爱一个人，不能失去自我。在这漫长的岁月里，我们学会了如何在爱的世界里，坚守自我，珍惜彼此。

To love someone, one cannot lose oneself. Over these long years, we have learned how to hold on to our own identity in the world of love, and to cherish each other.

1. 总是担心自己不够优秀，达不到对方的期望。

1. Always worried that one is not good enough, and unable to meet the other's expectations.

2. 满目深黛，千年感怀，岁月划破季节的声音，年轮的弧线瞬间枯萎成一种最后的感动。

2. Filled with deep and dark thoughts, a thousand years of memories, the passage of time breaks the sound of the seasons, and the arc of the annual rings instantly withers into a final touch of sentiment.

3. 记忆犹如一本泛黄的相册，无声的诉说着那些已经老去的故事。

3. Memory is like an album of yellowed photographs, silently narrating those stories that have grown old.

4. 越长大越觉得不应该把时间精力浪费在不必要的事情上。每个人的目标终点不同，追求的方式也不同。做好自己该做的事比什么都重要。

4. The older I get, the more I realize that it's not worth wasting time and energy on unnecessary things. Everyone has different goals and endpoints, and different ways of pursuing them. Doing what you should do is more important than anything else.

5. 有的路，你必须一个人走，这不是孤独，而是选择。

5. There are some paths you must walk alone, which is not loneliness but a choice.

6. 真正爱一个人，是希望看到他/她快乐；而不是让他/她扮演，你认为的快乐。

6. To truly love someone is to hope to see them happy; not to make them act out the happiness you think they should have.

7. 有朋友是幸福，喜怒悲欢有人分享有人诉说;孤独也是幸福，享受静谧的冥想和心灵的净化。

7. Having friends is happiness, with someone to share joys and sorrows, and someone to confide in; solitude is also happiness, enjoying the tranquility of meditation and the purification of the soul.

8. 所有的痛苦来源于想太多，开开心心做好自己该做的事，不为闲杂人等忧心这样才好。

8. All suffering comes from overthinking. It's best to be happy and do what you should do, without worrying about trivial matters.

9. 25这些年，我已逐渐学会接受，接受意外，接受变节，接受误解，接受努力了却得不到回报，接受世界的残忍和人性的残缺。但这不代表我妥协，我还会去努力，去爱，去为遥不可及的一切付出心血。因为，我还相信梦想，相信奇迹。这样，我会活得快乐一些。

9. Over these 25 years, I have gradually learned to accept, to accept the unexpected, to accept betrayal, to accept misunderstandings, to accept that hard work may not be rewarded, and to accept the cruelty of the world and the imperfections of human nature. However, this does not mean that I compromise; I will still strive, love, and put my heart and soul into everything that seems unattainable. Because, I still believe in dreams and miracles. In this way, I will live a happier life.

10. 如果她爱我像肯德基那么多，看见阿一鲍鱼她自然会的事；如果我对他的忠诚像伊利牛奶那么甜，给我一碗冰糖燕窝我也肯定会背叛。

10. If she loves me as much as KFC, seeing Ah Yi's abalone would naturally happen; if my loyalty to him is as sweet as伊利 milk, I would definitely betray him if given a bowl of sugar-free bird's nest soup.

11. 要成功，就要时时怀着得意淡然失意坦然的乐观态度，笑对自己的挫折和苦难，去做，去努力，去争取成功！

11. To succeed, one must always maintain an optimistic attitude of calm satisfaction and serene disappointment, laugh at one's own setbacks and hardships, and go ahead, strive, and strive for success!

12. 18我很想跟你生活在一起，在某个古镇，共享无尽的黄昏，和绵绵不绝的钟声。

12. 18 I really want to live with you, in some ancient town, sharing endless dusks and the continuous sound of bells.

13. 不要在意别人的看法，用心做好自己该做的事情就好，只有改变自己的心境，才能改变人生的高度。

13. Don't worry about others' opinions, just focus on doing what you should do well, and only by changing your mindset can you change the height of your life.

14. 身体是自己的，健康是自己的，难受也是自己的，所以不要想吃什么就吃什么。什么事情都可以拖一拖，没必要那么着急，事缓则圆。

14. The body is one's own, health is one's own, and discomfort is also one's own, so do not eat whatever one wants to eat. Everything can be put off a little, there is no need to be in a hurry. If things are not rushed, they will turn out well.

15. 不同的人，即使站在同一个地方，透过各自的人生，看到的风景也有所不同。

15. Different people, even standing in the same place, see different landscapes through their own lives.

16. 懂的人会懂，感动的人会感动，无关的人，敬请错过。

16. Those who understand will get it, those who are moved will be moved. For those who are indifferent, please just pass it by.

