失落的梦多了，心就冷了。在这个繁华的世界里，我们如何找回那份最初的温暖？

The more lost dreams, the colder the heart. How do we find that initial warmth in this bustling world?

1. 放弃得不到的。每天想起来不心疼吗？

1. Abandon what you cannot obtain. Don't you feel a pang every time you think about it?

2. 你说你愿意为过去喝一杯酒，永不回头，但其实即使你醉了，独自黄昏，如果那个人伸出手，你还是会和他一起走。

2. You say you're willing to toast to the past and never look back, but in fact, even if you're drunk and alone in the twilight, if that person reaches out, you'd still go with them.

3. 把安全感寄托在别人身上，难免患得患失。那种失望真的是一点一点积累起来的。有时候热情就像泼在冰上的水。一不小心把冰融化了，自己就凉了。

3. Relying on others for a sense of security is bound to lead to a sense of anxiety and uncertainty. That disappointment really accumulates bit by bit. Sometimes enthusiasm is like water poured onto ice. Without caution, one might accidentally melt the ice, only to find oneself cooled off.

4. 小时候觉得这样就够了。越长大越发现，只是喜欢是没有用的。你要有足够的耐心和勇气去抓住一次又一次的失望。到最后，你会发现你甚至不喜欢它。

4. As a child, I thought this was enough. The older I got, the more I realized that mere liking is not enough. You need enough patience and courage to grasp one disappointment after another. In the end, you may find that you even don't like it.

5. 失去一个人，就像剪下一根头发，习惯性的摸到底却抓不到空气。即使你清楚地知道会有新的替代品，你们之间也会有损失。

5. Losing someone is like cutting off a strand of hair; you habitually reach out to touch the bottom, only to find air. Even though you clearly know there will be new replacements, there will still be a loss between you.

6. 有些事让我无能为力，比如翘起的刘海，冰冷的手和远方的你，但还有一些事我想尽全力，比如成绩落后，熬夜成瘾和远方的你。

6. There are some things that leave me helpless, like the flipped bangs, the cold hands, and you far away, but there are also some things I want to give my all to, such as falling behind in grades, being addicted to staying up late, and you, who is far away.

7. 更多的时候，没有舒适的沙发，没有啤酒，没有朋友，没有可以倾诉的陌生人，没有可以爱的人，没有信仰，没有热情，什么都没有。

7. More often than not, without a comfortable sofa, without beer, without friends, without a stranger to confide in, without someone to love, without faith, without passion, there's nothing at all.

8. 一切让一个人成长的东西都是孤独的。所以，长大这两个字连个偏旁的大写都没有。

8. Anything that makes a person grow is solitary. That's why the characters for "grow up" (长大) don't even have any uppercase radicals.

9. 直到今天，你还是我拒绝别人的理由。事实上，我不是在等你。我就是不能喜欢别人。

9. Until today, you are still the reason I reject others. In fact, I am not waiting for you. I just can't like anyone else.

10. 真正让人难过的往往是小事，就像那天雨下得很大，别人在等伞，我在等雨停。

10. It's often the little things that truly hurt, like that day when it was raining heavily, while others were waiting for an umbrella, I was waiting for the rain to stop.

11. 总有一个人让你在泪水中成长，总有一个人让你在深夜哭泣，总有一个人让你想起战火纷飞的青春。

11. There is always someone who makes you grow in tears, someone who makes you cry in the dead of night, someone who reminds you of the turbulent youth amidst the sounds of war.

12. 忘记一个人只需要两样东西，时间和新欢。只是你选择了新的爱人，我选择了时间。

12. Forgetting someone only requires two things: time and a new love. Just that you chose a new lover, while I chose time.

13. 人的内心，一般不会死于大事，而是那些已经成为致命的小不如意。

13. Generally, the human heart does not die from major events, but rather from those fatal little disappointments that have become commonplace.

14. 删除喜欢的人，像下定决心扔掉不合身但你很喜欢的衣服。

14. Deleting someone you like is like making a firm decision to throw away a clothes item that doesn't fit well but you really like.

15. 以前都说海下的月亮是天上的月亮，眼前的人是恋人。后来才知道，海下的月亮我抓不起，心上人也够不着。

15. People used to say that the moon beneath the sea is the same as the moon in the sky, and the person in front of me is my lover. But later on, I realized that I can't reach the moon beneath the sea, and I'm also out of reach of the person I love.

