigue of my daily chores and taking care of the baby.

18. 世界上没有未完成的故事，只有一颗不死的心。

18. There are no unfinished stories in the world, only an unyielding heart.

19. 这些年来，我只认真爱过这样一个人。分开一年零三个月，不想卖差。他讨厌糟糕的销售。

19. Over the years, I have only seriously loved one person. After being apart for one year and three months, I don't want to sell at a loss. He hates poor sales.

20. 灵魂只能独行，因为我们都有能力决定自己的方向，却没有能力控制别人的道路。如果偏要把别人拉到你的生活轨迹上，或者你又要强行的进入别人的世界，最终的结果无非只有两种，要么在自己的世界里等死，要么在别人的世界里被扯到四分五裂。—— 克里希那穆提

20. The soul can only travel alone, because each of us has the ability to decide our own direction but not the power to control others' paths. If you insist on dragging others into your life's trajectory or you强行 enter others' world, the ultimate outcome can only be one of two: either to wait for death in your own world, or to be torn apart in others' world. — Krishnamurti

21. 玫瑰说：不是所有的花都代表爱情；钻石说：不是所有的钻石都代表永恒。

21. Rose says: Not all flowers represent love; Diamond says: Not all diamonds represent eternity.

22. 爱，是一场天时地利的相遇。不需要等待，不需要准备。

22. Love is a meeting at the right time and place. No waiting is needed, nor any preparation.

23. 不要去等谁，所有的不期而遇都正在路上等你。

23. Don't wait for anyone; all unexpected encounters are waiting for you on the way.

24. 我以为爱情可以填补生活中的遗憾，但正是爱情制造了更多的遗憾。成长过程中最痛苦的一课，就是你从来不为之辩护的那个人，对你出手最狠。

24. I thought love could fill the gaps in life, but it is love that creates more gaps. The most painful lesson in the process of growing up is that the person you never defend is the one who treats you the most cruelly.

25. 原来，爱与不爱，都与结局无关，有种感情，凝眸，就是永远。

25. Originally, whether one loves or not has nothing to do with the ending. There is a kind of affection that, once locked in a gaze, is forever.

26. 不过屋子外的春天太贱了。到处是阳光，不像射破屋里阴深的那样明亮；到处是给太阳晒得懒洋洋的风，不像搅动屋里沉闷的那样有生气。就是鸟语，也似乎琐碎而单薄，需要屋里的寂静来做衬托。我们因此明白，春天是该镶嵌在窗子里看的，好比画配了框子。---钱钟书

26. However, the spring outside the house is too cheap. It is filled with sunlight, not as bright as the one piercing through the dimness inside; everywhere is the lazy wind baked by the sun, not as energetic as the one stirring the dullness inside. Even the birdsong seems trivial and thin, needing the silence inside to set it off. Therefore, we understand that spring is meant to be viewed through the window, like a painting with a frame. --- Qian Zhongshu

27. 守着空城，等着老人，当年的约定，我至今还深深的刻在心里。

27. Guarding the empty city, waiting for the old man, the promise from years ago is still deeply etched in my heart.

28. 我固执的不肯屈服，得到的却是伤痕累累。从此，我的世界里不再有你。

28. I stubbornly refused to yield, only to be left with numerous scars. From then on, you are no longer in my world.

29. 无论你遇见谁，他都是在你生命中该出现的人。

29. Whoever you meet, they are the people who should appear in your life.

30. 每个不懂爱的人都会遇到懂爱的人。然后经历一段心碎的爱情，然后分开。后来不懂爱情的人渐渐懂了。我知道如何去爱人们，但是我不敢再去爱他们。

30. Every person who doesn't know how to love will eventually meet someone who does. Then they experience a heart-wrenching love, and eventually part ways. Later, the person who didn't know how to love gradually learns. I know how to love people, but I dare not love them anymore.