17. 不停的想对方，想知道他在做什么，想给他发信息。

17. Continuously thinking about the other person, wanting to know what they are doing, and wanting to send them a message.

18. 幸福就像夏天的冰激凌，还没有来得及品尝，它就融化了

18. Happiness is like ice cream in summer; before you have a chance to taste it, it has melted.

19. 幸福需要创造，幸福里没有等待，也没有给予。幸福是辛勤与汗水的凝聚，没有付出的艰辛，就不会有收获的甘甜，没有淋漓的汗水，就不会有累累的硕果。

19. Happiness needs to be created; there is no waiting or giving in happiness. Happiness is the condensation of hard work and sweat. Without the toil and hardship of giving, there would be no sweetness of收获; without the profuse sweat, there would be no abundant fruits.

20. 有些事不是努力就可以的，五十块的人民币设计得再好看，也没有一百块招人喜欢。

20. Some things can't be achieved just by effort; no matter how beautifully the 50-yuan Renminbi note is designed, it's not as appealing as the 100-yuan note.

21. 总担心对方和自己不在一个频道，感情不再亲密。

21. Constantly worrying that the other person and oneself are not on the same frequency, leading to a loss of intimacy in the relationship.

22. 每个人都有不可理喻的地方，不要苛求别人，也不必埋怨自己。

22. Everyone has unreasonable sides; do not be too demanding of others, nor should you blame yourself.

23. 即使爬到最高的山上，一次也只能脚踏实地迈一步。

23. Even if you climb to the highest mountain, you can only take one step at a time with both feet firmly on the ground.

24. 在最需要奋斗的年华里 你应该爱一个能带给你动力的人 而不是能让你筋疲力竭的人

24. In the prime of your life when you most need to strive, you should love someone who can give you motivation, not someone who can exhaust you.

25. 安守一颗平常心，人生才能笑看风云。每个人都有自己的事要做，一个真正聪明的人，小事糊涂而大事睿智，为人低调而洞若观火。做人如水，以柔克刚。只有那些以不争为争的人，才能笑到最后，成为真正的赢家。

25. Maintaining a peaceful and ordinary mindset allows one to laugh at the changing clouds and winds of life. Everyone has their own affairs to attend to. A truly wise person is ignorant of the trivial and wise in the major; they are humble and insightful as clear as fire. To be a person is like water, using gentleness to overcome hardness. Only those who strive for non-contention can laugh in the end and become true winners.

26. 无论别人怎么看，不要打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。

26. No matter what others think, don't disrupt your own rhythm. Things you like will naturally be easy to persist with, while things you dislike will never last long.

27. 成年人必须明白的一个道理：多少鸡汤文都比不上一张钞票给的安全感。少一点矫情，多一点努力。你想过的那种生活，得自己去挣。

27. An important truth that adults must understand: No amount of inspirational articles can match the security a stack of cash provides. Less sentimentality, more effort. The kind of life you want to live, you have to earn for yourself.

28. 有些事，有些人，就应该忘记，深交太多只会伤害自己

28. Some things, some people, should be forgotten; too many close relationships will only hurt oneself.

29. 6对于喜欢和你对着干的人，首先要客观的反省自己，改正自己，消除自己的原因。其次，看清楚她是多么幼稚，让她一个人不开心好了。

29.6 For those who like to go against you, first, objectively reflect on yourself, correct yourself, and eliminate your own reasons. Second, clearly see how immature she is, and let her be unhappy by herself.

30. 一个成功的男人就是能够挣到比妻子花的钱更多的钱，一个成功的女人就是能够找到这样一个男人。

30. A successful man is one who earns more money than his wife spends, and a successful woman is one who can find such a man.

31. 7会安安静静的哭，安安静静的认输，不管什么时候我们都要爱自己，爱家人其实失恋没什么，就像大家说的那样多经历才坚韧。

31. She will cry quietly, quietly surrender, and no matter when, we should always love ourselves and our families. Losing love is nothing, as everyone says, more experiences make us more resilient.

32. 总是不由自主的想讨好对方，怕自己不够好。

32. Always can't help but want to please the other person, afraid that I'm not good enough.

33. 生命无所谓对错，只是一种选择。不求尽如人意，但求无愧我心！

33. Life is not about right or wrong, it's just a choice. I don't seek to please everyone, but I strive to have no regrets in my heart!