16. 我在你身上犯了两个错误。一开始我相信我会是不可替代的，后来我错误地认为有人可以取代你。

16. I made two mistakes with you. At first, I believed that I was irreplaceable, and later on, I mistakenly thought that someone could replace you.

17. 我不知道什么是爱。我只知道当时的难过是真的，嫉妒是真的，悲伤是真的，快乐是真的，眼泪是真的，想和你在一起一辈子也是真的。

17. I don't know what love is. I only know that the sadness at that time was real, the jealousy was real, the sorrow was real, the happiness was real, the tears were real, and the desire to be with you for a lifetime was also real.

18. 每个人的青春都逃不过一场爱情。在这里，有爱，有亲情，有欢乐，有喜悦，却没有永远的孤独。

18. Everyone's youth cannot escape a love affair. Here, there is love, there is family affection, there is joy, there is happiness, but there is no eternal loneliness.

19. 一生一次，来谈一场以结婚为目的的恋爱吧。不再因为任性而不肯低头，不再因为固执而轻易分手。

19. Live once, have a love that aims for marriage. No longer be stubborn and refuse to bow, no longer break up easily due to inflexibility.

20. 一个人最可悲的就是为了别人的看法而盲目改变自己。最后他做不了别人，找不到自己。

20. The most tragic thing for a person is to blindly change oneself for the opinions of others. In the end, they can't be someone else and can't find themselves.

21. 有多少人，明明分手了，却还爱着；有多少人，明明还爱着，却说已经放下了；有多少人，明明很难过，还笑着说我很好。

21. How many people are in love even after breaking up; how many people still love but claim they have let go; how many people are deeply hurt yet smile and say they are doing well.

22. 陪你走过这段路，我也成了你走过的路。从此人山人海，我再也没有回来。

22. Accompanying you on this path, I have also become the path you have walked. From then on, amidst the throngs of people, I have never returned.

23. 后来你不再对每个人舔心，你开始在乎付出和回报是否成正比，那个人是否值得。好消息是你知道如何爱自己，坏消息是你很难去爱别人。

23. Later, you stopped baring your heart to everyone. You started to care about whether the input and output were proportional and whether that person was worth it. The good news is that you know how to love yourself, the bad news is that it's hard for you to love others.

24. 如果有一天你走进我的心里，你会哭，因为里面全是你。如果有一天，我走进你的心里，我也会哭，因为那里没有我。

24. If one day you step into my heart, you will cry because it's filled with you. And if one day I step into your heart, I will also cry because there is no room for me.

25. 你知道我最担心什么吗？就是在我们吵架，有矛盾的时候，别人进来安慰你，让你开心，然后让你觉得你遇到了比我更好的人。

25. Do you know what I am most worried about? It's when we argue or have conflicts, and someone else comes in to comfort you, make you happy, and then make you feel like you've met someone better than me.

26. 我明白了很多事情，很多道理，很多安慰的话。我都懂，但是如果我懂了呢？

26. I've understood many things, many truths, many comforting words. I know them all, but what if I do understand?

27. 总有一天，我也会放下现在的坚持和不舍，带着些许遗憾，过上没有你的新生活。世界那么大，谁也离不开谁。

27. Someday, I will also let go of my current persistence and reluctance, with some regrets, and live a new life without you. The world is so vast, and no one can be separated from anyone else.

28. 原来，曾经亲密无间的两个人，连路人都不如；原来两个那么在乎爱情的人也会彻底失去联系。

28. It turned out that two people who were once close and intimate were now even less than strangers; it turned out that two people who cared so much about love could completely lose touch with each other.

29. 可悲的是，当你遇到一个特别的人，你才意识到你们永远不可能在一起，迟早要放弃。

29. Unfortunately, it is only when you meet a special person that you realize that you will never be together, and that you will have to give up sooner or later.

30. 他没有错，只是他没有爱我很久，只是没有为我停留，只是在错误的时间爱过，只是没有陪我到最后。

30. He was not wrong, he just didn't love me for long, just didn't stay with me, just loved me at the wrong time, and just didn't accompany me to the end.