31. 遇到你之前，世界是一片荒原，遇到你之后，世界是一个乐园，过去的许多岁月，对我象一缕轻烟，未来的无限生涯，因你而幸福无边。

31. Before meeting you, the world was a barren wasteland, but after meeting you, it becomes a paradise. The many years past have seemed like a wisp of smoke to me, and the boundless future is filled with endless happiness because of you.

32. 我们是如此的担心着未来会发生的事情，因此忘记了慢下来享受现在。

32. We are so worried about what might happen in the future that we forget to slow down and enjoy the present.

33. 对以双倍热情款待我的人，对不起，我总是不大敢深交。因为我深悉平平常常才是真、从从容容才能远的道理。做人也好，行事也罢，不要热情过度，不要用力太大。百步无轻担，日久见人心，咬着牙、憋着尿是走不远的。热情过度也是一种虚情。人生很长，很苦，凭虚情是难以走到终点的。麦家

33. To those who treat me with double enthusiasm, I apologize, as I am always hesitant to get too close. Because I deeply understand that ordinary is true, and that only by being relaxed can one go far. Whether in life or in actions, do not overdo enthusiasm, do not use too much effort. One does not carry a light burden for a hundred steps; time will reveal people's true nature. One cannot go far by biting one's teeth and holding in urine. Overenthusiasm is also a kind of false sentiment. Life is long and bitter, and it is difficult to reach the end with false sentiments. - Mai Jia

34. 你爱的应该是给你自由舒坦、向上美好的感觉的人，而不是那个让你担心受怕、消沉愁苦的感受的人。

34. The person you should love is the one who gives you a sense of freedom, comfort, and upward beauty, not the one who causes you worry, fear, and feelings of melancholy and sadness.

35. 教育始于母亲膝下，孩童耳听一言一语，均影响其性格的形成。---何希尔巴卢

35. Education begins at the mother's knee, where the child absorbs every word and phrase, all of which influence the formation of their character. --- Ho Shilbalu

36. 世界上最遥远的距离不是我站在你面前你不知道我爱你，而是无论我花多少时间，我都无法在我难忘的回忆里想念你。

36. The greatest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you, but that no matter how much time I spend, I cannot think of you in my unforgettable memories.

37. 9夫妻到尽头，放手即解脱，发妻不合，离开也是一种成全。

37. When a marriage of nine years comes to an end, letting go is a form of release. If the first wife is incompatible, leaving can also be a form of accomplishment.

38. 别人稍一注意你，你就敞开心扉，你觉得这是坦率，其实是因为孤独症。

38. When others pay a little attention to you, you open your heart wide, thinking it's honesty, but actually it's because of autism.

39. 放弃单相思。如果得不到喜欢的人的回应，就应该和喜欢的人分手。哪怕像拔牙一样疼，也要爱自己。

39. Give up unrequited love. If you don't receive a response from the person you like, it's time to break up with them. Even if it's as painful as pulling a tooth out, you should love yourself.

40. 其实我们中的很多人，终其一生都不会找到真爱，而只会找个人互相饲养一生。

40. In fact, many of us will never find true love in our lifetime, but will only find someone to co-nurture with for a lifetime.

41. 其实世界上没有那么多的如果，有时候，我们一瞬间失去的东西就是永恒。

41. In fact, there are not that many "ifs" in the world. Sometimes, what we lose in a split second is something that is eternal.

42. 不要把你的快乐寄托在别人身上。每个人各有自己的生命追寻，这一刻他拉起你的手，下一刻他可能转身而去：无论别人的真心有多少，他都没有理由扛起你生命的责任。只有你，才能让你自己，真正快乐。—— 陈文茜

42. Do not rely on others for your happiness. Each person has their own life to pursue; at this moment he may hold your hand, but the next moment he might turn away: no matter how sincere someone else's heart is, they have no reason to bear the responsibility for your life. Only you can truly make yourself happy. — Chen Wenshen

43. 人生就像一列火车，你看惯了人们上上下下，却不知道我为了多陪你一程，错过了本该下车的站点。

43. Life is like a train, you get used to seeing people get on and off, but you don't know that I missed my supposed-to-alight station just to accompany you for a longer journey.