34. 但行好事，莫问前程。做好自己现在该做的事，不能丧，不能抱怨，不能杞人忧天。

34. Just do good deeds and don't worry about the future. Do what you should do now, and don't be despondent, don't complain, and don't worry unnecessarily.

35. 酒总是令男人想起女人，酒也令女人想起男人。唯一不同的是，男人喝了酒后，会想到各种女人；女人喝了酒后，往往只会想到一个男人，大多数时候想到的是一个抛弃了她的男人。

35. Wine always brings men to think of women, and it also brings women to think of men. The only difference is that after men drink, they tend to think of various women; while for women, they usually only think of one man after drinking, and most of the time, it's a man who abandoned them.

36. 总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响我错过了很多，我总是一个人难过。生活中处处充满着温情，只要我们有一双善于发现的明亮的眼睛。

36. Someday, I will silently slip away from you without making any noise. I have missed so much, and I am always sad alone. Life is filled with warmth everywhere, as long as we have a pair of bright eyes that are good at discovering it.

37. 不要把别人对不起自己的事放在心里，不要用别人的错误来惩罚自己，做好自己该做的事情，比如下雨，那撑伞就好了，不要去记恨老天爷。

37. Do not hold grudges against others for what they have done to you, and do not punish yourself with others' mistakes. Do what you should do, such as when it rains, just use an umbrella, and don't hold resentment against the heavens.

38. 有些苦，可以挂在脸上让人知晓；有些痛，只能埋在心底独自承受。

38. Some bitterness can be shown on the face for others to see; some pain can only be buried deep in the heart and endured alone.

39. 幸福是温暖，是感激，是满足，是宽恕，是奉献，我们苦苦寻觅，殷殷向往，有时，幸福真的很简单幸福就是在你忧伤的时候有人安慰你，在你孤单的时候有人陪伴你，在你失落的时候有人帮助你。幸福就是无论你走到天涯海角，总会有人牵挂你!

39. Happiness is warmth, gratitude, satisfaction, forgiveness, and dedication. We strive for it, long for it, and sometimes, happiness is truly simple. Happiness is when someone comforts you in your sadness, when someone accompanies you in your loneliness, when someone helps you in your despair. Happiness is knowing that wherever you go, someone will always be concerned about you!

40. 计较的太多就成了一种羁绊，迷失的太久便成了一种痛苦。过多的在乎会减少人生的乐趣，看淡了一切也就多了生命的释然。

40. Overthinking becomes a burden, and being lost for too long turns into pain. Overthinking can diminish the joys of life, while letting go of everything brings more peace to one's life.

41. 我总是不自觉的想控制对方的行动，让他更爱自己。

41. I always unconsciously want to control the other person's actions, making them love themselves more.

42. 有爱或无爱，都安然对待。缘分到了，便去伸手抓住，缘份未到，就让自己活得精彩。

42. Whether loved or not, face it calmly. When the time is right, reach out to grasp the opportunity; when it's not yet time, let yourself live an extraordinary life.

43. 在陌生人那里受到的委屈，却在爱人的身上发泄出来。我们通常都是这样，不是吗？

43. We tend to vent the grievances received from strangers on our loved ones. Isn't that usually the case?

44. 伤感的时候，我会选择在文字里一个人静静的沉默，把那些我想到的文字，排成行，以自己最喜欢的方式诉说。生命是一袭华美的袍，爬满了虱子。改变不了柴米油盐的日子，改变不了枯燥的生活，但我可以拥有诗雨花的心情。心清水现月，意定天无云。心态好，活的好，只要我心清意定，就会望月皎洁，观云悠闲;就会看山绝色，看水倾城。

44. When I feel melancholic, I choose to be silently silent in the words, arrange the words I think of in lines, and tell them in my favorite way. Life is a beautiful robe, covered with lice. I cannot change the days of salt, rice, oil, and soy sauce, nor can I change the monotonous life, but I can have the mood of poetry, rain, and flowers. The heart is clear and the moon is visible, the mind is firm and the sky is cloudless. With a good mindset, I live well. As long as my heart is clear and my mind is firm, I will look at the bright moon and observe the leisurely clouds; I will see the magnificent mountains and the enchanting waters.

45. 太多事都太他妈伤人了但说到底也有很多事是我们咎由自取谁让我们陷得快陷得深却连旁人都无法把我们拉上岸我们需要什么我们需要失忆吧

45. Too many things hurt like hell, but at the end of the day, there are also many things that we brought upon ourselves. Who made us dive so quickly and so deeply, that no one else could pull us back to shore? What do we need? We need amnesia, maybe.

