在这悠长的岁月里，亲情如细水长流，平淡却不可或缺。一句看似普通的言语，却承载着无尽的温暖与关爱。今日，让我们共同探寻那些隐藏在平淡中的亲情密码，感受那份深沉的爱意。

In these long years, kinship flows like a gentle stream, plain yet indispensable. A seemingly ordinary word carries endless warmth and care. Today, let us共同 explore the kinship secrets hidden in the plainness, and feel that profound love.

1. 9乐观面对失恋，当失恋不期而至时，千万不要悲悲切切，更不要哭天喊地，应当庆幸，感谢对方拒绝了你。不是吗？正因为有了对方的拒绝，你才拥有了再度选择的机会！

1. 9 Face a breakup optimistically. When an unexpected breakup occurs, never indulge in sadness or cry out to the heavens. Instead, be grateful and thank the person for rejecting you. Isn't it true? It's because of their rejection that you have the opportunity to choose again!

2. 40时间是最无情的，会改变每个人的时间也是最公正的，让你看透人心。

2. Time is the most relentless at 40, and the time that changes everyone is also the most just, allowing you to see through the hearts of people.

3. 20大家玩的是同样的游戏规则，大家虚伪没问题，谁要说出来就千夫所指；

3. Everyone is playing by the same set of rules. It's fine for everyone to be insincere, but if someone dares to speak out, they will be pointed at by a thousand fingers.

4. 55曾经有一分真挚的爱情放在我面前，我没有珍惜，等我失去的时候，我才后悔莫及，人世间最痛苦的事莫过于此。

4. There was once a genuine love in front of me, which I did not cherish. When I lost it, I regretted it deeply. The most painful thing in the world is this.

5. 11你让我觉得我们的关系不只这样，又只能这样。

5. 11 It makes me feel that our relationship is not just like this, yet it can only be like this.

6. 54一直主动谁受得了，连马里奥救公主都有金币。

6.54 has always been proactive; even Mario saving the princess has coins.

7. 48你忘了吗那时候你作，你阴阳怪气好几个月，你甩开伸来的手一万次，因为那时候，有个人永远兜着你，给你台阶下。

7. 48 Have you forgotten? Back then, you were so stubborn for months, acting in such a strange manner, rejecting outstretched hands a million times, because at that time, there was someone who always surrounded you, giving you an out.

8. 1只是心灵无法解脱，爱虽然沉重，但它并不枯燥，乏味。快乐并着痛，幸福的感觉油然而生。所有的一切皆在自己的一念之间。人生之路，也许就是有了这些经历，才会更凭添许多忧伤。

8. 1 Only the mind cannot be freed. Although love is heavy, it is not boring or monotonous. Joy is mixed with pain, and a sense of happiness naturally arises. Everything lies within the flicker of a thought. The path of life, perhaps, is enriched with many sorrows only because of these experiences.

9. 45我没难过 可我一直发呆 感觉心里空空的 眼泪莫名掉 我好像很不快乐。

9. 45 I wasn't sad, but I kept daydreaming, feeling empty inside. Tears dropped mysteriously, and I seemed to be very unhappy.

10. 我不爱说话，但是每天说话最多。我不喜欢笑，但我总是笑。身边的人都说我的生活好幸福，所以我觉得我真的很幸福。但是为什么我在一大群朋友中突然变得沉默了？为什么我在人群中看到相似的身影会感到难过？看到秋天树木疯狂落叶我就忘了说话，看到天色渐晚路上暖黄的灯光我就忘了原来的方向

10. I don't like to talk much, but I end up saying the most every day. I don't enjoy laughing, but I always find myself smiling. Everyone around me says my life is incredibly happy, so I truly believe I am. But why do I suddenly become silent among a group of friends? Why do I feel sad when I see similar figures in a crowd? When I see the trees in autumn shedding their leaves wildly, I forget to speak. When the sky starts to get dark and the warm, amber lights on the street, I lose track of my original direction.

11. 21每个人都有一个死角，自己走不出来，别人也闯不进去，我把最深沉的秘密放在那里，你不懂我，我不怪你。

11. 21 Each person has a blind spot, one that they cannot escape from, and others cannot闯 into. I place my deepest secrets there; if you don't understand me, I don't blame you.

