在喧嚣的尘世中，有一种声音，它时而坚定，时而缥缈，仿佛来自遥远的星辰。这就是——宁可信其有，不可信其无。这句古老的话语，如同夜空中最亮的星，指引着人们前行。

Amidst the noisy world, there is a voice that is sometimes firm, sometimes ethereal, as if it comes from the distant stars. This is——It is better to believe in its existence than to believe in its non-existence. This ancient saying, like the brightest star in the night sky, guides people forward.

1. 一个男人同时和几个女人交往肯定有欺骗，因为爱情是很排外的，只有通过欺骗才能维持三角或者多边形的关系。这种男人不是花心但是Hollow 。

1. A man who is involved with several women at the same time is definitely deceptive, because love is very exclusive, and such a relationship can only be maintained through deception, in triangles or polygamous relationships. This kind of man is not flirtatious but hollow.

2. 不要相信，他说我在酒店里。过来聊天。我们只是在聊天聊天只是个幌子。不要相信，他说我只是抱着你。很快你会发现你再也逃不出他的魔掌了，你会被他骗

2. Don't believe him, he says I'm at the hotel. Come over to chat. We're just chatting; it's just a cover-up. Don't believe him, he says he's just holding you. Soon you'll find that you can no longer escape his grasp, and you'll be deceived by him.

3. 不要相信他对你说的话分手后我们还是朋友，有需要他会第一个来找你。如果你相信，在最冷的夜晚，试着向他求助，你要么得到他的推荐，要么装傻你在找谁？错误的号码然后，你会发现你再也联系不上他了。

3. Don't believe him when he says that after the breakup, you'll still be friends and he'll be the first one to come to you if he needs help. If you believe him, try to ask for help from him on the coldest nights. You will either get his recommendation, or pretend to be foolish asking who you're looking for? Wrong number. Then, you will find that you can no longer contact him.

4. 人心难测，一般来说，男人没有一个好东西。全是变态和流氓。但有些不是。

4. The hearts of people are difficult to fathom. Generally speaking, there is no good in men. They are all perverts and rascals. But there are some who are not.

5. 男人承诺时是真诚的，背叛时也是真诚的。他已经不爱你了，明明他已经变心了，但是他只会觉得当初吸引他的那些品质都消失了。

5. Men are sincere when they make commitments and also sincere when they betray. He has stopped loving you, it's clear that he has changed his mind, but he can only feel that all the qualities that initially attracted him have disappeared.

6. 不要相信男人。大多数男人都不诚实。你不能相信女人说的话，因为大多数女人都很虚伪。所谓的爱情，很多时候都是互相欺骗。

6. Don't trust men. Most men are dishonest. You can't believe what women say, because most women are insincere. So-called love is often mutual deception.

7. 我明白，不要轻易相信一个人，但这个人就是我。

7. I understand that one should not easily trust a person, but this person is me.

8. 背叛是男人的血脉，博爱是男人的宣言，自由是男人的口头禅，男人变心是一贯的时尚。

8. Treachery is in the blood of men, universal love is their declaration, freedom is their catchphrase, and men's hearts changing is a consistent fashion trend.

9. 犯错的男人跪下求饶，声称自己是逢场作戏，一时控制不住自己的身体，还爱着他们。

9. The man who made a mistake fell to his knees and begged for mercy, claiming that it was all in jest and that he couldn't control his body at the moment, still loving them.

10. 男人不可怕，因为本质是一样的，男人也可怕，因为他会甜言蜜语，太善于伪装。女人记住，不要把男人当神。男人也是人。和你一样，他们也有世俗的欲望，在世间沉浮，脆弱而痛苦。

10. Men are not可怕, because they are essentially the same. Men can also be可怕, because they are skilled in sweet-talking and good at伪装. Remember, women, do not idolize men. Men are also human. Like you, they have worldly desires, float in the world, and are fragile and suffering.

