“朋友的讲述，如何孕育了吸 引？——人呢？（朋友说说简短）”

"The friend's story, how did it give rise to attraction?—What about people? (Friend, say something brief)"

1. 朋友无心，面子朋友；没有心的朋友，有脸的朋友。

1. A friend without heart, a face friend; friends without heart, friends with faces.

2. 一万两黄金易得，天下难寻。

2. Ten thousand liang of gold can be easily obtained, but it is hard to find in the world.

3. 圆滑的人，不交朋友。

3. Smooth-tongued individuals do not make friends.

4. 人帮我，念念不忘；我帮别人，不记得了。

4. People help me, and I never forget it; when I help others, I don't remember it.

5. 士死为知己，女为自得。

5. A man dies for a friend, and a woman marries for herself.

6. 择友如淘金，沙子不值钱。

6. Choosing friends is like panning for gold; sand is not valuable.

7. 顺境吸引朋友，逆境考验朋友。

7. Prosperity attracts friends, adversity tests friends.

8. 希望赢得一颗心，不离不弃。

8. Hope to win a heart, never to leave or abandon.

9. 关注局势的人会绝对倾向；交了利益的朋友，穷了就散了。

9. Those who pay attention to the situation will definitely tend to; friends with whom one has exchanged interests will scatter when they are poor.

10. 交朋友不赚钱。赚不到钱。

10. Making friends doesn't make money. Can't make money.

11. 八岁不冷，知君子不难。

11. At eight years old, not feeling the cold, one knows that gentlemen are not difficult.

12. 一个人在异乡人生地不熟，逢年过节都想亲人。

12. A person is unfamiliar with the place and does not know many people, and they always miss their family during festivals and holidays.

13. 给树和根浇水，交朋友。

13. Water the trees and roots, make friends.

14. 工欲善其事，必先利其器。

14. If one is to do a thing well, one must first sharpen one's tools.

15. 越老的朋友越好。酒越老越好。

15. The older the friend, the better. The older the wine, the better.

16. 先淡后浓，先疏后密，先远后近，交友之道也。

16. Start with the light and then move to the heavy, start with the sparse and then move to the dense, start with the distant and then move to the close, this is the way of making friends.

17. 人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺。这件事是古老而困难的。

17. People have joy and sorrow, parting and reunion, and the moon has its dark and bright, full and waning phases. This matter is ancient and difficult.

18. 以仁交友，以仁助人。

18. Make friends with kindness, help others with kindness.

19. 患难中的朋友是真正的朋友。

19. A friend in need is a true friend.

20. 珍珠挂在脖子上，友情嵌在心里。

20. Pearls hang around the neck, friendship is embedded in the heart.

21. 相知远近，万里尚为邻。

21. Knowing each other near and far, ten thousand miles still feels like a neighbor.

22. 贫穷可以检验朋友的真实性。

22. Poverty can test the truthfulness of friends.

23. 贫贱之谊不可忘，糟粕之妻不可下。

23. The friendship with the poor should not be forgotten, and the wife of dregs should not be abandoned.

24. 随波逐流的人不要和他们同甘共苦。

24. Do not share both joys and sorrows with those who drift with the current.

25. 近红，近墨者黑。

25. Those who dwell near the vermilion and the ink will turn black.

26. 甘蔗吃起来老甜，友谊更持久。

26. Sugar cane tastes very sweet, but friendship lasts even longer.