12. 47一朝离别后，两地人消瘦，三餐没胃口，四季少春秋，五体投地愁，六亲劝不住，七情无归宿，八分是孤独。

12. After a moment of parting, people in two places grow thin, lose appetite for three meals, feel short of spring and autumn in all four seasons, bow to sorrow with all five senses, cannot be persuaded by six relatives, the seven emotions have no place to settle, and it is eight parts loneliness.

13. 29人啊简单最好，别谈钱，谈钱就闹心，别当好人，好人受欺，再热的脸，到后来都是冷屁股，人间冷暖，看透人心的冷漠。

13. The simplest thing is 29 people. Don't talk about money; talking about money will only trouble your heart. Don't be a good person; good people are deceived. No matter how warm your face is, in the end, it will all turn cold. The cold and warmth of human life, see through the cold-heartedness of people's hearts.

14. 学会转移心情，因为只有这样才会从悲伤挣扎出来，才会让自己快乐起来。

14. Learn to shift your mood, because only then can you break free from sadness and become happy.

15. 10哭完就把一切都留在昨天，永远不要去触及。

15. After crying, leave everything behind in yesterday, and never touch it again.

16. 57多希望这一切只是梦境，睁开眼你们还在身边，没有阴阳相隔，没有生离死别！墓前寄哀思，泪水表祭奠。

16. How I wish all this were just a dream, and when I open my eyes, you are still by my side, not separated by life and death, not separated by life and death! Expressing my sorrow in front of the tomb, tears are the offering of my tribute.

17. 27看不得你穷：怕你连累他。可以拿你来取笑，自慰，做笑料。

17. He can't bear to see you poor: He fears that you might drag him down. He can use you to make fun of, satisfy himself, and make a laughingstock out of you.

18. 如果你不笑我跑调，我会给你世界上独一无二的情歌。

18. If you don't laugh at my off-key singing, I'll give you a love song that is uniquely in the world.

19. 29叶子的离去，是树的不挽留，还是风的追求。

19. The departure of the leaves, is it because the tree did not want to retain them, or is it the wind's pursuit?

20. 7来也匆匆，去也匆匆，离绪千种，期待着一次重逢。

20. Life comes and goes in a hurry, filled with a thousand kinds of farewells, longing for a reunion.

21. 会因为你不回应而伤心，因为在乎你呀。不妄想，不期待，就不会伤心不会失望。我不吃，我不喝，我不要亲情。我就要钱。

21. I would be hurt because you don't respond, because I care about you. Without wishing or expecting, there would be no hurt or disappointment. I don't eat, I don't drink, I don't want family ties. I just want money.

22. 我看不出你穷:我怕你跟他闹僵。我可以取笑你，手淫，开玩笑。

22. I can't see that you're poor: I'm afraid you might get into a conflict with him. I can tease you, masturbate, and make jokes.

23. 15不见面也有不见面的好，这样你永远是我记忆中的样子。

23. Even not seeing each other has its benefits; this way, you will always be the image in my memory.

24. 12一个人，一个房子，一个小角落，一滴泪水，流出心里的失落。

24. One person, one house, a small corner, a drop of tears, flowing out the heart's loss.

25. 感觉是梦的那些亲人对待我，或许对待我连一条狗都不如吧。

25. Those relatives who felt like they were in a dream treated me, or perhaps treated me even worse than a dog.

26. 25愿每个人生命中最早出现的人，会是最爱的人。

26. May the first person to appear in everyone's life be the one they love the most.

27. 30我们永远笨拙且热泪盈眶地认为，爱足以阻挡一切。你是为爱而活的人，大概是这一生中，我听过的最好和最坏的话。

27. 30 We are forever clumsy and teary-eyed in believing that love is enough to block everything. You are a person living for love, and perhaps it is the best and the worst thing I have ever heard in this lifetime.

28. 32亲人离世了，千万不要悲伤和痛苦，在天堂，他在默默的看着你，希望你快乐，为了让他开心振作起来。

28. 32 A loved one has passed away, please do not be sad and suffer. In heaven, he is silently watching over you, hoping you are happy, so that he can be cheered up and be uplifted.