44. 其实，一个人爱不爱你，是能够感觉到，而且这种感觉相当真切和准确，不用骗自己，更不用勉强自己。如果真的不行，要学会转身。

44. In fact, whether a person loves you or not can be felt, and this feeling is quite sincere and accurate. There's no need to deceive oneself or force oneself. If things truly aren't working out, one should learn to turn around.

45. 最好的爱，是跟那个对的人在一起后，连身边朋友都觉得你更可爱了，而不是每天都活在对方够不够在乎你的担虑里，照顾不好自己还一心为他改变。

45. The best love is being with the right person, where even your friends think you are more adorable, rather than living in constant worry about whether the other person cares enough for you, taking care of yourself poorly while trying to change for them.

46. 不要和消耗你的人在一起，也不要做消耗别人的人。

46. Do not be around people who drain you, and do not be the one who drains others.

47. 往事归零，爱恨随意，敬你一杯，从此继续前行。如果过去不回头，未来也不会。

47. Let bygones be bygones, love and hate as you wish, raise a toast to you, and from now on, let's continue on our path. If the past doesn't turn back, neither will the future.

48. 为你 我用了半年的积蓄，漂洋过海的来看你；为了这次相聚，我连见面时的呼吸都曾反复练习。 ——李宗盛

48. For you, I used half a year's savings to come across the sea to see you; for this reunion, I even practiced my breathing when meeting you. ——Li Zongsheng

49. 其实在爱情中应该柔软下来，别一直那么强硬。面对自己爱的人，再坚强的人也会多多少少脱下自己的盔甲，褪去自己的伪装，把一颗真挚的、柔软的、火热的心呈现在对方面前。所以，我得出的结论是，最好的爱情，一定不是势均力敌的爱情。爱情不是没有争吵，只是在争吵之后依然甜蜜。爱情是个需要天时地利人和的事情。其实 我们只是想找一个谈得来，合脾性，在一起舒坦。

49. In fact, in love, one should soften up and not be so stubborn all the time. In the presence of the one you love, even the strongest person will take off their armor and shed their disguise, presenting a sincere, soft, and passionate heart to the other person. Therefore, my conclusion is that the best love is not a love where both parties are evenly matched. Love is not without arguments, but it remains sweet even after a fight. Love is a matter that requires the convergence of heaven, earth, and people. In fact, we just want to find someone we can get along with, someone who suits our temperament, and someone we can be comfortable with together.

50. 过去的就让它过去吧。我们的故事翻开了新的一页。我不关心你的事情。成为你现在的朋友。不要提过去和过去。我也有自己的爱人。

50. Let the past be in the past. Our story has turned over a new page. I don't care about your affairs. Be my friend in the present. Don't mention the past and the past. I also have my own loved one.

51. 我不能给你全世界，但是，我的世界，全部给你。《念念不忘》

51. I can't give you the whole world, but, my world, I give you all. "Unforgettable Memories"

52. 没有人可以左右你的人生，只是很多时候我们需要多一些勇气，去坚定自己的选择。

52. No one can dictate the course of your life, but often, we need more courage to stand firm in our own choices.

53. 希望你能遇到一个对你心动的人，而不是权衡取舍分析利弊后，觉得你不错的人。

53. I hope you meet someone who genuinely falls for you, rather than someone who, after weighing the pros and cons and analyzing the benefits, thinks you're nice.

54. 人往往经历过不幸福，才知道什么是幸福；就像遇见过错的人，才会知道谁是对的人。

54. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is; just as one must meet the wrong person before they know who the right person is.

55. 但愿所有的负担都将变成礼物，所受的苦都能照亮未来迷茫的路。

55. May all the burdens become gifts, and all the sufferings illuminate the future's path of confusion.

56. 不论你在什么时候开始，重要的是开始之后就不要停止；不论你在什么时候结束，重要的是结束之后就不要悔恨。

56. It is important not to stop once you have started, regardless of when you begin; it is important not to regret after you have ended, regardless of when you choose to finish.