46. 请你找一个值得去爱的人去爱，人一旦爱，遂会变的极脆弱、世间没有所谓爱恋之中却同时思量应否去爱之事，就是如此。伤得最少的爱，不是最好的爱。当我们爱，那就必须承受伤害和失去之险。

46. Find someone worthy of loving and love them, for once one loves, they become extremely vulnerable. There is no such thing as contemplating whether to love in the midst of loving, it is just like that. The love that causes the least hurt is not the best love. When we love, we must be prepared to face the risks of being hurt and losing.

47. 有时候，会问自己，我是一个奇怪的人吗？和这个世界那么格格不入，不擅长说话。不喜欢拍照。没有习惯写日记，不在乎形式感的留存，所有的记忆都跟着我，无声无息就好。

47. Sometimes, I ask myself, am I a strange person? So out of place in this world, not good at talking. Don't like taking photos. Not in the habit of writing a diary, don't care about preserving the sense of form. All the memories follow me, as long as they come silently and unobtrusively.

48. 杯空香气来，心空福禄至。再香的茶，不能隔夜，隔夜则坏；再美的回忆，不要经年，经年必累。时时清洗茶杯，杯有清气，入茗必香；每天清空心事，心有余闲，幸福自来。舍不得清洗昨夜的香茗，必然喝坏今天的肠胃；放不下既往的人事，难免有损当下的幸福。空杯心态，让往事安眠，让当下幸福。

48. The fragrance comes with an empty cup, blessings arrive with an empty heart. No matter how fragrant the tea, it cannot be kept overnight; left overnight, it will spoil. No matter how beautiful the memories, don't let them linger for years; after years, they will surely weigh you down. Clean the tea cup often, with a clean cup, the tea will definitely be fragrant; clear your heart every day, with a heart at ease, happiness will naturally come. Not wanting to wash away the aroma of yesterday's tea will inevitably spoil your stomach today; holding onto past affairs, you may inevitably damage your current happiness. Adopt an empty cup mindset, let the past rest in peace, and let present happiness come naturally.

49. 脾气这东西，发出去是秉性，收回来是功力。生活的高手，从来不会让情绪控制自己。

49. Temperament, once expressed, is one's nature, and once retracted, it becomes one's skill. A master of life never allows emotions to control themselves.

50. 对方有事情就担心，希望能尽量帮他。

50. Worry when the other person has things to deal with, hoping to help as much as possible.

51. 走进正能量的人和事，修炼为善向上的思想，使自己觉醒、觉悟，从而找准人生的方向，做好自己该做的事情，享受幸福而快乐的生活。

51. Immerse yourself in positive people and things, cultivate thoughts that are good and upward, awaken and enlighten yourself, thereby accurately finding the direction in life, doing what you should do, and enjoying a happy and joyful life.

52. 幸福不是攀比与嫉妒，而是对生活的理解与欣赏：孑然一身也是幸福，没有生活琐事的负累，随心所欲地享受自由;年轻是幸福，拥有无限美好的明天和希望;迟暮也是幸福，拥有丰富的经验和可供回忆的阅历。

52. Happiness is not about comparing and envying, but about understanding and appreciating life: being alone is also happiness, without the burden of trivial life matters, enjoying freedom at will; youth is happiness, with an infinite future full of beauty and hope; the twilight years are also happiness, with rich experiences and a wealth of memories to look back on.

53. 对于不可改变的事实，除了认命以外，没有更好的办法了。

53. For immutable facts, there is no better way than to accept them with resignation.

54. 处于人生最低谷是，有个好处，就是无论从哪个方向努力，都是向上。

54. There is a benefit to being at the lowest point in life, which is that no matter which direction you strive, it is all heading upwards.

55. 有心的无力，有力的无钱，有钱的无情，有情的无缘，有缘的无分，有分的正闹着离婚。

55. Those with intention have no strength, those with strength have no money, those with money have no compassion, those with compassion have no opportunity, those with opportunity have no share, and those with a share are in the midst of a divorce.

56. 总想知道对方在想什么，又怕自己做错了什么。

56. Always want to know what the other person is thinking, but also afraid of doing something wrong.

57. 总是担心对方的情绪变化，害怕被抛弃。

57. Always worried about the other person's emotional changes, afraid of being abandoned.

58. 2笔尖下没有温度地写着忧伤，受伤的女人哭了、累了、心碎了，从此学会了拒绝，恋上了伤感。没有了单纯的微笑，没有了以往的纯真，周围弥漫着黯然。从此不相信幸福，不相信真情，在夜深人静的时候用泪水舔嗜自己的伤口。受伤的女人总让人心疼，心疼她们忘了如何微笑、忘了如何接受、忘了再打开心扉。

58. With two tips of a pen, sadness is written without warmth. The wounded woman cries, grows tired, and her heart shatters, learning to refuse and falling in love with melancholy. Without simple smiles and the innocence of the past, a gloomy atmosphere surrounds her. From then on, she no longer believes in happiness or true love, and in the quiet of the night, she licks her wounds with tears. The wounded woman always makes people feel sorry for her, sorry that she forgot how to smile, how to accept, and how to open her heart again.