29. 45人自相残，人心惟危，人心莫测，人心薄凉，人走茶凉，人心思变。

29. Forty-five people are engaged in mutual destruction, people's hearts are dangerous, people's hearts are unpredictable, people's hearts are indifferent, people leave and tea cools down, people are thinking of change.

30. 52泪咽却无声。只向从前悔薄情。凭仗丹青重省识，盈盈。一片伤心画不成。别语忒分明。午夜鹣鹣梦早醒。卿自早醒侬自梦，更更。泣尽风檐夜雨铃。

30. 52: The tears well up but no sound escapes. Only regret for my past shallow affection. Relying on the art of painting, I re-recognize, tearfully. A heart's sorrow cannot be depicted in a single stroke. The farewell words are too clear. The dream of the mandarin ducks in the midnight is already awake. You woke up early while I was dreaming, more and more. The wind chimes in the night rain at the eaves weep themselves dry.

31. 59喜欢一个遥远的人就像对着不会开花的假树浇水长不出花

31. Liking a distant person is like watering a fake tree that won't bloom, no flowers will grow.

32. 33若要离去，别给我一个思念的理由；请坚强的离开，让我的记忆里，不再有你；若不再相见，就别给我一个等待的借口；请无情的拒绝，让我无奈的接受，故事已经结束，我迷茫在过去和未来，却执着于现在；那些纷纷飘落如秋叶般的记忆，始终匍匐于存留之间，终于，在秋叶落尽之时，我终于选择遗忘。

32. 33 If you must leave, don't give me a reason to miss you; please leave with strength, so that my memories no longer include you; if we are not to meet again, don't give me an excuse to wait; please reject无情ly, letting me accept it helplessly, for the story has ended. I am confused between the past and the future, but I am steadfast in the present. Those memories that flutter down like autumn leaves have always been struggling between staying and leaving, until finally, at the time when all the autumn leaves have fallen, I have finally chosen to forget.

33. 42我感受到了父爱的温暖，我从身体到心灵，每一刻我都在父亲温暖的怀抱里成长着……他如同一朵茉莉花，时时刻刻散发出淡淡的芳香。他，平凡朴素，却是伟大的……

33. 42 I felt the warmth of my father's love. From my body to my soul, every moment I grew up in my father's warm embrace... He is like a jasmine flower, emitting a faint fragrance at all times. He is simple and plain, yet great...

34. 8我没有往前走 我也从未真心怨过你 你永远在我记忆里温温柔柔 人来人往 如果开心的话忘了我也没关系

34. 8 I didn't move forward, and I have never truly blamed you either. You will always be gentle in my memory, amidst the coming and going of people. If you're happy, it's fine to forget me too.

35. 在你哭的时候，你周围的那几个亲人绝对会跑过来让你哭得更凶。

35. When you cry, the few relatives around you will definitely come over to make you cry even harder.

36. 36我现在只想和你做朋友。希望能从朋友顺其自然地走到一起，你能等待吗？

36. Now, I only want to be friends with you. I hope to naturally come together from friendship, can you wait?

37. 50我不是高傲也不是胡闹，只是厌倦了那些随时可能失去的依靠。

37. 50 I am not proud nor am I acting up, I am just tired of relying on things that can be lost at any moment.

38. 6曾认为即使穷困潦倒、走头无路，亲情就是最后的稻草，也会伸出温暖的双手。现在慢慢才知道，蜕变了的亲情就只剩无情了，外道和冷漠才是真正的面孔！实力永远控制你在亲情中的位置！任何时候只能相信自己。

38.6 Once believed that even in dire straits, with no way out, family ties were the last straw that would reach out with a warm hand. Now, slowly realizing, the transformed family ties only leave coldness, heresy, and indifference as the true face! Power always controls your position in family ties! At any time, you can only believe in yourself.

39. 44对不起总是冷冰冰，对不起总是嘴硬，对不起总是骂你，对不起总是耍大**脾气还有很多事对不起你，还有谢谢你。

39. 44 I'm sorry I'm always cold and aloof, I'm sorry I always have a hard mouth, I'm sorry I always scold you, I'm sorry I always throw a big temper tantrum. There are many other things I'm sorry for, and thank you.