11. 当一个男人有机会和你发生关系而他没有做，并不能证明他是一个绅士。多加小心！他大概有老婆，和她关系很好。

11. When a man has the opportunity to be intimate with you but chooses not to, it does not prove that he is a gentleman. Be cautious! He might be married and have a good relationship with his wife.

12. 晕，怎么会有这样的男人，我真的不敢相信！不要住在他家。没有信用你能活吗？如果家里不讲理，以后写合同！大家都在猜测！这也给了我一个教训！

12. Oh my, how could there be such a man? I really can't believe it! Don't stay in his house. Can you live without credit? If there's no sense of reason at home, write a contract in the future! Everyone is speculating! This has also given me a lesson!

13. 当你看一个男人的时候，很多时候，你会看错。一开始你以为它是白马王子的，最后你发现它是一只白眼蛤。

13. When you look at a man, many times, you get it wrong. At first, you think it's a prince on a white horse, only to find out later that it's a white-eyed clam.

14. 不要相信他对你说的他会记住你一辈子的话。很快，你会发现，他记不起你是谁了。

14. Don't believe him when he says he will remember you for the rest of his life. Soon, you will find out that he can't remember who you are.

15. 如果你相信他是真的，如果你不相信他是假的。

15. If you believe he is genuine, if you don't believe he is fake.

16. 不要相信他对你说的话他会一辈子记得你。很快，你会发现，他记不起你是谁了。

16. Don't believe him when he says he will remember you for life. Soon, you will find out that he can't even remember who you are.

17. 我宁愿相信有鬼，也不相信男人的破嘴。

17. I'd rather believe in ghosts than trust a man's broken mouth.

18. 自我批评总是让人相信，自我表扬却不是。

18. Self-criticism always makes people believe it, but self-praise does not.

19. 不要相信他跟你说的话，你离不开你。如果你相信这一点，那么，你会发现，没有你，他过得比你好。

19. Don't believe what he tells you, you can't live without you. If you believe this, then you'll find that without you, he lives better than he does with you.

20. 一个人有钱了，就会变坏。是的，很多男人都这样。但是，男人有钱了，就会变坏，哪怕没钱。

20. When a person becomes rich, they will turn bad. Yes, many men do so. But, even if they don't have money, men will turn bad when they become rich.

21. 不要相信，他说我只把它放在外面，或者就放一点可能吗？除非他突然不举了；不要相信，他说我会对你负责，他只会对自己负责让自己在你面前尽快化为乌有；不要相信，他说我要上去(去你家或你的旅馆房间)喝杯水，撒泡尿。，这还用问什么？！把他带走！

21. Don't believe him when he says he only put it outside, or that he just left a little bit? Unless he suddenly can't perform; don't believe him when he says he will be responsible to you, he will only be responsible to himself to vanish in front of you as soon as possible; don't believe him when he says he wants to go up (to your house or your hotel room) to have a drink of water and a pee. Is that even a question?! Take him away!

22. 在帝制下成为人的时候，女人就注定是男人的玩物。所以，这辈子都不会谈恋爱。男人都是骗子和混蛋。凡事靠自己，做个女强人。

22. Under the imperial system, when women become human, they are doomed to be playthings of men. Therefore, there will never be any romantic relationships in this lifetime. Men are all deceivers and scoundrels. Rely on oneself and become a strong woman.

23. 不要被男人对你的愧疚所感动。因为根据深层心理因素分析，当他对你产生负罪感时，他通常会下意识地开始排斥你。

23. Do not be moved by a man's guilt towards you. Because according to deep psychological analysis, when he feels guilty towards you, he usually starts to reject you subconsciously.