59. 一房两人三餐四季五味六欲七情八字九死还有一生。

59. One room for two people, three meals a day, four seasons, five flavors, six desires, seven emotions, eight characters, nine deaths, yet still one life.

60. 你要知道，你拥有的，就是最好的。不是因为一件东西好，你才千方百计去拥有它。而是因为你已拥有了它，才一心一意觉得它最好。

60. You must know that what you possess is the best. Not because something is good that you try hard to obtain it. But rather, because you already have it, you wholeheartedly believe it to be the best.

61. 年少时的我们未曾料到，匆匆一个错身，就错失了今生。

61. We never expected, in our youth, that a brief missed encounter would result in the loss of this life.

62. 时光荏苒，我自清欢，是否有一个地方，可以安置我漂泊的心灵港湾。

62. As time passes by, I seek solace in tranquility. Is there a place where I can find a haven for my wandering soul?

63. 最美的爱情，不是天荒，也不是地老，只是在一起，仅此而以、

63. The most beautiful love is not just the beginning of time or the eternity of the earth, but simply being together, nothing more, nothing less.

64. 生活没有真正的完美，只有不完美才是最真实的美；生活没有一帆风顺的，只有披荆斩棘才能路路顺；生活没有永远的成功，只有在挫折中站起才是真正的成功，只有闪光的人生才算是生命的永恒。

64. Life is not truly perfect; only the imperfect is the most authentic beauty. Life is not smooth sailing; only by overcoming obstacles can one truly progress. Life does not have eternal success; true success is standing up after setbacks. Only a life filled with brilliance can be considered eternal.

65. 总是试图控制对方的生活，希望自己能扮演重要的角色。

65. Always trying to control the other person's life, hoping to play a significant role.

66. 这一生，总有一个人，老是跟你过不去，你却很想跟他过下去。太爱一个人会丢了自己，你虽活在人间，却下落不明。

66. In this lifetime, there is always someone who seems to constantly clash with you, yet you deeply wish to spend your life with them. Loving someone too much can make you lose yourself; although you live among people, you become as elusive as a ghost.

67. 根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？

67. It's not necessary to look back at who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, would you also lie down to bite it back?

68. 你能无底线地原谅谁，谁就能无底线地伤害你。

68. Whomever you can forgive without any limits, that person can also hurt you without any limits.

69. 留住美好的回忆，珍惜现在拥有的一切，做好自己该做的事，改变能改变的，接受不能改变的，然后一切都可以重新再来。

69. Hold on to the beautiful memories, cherish everything you have now, do what you should do, change what you can change, accept what you cannot change, and then everything can start anew.

70. 如果世界只剩下黑夜，是否我就如彻夜寻找灯光的的飞蛾，在没有你的天空迷惘，又在白天里将所有的思念隐藏。黑夜赐给我一双深邃的眼睛，你藏在我的瞳孔里，我却看不见你的笑靥如那繁城飞花。你的离别，像一次不归的旅程，逃避满眼的不堪，或许你只是为了遗忘，而遗忘只是希望彼此过得更幸福。

70. If the world is left only with night, would I be like a moth searching for light all night long, lost in the sky without you, and hiding all my thoughts during the day. The night has given me a pair of deep eyes, where you are hidden in my pupil, yet I cannot see your smiling face like the flying flowers in the bustling city. Your departure is like a journey with no return, escaping from the sight of all the suffering, perhaps just to forget, and forgetting is just hoping for each other to be happier.

71. 9明明很在乎，却装作无所谓；明明很痛苦，却偏偏说自己很幸福；明明忘不掉，却说已经忘了；明明很脆弱，却装作很坚强；明明说的是违心的假话，却说那是自己的真心话；明明已经无法挽回，却依然执着；明明知道说这样的话会受害，却忍着疼轻松说出。

71. 9 cares deeply, yet pretends to be indifferent; is in pain, yet claims to be happy; cannot forget, yet says she has; is fragile, yet acts strong; speaks untruths that go against her heart, yet claims they are her sincere words; has already lost something that cannot be retrieved, yet clings to it; knows that speaking such things will cause harm, yet endures the pain and easily utters them.