40. 50家家美满话语谈，人人喜悦笑开颜。不知不觉触伤感，心绪如麻乱一团。

40. With 50 homes filled with joyous words, everyone's face lights up with laughter. Unconsciously, a touch of sadness stirs, and emotions are entangled in a tangled mess.

41. 当你陷入低谷时，身旁的亲人哪一个不嘲笑你呢？

41. When you are at your lowest, which relative among those around you does not mock you?

42. 22我将所有的委屈都化做泪水，而把所有的温柔都留给你。

42. 22 I have turned all my grievances into tears, and reserved all my tenderness for you.

43. 在生活和金钱面前，你最能看清人的本质！我看的很清楚，我看到的是最悲伤的来自家人的冷漠和事后鳄鱼的眼泪！但最可悲的是，有人被鳄鱼的眼泪蒙蔽了双眼！

43. In the face of life and money, you can see the essence of a person the most clearly! I see it very clearly, and what I see is the most heart-wrenching indifference from family members and crocodile tears after the fact! But the most tragic thing is that some people have been blinded by the crocodile tears!

44. 17习惯了没心没肺的笑，习惯一个人坚强，习惯独自流泪，习惯所有的所有！

44. 17 am accustomed to the laughter without a care, to being strong on my own, to crying alone, to everything and everything!

45. 57把你的名字写在烟上，吸进肺里，让你保持离我心脏最近的距离。

45. 57 Write your name on the smoke, breathe it into your lungs, to keep you as close to my heart as possible.

46. 钱，是感情的照妖镜，也是人品的试金石。钱是个好东西，它能帮你轻松撕开一个人面具，看透他。 亲情也不过如此！！！！在钱面前，什么都不是！！！

46. Money is a mirror that reveals the true nature of emotions, as well as a touchstone for one's character. Money is a good thing; it can easily strip away a person's facade and see through them. Family ties are no different!!! In the face of money, nothing matters!!!

47. 就算暂时许下承诺，也永远是任重道远。钱和酒结交了很多兄弟，所以我没见过谁遇到紧急情况。

47. Even if promises are made temporarily, the road ahead is always long and arduous. Money and alcohol have helped me make many brothers, so I haven't seen anyone face an emergency situation.

48. 25透支了眼泪，我们便会没心没肺的笑。如果有人可以依靠，谁会愿意独立。

48. If we exhaust our tears, we will laugh carelessly. If there's someone to rely on, who would want to be independent?

49. 如果生活是一种姿态，我宁愿选择冷漠；如果我对待一段感情，包括友情和亲情，我宁愿选择冷漠和无情。

49. If life is a posture, I would rather choose indifference; if I am dealing with a relationship, including friendship and family ties, I would rather choose coldness and lack of emotion.

50. 18世界上最可笑的事是，我知道了真相，你还在那儿装装装。

50. The funniest thing in the world is that I know the truth, and you're still pretending.

51. 3看不得你富：你有钱，就等于天生的罪过，感觉只要和你有血缘，你就有原罪，就是欠一大家子债。

51. 3 Can't stand your wealth: Having money is seen as a natural sin, a feeling that as long as you are related by blood, you carry original sin, and you owe a debt to the entire family.

52. 任何安慰，如果你自己看透了，都不可能有效，所以不要再难过了。很明显，还有很多路要走，很多坑要过，很多关要突破，很多照片要拍，很多书要看，很多衣服要买，很多价格要砍，很多战斗要面对，很多人要告别，很多次要数，很多感情要怀念，你要闭眼睡觉，明天要努力。

52. Any comfort, if you see through it yourself, cannot be effective, so don't be sad anymore. It's obvious that there are still many roads to walk, many pitfalls to overcome, many barriers to break through, many photos to take, many books to read, many clothes to buy, many prices to negotiate, many battles to face, many people to bid farewell to, many numbers to count, and many feelings to cherish. You need to close your eyes and sleep, and strive hard tomorrow.