24. 有些男人可信，有些男人不可信，不能一概而论所有男人！

24. Some men are trustworthy, while others are not; one cannot generalize about all men!

25. 我明白，不要轻易相信男人，但这个人是我15岁就喜欢接近的人。我说不清楚。现在我知道我已经不喜欢他了，但是我心里永远不会对这个男人有抵触情绪。这就是所谓的低女人吗？

25. I understand that one should not easily trust men, but this person has been someone I've been drawn to since I was 15. I can't quite explain it. Now I know I no longer like him, but I will never have any resentment towards this man in my heart. Is this what they call a "low woman"?

26. 不要相信他对你说的话我不能没有你。如果你相信这一点，那么，你会发现，没有你，他过得比你好。

26. Don't believe what he tells you about not being able to live without you. If you believe this, then you will find that he lives better without you than with you.

27. 对于男人，请不要以身试法。没练过刀枪不入的，先沉默。没有武功就不要行走江湖。

27. For men, please do not test the law by yourself. If you haven't trained to be invulnerable, keep silent first. If you don't have martial arts skills, don't wander the world.

28. 不要相信，他说我只把它放在外面，或者就放一点可能吗？除非他突然不举了；不要相信，他说我会对你负责，他只会对自己负责，让自己在你面前尽快化为乌有；不要相信，他说我会去你家或你的酒店房间喝杯水，撒泡尿，这还用问什么？！把他带走！

28. Don't believe him when he says he only put it outside, or is it possible that he just put a little out there? Unless he suddenly can't perform anymore; don't believe him when he says he'll be responsible to you, he'll only be responsible to himself, trying to disappear in front of you as quickly as possible; don't believe him when he says he'll come to your house or your hotel room for a drink of water and a pee, what else do you need to ask about?! Take him away!

29. 一个人的身体和心灵随时可以连接和分离。

29. A person's body and mind can be connected and separated at any time.

30. 男人对女人，很多时候是混乱的开始。但是抛弃的时候，请至少找一个好的借口。不找一个好的借口是愚蠢的，不去找是残忍的。

30. Men often start a mess with women. But when it comes to abandonment, please at least find a good excuse. Not finding a good excuse is foolish, and not even trying is cruel.

31. 作为一个男人，我连自己的话都不相信。

31. As a man, I don't even trust my own words.

32. 不要相信他对你说的话分手后我们还是朋友，有需要他会第一个来找你。如果你相信，在最冷的夜里，试着向他求助，你要么得到他的推荐，要么装傻。你在找谁？错误的号码然后，你会发现你再也联系不上他了。

32. Don't believe him when he says that after the breakup, you'll still be friends and that he'll be the first to come to you if he needs anything. If you do believe him, try to ask for help from him on the coldest of nights; you'll either get his recommendation or he'll act dumb. Who are you looking for? Wrong number. Then, you'll find that you can no longer get in touch with him.

33. 错不是你的男人不爱你，而是他没有决心，放纵自己。

33. The mistake is not that your man doesn't love you, but that he lacks determination and allows himself to be indulgent.

34. 女人不相信他爱她？你怎么能爱她，和别的女人关系这么亲密？太可笑了！

34. How can you love her when you're so close to other women? You don't believe he loves her? That's too funny!

35. 传说母猪会爬树，男人说什么你就信什么。

35. It is said that sows can climb trees, and whatever a man says, you believe it.

36. 不要相信男人，他们喝醉了连名字都记不住。

36. Don't trust men, even when they're drunk; they can't even remember their own names.

37. 如果他给了你一个天长地久的承诺，那是因为他不确定你们之间的感情。如果他说你是他一生中最深(唯一)的爱，说明他一定对别的女人说过同样的话；如果他放你鸽子，给你一大堆理由，千万别信。男人是编造理由的高手。归根结底，他的理由只有两个字:借口。

37. If he makes a promise of eternity to you, it's because he's unsure about the relationship between you two. If he says you are the deepest (only) love in his life, it means he has probably said the same thing to other women; if he stands you up and gives you a myriad of reasons, never believe them. Men are masters at making excuses. At the end of the day, his reasons are only two words: excuses.