53. 53一个人硬撑的岁月中，经历了多少无助和心酸，一个人苦熬的日子里，儿女的幸福就是你活着的全部期盼。

53. In the years when one had to struggle alone, how many feelings of helplessness and sorrow were experienced, and in the days of enduring hardship, the happiness of one's children is the only expectation for one's life.

54. 27以实际行动来回报老人家，只有好好工作才对得起他的在天之灵。

54. 27 Show gratitude to the elderly with practical actions, and only by working diligently can one truly honor their memory in the heavens.

55. 看人的包袱不难:怎么养别人的养父母就是不孝；他们做得不如自己。

55. It's not hard to see the burden of others: How could taking care of someone else's parents be considered filial piety? They are not doing as well as you.

56. 58在你哭的时候，你周围的那几个亲人绝对会跑过来让你哭得更凶。

56. 58 When you are crying, the few relatives around you will definitely run over to make you cry even harder.

57. 5梦见亲人去世，哭着醒来。周公解梦说是亲人可以添寿，希望真的。希望家人健康平安，幸福终老。

57. Dreaming of a relative's death and waking up in tears. Zhougong's Dream Interpretation says that relatives can add years to one's life, and I hope this is true. I hope my family stays healthy, safe, and happy until the end of their lives.

58. 1父亲曾说，死了以后不要孤伶伶地呆在山上，也不想每年的清明，我和妈妈奔波劳累地上山看他，他说他想变成一株米兰花，清幽淡雅地活在另一个世界看着我们。于是家里多了一盆米兰花，高大沉重的花盆底处就是我父亲的骨灰。妈妈总说，想你爸爸的时候就可以看到他了。

58.1 My father once said that after death, he didn't want to be lonely on the mountain, nor did he want us to make the arduous journey up the mountain every Qingming Festival to visit him. He said he wanted to become a mimosa tree, living quietly and delicately in another world to watch over us. So, there was an extra pot of mimosa at home, and at the bottom of the tall and heavy pot was my father's ashes. Mom always says, whenever you miss your dad, you can see him.

59. 越是坏的越有人同情帮衬，越是烂的越要照顾。

59. The worse something is, the more sympathy and support it receives; the more rotten it is, the more attention it needs.

60. 26也许一个人会变成原来最讨厌的样子，只是因为要适应这个社会罢了。

60. 26 Perhaps a person might become the very opposite of the one they originally disliked, merely because they had to adapt to this society.

61. 20我说，得不到的东西咱就放弃吧，每天想着念着你心不疼么。

61. I said, if we can't get something, let's give it up. Does it not hurt your heart to think about you every day?

62. 16有时候一个细节，某些事，越来越疏远，朋友是，亲情也是做好自己就好。

62. Sometimes, it's a detail, certain things, that grow increasingly distant. Whether it's friendship or family, just do your best to be yourself.

63. 5如果一个人必须完成一件自己不喜欢的事，最好的办法就是尽快做好，然后结束。

63. 5 If a person has to do something they don't like, the best way is to do it as quickly as possible and then put an end to it.

64. 46我不知道离别的滋味是这样凄凉，我不知道说声再见要这么坚强。只有分离，让时间去忘记这一份默契。

64. 46 I didn't know that the taste of parting is so desolate, and I didn't know that saying goodbye requires such strength. Only separation, let time forget this默契.

65. 4真正的缘，不只是初次见面就有相见恨晚的感觉，而是历尽沧桑后发出“认识你真好”的心里话。

65.4 True friendship is not just about feeling that you wish you had met each other sooner upon first meeting, but rather about expressing from the heart, "It's really great to have known you," after having gone through all kinds of trials and tribulations together.

66. 3那你呢？走出来了吗？可以接受新的人了吗？

66. 3 So, what about you? Have you come out yet? Are you ready to accept someone new?

67. 11学会拿得起来放得下，因为只有这样才会重新开始新的起点。

67. Learn to pick up and put down, because only in this way can you restart from a new starting point.

68. 18我打了很多字，又默默的删了，有些东西说不清。

68. I typed a lot of words, then silently deleted them. Some things are hard to express.

69. 26你在那边还好吗天堂里是否开满了鲜花，长满了青草，天堂里没有病魔，你安然地福佑你的子孙吧。

69. 26 How are you doing over there? Are the heavens filled with flowers and lush with grass? There are no diseases in heaven, and you are safely blessing your descendants.

70. 20别在红眼爱人了 睡个好觉比爱重要

70. Don't be in love with red-eyed lovers; a good night's sleep is more important than love.

71. 14清明雨，思念亲人的泪，愿你们在天国安好。

71. The tears of Qingming, tears of missing loved ones, may you be well in the afterlife.

72. 54记忆中每次的清明节总是细雨纷飞，有人说那是人留下的眼泪，也许那是离别的人对这个世界的不舍。活着的人，更要好好的生活，给逝者以安慰。

72. In memory, every Tomb-Sweeping Day is always accompanied by drizzling rain. Some say that it is the tears left by people, perhaps it is the parting souls' reluctance to leave this world. Those of us who are still alive should live well and bring comfort to the departed.

73. 7我的等待，其实只是为了积累足够多的失望。

73. My waiting was actually just to accumulate enough disappointment.

74. 41父亲去逝一年了，他老人家走时，我不在身边。现在，第一个清明节来临，我也无法回去为他敬一杯洒，叩几个头。遥望家乡，感觉漂泊无依，身不由已。

74. It has been a year since my father passed away, and I was not by his side when he left. Now, as the first Qingming Festival approaches, I am also unable to return to offer a cup of wine and bow a few times in his honor. Gazing towards my hometown, I feel lost and without a sense of belonging, as if my body is not under my own control.

75. 大家玩的是同样的游戏规则，大家虚伪没问题，谁要说出来就千夫所指；

75. Everyone plays by the same set of rules, everyone being insincere is fine, but if anyone dares to point it out, they will be pointed fingers at by everyone.

76. 49我没统计，但我断言，人类史上出现次数最多的谎言必然是我爱你，而我也爱你紧随其后。

76. 49 I haven't kept a count, but I assert that the most frequently appearing lie in human history must be "I love you," followed closely by "And I love you too."

77. 最疼爱我的人已经离开，原以为还抱有一丝希望，然而希望破灭～世上最能看透人心的就是钱

77. The person who loved me the most has left, and I thought I still had a glimmer of hope, but my hopes were shattered. The thing that can see through people's hearts more than anything else in the world is money.

78. 不要太努力想得到，因为有时候，好事会在你想不到的时候发生。

78. Don't try too hard to achieve, because sometimes, good things happen when you least expect them.

79. 世界上没有谁会对谁真心。也只有骗子才是真心。因为他想真心骗你。

79. No one in the world can truly care for anyone else. Only a骗子 can be truly sincere, because he wants to sincerely deceive you.

80. 15我怪自己太聪明，不该知道的都懂了，所以我很累。

80. I blame myself for being too clever, understanding everything that I shouldn't know, so I am very tired.

81. 31愿我们逝去的亲人，在另一个世界一切安好。

81. May our departed loved ones be at peace in the other world.

82. 10纷飞的细雨中，沉默于这个季节，哀思于天堂人间的距离，遥望浩瀚的夜空，是否已然有双期盼的双眼也在凝视

82. In the midst of the scattered fine rain, silent in this season, contemplating the distance between heaven and earth, gazing at the vast night sky, does a pair of longing eyes also gaze back?

83. 13有时，爱也是种伤害，残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。（作者：郭敬明）

83. Sometimes, love can also be a kind of harm. The cruel ones choose to harm others, and the kind ones choose to harm themselves. (Author: Guo Jingming)

84. 1如果你让我觉得我在打扰，那我就不会再有很多靠近了。

84. 1 If you make me feel like I'm bothering you, I won't come close as much anymore.

85. 47如果你看我看的** 如果你听我听的CD。

85. 47 If you look at what I'm looking at, if you listen to what I'm listening to.

86. 34亲人已仙游，未呈儿孙福。游魂于千里，如何度思量。

86. The beloved relative has ascended to the afterlife, leaving no blessings for their offspring. Their restless spirit wanders a thousand miles, how can one measure their longing.